February 22, 2024 • 65 mins
If I know Pervert Nation like I think I do, then it's going to be very happy with Dick's interview guest! This show is a full episode with the Milf performing megastar, Maddie Cross! This incredible businesswoman and creator discusses her career, interacting with her fans, conventions, camming, selling clothing, her ranch, her popularity as an experienced woman and so much more. It's a true glimpse into the personal and professional life of one of the most recognizable names in the mature branch of the industry.
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Dangling after Dark with Dick Dangle.Episode five two is a full episode interview
with Milk performer extraordinaire, the LovelyMaddie Cross. Warning, the show is
only for adults who like sex.Does your dick hang? No? Does
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it dangle? To and fro?Can you tie at in minot? Can
you tie at in a boat?Don't worry, Dick will be coming.
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Welcome to the present nation. Herehe is Dick Dangle. Dick Dangle,
Hello everybody, and welcome to episodefive twenty two of Dangling after Dark with
Dick Dangle. Welcome to the PervertNation. I am your host, Dick
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Dangle, and thank you one andall for joining me for this episode.
I hope it finds you doing welland living the best life you possibly can.
For this episode, I have afull interview with the lovely Milk performer
Maddie Cross. Thank you so muchto her for being on the show.
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I really enjoyed my first interaction withher at a convention and you will hear
me talk about that in the interview, and we just kind of connected.
We have very similar laid back energyand we like the laugh. So when
I met her and when I hada lot of different performers saying you need
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to have her on the show.She is wonderful and her fans would love
to hear her on your show.I figured, you know what, I
think, I need to get heron the show. So we waited until
the convention circuit was done, andit was well worth the wait because we
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talk a lot about her different experienceswhen it comes to being at conventions,
but we cover her entire career.We talk about her camming and then how
that did transition into also making clipsand being a performer and being in front
of somebody else's camera, and itwas just a lot of fun to get
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to know her. She has avery cool life away from the industry,
which we definitely get into, andit made me realize just how well rounded
a person that she is. AndI think the way she approaches not only
her time in the industry but awayfrom it, has made her a very
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grounded person and I think it showsin her approach in the style that she
puts out for her fans and followers. But we talk about so many different
things and it's just a lot offun. It is a very engaging and
captivating conversation from front to back,so I'm not going to continue to talk.
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You're here for her, So onceagain, thank you very much Maddie
Cross for being on this show,and thank you, dear listeners for listening
to this show. Please take careof yourselves and the people around you.
Pay for your porn and support amazingcontent creators like Mattie Cross and all of
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the people that you have heard onthis show over the years. Find something
that feeds your soul and do itas often as you possibly can, and
of course, dangle on. Myguest is one of the most popular milk
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performers in the adult industry. Fromestablished and elite cam model to clip and
studio performer, her ambitions show nosigns of stopping. She has worked for
Score, guilf dot com, PrivateSociety dot com, and many more.
With her sites set on the industry'stop studios, and with her style,
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beauty, energy and fan popularity,the future could not be brighter. Please
welcome to the show, the wonderfulMaddie Cross. How are you doing tonight?
I'm doing great. Thank you forhaving me absolutely Before before we get
started with our conversation, can youplease tell everybody where they could find you
on social media online and the like. Let's see, I am on Twitter
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at mctplx one. I'm also onInstagram at Matti Cross vip. You can
catch me on OnlyFans at Matti CrossVip. There's also Matdiicross dot com.
And I'm in the process of openingmy fan Centro account, which will be
Matti Cross vip as well. AndI'm transitioning some stuff over to loyal fans
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as well, because i know I'vegot people over there that are like loyal
fans better than OnlyFans. So I'mworking on transitioning things over to where they're
on all the different platforms where everybodylikes to be. When it comes to
your Twitter handle, it's very unique. Is it difficult to not try and
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change it or change everything to kindof have it all under one moniker.
Well, that Twitter handle came outof necessity because I lost my Twitter account
three times and apparently I pissed offthe wrong person somewhere along the line.
You know how that goes, Yea, So we went through and as we're
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recreating my Twitter account, it justkept getting shot down. So when we
were like, okay, let's doMaddy Cross Triple X one and abbreviate it,
So that's what we did now.Also in regards to being on all
the different platforms, I'm sure nowthat process is a little bit easier because
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you are a seasoned veteran of watchingall of these different sites pop up and
become popular and having to be there. But was it ever overwhelming to just
try and figure out where to kindof be everywhere all at once. Oh
God, it's still like that sometimes, you know, because you just you
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see new things popping up all thetime, and people are kind of gravitate
towards them and then they run awayfrom them, so it's like, you
know, what do you do?You know, I just kind of watch
and see how things are going,and I stay with my tried and true
things that I know work for me. I try not to spread myself too
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thin, because you know, youdo that, then you're spending more time
getting stuff up for everybody than youare shooting stuff, right, because you're
constantly editing, uploading, doing this, doing that, you know, And
I don't want to take away frommy time to where I'm camming, which
is I have a lot of funwith that and also shooting content, and
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that has to be a difficult aspectof it as well, because you're rising
in popularity so fast. You've alwaysbeen popular, but now it's really taking
off with you shooting for studios anddoing your own clips, and then you're
still camming and you're going to shootsand conventions and all this. How do
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you manage this time and still tryto have some assemblance of a life.
Yeah, there, that's a questionright there. Honestly, I could not
do it if it weren't for myhusband. I mean, he is such
a huge help to me. He'smy photographer, my videographer. I do
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all of my editing myself on thevideos and stuff, but he takes care
of the shoots for me. Hedoes a lot of stuff for me on
my Twitter, which I don't alwayshave time for if I'm camming and stuff,
because I don't know if everybody knowsthis or not. But outside of
the industry, we on a horseranch, right, so I've got horses
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that I have to take care ofas well. So it's it's definitely a
juggling act to say the Oh,I'm sure, and we will cover that
a little bit later in the interview. But we actually met in Exotica,
New Jersey twenty twenty three, andwe were able to have a couple of
quick conversations through that weekend. Now, because you are fairly new to shooting
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clips and being a studio performer,how has doing conventions been for you?
And how many have you done?Let's see, I have done to Exotica
New Jerseys and then I went outto the ABNS. So just three so
far, and then I'm hit inChicago in April. Oh very nice,
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very nice. Now, how wasAVN for you? Now? How long
were you out there? And howwas the convention aspect for you as well?
So so so totally different from exoticI mean, I was just I
was really surprised. I got outthere the Sunday before the ab MS and
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I was shooting content Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday, and then
went to I did go to theexpo on Friday. I got myself a
VIP pass, went on Friday andI was saw saw a lot of people
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that you know I was supposed tohave shot with that we ended up having
to reschedule because you know, theirflights got delayed. Just all kinds of
just craziness, the usual stuff thathappens during the expos, you know,
But I mean, overall, Ithink I prefer the Exotica expos over the
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APN. I think, other thanit's a great place for a lot of
the big people that you want toshoot with, to get together with.
I have a lot more fun atExonica, definitely interesting. Is it just
the energy of it or is itbecause it is only three days as compared
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to four or more when it comesto a VN, everything you need to
kind of get done is more compact. It's a little bit more, a
little bit more fun in that wayof trying to kind of get everything done.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, Ijust I just have a lot more
fun with it. And I meanthe way Exonica lays everything out, I
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just you're not in like a teenytiny, crammed up space. You know.
I was, honestly for the Avians, I was expecting it to be
bigger. Oh yeah, I wasexpecting the floor space to be much bigger
than what it was. But Imean, you know, overall, I
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mean, you know, it wasa good experience, definitely worth going to.
Good And that's what I like tohear. And I can kind of
agree with you because I you know, it's been at Resorts World for a
couple of years now, before COVID. It was at what used to be
the hard Rock Hotel. Casino wasslightly off the strip and it was laid
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out kind of weird. It waslaid out in like three or four different
rooms. Before that, it wasat the Sands Convention Center, and it
was kind of exotica like because itwas just one big open hall. And
I did. I do feel likeI enjoyed that one the most because it
just the way everything was in oneplace. It was easy to navigate,
and it just kind of worked better. I think. Well, and you
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don't have when you're in a condensedspace like we were at the AVNS.
I mean you barely have room towalk sometimes, Yeah, because it's so
crowded that, you know, itjust it made makes it hard to maneuver
around sometimes, you know. AndI would like, I said, I
just I like that openness. Ilike being able to roam more, you
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know. I agree. Did didyou manage to escape the AVN flu?
No? I came home. Iflew home. I ended up flying home
early, flew home Saturday night,and by Monday I was sick. Yes,
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And I was sick for a weekand a half, a full week
and a half, and I hadbrunchitas and I was like that, I
you know, should have known it. Yeah, everyone goes through that for
sure. But one thing, becauseof where you live, where your ranch
is at, when you go toa place like Las Vegas, do you
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enjoy it because it is so highenergy and there's lights and everything is going
on. Do you enjoy it ordo you kind of comparliamentalize it until you
get home where everything's a lot morerelaxed and you can actually like see stars
and hear quiet. For the shorttime I'm there, I enjoy it.
I soak it in, you know, I mean, you know, it's
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like nothing like we could to stayhere. So it's it's nice when you
know, you get to you getto see all the lights and the casinos
and all of that stuff. Youknow, it's fun. Did you sight
see or gamble or anything? Nope, did not gamble. I'm not a
gambler. I will watch people throwtheir money away, but I will sow
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mine away. Las Vegas was notbuilt on winners, as they say,
exactly. Yeah. So You've beena camp performer for many years and can
currently be found on stream mate.Yes, What was it like getting stars
and how much have your shows evolvedover the last sixteen plus years. Oh
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gosh, well, getting started,I was absolutely terrified, but I you
know, because I was like,yeah, I was one of those girls.
