Finding the Guardian of Your Soul

Finding the Guardian of Your Soul

Listen, as love coach and heart-opening expert, Lisa Shield, shares the revolutionary approach she gives her successful female clients to attract an amazing partner who is on their level and wants to enjoy everything life has to offer with them. Lisa and her husband, Benjamin Shield Ph.D., have been passionately in love for 19 years. Every Tuesday DWD offers Getting Inside the RIGHT Male Mind, where the two of them bust common dating myths, give you a window into their unconditionally loving relationship, and show you how to attract a Guardian of Your Soul for the rest of your life. Thursday episodes, Lisa explores topics, and answers those burning q's from listeners longing to become emotionally naked daters! Book a Call With Lisa - Www.Lisashield.com/apply

Episodes

September 26, 2023 50 mins

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

- Dr. Fan's background, experiences, and achievements in the field of plastic surgery.

- Factors to consider when deciding to undergo a procedure, such as personal concerns and desires

- The importance of safety and understanding potential risks associated with surgery, especially for older individuals

- Recovery process and common side effects of procedures

- The significance of realistic expectations ...

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What You'll Hear In This Episode:

- The symbiotic relationship between masculinity and femininity, and how they bring out the best in each other

- The misconception that simply dressing up and waiting for the "right guy" is enough to feel feminine

- Learning how to make a man's world bigger by supporting his dreams and aspirations

- The tendency to build walls and become less open with age and negative experiences

- The shifting of focu...

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What You'll Hear In This Episode:

- The use of AI in online dating and its impact on profile verification and safety measures

- The need for background checks and spotting inconsistencies in online profiles

- The excitement and fear surrounding the use of AI in dating

- Difficulty in distinguishing between AI-generated and human-created content

- The prevalence and dangers of scammers using AI to create fake profiles

- Possibility of AI ...

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September 5, 2023 36 mins

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

- About Lisa Y, a divorced mom and lawyer who is used to taking care of her kids and had rarely invested in herself before Lisa Shield’s program.

- About her desire for change and not wanting to have regrets in the future

- How she prioritized coaching calls in a commitment to invest time, finances, hopes and dreams into the program

- How she met Steve, what she found in him, and what he found in her 

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What You'll Hear In This Episode:

- Discussion of attachment theory and its influence on partner choice

- Highlighting the volatility and toxicity of relationships with anxious-avoidant attachments

- Realization that chemical attraction isn't the best foundation for a relationship

- Understanding the need to find different ways to connect with potential partners

- Exploration of managing one's own anxiety and building secure attachments

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What You'll Hear In This Episode:

  • Challenging Beauty Standards: Lisa shares her experiences and observations in the fashion industry and how beauty can be both a blessing and a curse.
  • The Importance of Personality: Benjamin and Lisa empahsize the significance of developing one's personality and engaging with others in a healthy way, rather than relying solely on physical appearance.
  • Beyond Superficiality: The episode delves into t...
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What You'll Hear In This Episode:

  • How men are not mind readers, and communication is key.
  • Why women should express their needs and desires to their partners, despite conflicting messages
  • The importance of expressing appreciation and guiding each other to be a partners in each others’ life
  • How to let a partner know their importance and suggest ways they can contribute
  • Personal experiences and the importance of expressing needs for a ...
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What You'll Hear In This Episode:

  • AI technology is revolutionizing online dating by enhancing user safety and security, detecting fraudulent profiles, and improving overall user experience.
  • The rise of AI-generated fake profiles and content highlights the importance of AI technology in helping users identify and avoid scams online.
  • Advancements in AI technology on dating sites, such as chatbots and voice assistants, will facilitat...
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What You'll Hear In This Episode:

  • What does it really mean to be “emotionally naked”?
  • In the same way we get physically naked, we don’t get emotionally naked at all once. It should come off slowly, and piece by piece.
  • Being fearlessly authentic doesn’t mean dumping on the person, nor does it mean too much too soon.
  • Fearlessly authentic means being fearless and not oversharing.
  • There’s a sense of responsibility and emotional maturity...
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What You'll Hear In This Episode:

