We are back! After a short Spring break in the bae, Becca is back! In this episode of Dating in the Bae, Becca chats with Hinge’s behavioral scientist, Logan Ury, about her new book, How Not To Die Alone. Plus, Logan shares all her dating knowledge through years of observing, studying and writing about love.
What are the 3 types of daters? How many people should you date before settling down? Is love at first even sight a real thing?
Join Becca and Logan on this fun and fascinating conversation. Grab your notepad and pen because you’ll definitely want to take notes on Logan’s dating tips!
Jump straight into:
00:21 - Self love 101: How to enjoy yourself as you are right now.
03:14 - Logan’s super-star professional trajectory in behavioral science and why she decided to write a dating book.
07:39 - The three types of dating tendencies; which one are you?
11:31 - Is chemistry an explosion or a slow burn? The 3 myths about “the spark”.
16:17 - Compare and despair: The problem with just seeing other couples’ curated moments.
18:01 - How to know when to settle? The math in dating & the secretary algorithm.
22:00 - Dating tips + tricks: How to keep it fun while still looking for what you want!
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How Not To Die Alone by Logan Ury
Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough by Lori Gottlieb
Maybe You Should Talk To Someone by Lori Gottlieb
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