I worked a nine to five officejob, you know, and when
I first started out, I waslike, oh, I don't know about
this. And I actually started outas a non nude model and then you
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know, I did that for acouple of days, and then the guys
were like, you know, youcan make a lot more money. I
was like, hmmm, I mighthave to explore the dark side a little
bit. So, you know,I was like, Okay, I'm going
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to transition over here. I'm goingto try out the dark side CEEO,
see what it's like. And Ihad an absolute blast with it, you
know. I was just it waslike I found my element and I was
like, okay, this is cool. So, you know, I just
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jumped in and just kind of playedit by year. I was lucky in
the fact that when I first startedout, I befriended one of the number
one girls on the website I wason, and she kind of sort of
took me under her wing. Andwould advise me on doing this, doing
that, don't do this, andhelped me tremendously. And even now to
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this day, if there's a newmodel that ever reaches out to me on
a camsite for advice, I willjump in and I'll help them any way
I can, because I wouldn't bewhere I am if that young lady hadn't
done what she did for me.So I'm always, you know, trying
to do stuff like that. Butas as how my shows have changed,
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the only thing that's really changed inmy shows is the age group because now
when I first started out, Iwas in the milf category, but now
I'm leaning into the guilf category,and so now I'm starting to get a
lot more younger guys coming to me. They love the milf, gilf,
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cougar, hot wife roleplay stuff,you know. So that's, you know,
that's what I do. But Ialso do I have guys that come
to me for fetish shows as well, like you know, my feet guys,
my heel guys. As you cantell back here, those are all
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from one fan, just one Wow. So for the people listening, she
has shelves behind her chair in theoffice here and there are Oh I couldn't
even fathom. My guess how manypairs are back there. That's impressive.
Yeah that's not even all of them. Yeah, I mean it's just crazy.
But and you know, so,yeah, I dabble in a little
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bit of fetish stuff as well,you know, so I'm pretty for the
most part, I'm pretty open minded. If somebody comes in and has something
new that I've never done before,I'm like, well, tell me about
it, and let's give it atry and see how it goes. You
know. Yeah, I'm sure howyou enjoy sex and how you maybe define
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your sexuality or just things that you'velearned to enjoy has really changed over your
career. Like when you think aboutstuff like that, do you ever slow
down and kind of reminisce about howfar you've come and all of the experiences
you've had and just how much you'vegrown as a person, be it sexually
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or otherwise. Yeah, definitely.I Mean there's there's not a day that
I get on cam that I don'tstop and think, Wow, things have
really changed, you know, AndI've changed as a person. You know,
I've had so many I was oneof those vanilla people, you know,
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I really didn't experiment do a wholelot, you know, but now
you know, it's opened a wholenew door. All these different options for
me now and everything, and myhusband and I we just have a ton
of fun with it. Were youtechnologically savvy before you started camming and now
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that you are a content creator?Is that any better? Or does all
that fall on the husband? Becausetechnology is growing and expanding so fast,
there's got to be a point whereyou go, I don't know what to
use and what I'm doing anymore.I've always I've always been pretty comfortable with
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technology, you know, thanks toall the resources we have out there for
learning how to use new stuff oreven just learning about new things. I
always I utilize YouTube like crazy,and yeah, you know, anytime like
new cameras come out or anything likethat, you know, I'm always checking
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them out to see, you know, what the quality is like and stuff.
So as far as the computer stuffgoes and the equipment for the camming
side of it, that's all onme. But when it comes to cameras
for shooting and things like that,Hobby handles all of that. He picks
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out, you know, he hashis go to people that advise him on
you need this, this and this, you know, and he takes care
of all of that. Yeah,that's good to have those people in your
life for sure. Yeah, youstarted camming at forty two. What made
you decide to take that step intocamming considering you were vanilla? As you
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put it, My absolute hate formy nine to five job, That's what
did it. Honestly, you know, I'm I'm sitting here at my nine
to five job absolutely just all Iwant to do is just get out of
there and call it a day.And I went on one of those dreaded,
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dreaded sites called Craigslist. Remember that. No, So I go on
this Craigslist. I'm just kind ofsurfening around, looking around and stuff,
and I was like, hmmm,and I saw this ad not that I
think I might check that out.So, you know, I went home,
checked it out and then create awin online, created my account and
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everything, and I did it fora couple of hours. I thought,
oh, this is kind of fun. I like this, you know.
So, as luck would have it, I happened to have two weeks of
paid vacation coming up, so Ithought, hmm, I think I'm going
to take my paid vacation and workon this campsite and see what becomes of
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it. Now. You have toalso consider too, that this was back
at a time frame when there wasno free video chat site. This is
right before the free video chat startedcoming into play. So I'm on this
site and I mean I am rackingup the money, and I'm like,
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oh damn. Well, after twoweeks, I go back into work and
I give my two week notice.Wow, And I have been a came
girl ever since. Were you surprisedat your quick rise in popularity as a
camp performer, as a mature woman, and maybe how popular the whole genre
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is as a whole. Are yousurprised at its popularity and it's longevity?
Yes, yes, definitely. Thatwas one of the things. You know.
When I first started camming, Iwas like, I'm in my forties,
who's going to want to see me? You know? And then as
I started doing it, and thenas I started you know, talking to
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people and everything, I was like, holy crap, there's like a whole
second life, second career that Ican make out of this, you know.
So yeah, having the age differenceand going from milf into guilf and
all of that, I'm just like, I don't see an end in sight,
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and I always you know, It'slike when my husband and I are
talking, I'm like, I wantto be like miss Rita. I want
to be shooting when I want tobe shooting when I'm her age, you
know, and hopefully looking just asgood. Do you find that there are
misconceptions about you as a mature performer, like being either dominant or submissive,
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or what you may or may notlike sexually. Yeah, there. You
know. It's like I'll have peoplethat will think that just because I'm older,
that I'm more dominant, that I'mmore controlling, that I'm going to
be like that with the younger guys. And it's like, if I'm doing
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like a role play, then yeah, I can handle something like that.
But for the most part, I'mmore of a sensual type person. I
do. I do some submissive stuffa little bit, as you can tell
by my eternity collar that I haveon here. This is a little something
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that my husband and I do,so yeah, I do. I mean
on a personal level, I dosubmissive stuff. But I have found that
if I'm shooting with somebody and andthey want to get into a dom submissive
type of roleway. They tend tolean in a direction that I'm not comfortable
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with, so I try to stayout of that type of scenario. Now,
I don't mind if a guy takesthe lead, you know, but
I'm not one that you know,any anybody other than my husband. They
grab my hair and pull my hair, I'm going to reach back and bitch
level if they don't ask me,right right. Yeah, that I appreciate
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that because I I feel like thereis this bit of a switch happening,
but I think it needs to happena little bit more where people who are
creating it is more connected and sensualand a little bit more realistic to what
people could expect when it comes tosex. Because I have this discussion with
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my co hosts all the time.It's like, yeah, you know,
the connection between the performers may begreat, but I'm not going to watch
a guy have sex with a womanwhile he has his foot on her head
like that is just I guess that'snot me. I can't connect with that,
and I think it also I wouldsay that's a bad precedent, but
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I think that's an unrealistic precedent towhat sex is yeah, yeah to me,
that's like to me, that's demeaning, you know, And I don't
feel like you should do anything thatdemeans the other person that you're with.
You know, you should always dosomething that's going to bring them up.
One aspect of your popularity, andone aspect that I enjoy immensely about you,
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is how you own your age andwho you are. And you're not
afraid to tell people how old youare and won't lie. That could be
pretty rare in the industry. Shocker. I know, what has made you
so comfortable with who you are sexuallyand personally, Well, I think that's
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just one of those things that justcomes with age period. You know.
I went through a phase when Iwas camming to where I didn't money,
but I know what I was doingbecause I was afraid of, you know,
somebody causing problems and stuff like that. And then finally I just hit
a point where I was like,waite a second, they don't have any
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control over my life. Screw them. They don't like what I do,
they can move on. I'm notgoing to worry about it, you know.
And then you know, it's like, as I started getting closer to
my fifties. Then I was like, because I was one of those that
I would kind of fib a littlebit about my age because I could pull
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it off okay. But then whenI started getting closer to my fifties,
I was just like, you knowwhat, I'm just going to say,
the hell with it. This ishow old I am period, you know,
because it's it's like they say,it's harder to keep up with the
lies than it is the truth.Right. So I was like, you
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know what, this is me?You know this is me. It took
you a while to get in frontof a studio camera, with your first
studio shoot being with the Score group. What made you decide to take that
next step a few years ago?Well, this is a good story for
you if you'll like this one.So my husband and I are laying in
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bed one morning having our morning coffee, and we get on this conversation of
camming and stuff like that, andhe asked me, he goes, you
know, is there anything you've everwanted to do that you've not done?
And I was like, well,I've kind of always wanted to be a
centerfold and I had had that fantasyever since I was in high school.
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Listening to that Jay Giles band sawCenterfold, it stuck in my head.
It planted the seed, is whatit did. So, you know,
I told he might said, Ithink that would just be so cool,
you know, But you know,I'm thinking, I'm in my fifties.
Who's going to want to see me? You know. So, unbeknownst to
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me, he submitted some pictures toScore. And then the next thing,
you know, a week and ahalf later, I'm in Miami shooting.
Wow, I know, and Iwas just I was totally floored. I
was like, I cannot believe thisis happening. And I did finally make
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it in a Centerfold. I didfinally make it very nice with how established
and experience you already were as acam model, How big was the learning
curve to be in front of somebodyelse's camera? Was it difficult to give
up control when it comes to thecreative process? Well, shooting with Score
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initially they I had a wonderful experienceshooting with them, Carlo that shot everything.
I mean, it's it's one ofthose things they just keep it simple,
stupid. I mean, you gothrough, you do you do a
they walk you through a photo shootand then everything you do in the photo
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shoot you just go back and dolive and video. Oh okay. And
so they make it so so easyto shoot for them and to do their
content in working with the other talent, very very easy to work with,
very easy. So I really didn'tdidn't really have any problems. They directed
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very well. Yeah, I meanit was great. I have told numerous
people that if they ever want toshoot their first adult scenes, to go
to school to do it, becausethey were just absolutely wonderful to work with.
