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February 10, 2023 112 mins

Welcome to Date or Disaster: The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before

In this series, my co-host Chris Northover and I read out your submitted stories on your worst experiences when it comes to love, dating, sex, hook-ups, relationships and everything in between.  

For this episode, we are discussing the concepts of catfishing and anonymous/discreet profiles.  

I also share my own horrifying experiences including exposing my on-going catfish stalker who has assaulted me over the past 10 years.  

We are also lucky to be joined by Robert Grigor, a sexuality expert who has undergraduate degrees in sociology and psychology, a Masters in Sexual Health and currently works as a community health educator in clinical settings. Robert joins us to answer your burning questions on everything from love, sex, hook-ups and more!  


Chapters 

00:00 Intro 

00:48 The Backstory 

01:56 Introducing Co-host Chris Northover 

03:24 Queer Stories on the Swan 03:48 What is Catfishing? 

05:01 What is 'Anonymous/Discreet Profiles'? 

09:03 How Justin Caught His Ex via Catfishing Him 

12:06 Slide In My DM's 

12:43 Story 1 - The Shed 

16:23 Story 2 - Bi-Curiosity Killed the Cat 

22:23 Story 3 - WetNWild 

31:37 Story 4 - Secret Santa 

40:20 Story 5 - Teenage Catfish Mutant Turds 

50:09 Justin's story 

1:02:44 Unqualified vs. Sexpert Advice 

1:03:33 Introducing Sexpert Robert Grigor 

1:04:23 Question 

1 1:09:44 Question 2 

1:16:20 Question 3 

1:25:55 Question 4 

1:37:55 Justin's Catfish Stalker 

1:49:54 Thank You & Send Us Your Stories! 

1:50:34 Exposing My Catfish Stalker Lachlan Meng & His Weird Messages  


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