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October 30, 2025 43 mins

Sometimes love feels like a rescue… until you realize you’re the one who needs saving.

In this episode, Marcus sits down with Melissa, a 43-year-old from Fredericksburg who’s been married twice, survived heartbreak twice, and is finally learning to put herself first. From her first “Captain Save-A-Ho” marriage to a second round that looked perfect but turned controlling and toxic, Melissa opens up about the messy middle between fairy tales and freedom.

This raw, unfiltered convo dives into:

  • 💍 Marriage on fast-forward: when love moves too fast to last

  • 🚩 Toxic patterns: why we repeat them and how to break free

  • 💔 Losing yourself in love: and rebuilding piece by piece

  • 👩‍👦 Parenting through the chaos: what kids see, learn, and carry

  • 💪 Reclaiming peace: finding power after betrayal

Real talk, real pain, and real growth — this one hits deep for anyone who’s ever said, “Never again.”

Listen & Subscribe: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dating-detours/id1823554631 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/72vQ6a8Re6PDX99Yf3vzIx?si=2s7k3XnhQ6a-Ub9nj-z-XA Podbean: https://www.podbean.com/pw/pbblog-pqwpw-13ff319?from=usersite YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@datingdetours Website https://www.datingdetours.com Got a dating story? Be a guest: https://golocalproductions.com/dating-detour-guest Enjoying the show? Leave a 5-star review: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dating-detours/id1823554631 Recorded at Ring Spaces Podcast Studio in Fredericksburg, VA: https://ringspaces.com/podcast-space/ We create our clips with Opus: https://www.opus.pro/?via=golocalproductions Start your own podcast with our recommended gear: https://amzn.to/4kpeIN4

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