I've heard that from a number ofdifferent performers, and it makes me
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happy to hear that about somebody.What was something that you did learn from
being in front of the camera likethat, Because what I hear is when
people kind of do that pivot tobeing in front of the camera for somebody
else, angles might be a littlebit different and things like that, and
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you have to open up differently andthey end up kind of using muscles they
weren't using. Oh yeah, someof those sex scenes are like doing yoga,
I tell you. I mean it'scrazy. Yeah, the angles that
you have to get in the way, you have to turn your head,
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I mean it's yeah, And it'sa workout when you're done. Trust me,
you need the hot tub after you'veshot because you're using muscles you haven't
used before. I'm sure, AndI'm sure a lot of just how you
treat your body and how you handleself care has really evolved and changed and
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grown as you've gained popularity, maybespent more time on camp and then have
now gone to being a clip performerand shooting for students. Oh yeah,
yeah, it's you definitely have tochange how you do things and stuff so
that you you've got a little bitmore flexibility, and especially when you get
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to be a granny, you know, and I really am a grandma now,
I will say, but yeah,it's it's uh, it can be
trying on the body, for sure. How do you know when you've reached
your shooting limit? Like when youwere at AVN and you shoot, you
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know, maybe multiple times over consecutivedays, Like, is there a point
where you can tell your body isjust saying all right, let's take five?
Yeah? Yeah, oh yeah,It's kind of like hitting the wall.
You know, You're just you're goingalong, you do the shoot,
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and you finish up the shoot andeverything, and you're and you're looking at
what's coming up next, and thenall of a sudden, it's like you're
bodies just like, Okay, that'senough, You're done. You know you
got to reschedule, you know,it's just yeah, it happens, definitely.
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You work with a lot of establishedtalent as a clip performer. You've
worked with Shawn Michaels, Thor Johnson, Camilla, cream Pie, j Assassin,
Puerto Rock. How do you approachpeople that you want to work with
and what do you look for inperformers that you want to work with,
be it man or woman. Well, out of that list of everybody that
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you that you named off there,Camilla was the only one that I didn't
get to shoot with. Oh okaybecause she she when she got to the
av NS, she found out shehad bronchitis. Oh thank you, Camilla.
I know I shouldn't have hugged herwhen I met her. I don't
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teach me what I do. Ilook at the content that they do.
I look at the type of stuffthat they shoot and see if it is
something that would be in line withmy brand, with what my guys like
to see or what they might beinterested in seeing in the future. And
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then of course, you know,you always look at the numbers, you
know, see you know what they'regoing to do, what they can do
to help me. That's just allpart of it, you know. And
then you know, if if somebodypiques my interest and I sick the husband
on them, you'll message them andyou know, and try to get a
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shoot set up and see if it'ssomething that they're interested in doing and everything.
But then I also have a gentlemanout on the East Coast that has
a huge amount of connections in theindustry, and you know, like with
Chicago coming up, he has theability to reach out to different people and
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say and set up shoots for meand everything. So that helps as well
in case, you know, hehas contacts that I don't have. That's
how I got Sean Michaels. Okay, well sue him. And I don't
think I would have gotten him ifI had reached out on my own,
you know, because I'm just alittle measly me, you know, little
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You stop it right now. I'mglad you actually brought that up, because
I'm sure there may be points whereyou have the opportunity to shoot with someone
that has a massive following or maybeis known to shoot a style of scene
that maybe isn't in your wheelhouse,but it's something you'd like to experience.
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Do you ever hesitate to do it? Because you do have your lane,
and you do have the things thatyour fans really like, and it's tough
to not stay in that center laneto do what you know is going to
be popular, right right? Itreally depends on what it is. But
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I'm open to growing and learning newthings, and I feel like I have
such a good following that my guysaren't going to drop me just because I
did one scene that they didn't agreewith. Okay, or they'll be like,
maah, maybe that's not quite you, but others might say, holy
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crap, we got a new Maddieyou know. So yeah, it's I'm
I'm always open to trying new things. I don't like to limit myself too
much. So when it comes toyour as I mentioned in the opening,
you do have an extremely dedicated fanbase over one hundred and sixty two thousand
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followers on Twitter, with post gettingthousands of likes and comments. How do
you handle the crush of what canbe a very taxing online experience in social
media? Because I don't have nearlythe following that you do, and I
struggle to find things to post aboutto keep people engaged, Like how do
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you manage that monster that is socialmedia? That honestly it could be it's
so overwhelming, I mean so freakingoverwhelming that, you know, just trying
to figure out what to post whenand where, you know, is just
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it's just crazy. I've always takennew pictures, so I'm constantly looking for
saying to get out there. Youknow, I've got my foot guys.
You know, I have people thatI'm reaching out to to shoot with,
so I'll put like little teasers outthere. I mean, you just I'm
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constantly kind of talking to my fans. I'll talk to them to get a
feel for like, you know,what do you guys? What do you
guys think about this or that?You know? But I mean it's I
live on it. I mean,I just how my phone is not in
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my face right now is amazing becauseI'm constantly you know, It's like I
go through constantly liking stuff, andyou know, just all this stuff you
have to do the interaction, youknow, you just if you don't interact
with them, it's just a wasteof effort. Yeah, it's funny for
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me because when I go to aconvention and I take pictures with everybody and
I'm posting it and people are engagingwith it and it's popping up in my
notifications, there are times where I'mlike, I'm sick of myself. I'm
annoying me with me you know,I know, I know. It's like,
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you know, my phone's constantly thenotifications on Twitter are constantly going,
you know, and what I honestly, I have to completely turn the sound
off on my phone and completely closeit where I can't see it light up
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nothing, just mentally. I've gotto do that because if I don't,
it will drive me crazy, forsure. Yeah, I feel that one.
Now. I'm not sure if youare aware of how I do interviews,
but one thing that I really enjoydoing is going through people's social media
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to see if I could ask themquestions about any posts that they have made.
Are you willing to answer a coupleof questions about the posts? Yes,
I have a feeling I know wherethis is going. Oh, I
don't know, I don't know.I'll see Okay, the first post I'd
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like to ask you about you wrote, Hey there everyone. If warn granny
panties are your thing, I havea bunch of them for sale over on
many VIDs. Enjoy the scent ofGrandma. I love that. By the
way, special requests also available.It's different to have fans and followers enjoying
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what you create on cam and onfilm. But it's a completely different animal
when it comes to Warren items andclothing. Do you ever get used to
selling clothing or get used to customclothing requests because those can become very very
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specific. Yes, yes, Iactually I get a lot of requests from
my used panties. They absolutely loveit. And then on top of it,
majority of the time when they requestthe used panties, I usually have
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all things. I do panty stuffing. Oh okay, So I'll do panty
stuffing and then they'll go into azip wok bag so that they maintain their
smell and all of that for them. And then I also they also get
a autographed eight x ten photo ofme doing the panty stuffing. Oh wow,
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the actual pair that they purchased.So I yeah, I do that.
I've had people. I have peoplethat buy my score outfit that I've
shot in you know, and Imean it's just I love that aspect of
it. I think it's really coolthat somebody wants my clothing. Eye don't
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sounds like I think what you needto do is, if you are wearing
a pair, now advertise it asthe pair I am talking about on this
podcast. Make it a thing.I got to show you this. I'll
do that. I'll do that withthis pair. Check these out so it
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says on the back, I feelslutty, slap my ass, pull my
hair, talk dirty, fuck mereal hard, then come all over me.
That is a very descriptive pair ofunderwear. Yeah, that one.
That one's gonna fly out the door. I'll bey you, oh one percent
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when it comes to you fulfilling theserequests because it is so popular. Is
this a constant amazon An order thatjust comes automatically or are you going to
a store and the person checking youout is going, why do you need
three hundred pair of underwear? Well, I'm very fortunate again with my fans.
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I have fans that will send mebags of underwear, like they'll they'll
go to like Amazon Orchine or somewherelike that where you can buy them in
bulk and they will just send mebags of underwear. So I've got underwear
panties coming out the ears, alldifferent mixed models and styles. Brandy panties
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included, so and there is awhole market for that one as well.
They love the full back panties.And yeah, what I'll do is I'll
just I'll take a picture of themand I'll post them on the website for
sale, so they'll see front andback what they look like, and then
let them pick and choose whatever pairthey want. That's awesome that you have
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that dedicated of a fan base wherethey send it to you, to you
yeah, yeah, you know.It's like I'll have one fan that'll send
me a bag of like thirty pairof underwear and you know, thirty times
forty bucks apiece. Complain. Icannot. That's more than I would make
with my underwear. So with yougetting involved in the convention circuit, have
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you had people that have purchased itemsor maybe just even longtime fans come to
see you at conventions and say,I don't know if you remember me,
but I bought this or my handleis this, and I am so glad
to meet you. Oh God,yes, yes, I in fact one
of my granny panty guys. He'spurchased numerous pair of underwear from me,
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done numerous camshows with me. Hecame up to me my first year at
New Jersey and I was like,oh my god, I finally get to
meet you. You know, Iwas more excited meeting him. You know,
he had bought so many pair ofunderwear from me, and he had
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actually texted me that morning and said, Hey, I want to get this
pair of underwear. Can I pickhim up? Can I pick him up
at the booths? And I waslike, they'll be there ready for you,
you know. Oh that's awesome.Yeah. Now the next post I
would like to ask you about youwrote, Oh my fucking god, I
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just noticed this on mister Cross's workbenchwhen I was taking out the trash.
Do you think he would mind maybebetter yet, would you mind seeing which
is my size? So for thelisteners, there is a picture of a
trailer hitch assembly with three different sideshitches. Oh my goodness, are you
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someone that finds the naughty in everything? Because it really seems like you are.
Oh god, I knew that whenit was going to hit me.
Oh that was one of my sillysides that came out one day. I
was just I thought, you knowwhat, let's do this just for ships
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and grins. Let's see what happens. You know. I thought, I've
never put anything crazy like this up, so let's just see what happens with
it, you know. But Ido have to confess I did kind of
give that toy a little bit ofa ride there to see how it worked
out. Did you film it?You know? But I think I got
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a picture. But you know what, here's what I found. I told
him he's got to go get anew hitch because those other two balls get
in the way. Oh yeah,I said, so you need to go
get a new hitch to words justone because the other two get in the
way. I can't maneuver random.So that makes me truly anything with three
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balls is rather cumbersome, exactly right. So another post I'd like to ask
you about after AVN. You wroteso nice to be home, and it
is a picture of you laying withyour dogs, and it is adorable.
I'm a dog man myself, soI said I would get to this,
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So let's do it. Let's talkabout home. What is your real life
North Dakota ranch like it. We'rewe're on one hundred and thirty eight acres.
