Seeing Other People

Seeing Other People

Modern dating sucks, but dating expert Ilana Dunn is here to make it suck just a little bit less. Seeing Other People is your go-to podcast for honest (and sometimes hilarious) conversations about love, dating, relationships, and everything in between. Each week features three types of episodes: Cohosts for Life on Mondays, where Ilana and her husband Jake open up about the everyday moments that shape their relationship; Tuesday episodes with impactful guests who help you navigate the complexities of modern dating; and Unfiltered episodes on Thursdays, where anonymous guests share their most raw and relatable experiences. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, this show is here to help you feel seen—and a little less alone.

Episodes

July 10, 2025 64 mins
When Waverly Colville signed a lease with a stranger named John Guilyard in the summer of 2020, she never imagined she was also meeting her future partner. Two years of friendship, late-night talks, and dancing around their feelings later, one kiss changed everything. In this episode, Waverly and John join us to share the real story of how they went from roommates to best friends to partners — and everything they learned along the ...
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Breakups today aren’t just about letting go of a person — they’re about navigating texts, timelines, algorithmic reminders, and the pressure to "heal fast." Therapist and Lonely Hearts Club founder Lexi Joondeph-Breidbart joins Ilana to unpack what actually helps people move on, why we obsess over old messages, and how to know if it's time to unfollow, mute, or block your ex for good. @lonelyheartsclub_nyc www.lonelyheartsclubnyc....
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July 7, 2025 53 mins
Welcome to the very first official episode of Cohosts for Life! Ilana kick things off by explaining why this series exists, what inspired it, and what you can expect moving forward. Then we attempt to reintroduce each other before diving into a Q&A for you guys to know Jake more. We walk you through what to expect each week, from Ilana’s marathon training to Jake’s calf injury, what we’re learning on TikTok, what we’re watching, an...
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In this Unfiltered, a listener shares the hard truths she’s learned through dating, heartbreak, and situationships. From realizing you can’t force someone to like you, to learning that overcompromising and over-efforting doesn’t lead to love, she reflects on the patterns she’s finally ready to break. If you’ve ever asked yourself why didn’t they choose me?—this one’s for you. ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marath...
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Ryan Kenny, comedian and dater, joins me for a hilarious, honest convo on ghosting, dating app fatigue, and the awkwardness of putting yourself out there. We chat about exclusivity talks, bad sex with great people, and why women in friend groups are basically unapproachable. Follow Ryan @the_ryan_kenny and check out his upcoming show on July 8th in NYC! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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In this Unfiltered, a 39-year-old New Yorker opens up about dating a guy who was terrible for her, but ultimately changed her life for the better. Before, she was stuck in the “cool girl” role, hiding her needs and feeling constant anxiety. After this relationship led her to work with a relationship coach, she learned to be honest with herself and others and date without shame, leading to her now connecting with people who don’t tr...
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June 24, 2025 51 mins
Dana, a 31-year-old nurse, shares how her seemingly “on track” life slowly unraveled in a toxic marriage that took a toll on her mental and physical health, even causing heart palpitations. After facing manipulation, family drama, and feeling like a stranger in her own life, Dana hit rock bottom — but that moment became the start of her healing. She opens up about rediscovering herself through therapy, self-care, and leaning on her...
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n this solo episode, I’m catching you up on life lately—books I'm reading, finishing my half marathon, how I feel about content creation right now, and whether I ever miss being single. I’m also answering your questions on dating app upgrades, chemistry that’s missing, ghosting after three great dates, confusing “what are we” situations, and wedding drama with a very pregnant bridesmaid. It’s honest, a little messy, and very real. ...
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Real world romance isn’t dead. It’s just been buried under algorithms and ghosting. That’s exactly why I partnered with Louis Jadot to host a Meet-Cute Master Class in NYC. In this episode, I’m sharing all of my best tips for creating your own meet-cute—how to start a conversation, feel more confident, spark something real without relying on the apps, and more. Pour a glass of Jadot and get inspired to make your next first move. ...
