In this raw and real episode, James opens up about moving from toxic relationships into a healthy, affirming partnership with a trans man. From caregiving after surgery to wearing rings and talking about future last names, James shares how communication, honesty, and boundaries are shaping this new chapter.
We dig into:
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Recognizing red flags early and breaking the cycle of self-sabotage
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Family support through the coming-out journey — from fear to full acceptance
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Caregiving, trust, and what it really means to “show up” in a relationship
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Lessons from past partners who love-bombed, cheated, and drained energy
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Big life goals: marriage, kids, and even launching a community coffee shop that blends travel, recovery, and creativity
This isn’t just a dating story — it’s about healing from trauma, building resilience, and setting a roadmap for love and life.
✨ Listen now if you’ve ever wondered how to turn heartbreak into growth, or how to navigate a relationship with honesty after past chaos.
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