Wow, I've got twenty horses rightnow that we have here on the
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property. Nine of them belong tomy husband and I and the rest are
borders. We on the boarding stable. Yeah, I just you know my
day. I get up, getthe husband off to work, go out
check on the horses, which iskind of nice. I get to wander
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around the paddock and pet on thehorses and love on the horses, top
off their water tanks, check theirhay, see how everything is, and
then come back into the house anddo my domestic goddess duties still has to
be done. And then I geton cam for the for a couple of
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hours three hours in the afternoon,and I only do that money through Thursday,
depending on what's going on, ifI if I'm traveling, if I've
got doctors ployments, you know,it'll vary. And then well also before
I get on cam, if Ihave any pictures I need to take,
I'll try and get pictures done.Any custom video requests things like that,
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I try to get all that donebefore I get on cam, and then
I can until my husband comes homewhen he gets off work. Then if
we have any content we need toshoot anything like that, we'll do that
and then just relax and enjoy theevening, have dinner and spend time with
the puppy dogs, and go backout and check on horses again and fun
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stuff like that. You've lived ina number of different places throughout the country
in your life. Was it alwaysa dream of yours to have this style
of ranch? Honestly, I neverin a million years imagined that I would
ever live anywhere other than on abeach. Interesting grew up in Florida,
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and I always lived anywhere from tento fifteen minutes away from the beach always.
But what was really strange is whenI got up here to North Dakota,
I felt like I was home.Oh nice, I felt like this
is where I'm supposed to be.I mean, I just I love it
up here. It is. It'sabsolutely gorgeous, even in the winter.
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Yeah, you can get some prettycold, cold days up there in the
winter time. Oh yes, Butthankfully this year has been pretty mild for
us. Been lucky. I'm surehaving a space like that has limitless potential
for content. Do you have areasthat you've tried to keep for lack of
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a better term, sacred or unused? Or is everything fair game on the
ranch? Everything's fair game. Anyyou know, there's there's not I don't
think there's a spot on the property. Who are off the property that we
haven't taken pictures or shot a videoor you name it. You know,
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we'll go out in the gator andwe'll wind up in a cornfield somewhere taking
pictures shooting. Yeah, we justnever know. When you do have that
much acreage, do you do farmingor is it just a ranch? Just
a ranch? Wow, okay,yeah, just a ranch. Yeah.
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All the horses here are trail horses, so eighty acres of the property we
use for trail riding and stuff.So it's it's nice, nice and relaxing.
It's it's just a great way tojust forget about the world. Get
on a horse, relax and forgeteverything. Oh that's awesome. So the
last post I would like to askyou about you wrote when a fan see
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date with Maddie got cut short becauseI had to leave for AVNS. So
here it is congratulations to the winner. I will be in touch soon.
And this is such a cool idea, What made you decide to have this
style of fantasy date giveaway? Andhow often have you done this? That's
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actually the first one I've ever done. Cool, and the date is set
to happen in Chicago. I waswondering when I go there, so yeah,
you know, I just all myfriends, my fans are like,
I would love to take you outto dinner sometime, just to spend some
(53:44):
time with you, you know.And then I thought, you know what,
let's do this. Let's just giveit a try and see what happens.
See if anybody bites, see ifanybody is really interested, or if
they were just talking. And Iwas really surprised at the number of people
that entered to possibly win the fantasyday with me, And it was just
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it was really cool. I wasI was quite surprised by it. I
know that there are performers that whenthey go to a convention, they'll do
a group dinner where you know,the fan will pay so much just to
be at dinner with somebody and there'slike a limit of like ten so it
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doesn't get overwhelming or stuff like that. Have you ever thought about doing something
maybe a little bit on a granderscale, where you know, it almost
feels like a date but also aquestion and answer and just kind of a
cool thing to hang out with youat conventions. Yeah, I was actually
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talking with A Jason. We hadalready kind of kicked around that idea for
a possibility of doing something like that, but we're you know, we're just
in the in the talking stages rightnow, trying to figure out the logistics
on on how to do it andstuff like that. And I know something
(55:15):
that I did which was kind offun. When I was in New Jersey
in November, I was selling nudeselfies. Oh okay, And what I
would do is the guy would purchasea nude selfie with me and then he
would meet me with my husband atour hotel room and I would be totally
(55:40):
naked and this guy would take aselfie with me. Interesting. Yeah,
So we would do that because youknow, you can't do that on the
floor, so we had to havesomewhere safe to do it. And they
just they ate it up. Theyloved it, you know, they you
know, it wasn't one of thosetouchy feeling things. It was just a
self nothing else, and they werejust as happy as they could be.
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You know, and I thought,Hey, this is fun, you know,
so let's do it. Oh thatis fair like the ideas that pop
into my head when I'll tell youafterwards, because I think it's brilliant.
I don't want other people to stealit. But yeah, we'll definitely come
back to that. Well, I'lltell you a little secret is as long
as it doesn't get me in anytrouble. If I have to beep it,
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I will. We're good, Okay. So when I was when I
was in New Jersey this past year, this guy wanted a nude selfie with
me, but we were having troublegetting from the expo to the hotel for
one reason or another. Well,I borrowed somebody's car and we were in
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the parking lot Exotica. This guygets into back seat. I get into
back seat with him, and I'mtotally naked and climb on his lap and
take a picture with him in thebackseat of the car. And I was
like, I mean, what couldbe better making out in the backseat of
the car with Maddie Cross. Ihope he paid extra for that. I
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hope you got a tip he paidsome good money for that one. That's
what I like to hear, butI'm thinking, oh my god, I'm
going to get arrested because it wasright up against the building and you know,
the camera's everywhere, and I thought, oh god, I'm going to
jail. You know what, whenit comes to stuff like that, be
(57:30):
it in Vegas or Jersey or Chicago, I think there's an understanding like as
long as you're not being like outsideand just overly gratuitous, I I kind
of just let bygones be bygones forthem. Yeah, don't be dumb on
the floor of the convention right rightexactly now. I feel like you have
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a lot that you are trying tocreate and accomplish in your career. But
are there any plans in the worksthat you can talk about for twenty twenty
four and beside Chicago, what elsedo you have going on when it comes
to conventions and things that your fanscan expect. I'm really hoping to hit
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more of the conventions this year,more of the more of the Exotica exposed.
As far as content goes, I'vegot a lot of people to include
Seawn Michaels, and Rita that aretalking about coming here to the ranch this
summer and shooting, which I'm reallyexcited about there. And really my main,
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absolute, main focus for this yearis to get on Browser's radar.
Okay, that is, if Ican somehow get on their radar to where
I could get in to like theirmil milf guilt category, because I noticed
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that they're now starting to shoot moremature stuff and I want, I really
want to get in on that withBrowsers. And of course you know,
I'd love to go back and shootwith Mike Quasar again. He is an
absolute who to work with and anyany and every time I've ever shot for
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Guilt, it has just been absolutelyhilarious and always fun. So I'm always
open to that, and I thinkI have to I have to wait.
Let's see, March I turned fiftynine, so I have to wait until
next year to reach out to Scoreto start getting into their sixty plus category.
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So that's kind of the ballpark ofwhere I want to go with things
as things progress. Very cool.So let me ask this. You're born
in March what day, the twentieth? Ah, so you're a piaces like
myself just barely. I'm March thirteenth. So okay, well, my husband's
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the seventeenth. Oh wow, Yeah, we had a lot of March birthdays
there. Okay, that's rare thatyou see two birthdays that close when it
comes to couples that you think,yeah, yeah, exactly. Well,
we've decided that three seems to beour lucky number because we were both born
in March three days apart. Wegot married in March, and the dates
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that we got married in are alldivisible by three, okay. And then
how we met is because of ourmothers. We both lost our mothers three
months apart from each other. Wow. And that's that's how we actually met
(01:00:59):
because we were both get an onlinegrief support group and that's how we met
each other. Oh that's incredible.Yeah. So three three is our number
definitely. So when it comes tothe ranch, I do have a couple
quick questions here before we learn this. Do you ever or have you ever
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thought about renting it out for otherproducers, creators and stuff like that to
come to you and shoot in yourspace. I have invited Mike quays Are
and also Carlow with Score. Thosetwo have been invited if they ever want
(01:01:44):
to come up and shoot content uphere. You know, all they have
to do is reach out to us. But that's like, you know,
having a boarding stable, that's oneof those things that would definitely take some
planning to make sure that everybody knowsbart that day you cannot horses. That's
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right. The horses will be seeinga lot, a lot more than thankfully
they will ever tell their I'm that'sfantastic. I was delighted to meet you
in New Jersey. We talked aboutdoing an interview and I said, you
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know what, let's wait, Let'shave you get all of the convention madness
out of your system. And wemade this happen. And I'm so glad
we did because I truly feel likeyou have greatness ahead of you. You
have a great attitude, you havea great reputation, and I think the
creative juices are really beginning to flowfor you. So I know some big
(01:02:50):
things are coming down the road andI can't wait to see what it is.
Well, thank you, thank youso much for having me. I
just I absolutely loved meeting you atExotica and I've been looking forward to this
interview for ever since you asked meto do it. You know, so,
and I'm crossing my fingers. I'mhoping you're right on all the good
(01:03:10):
things coming down the pike there.I'm looking forward to what twenty twenty four
has to hold for me absolutely,So one more time before I let you
go, can you please tell everybodywhere to find you online and on social
media? Okay, on social media, you can find me at mc TPLX
one, which is Matty Cross TripleX one abbreviated on Twitter. I'm Matti
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Cross vip over on Instagram, MattieCross VIP on OnlyFans. Then i have
Matdycross dot com and let's see,and I'm working on my model Centr.
I'm going to get that going forI've got my model Centro which is Matdicross
dot Com. I'm working on myfans intro, which I heard is pretty
(01:03:58):
big in Europe, yes, andthat's going to be Maddie Cross VIP as
well, So I'm trying to leantowards everything going to the VIP name and
everything and I let's see, andthen I've got Maddie Cross over on Loyal
Fans as well, So I've gota bunch of stuff out there. I
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always tell people, if you haveour time finding me, just google Maddy
Cross corner. I'm going to popup once again. Thank you so much
for being on best of luck witheverything in the future, and hopefully I
see at a convention sometimes. Ohdefinitely, I'm sure I'm going to see
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you a few times here and there. Thank you so much. Say
Dangling after Dark with Dick Dangle.Episode five two is a full episode interview
with Milk performer extraordinaire, the LovelyMaddie Cross. Warning, the show is
only for adults who like sex.Does your dick hang? No? Does
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it dangle? To and fro?Can you tie at in minot? Can
you tie at in a boat?Don't worry, Dick will be coming.
