Dating Architect - Build Your Ideal Dating Life

Dating Architect - Build Your Ideal Dating Life

A podcast from a seducer who has been in the seduction community for over 21 years. I will give you the most TRUTHFUL and HELPFUL advice in order to help you pick-up and date the hottest women around. Don't believe me? Just listen to one podcast episode and you'll be hooked!

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January 2, 2024 16 mins

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In this episode, I talk about how Instagram and dating apps are affecting women and how it's making modern dating harder.

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It's been a crazy past 2 years, but I'm back! I will be posting regularly in 2024 and boy do I have some dating knowledge for you guys! I will be talking about stuff NO ONE is talking about. No ONE! Cold hard truths about cold approach! Get ready! It's all coming in 2024!

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February 10, 2021 24 mins

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I'm back! Thank you to all the guys that contacted me and told me how much they love this podcast. In today's podcast I'll catch you up on what I've been up to and gaming during the pandemic. I also have a product out now that I think you'll enjoy. You can check it out at the link above or below. 

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You may think that seduction gurus want to help you get more women, but in reality a lot of them just want to empty your wallet. While I think some videos can help give you an idea of what to do, others just make your more insecure and nervous.

For every video you watch online, you should be spending 4x as much time approaching women in real life. Don't become a ...

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March 4, 2020 14 mins

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Do you lose your thoughts when speaking to a beautiful women? Do you find yourself in a trance?

In this episode I go over some ways you can get over a woman's beauty. 

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February 26, 2020 10 mins

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Do you know how many women you have to speak to in order to sleep with one?

Each of us is different. We all have our strengths as well as our weaknesses. 

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We all have our stories for why we can't do something. We keep telling ourselves these stories over and over. But repeating your story, for why you think you can't be good with women or get the women you want, does nothing to help you improve your dating life.

In this podcast, I go over how you can stop sabotaging yourself with old stories. I also give you a great resou...

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I coach a lot of guys who limit themselves before they even make an approach. They are trapped in a mind prison of their own creation because they believe they lack certain things that society tells them they need in order to be confident.

In this podcast, I will teach you about some of these limitation and how to stop giving them power. You will also learn the secret to getting ...

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February 5, 2020 33 mins

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Today I'm going to go over flaking and how to handle women that flake. Should you NEXT them or give them another chance? 

If you are making regular approaches then flakes should not be too much of a problem for you.

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January 29, 2020 14 mins

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In today's podcast, I'm going to teach you how to get a girl's phone number. Notice I said get, not ask. You NEVER want to ask for the phone number. Asking decreases your chances of getting it.

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This is the speech I gave in front of 50-60 guys at the 21 Convention in 2007 (before the CEO got all political).

In the first part of this speech, I gave advice on relationship maintenance and what you need to do in order to keep your relationship healthy.

The second part of this speech discusses logistics and how you can pull a girl out of a nightclub or bar once you have some attraction.

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This is the speech I gave in front of 50-60 guys at the 21 Convention in 2007 (before the CEO got all political).

The speech is about YOUR identity and how it affects what you can and cannot do. It goes in-depth on how a guy that is good with women thinks and how he got there.

It goes over what it takes to get good with women and how you can become a great seducer if you change your current beliefs and identity ...

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Most guys think that women are these mysterious creatures that are so hard to understand. In today's podcast, I reveal that women are very easy to understand. They are male value detectors and constantly scan men on their value.

The majority of women value the same things in a man. They want a man that is confident, certain, capable, intelligent, resourceful, and strong. But...

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December 25, 2019 15 mins

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In today's podcast, I'm going to share the SECRET of getting beautiful women. It's simple, but not easy. This one thing has been responsible for me getting over 90% of the beautiful women that I have been with.

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Avoid take women on the boring dinner and a movie dates. Going on those dates is one of the quickest ways to kill a woman's attraction for you. Dates like that signal to her that you are just another boring nice guy with no imagination.

You want to take her on exciting dates. Something that she is not used to. By doing something out of the ordinary, you will appear extraordi...

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If you can't be happy doing things by yourself, you will always give off a needy energy around women. In order to be really successful with women, you have to be happy being by yourself. You need to be able to enjoy activities alone.

By cultivating this characteristic, you will develop your own standards of what you are willing and unwilling to tolerate from women. The reason...

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November 27, 2019 20 mins

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In today's podcast, I encourage you to unplug from what society thinks you need in order to talk to beautiful women. Society wants you to stay asleep so that you can benefit it. Instead of giving in to what you have been conditioned to believe since birth, you should listen to this podcast so that you can unplug from that matrix.

Your wealth, job, appearance, height, hair, e...

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This is part 2 of last week's podcast. I decided to share some of the good and bad things that will happen to you along your journey. In today's podcast, I talk about one night where I took seven rejections in a row and how awful it felt. But I didn't give up and thanks to that, I had a really good experience towards the end of the night.

Your journey is going to b...

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In today's podcast, I talk about how far I have come from the nervous wreck of a boy that was deathly afraid of approaching women. No matter how bad you think you have it, chances are that I had it worse than you. I recall being so nervous talking during my first cold approach that my forehead started sweating like Niagara Falls and I felt huge pains in my knotted up stomach. As if th...

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Do you have to be a good looking guy to get women? Well it certainly helps, but it is not necessary. Contrary to what you've been socially conditioned to believe, it is not actually your looks that wins over women. It's your behavior!

Good looks only buy you an extra few seconds to talk to her. If you don't have attractive behaviors, a woman will not be attracted to...

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