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March 24, 2023 131 mins

Welcome to Date or Disaster: The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before. In this series, my co-host Chris Northover and I read out your submitted stories on your worst experiences when it comes to love, dating, sex, hook-ups, relationships and everything in between. For this episode, we are discussing the concept of boundaries. I also share my own horrifying experiences including both my best and worst experiences from 2022 that are strong examples of how respecting boundaries can go incredible and how breaking boundaries can be awful. We are also lucky to be joined by Robert Grigor, a sexuality expert who has undergraduate degrees in sociology and psychology, a Masters in Sexual Health and currently works as a community health educator in clinical settings. Robert joins us to answer your burning questions on everything from love, sex, hook-ups and more! Chapters 00:00 Intro 02:42 What Are Boundaries? 10:00 The Guy Who Always Wanted to Sleep with a Podcaster 20:30 Slide In My DM's 21:20 DM 1 Blonde Bombshell 29:48 DM 2 VersKing 40:13 DM 3 BartenderLove 54:26 DM 4 Nambucca Heads High School Musical 1:02:04 DM 5 SpeedDater 1:16:05 Justin's story 1:24:27 Unqualified vs. Sexpert Advice 1:24:57 Question 1 1:31:52 Question 2 1:36:41 Question 3 1:42:04 Question 4 1:47:49 How I Nearly Got Date Raped By a Mark Latham Lookalike 2:01:11 My Best Hookup of All Time 2:07:36 PSA to Str8 Men 2:09:51 Thank You & Send Us Your Stories! 2:11:12 A Delusional Encounter I Had With a Twink Follow Queer Stories on the Swan below ↪ Instagram: @queerstoriesontheswan ↪ Podcast: https://linktr.ee/queerstoriesontheswan ↪ YouTube: @QSSStudios Follow me on social media ↪ TikTok: @justinmatters.mp4 ↪ Instagram: @justinmatters.mp4 ↪ Linktree: https://linktr.ee/justinmatters Want spooky content? Check out The Complete Guide to Horror ↪ YouTube: @completeguidetohorror ↪ TikTok: @completeguidetohorror Send in your stories! You can choose to remain anonymous #date #sex #hookup #allhookedup #catfish #catfishmtv #anonymous #discreet #grindr #tinder #theveronicas #love #dating #scary #worstdate #bumble #hinge #datingapps #lolita #dahmer #assault #onlinedating #podcast #sexuality #gay #lgbt #sexpert #education #funny #meme

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