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Welcome to the present nation. Herehe is Dick Dangle. Dick Dangle,
Hello everybody, and welcome to episodefive twenty two of Dangling after Dark with
Dick Dangle. Welcome to the PervertNation. I am your host, Dick
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Dangle, and thank you one andall for joining me for this episode.
I hope it finds you doing welland living the best life you possibly can.
For this episode, I have afull interview with the lovely Milk performer
Maddie Cross. Thank you so muchto her for being on the show.
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I really enjoyed my first interaction withher at a convention and you will hear
me talk about that in the interview, and we just kind of connected.
We have very similar laid back energyand we like the laugh. So when
I met her and when I hada lot of different performers saying you need
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to have her on the show.She is wonderful and her fans would love
to hear her on your show.I figured, you know what, I
think, I need to get heron the show. So we waited until
the convention circuit was done, andit was well worth the wait because we
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talk a lot about her different experienceswhen it comes to being at conventions,
but we cover her entire career.We talk about her camming and then how
that did transition into also making clipsand being a performer and being in front
of somebody else's camera, and itwas just a lot of fun to get
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to know her. She has avery cool life away from the industry,
which we definitely get into, andit made me realize just how well rounded
a person that she is. AndI think the way she approaches not only
her time in the industry but awayfrom it, has made her a very
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grounded person and I think it showsin her approach in the style that she
puts out for her fans and followers. But we talk about so many different
things and it's just a lot offun. It is a very engaging and
captivating conversation from front to back,so I'm not going to continue to talk.
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You're here for her, So onceagain, thank you very much Maddie
Cross for being on this show,and thank you, dear listeners for listening
to this show. Please take careof yourselves and the people around you.
Pay for your porn and support amazingcontent creators like Mattie Cross and all of
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the people that you have heard onthis show over the years. Find something
that feeds your soul and do itas often as you possibly can, and
of course, dangle on. Myguest is one of the most popular milk
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performers in the adult industry. Fromestablished and elite cam model to clip and
studio performer, her ambitions show nosigns of stopping. She has worked for
Score, guilf dot com, PrivateSociety dot com, and many more.
With her sites set on the industry'stop studios, and with her style,
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beauty, energy and fan popularity,the future could not be brighter. Please
welcome to the show, the wonderfulMaddie Cross. How are you doing tonight?
I'm doing great. Thank you forhaving me absolutely Before before we get
started with our conversation, can youplease tell everybody where they could find you
on social media online and the like. Let's see, I am on Twitter
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at mctplx one. I'm also onInstagram at Matti Cross vip. You can
catch me on OnlyFans at Matti CrossVip. There's also Matdiicross dot com.
And I'm in the process of openingmy fan Centro account, which will be
Matti Cross vip as well. AndI'm transitioning some stuff over to loyal fans
(05:36):
as well, because i know I'vegot people over there that are like loyal
fans better than OnlyFans. So I'mworking on transitioning things over to where they're
on all the different platforms where everybodylikes to be. When it comes to
your Twitter handle, it's very unique. Is it difficult to not try and
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change it or change everything to kindof have it all under one moniker.
Well, that Twitter handle came outof necessity because I lost my Twitter account
three times and apparently I pissed offthe wrong person somewhere along the line.
You know how that goes, Yea, So we went through and as we're
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recreating my Twitter account, it justkept getting shot down. So when we
were like, okay, let's doMaddy Cross Triple X one and abbreviate it,
So that's what we did now.Also in regards to being on all
the different platforms, I'm sure nowthat process is a little bit easier because
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you are a seasoned veteran of watchingall of these different sites pop up and
become popular and having to be there. But was it ever overwhelming to just
try and figure out where to kindof be everywhere all at once. Oh
God, it's still like that sometimes, you know, because you just you
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see new things popping up all thetime, and people are kind of gravitate
towards them and then they run awayfrom them, so it's like, you
know, what do you do?You know, I just kind of watch
and see how things are going,and I stay with my tried and true
things that I know work for me. I try not to spread myself too
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thin, because you know, youdo that, then you're spending more time
getting stuff up for everybody than youare shooting stuff, right, because you're
constantly editing, uploading, doing this, doing that, you know, And
I don't want to take away frommy time to where I'm camming, which
is I have a lot of funwith that and also shooting content, and
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that has to be a difficult aspectof it as well, because you're rising
in popularity so fast. You've alwaysbeen popular, but now it's really taking
off with you shooting for studios anddoing your own clips, and then you're
still camming and you're going to shootsand conventions and all this. How do
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you manage this time and still tryto have some assemblance of a life.
Yeah, there, that's a questionright there. Honestly, I could not
do it if it weren't for myhusband. I mean, he is such
a huge help to me. He'smy photographer, my videographer. I do
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all of my editing myself on thevideos and stuff, but he takes care
of the shoots for me. Hedoes a lot of stuff for me on
my Twitter, which I don't alwayshave time for if I'm camming and stuff,
because I don't know if everybody knowsthis or not. But outside of
the industry, we on a horseranch, right, so I've got horses
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that I have to take care ofas well. So it's it's definitely a
juggling act to say the Oh,I'm sure, and we will cover that
a little bit later in the interview. But we actually met in Exotica,
New Jersey twenty twenty three, andwe were able to have a couple of
quick conversations through that weekend. Now, because you are fairly new to shooting
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clips and being a studio performer,how has doing conventions been for you?
And how many have you done?Let's see, I have done to Exotica
New Jerseys and then I went outto the ABNS. So just three so
far, and then I'm hit inChicago in April. Oh very nice,
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very nice. Now, how wasAVN for you? Now? How long
were you out there? And howwas the convention aspect for you as well?
So so so totally different from exoticI mean, I was just I
was really surprised. I got outthere the Sunday before the ab MS and
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I was shooting content Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday, and then
went to I did go to theexpo on Friday. I got myself a
VIP pass, went on Friday andI was saw saw a lot of people
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that you know I was supposed tohave shot with that we ended up having
to reschedule because you know, theirflights got delayed. Just all kinds of
just craziness, the usual stuff thathappens during the expos, you know,
But I mean, overall, Ithink I prefer the Exotica expos over the
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APN. I think, other thanit's a great place for a lot of
the big people that you want toshoot with, to get together with.
I have a lot more fun atExonica, definitely interesting. Is it just
the energy of it or is itbecause it is only three days as compared
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to four or more when it comesto a VN, everything you need to
kind of get done is more compact. It's a little bit more, a
little bit more fun in that wayof trying to kind of get everything done.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, Ijust I just have a lot more
fun with it. And I meanthe way Exonica lays everything out, I
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just you're not in like a teenytiny, crammed up space. You know.
I was, honestly for the Avians, I was expecting it to be
bigger. Oh yeah, I wasexpecting the floor space to be much bigger
than what it was. But Imean, you know, overall, I
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mean, you know, it wasa good experience, definitely worth going to.
Good And that's what I like tohear. And I can kind of
agree with you because I you know, it's been at Resorts World for a
couple of years now, before COVID. It was at what used to be
the hard Rock Hotel. Casino wasslightly off the strip and it was laid
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out kind of weird. It waslaid out in like three or four different
rooms. Before that, it wasat the Sands Convention Center, and it
was kind of exotica like because itwas just one big open hall. And
I did. I do feel likeI enjoyed that one the most because it
just the way everything was in oneplace. It was easy to navigate,
and it just kind of worked better. I think. Well, and you
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don't have when you're in a condensedspace like we were at the AVNS.
I mean you barely have room towalk sometimes, Yeah, because it's so
crowded that, you know, itjust it made makes it hard to maneuver
around sometimes, you know. AndI would like, I said, I
just I like that openness. Ilike being able to roam more, you
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know. I agree. Did didyou manage to escape the AVN flu?
No? I came home. Iflew home. I ended up flying home
early, flew home Saturday night,and by Monday I was sick. Yes,
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And I was sick for a weekand a half, a full week
and a half, and I hadbrunchitas and I was like that, I
you know, should have known it. Yeah, everyone goes through that for
sure. But one thing, becauseof where you live, where your ranch
is at, when you go toa place like Las Vegas, do you
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enjoy it because it is so highenergy and there's lights and everything is going
on. Do you enjoy it ordo you kind of comparliamentalize it until you
get home where everything's a lot morerelaxed and you can actually like see stars
and hear quiet. For the shorttime I'm there, I enjoy it.
I soak it in, you know, I mean, you know, it's
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like nothing like we could to stayhere. So it's it's nice when you
know, you get to you getto see all the lights and the casinos
and all of that stuff. Youknow, it's fun. Did you sight
see or gamble or anything? Nope, did not gamble. I'm not a
gambler. I will watch people throwtheir money away, but I will sow
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mine away. Las Vegas was notbuilt on winners, as they say,
exactly. Yeah. So You've beena camp performer for many years and can
currently be found on stream mate.Yes, What was it like getting stars
and how much have your shows evolvedover the last sixteen plus years. Oh
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gosh, well, getting started,I was absolutely terrified, but I you
know, because I was like,yeah, I was one of those girls.