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I’m joined by Han Huante, host of How I See It, for a vulnerable conversation about mental health, dating patterns, and the real (often messy) work of healing. We talk about how moving out of her comfort zone triggered depression and anxiety, how self-hatred shaped who she dated, and why being “real” with yourself is the first step toward real peace. Hannah opens up about choosing discomfort to find clarity, busts a few big healing...
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I sit down with Danielle Dietzek and Julie Griggs, the cofounders of Fourplay Social (@fourplaysocial), for a real, unfiltered girl chat. We’re diving deep into what it feels like when your friends are hitting major life milestones like marriage, babies, and buying homes, while you're still single and wondering if you’re getting left behind. We talk about the pressure to define yourself by your relationship status, the confusing sp...
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We recorded this episode on our actual one-year anniversary, from Turks and Caicos! We set out to recap the year, and ended up talking about how Ilana ruined the surprise trip, little moments that brought us joy, and what our marriage actually feels like day to day. We answer listener questions about what the first year of marriage has really looked like, what we do and don't remember from our wedding, what our plans are for what's...
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I’m joined by therapist Annie Josephson, PsyD, MSEd, Founder of Uptown Psychology to talk about why dating make us so anxious, even when it’s going well. We discuss why it shows up, how to manage it, and how to tell the difference between fear and intuition. We also answer listener questions about spiraling after dates, ghosting before anything starts, and feeling stuck in situationships. Subscribe to our Patreon show ⁠Cohosts for...
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May 29, 2025 70 mins
TW: This episode my be triggering to those with sensitivities around physical and emotional abuse. I’m joined by Ryan Spencer, who I met on the Tamron Hall Show, for a powerful conversation about healing, heartbreak, and holding out hope for love. Ryan opens up about leaving an abusive relationship, the strength it took to start over, and the frustration of wanting love so badly after doing the work—therapy, growth, reflection—and ...
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This week, I’m joined by Syd Miller , founder of the fitness brand Housework. Syd shares how a breakup at 30, right when all her friends were getting engaged, became the catalyst for the best years of her life. We talk about how she built her brand from scratch, makes friends IRL, and navigates friendship shifts in different life stages. Most importantly, Syd shares how she’s created a full life that doesn’t need someone to complet...
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May 22, 2025 60 mins
TW: This episode includes discussion of sexual assault. This week, I’m joined by Meg Reynolds (@meg_reynoldss), host of Not the Girl Next Door (@notthegirlnextdoorpodcast), for a real conversation about healing after a hard relationship. We talk about relationship PTSD, rebuilding self-worth, why healing can take way longer than you expect, and how to stop shrinking yourself to be loved. If you’ve ever felt stuck, triggered, or lik...
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Jen Glantz (@jenglantz) has stood beside hundreds of brides—literally. As the founder of Bridesmaid for Hire and author of three books, she’s seen everything from dream weddings to full-on meltdowns. In this episode, she opens up about her own love story, what finally made her feel ready to say “I do,” and why she and her husband chose to elope after living out of suitcases and hopping cities. We get into the messy, emotional side ...
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Ilana is joined by Human Design expert and author Erin Claire Jones (@erinclairejones) to break down how understanding your unique design can shift the way you date, connect, and make decisions in love. Erin explains what Human Design is, how it compares to tools like astrology or the Enneagram, and how your chart reveals insights into your relationship patterns and emotional wiring. They talk about the five Human Design types and ...
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In this episode, Jake plays cohost as we’re joined by comedian and podcast host Jared Freid—someone who’s played an unexpectedly big role in our relationship. From being mentioned on our very first date to inspiring parts of our vows, Jared has been part of our love story from day one. We talk about the grind of building a show, what Jake has learned from Jared, and what it feels like to open a DM from a listener. We dive into a l...
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I’m joined by Melissa Fitch and Michelle Unger, the BFF duo behind The M Take pod. They’re both married to their long-time loves (a college boyfriend and a high school sweetheart!) and navigating motherhood, partnership, and friendship together. We dive into what they wish they talked about before getting married or pregnant, and how becoming parents at different times affected their friendship. Melissa opens up about feeling disco...
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