I worked a nine to five officejob, you know, and when
I first started out, I waslike, oh, I don't know about
this. And I actually started outas a non nude model and then you
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know, I did that for acouple of days, and then the guys
were like, you know, youcan make a lot more money. I
was like, hmmm, I mighthave to explore the dark side a little
bit. So, you know,I was like, Okay, I'm going
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to transition over here. I'm goingto try out the dark side CEEO,
see what it's like. And Ihad an absolute blast with it, you
know. I was just it waslike I found my element and I was
like, okay, this is cool. So, you know, I just
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jumped in and just kind of playedit by year. I was lucky in
the fact that when I first startedout, I befriended one of the number
one girls on the website I wason, and she kind of sort of
took me under her wing. Andwould advise me on doing this, doing
that, don't do this, andhelped me tremendously. And even now to
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this day, if there's a newmodel that ever reaches out to me on
a camsite for advice, I willjump in and I'll help them any way
I can, because I wouldn't bewhere I am if that young lady hadn't
done what she did for me.So I'm always, you know, trying
to do stuff like that. Butas as how my shows have changed,
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the only thing that's really changed inmy shows is the age group because now
when I first started out, Iwas in the milf category, but now
I'm leaning into the guilf category,and so now I'm starting to get a
lot more younger guys coming to me. They love the milf, gilf,
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cougar, hot wife roleplay stuff,you know. So that's, you know,
that's what I do. But Ialso do I have guys that come
to me for fetish shows as well, like you know, my feet guys,
my heel guys. As you cantell back here, those are all
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from one fan, just one Wow. So for the people listening, she
has shelves behind her chair in theoffice here and there are Oh I couldn't
even fathom. My guess how manypairs are back there. That's impressive.
Yeah that's not even all of them. Yeah, I mean it's just crazy.
But and you know, so,yeah, I dabble in a little
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bit of fetish stuff as well,you know, so I'm pretty for the
most part, I'm pretty open minded. If somebody comes in and has something
new that I've never done before,I'm like, well, tell me about
it, and let's give it atry and see how it goes. You
know. Yeah, I'm sure howyou enjoy sex and how you maybe define
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your sexuality or just things that you'velearned to enjoy has really changed over your
career. Like when you think aboutstuff like that, do you ever slow
down and kind of reminisce about howfar you've come and all of the experiences
you've had and just how much you'vegrown as a person, be it sexually
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or otherwise. Yeah, definitely.I Mean there's there's not a day that
I get on cam that I don'tstop and think, Wow, things have
really changed, you know, AndI've changed as a person. You know,
I've had so many I was oneof those vanilla people, you know,
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I really didn't experiment do a wholelot, you know, but now
you know, it's opened a wholenew door. All these different options for
me now and everything, and myhusband and I we just have a ton
of fun with it. Were youtechnologically savvy before you started camming and now
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that you are a content creator?Is that any better? Or does all
that fall on the husband? Becausetechnology is growing and expanding so fast,
there's got to be a point whereyou go, I don't know what to
use and what I'm doing anymore.I've always I've always been pretty comfortable with
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technology, you know, thanks toall the resources we have out there for
learning how to use new stuff oreven just learning about new things. I
always I utilize YouTube like crazy,and yeah, you know, anytime like
new cameras come out or anything likethat, you know, I'm always checking
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them out to see, you know, what the quality is like and stuff.
So as far as the computer stuffgoes and the equipment for the camming
side of it, that's all onme. But when it comes to cameras
for shooting and things like that,Hobby handles all of that. He picks
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out, you know, he hashis go to people that advise him on
you need this, this and this, you know, and he takes care
of all of that. Yeah,that's good to have those people in your
life for sure. Yeah, youstarted camming at forty two. What made
you decide to take that step intocamming considering you were vanilla? As you
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put it, My absolute hate formy nine to five job, That's what
did it. Honestly, you know, I'm I'm sitting here at my nine
to five job absolutely just all Iwant to do is just get out of
there and call it a day.And I went on one of those dreaded,
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dreaded sites called Craigslist. Remember that. No, So I go on
this Craigslist. I'm just kind ofsurfening around, looking around and stuff,
and I was like, hmmm,and I saw this ad not that I
think I might check that out.So, you know, I went home,
checked it out and then create awin online, created my account and
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everything, and I did it fora couple of hours. I thought,
oh, this is kind of fun. I like this, you know.
So, as luck would have it, I happened to have two weeks of
paid vacation coming up, so Ithought, hmm, I think I'm going
to take my paid vacation and workon this campsite and see what becomes of
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it. Now. You have toalso consider too, that this was back
at a time frame when there wasno free video chat site. This is
right before the free video chat startedcoming into play. So I'm on this
site and I mean I am rackingup the money, and I'm like,
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oh damn. Well, after twoweeks, I go back into work and
I give my two week notice.Wow, And I have been a came
girl ever since. Were you surprisedat your quick rise in popularity as a
camp performer, as a mature woman, and maybe how popular the whole genre
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is as a whole. Are yousurprised at its popularity and it's longevity?
Yes, yes, definitely. Thatwas one of the things. You know.
When I first started camming, Iwas like, I'm in my forties,
who's going to want to see me? You know? And then as
I started doing it, and thenas I started you know, talking to
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people and everything, I was like, holy crap, there's like a whole
second life, second career that Ican make out of this, you know.
So yeah, having the age differenceand going from milf into guilf and
all of that, I'm just like, I don't see an end in sight,
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and I always you know, It'slike when my husband and I are
talking, I'm like, I wantto be like miss Rita. I want
to be shooting when I want tobe shooting when I'm her age, you
know, and hopefully looking just asgood. Do you find that there are
misconceptions about you as a mature performer, like being either dominant or submissive,
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or what you may or may notlike sexually. Yeah, there. You
know. It's like I'll have peoplethat will think that just because I'm older,
that I'm more dominant, that I'mmore controlling, that I'm going to
be like that with the younger guys. And it's like, if I'm doing
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like a role play, then yeah, I can handle something like that.
But for the most part, I'mmore of a sensual type person. I
do. I do some submissive stuffa little bit, as you can tell
by my eternity collar that I haveon here. This is a little something
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that my husband and I do,so yeah, I do. I mean
on a personal level, I dosubmissive stuff. But I have found that
if I'm shooting with somebody and andthey want to get into a dom submissive
type of roleway. They tend tolean in a direction that I'm not comfortable
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with, so I try to stayout of that type of scenario. Now,
I don't mind if a guy takesthe lead, you know, but
I'm not one that you know,any anybody other than my husband. They
grab my hair and pull my hair, I'm going to reach back and bitch
level if they don't ask me,right right. Yeah, that I appreciate
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that because I I feel like thereis this bit of a switch happening,
but I think it needs to happena little bit more where people who are
creating it is more connected and sensualand a little bit more realistic to what
people could expect when it comes tosex. Because I have this discussion with
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my co hosts all the time.It's like, yeah, you know,
the connection between the performers may begreat, but I'm not going to watch
a guy have sex with a womanwhile he has his foot on her head
like that is just I guess that'snot me. I can't connect with that,
and I think it also I wouldsay that's a bad precedent, but
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I think that's an unrealistic precedent towhat sex is yeah, yeah to me,
that's like to me, that's demeaning, you know, And I don't
feel like you should do anything thatdemeans the other person that you're with.
You know, you should always dosomething that's going to bring them up.
One aspect of your popularity, andone aspect that I enjoy immensely about you,
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is how you own your age andwho you are. And you're not
afraid to tell people how old youare and won't lie. That could be
pretty rare in the industry. Shocker. I know, what has made you
so comfortable with who you are sexuallyand personally, Well, I think that's
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just one of those things that justcomes with age period. You know.
I went through a phase when Iwas camming to where I didn't money,
but I know what I was doingbecause I was afraid of, you know,
somebody causing problems and stuff like that. And then finally I just hit
a point where I was like,waite a second, they don't have any
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control over my life. Screw them. They don't like what I do,
they can move on. I'm notgoing to worry about it, you know.
And then you know, it's like, as I started getting closer to
my fifties. Then I was like, because I was one of those that
I would kind of fib a littlebit about my age because I could pull
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it off okay. But then whenI started getting closer to my fifties,
I was just like, you knowwhat, I'm just going to say,
the hell with it. This ishow old I am period, you know,
because it's it's like they say,it's harder to keep up with the
lies than it is the truth.Right. So I was like, you
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know what, this is me?You know this is me. It took
you a while to get in frontof a studio camera, with your first
studio shoot being with the Score group. What made you decide to take that
next step a few years ago?Well, this is a good story for
you if you'll like this one.So my husband and I are laying in
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bed one morning having our morning coffee, and we get on this conversation of
camming and stuff like that, andhe asked me, he goes, you
know, is there anything you've everwanted to do that you've not done?
And I was like, well,I've kind of always wanted to be a
centerfold and I had had that fantasyever since I was in high school.
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Listening to that Jay Giles band sawCenterfold, it stuck in my head.
It planted the seed, is whatit did. So, you know,
I told he might said, Ithink that would just be so cool,
you know, But you know,I'm thinking, I'm in my fifties.
Who's going to want to see me? You know. So, unbeknownst to
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me, he submitted some pictures toScore. And then the next thing,
you know, a week and ahalf later, I'm in Miami shooting.
Wow, I know, and Iwas just I was totally floored. I
was like, I cannot believe thisis happening. And I did finally make
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it in a Centerfold. I didfinally make it very nice with how established
and experience you already were as acam model, How big was the learning
curve to be in front of somebodyelse's camera? Was it difficult to give
up control when it comes to thecreative process? Well, shooting with Score
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initially they I had a wonderful experienceshooting with them, Carlo that shot everything.
I mean, it's it's one ofthose things they just keep it simple,
stupid. I mean, you gothrough, you do you do a
they walk you through a photo shootand then everything you do in the photo
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shoot you just go back and dolive and video. Oh okay. And
so they make it so so easyto shoot for them and to do their
content in working with the other talent, very very easy to work with,
very easy. So I really didn'tdidn't really have any problems. They directed
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very well. Yeah, I meanit was great. I have told numerous
people that if they ever want toshoot their first adult scenes, to go
to school to do it, becausethey were just absolutely wonderful to work with.
I've heard that from a number ofdifferent performers, and it makes me
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happy to hear that about somebody.What was something that you did learn from
being in front of the camera likethat, Because what I hear is when
people kind of do that pivot tobeing in front of the camera for somebody
else, angles might be a littlebit different and things like that, and
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you have to open up differently andthey end up kind of using muscles they
weren't using. Oh yeah, someof those sex scenes are like doing yoga,
I tell you. I mean it'scrazy. Yeah, the angles that
you have to get in the way, you have to turn your head,
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I mean it's yeah, And it'sa workout when you're done. Trust me,
you need the hot tub after you'veshot because you're using muscles you haven't
used before. I'm sure, AndI'm sure a lot of just how you
treat your body and how you handleself care has really evolved and changed and
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grown as you've gained popularity, maybespent more time on camp and then have
now gone to being a clip performerand shooting for students. Oh yeah,
yeah, it's you definitely have tochange how you do things and stuff so
that you you've got a little bitmore flexibility, and especially when you get
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to be a granny, you know, and I really am a grandma now,
I will say, but yeah,it's it's uh, it can be
trying on the body, for sure. How do you know when you've reached
your shooting limit? Like when youwere at AVN and you shoot, you
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know, maybe multiple times over consecutivedays, Like, is there a point
where you can tell your body isjust saying all right, let's take five?
Yeah? Yeah, oh yeah,It's kind of like hitting the wall.
You know, You're just you're goingalong, you do the shoot,
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and you finish up the shoot andeverything, and you're and you're looking at
what's coming up next, and thenall of a sudden, it's like you're
bodies just like, Okay, that'senough, You're done. You know you
got to reschedule, you know,it's just yeah, it happens, definitely.
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You work with a lot of establishedtalent as a clip performer. You've
worked with Shawn Michaels, Thor Johnson, Camilla, cream Pie, j Assassin,
Puerto Rock. How do you approachpeople that you want to work with
and what do you look for inperformers that you want to work with,
be it man or woman. Well, out of that list of everybody that
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you that you named off there,Camilla was the only one that I didn't
get to shoot with. Oh okaybecause she she when she got to the
av NS, she found out shehad bronchitis. Oh thank you, Camilla.
I know I shouldn't have hugged herwhen I met her. I don't
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teach me what I do. Ilook at the content that they do.
I look at the type of stuffthat they shoot and see if it is
something that would be in line withmy brand, with what my guys like
to see or what they might beinterested in seeing in the future. And
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then of course, you know,you always look at the numbers, you
know, see you know what they'regoing to do, what they can do
to help me. That's just allpart of it, you know. And
then you know, if if somebodypiques my interest and I sick the husband
on them, you'll message them andyou know, and try to get a
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shoot set up and see if it'ssomething that they're interested in doing and everything.
But then I also have a gentlemanout on the East Coast that has
a huge amount of connections in theindustry, and you know, like with
Chicago coming up, he has theability to reach out to different people and
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say and set up shoots for meand everything. So that helps as well
in case, you know, hehas contacts that I don't have. That's
how I got Sean Michaels. Okay, well sue him. And I don't
think I would have gotten him ifI had reached out on my own,
you know, because I'm just alittle measly me, you know, little
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You stop it right now. I'mglad you actually brought that up, because
I'm sure there may be points whereyou have the opportunity to shoot with someone
that has a massive following or maybeis known to shoot a style of scene
that maybe isn't in your wheelhouse,but it's something you'd like to experience.
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Do you ever hesitate to do it? Because you do have your lane,
and you do have the things thatyour fans really like, and it's tough
to not stay in that center laneto do what you know is going to
be popular, right right? Itreally depends on what it is. But
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I'm open to growing and learning newthings, and I feel like I have
such a good following that my guysaren't going to drop me just because I
did one scene that they didn't agreewith. Okay, or they'll be like,
maah, maybe that's not quite you, but others might say, holy
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crap, we got a new Maddieyou know. So yeah, it's I'm
I'm always open to trying new things. I don't like to limit myself too
much. So when it comes toyour as I mentioned in the opening,
you do have an extremely dedicated fanbase over one hundred and sixty two thousand
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followers on Twitter, with post gettingthousands of likes and comments. How do
you handle the crush of what canbe a very taxing online experience in social
media? Because I don't have nearlythe following that you do, and I
struggle to find things to post aboutto keep people engaged, Like how do
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you manage that monster that is socialmedia? That honestly it could be it's
so overwhelming, I mean so freakingoverwhelming that, you know, just trying
to figure out what to post whenand where, you know, is just
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it's just crazy. I've always takennew pictures, so I'm constantly looking for
saying to get out there. Youknow, I've got my foot guys.
You know, I have people thatI'm reaching out to to shoot with,
so I'll put like little teasers outthere. I mean, you just I'm
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constantly kind of talking to my fans. I'll talk to them to get a
feel for like, you know,what do you guys? What do you
guys think about this or that?You know? But I mean it's I
live on it. I mean,I just how my phone is not in
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my face right now is amazing becauseI'm constantly you know, It's like I
go through constantly liking stuff, andyou know, just all this stuff you
have to do the interaction, youknow, you just if you don't interact
with them, it's just a wasteof effort. Yeah, it's funny for
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me because when I go to aconvention and I take pictures with everybody and
I'm posting it and people are engagingwith it and it's popping up in my
notifications, there are times where I'mlike, I'm sick of myself. I'm
annoying me with me you know,I know, I know. It's like,
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you know, my phone's constantly thenotifications on Twitter are constantly going,
you know, and what I honestly, I have to completely turn the sound
off on my phone and completely closeit where I can't see it light up
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nothing, just mentally. I've gotto do that because if I don't,
it will drive me crazy, forsure. Yeah, I feel that one.
Now. I'm not sure if youare aware of how I do interviews,
but one thing that I really enjoydoing is going through people's social media
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to see if I could ask themquestions about any posts that they have made.
Are you willing to answer a coupleof questions about the posts? Yes,
I have a feeling I know wherethis is going. Oh, I
don't know, I don't know.I'll see Okay, the first post I'd
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like to ask you about you wrote, Hey there everyone. If warn granny
panties are your thing, I havea bunch of them for sale over on
many VIDs. Enjoy the scent ofGrandma. I love that. By the
way, special requests also available.It's different to have fans and followers enjoying
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what you create on cam and onfilm. But it's a completely different animal
when it comes to Warren items andclothing. Do you ever get used to
selling clothing or get used to customclothing requests because those can become very very
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specific. Yes, yes, Iactually I get a lot of requests from
my used panties. They absolutely loveit. And then on top of it,
majority of the time when they requestthe used panties, I usually have
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all things. I do panty stuffing. Oh okay, So I'll do panty
stuffing and then they'll go into azip wok bag so that they maintain their
smell and all of that for them. And then I also they also get
a autographed eight x ten photo ofme doing the panty stuffing. Oh wow,
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the actual pair that they purchased.So I yeah, I do that.
I've had people. I have peoplethat buy my score outfit that I've
shot in you know, and Imean it's just I love that aspect of
it. I think it's really coolthat somebody wants my clothing. Eye don't
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sounds like I think what you needto do is, if you are wearing
a pair, now advertise it asthe pair I am talking about on this
podcast. Make it a thing.I got to show you this. I'll
do that. I'll do that withthis pair. Check these out so it
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says on the back, I feelslutty, slap my ass, pull my
hair, talk dirty, fuck mereal hard, then come all over me.
That is a very descriptive pair ofunderwear. Yeah, that one.
That one's gonna fly out the door. I'll bey you, oh one percent
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when it comes to you fulfilling theserequests because it is so popular. Is
this a constant amazon An order thatjust comes automatically or are you going to
a store and the person checking youout is going, why do you need
three hundred pair of underwear? Well, I'm very fortunate again with my fans.
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I have fans that will send mebags of underwear, like they'll they'll
go to like Amazon Orchine or somewherelike that where you can buy them in
bulk and they will just send mebags of underwear. So I've got underwear
panties coming out the ears, alldifferent mixed models and styles. Brandy panties
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included, so and there is awhole market for that one as well.
They love the full back panties.And yeah, what I'll do is I'll
just I'll take a picture of themand I'll post them on the website for
sale, so they'll see front andback what they look like, and then
let them pick and choose whatever pairthey want. That's awesome that you have
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that dedicated of a fan base wherethey send it to you, to you
yeah, yeah, you know.It's like I'll have one fan that'll send
me a bag of like thirty pairof underwear and you know, thirty times
forty bucks apiece. Complain. Icannot. That's more than I would make
with my underwear. So with yougetting involved in the convention circuit, have
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you had people that have purchased itemsor maybe just even longtime fans come to
see you at conventions and say,I don't know if you remember me,
but I bought this or my handleis this, and I am so glad
to meet you. Oh God,yes, yes, I in fact one
of my granny panty guys. He'spurchased numerous pair of underwear from me,
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done numerous camshows with me. Hecame up to me my first year at
New Jersey and I was like,oh my god, I finally get to
meet you. You know, Iwas more excited meeting him. You know,
he had bought so many pair ofunderwear from me, and he had
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actually texted me that morning and said, Hey, I want to get this
pair of underwear. Can I pickhim up? Can I pick him up
at the booths? And I waslike, they'll be there ready for you,
you know. Oh that's awesome.Yeah. Now the next post I
would like to ask you about youwrote, Oh my fucking god, I
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just noticed this on mister Cross's workbenchwhen I was taking out the trash.
Do you think he would mind maybebetter yet, would you mind seeing which
is my size? So for thelisteners, there is a picture of a
trailer hitch assembly with three different sideshitches. Oh my goodness, are you
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someone that finds the naughty in everything? Because it really seems like you are.
Oh god, I knew that whenit was going to hit me.
Oh that was one of my sillysides that came out one day. I
was just I thought, you knowwhat, let's do this just for ships
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and grins. Let's see what happens. You know. I thought, I've
never put anything crazy like this up, so let's just see what happens with
it, you know. But Ido have to confess I did kind of
give that toy a little bit ofa ride there to see how it worked
out. Did you film it?You know? But I think I got
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a picture. But you know what, here's what I found. I told
him he's got to go get anew hitch because those other two balls get
in the way. Oh yeah,I said, so you need to go
get a new hitch to words justone because the other two get in the
way. I can't maneuver random.So that makes me truly anything with three
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balls is rather cumbersome, exactly right. So another post I'd like to ask
you about after AVN. You wroteso nice to be home, and it
is a picture of you laying withyour dogs, and it is adorable.
I'm a dog man myself, soI said I would get to this,
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So let's do it. Let's talkabout home. What is your real life
North Dakota ranch like it. We'rewe're on one hundred and thirty eight acres.
Wow, I've got twenty horses rightnow that we have here on the
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property. Nine of them belong tomy husband and I and the rest are
borders. We on the boarding stable. Yeah, I just you know my
day. I get up, getthe husband off to work, go out
check on the horses, which iskind of nice. I get to wander
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around the paddock and pet on thehorses and love on the horses, top
off their water tanks, check theirhay, see how everything is, and
then come back into the house anddo my domestic goddess duties still has to
be done. And then I geton cam for the for a couple of
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hours three hours in the afternoon,and I only do that money through Thursday,
depending on what's going on, ifI if I'm traveling, if I've
got doctors ployments, you know,it'll vary. And then well also before
I get on cam, if Ihave any pictures I need to take,
I'll try and get pictures done.Any custom video requests things like that,
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I try to get all that donebefore I get on cam, and then
I can until my husband comes homewhen he gets off work. Then if
we have any content we need toshoot anything like that, we'll do that
and then just relax and enjoy theevening, have dinner and spend time with
the puppy dogs, and go backout and check on horses again and fun
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stuff like that. You've lived ina number of different places throughout the country
in your life. Was it alwaysa dream of yours to have this style
of ranch? Honestly, I neverin a million years imagined that I would
ever live anywhere other than on abeach. Interesting grew up in Florida,
(51:02):
and I always lived anywhere from tento fifteen minutes away from the beach always.
But what was really strange is whenI got up here to North Dakota,
I felt like I was home.Oh nice, I felt like this
is where I'm supposed to be.I mean, I just I love it
up here. It is. It'sabsolutely gorgeous, even in the winter.
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Yeah, you can get some prettycold, cold days up there in the
winter time. Oh yes, Butthankfully this year has been pretty mild for
us. Been lucky. I'm surehaving a space like that has limitless potential
for content. Do you have areasthat you've tried to keep for lack of
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a better term, sacred or unused? Or is everything fair game on the
ranch? Everything's fair game. Anyyou know, there's there's not I don't
think there's a spot on the property. Who are off the property that we
haven't taken pictures or shot a videoor you name it. You know,
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we'll go out in the gator andwe'll wind up in a cornfield somewhere taking
pictures shooting. Yeah, we justnever know. When you do have that
much acreage, do you do farmingor is it just a ranch? Just
a ranch? Wow, okay,yeah, just a ranch. Yeah.
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All the horses here are trail horses, so eighty acres of the property we
use for trail riding and stuff.So it's it's nice, nice and relaxing.
It's it's just a great way tojust forget about the world. Get
on a horse, relax and forgeteverything. Oh that's awesome. So the
last post I would like to askyou about you wrote when a fan see
(53:00):
date with Maddie got cut short becauseI had to leave for AVNS. So
here it is congratulations to the winner. I will be in touch soon.
And this is such a cool idea, What made you decide to have this
style of fantasy date giveaway? Andhow often have you done this? That's
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actually the first one I've ever done. Cool, and the date is set
to happen in Chicago. I waswondering when I go there, so yeah,
you know, I just all myfriends, my fans are like,
I would love to take you outto dinner sometime, just to spend some
(53:44):
time with you, you know.And then I thought, you know what,
let's do this. Let's just giveit a try and see what happens.
See if anybody bites, see ifanybody is really interested, or if
they were just talking. And Iwas really surprised at the number of people
that entered to possibly win the fantasyday with me, And it was just
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it was really cool. I wasI was quite surprised by it. I
know that there are performers that whenthey go to a convention, they'll do
a group dinner where you know,the fan will pay so much just to
be at dinner with somebody and there'slike a limit of like ten so it
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doesn't get overwhelming or stuff like that. Have you ever thought about doing something
maybe a little bit on a granderscale, where you know, it almost
feels like a date but also aquestion and answer and just kind of a
cool thing to hang out with youat conventions. Yeah, I was actually
(54:52):
talking with A Jason. We hadalready kind of kicked around that idea for
a possibility of doing something like that, but we're you know, we're just
in the in the talking stages rightnow, trying to figure out the logistics
on on how to do it andstuff like that. And I know something
(55:15):
that I did which was kind offun. When I was in New Jersey
in November, I was selling nudeselfies. Oh okay, And what I
would do is the guy would purchasea nude selfie with me and then he
would meet me with my husband atour hotel room and I would be totally
(55:40):
naked and this guy would take aselfie with me. Interesting. Yeah,
So we would do that because youknow, you can't do that on the
floor, so we had to havesomewhere safe to do it. And they
just they ate it up. Theyloved it, you know, they you
know, it wasn't one of thosetouchy feeling things. It was just a
self nothing else, and they werejust as happy as they could be.
(56:04):
You know, and I thought,Hey, this is fun, you know,
so let's do it. Oh thatis fair like the ideas that pop
into my head when I'll tell youafterwards, because I think it's brilliant.
I don't want other people to stealit. But yeah, we'll definitely come
back to that. Well, I'lltell you a little secret is as long
as it doesn't get me in anytrouble. If I have to beep it,
(56:27):
I will. We're good, Okay. So when I was when I
was in New Jersey this past year, this guy wanted a nude selfie with
me, but we were having troublegetting from the expo to the hotel for
one reason or another. Well,I borrowed somebody's car and we were in
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the parking lot Exotica. This guygets into back seat. I get into
back seat with him, and I'mtotally naked and climb on his lap and
take a picture with him in thebackseat of the car. And I was
like, I mean, what couldbe better making out in the backseat of
the car with Maddie Cross. Ihope he paid extra for that. I
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hope you got a tip he paidsome good money for that one. That's
what I like to hear, butI'm thinking, oh my god, I'm
going to get arrested because it wasright up against the building and you know,
the camera's everywhere, and I thought, oh god, I'm going to
jail. You know what, whenit comes to stuff like that, be
(57:30):
it in Vegas or Jersey or Chicago, I think there's an understanding like as
long as you're not being like outsideand just overly gratuitous, I I kind
of just let bygones be bygones forthem. Yeah, don't be dumb on
the floor of the convention right rightexactly now. I feel like you have
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a lot that you are trying tocreate and accomplish in your career. But
are there any plans in the worksthat you can talk about for twenty twenty
four and beside Chicago, what elsedo you have going on when it comes
to conventions and things that your fanscan expect. I'm really hoping to hit
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more of the conventions this year,more of the more of the Exotica exposed.
As far as content goes, I'vegot a lot of people to include
Seawn Michaels, and Rita that aretalking about coming here to the ranch this
summer and shooting, which I'm reallyexcited about there. And really my main,
(58:43):
absolute, main focus for this yearis to get on Browser's radar.
Okay, that is, if Ican somehow get on their radar to where
I could get in to like theirmil milf guilt category, because I noticed
(59:04):
that they're now starting to shoot moremature stuff and I want, I really
want to get in on that withBrowsers. And of course you know,
I'd love to go back and shootwith Mike Quasar again. He is an
absolute who to work with and anyany and every time I've ever shot for
(59:27):
Guilt, it has just been absolutelyhilarious and always fun. So I'm always
open to that, and I thinkI have to I have to wait.
Let's see, March I turned fiftynine, so I have to wait until
next year to reach out to Scoreto start getting into their sixty plus category.
(59:50):
So that's kind of the ballpark ofwhere I want to go with things
as things progress. Very cool.So let me ask this. You're born
in March what day, the twentieth? Ah, so you're a piaces like
myself just barely. I'm March thirteenth. So okay, well, my husband's
(01:00:14):
the seventeenth. Oh wow, Yeah, we had a lot of March birthdays
there. Okay, that's rare thatyou see two birthdays that close when it
comes to couples that you think,yeah, yeah, exactly. Well,
we've decided that three seems to beour lucky number because we were both born
in March three days apart. Wegot married in March, and the dates
(01:00:38):
that we got married in are alldivisible by three, okay. And then
how we met is because of ourmothers. We both lost our mothers three
months apart from each other. Wow. And that's that's how we actually met
(01:00:59):
because we were both get an onlinegrief support group and that's how we met
each other. Oh that's incredible.Yeah. So three three is our number
definitely. So when it comes tothe ranch, I do have a couple
quick questions here before we learn this. Do you ever or have you ever
(01:01:19):
thought about renting it out for otherproducers, creators and stuff like that to
come to you and shoot in yourspace. I have invited Mike quays Are
and also Carlow with Score. Thosetwo have been invited if they ever want
(01:01:44):
to come up and shoot content uphere. You know, all they have
to do is reach out to us. But that's like, you know,
having a boarding stable, that's oneof those things that would definitely take some
planning to make sure that everybody knowsbart that day you cannot horses. That's
(01:02:05):
right. The horses will be seeinga lot, a lot more than thankfully
they will ever tell their I'm that'sfantastic. I was delighted to meet you
in New Jersey. We talked aboutdoing an interview and I said, you
(01:02:28):
know what, let's wait, Let'shave you get all of the convention madness
out of your system. And wemade this happen. And I'm so glad
we did because I truly feel likeyou have greatness ahead of you. You
have a great attitude, you havea great reputation, and I think the
creative juices are really beginning to flowfor you. So I know some big
(01:02:50):
things are coming down the road andI can't wait to see what it is.
Well, thank you, thank youso much for having me. I
just I absolutely loved meeting you atExotica and I've been looking forward to this
interview for ever since you asked meto do it. You know, so,
and I'm crossing my fingers. I'mhoping you're right on all the good
(01:03:10):
things coming down the pike there.I'm looking forward to what twenty twenty four
has to hold for me absolutely,So one more time before I let you
go, can you please tell everybodywhere to find you online and on social
media? Okay, on social media, you can find me at mc TPLX
one, which is Matty Cross TripleX one abbreviated on Twitter. I'm Matti
(01:03:37):
Cross vip over on Instagram, MattieCross VIP on OnlyFans. Then i have
Matdycross dot com and let's see,and I'm working on my model Centr.
I'm going to get that going forI've got my model Centro which is Matdicross
dot Com. I'm working on myfans intro, which I heard is pretty
(01:03:58):
big in Europe, yes, andthat's going to be Maddie Cross VIP as
well, So I'm trying to leantowards everything going to the VIP name and
everything and I let's see, andthen I've got Maddie Cross over on Loyal
Fans as well, So I've gota bunch of stuff out there. I
(01:04:19):
always tell people, if you haveour time finding me, just google Maddy
Cross corner. I'm going to popup once again. Thank you so much
for being on best of luck witheverything in the future, and hopefully I
see at a convention sometimes. Ohdefinitely, I'm sure I'm going to see
(01:04:41):
you a few times here and there. Thank you so much. Say
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