  • Men are just as sensitive as women and have needs like women. 
  • The more we can understand each other, the better our relationships will be. 
  • Would a man rather feel alone and unloved or respected? The answer may surprise you. 
  • Most men equate respect with love, so when they feel disrespected, they feel unloved. 
  • Respect is the single most important thing a woman can give a man. 
  • Are you creating a sa...
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What You'll Hear In This Episode:

  • Building a lasting relationship requires establishing an authentic and emotional connection with a man.
  • What happens when you rush in and push the love part without first establishing a deep friendship? 
  • Great sex alone will not deepen the emotional connection with a man; it is the emotional bond that leads to better intimacy.
  • Rushing into a physical relationship without a solid foundation of frien...
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What You'll Hear In This Episode:

  • The importance of being present and genuine on a date, especially the first one. 
  • Men love when a woman can foster a lighthearted and playful atmosphere to create a comfortable space for both individuals.
  • How to build trust and establish a sense of safety through humor and playfulness.
  • Men look for the green flag of a woman who enhances and enriches a man's life.
  • Men that are looking for a deep emot...
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What You'll Hear In This Episode:

  • Both men and women struggle to understand each other in the dating world, but integrating knowledge about male-female differences can hep you bring more compassion to your dates and make deeper emotional connections.
  • Double Standards in breakups, appearance, and expectations regarding who pays for what. 
  • Understanding why men are the way they are can be a game changer.
  • The different reactions to se...
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June 27, 2023 38 mins

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

  •  At 63, Meranda reminds us that age should never hinder a rewarding relationship.
  • If a busy woman like Meranda can attend the discovery call on her birthday. You can find time too! 
  • Meranda's advice for making the most significant investment in yourself and finally committing yourself without wavering back and forth. 
  • What changed in dating once she began to work with Lisa? 
  • How Meranda met her curr...
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What You'll Hear In This Episode:

  • What are the two main reasons that we tend to self-sabotage?
  • Rejection is sometimes painful and scary, so how do we move forward and put ourselves out there?
  • What about if you're scared to get what you want and that you'll mess it up? 
  • What to do if the men you desire aren't attracted back to you, and that is a consistent pattern.  
  • The importance of who you surround yourself with and not partaking ...
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What You'll Hear In This Episode:

  • Avoid a checklist-like approach when observing a man's emotional availability. 
  • Consider these questions as a loose guideline, rather than a mission to interview or interrogate the man. 
  • Men sometimes need a little longer to think and process, so allow time for reflection when asking deeper questions.
  • You can also tell by the quality of the answer if he's processing or deflecting. 
  • When you share so...
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June 6, 2023 37 mins

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

  •  Remember, there's no right or wrong. There's just what feels good to you. 
  • One big issue for men is the value they place on their independence and freedom. If a woman pays for everything and brags about her big, rich life, he may think he will be living her life. 
  • Setting a precedent early on that you are willing to pay for everything will set the tone for the relationship moving forward. 
  • Women f...
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May 30, 2023 56 mins

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

  • Nice guys are the opposite of love bombers, but they still may not be great - why is that? 
  • Why are nice guys constantly walking on eggshells? 
  • How nice guys are different from other guys. 
  • The ways nice guys can be calculating and manipulative. 
  • How do you know if a man is truly compassionate and kind, or if it's an act? 
  • Spending time with secure and grounded men can often feel boring because there...
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What You'll Hear In This Episode:

  • What motivates people to stay in relationships? One thing is that the fear of being alone can cause some people to remain in a relationship, even if it's not fulfilling.
  • Others may not realize their negative or critical behavior hurts the relationship and may think they're offering constructive criticism.
  • Discover how to communicate with men in a way that promotes a safe and open dialogue.
  • Lisa and...
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May 16, 2023 58 mins

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

  • Lisa used the one phrase that caught Patricia's attention like nothing else. 
  • Patricia had done a ton of inner work, but she was feeling frustrated that despite how hard she worked on herself, none of that "work" translated to luck in dating, a familiar feeling for many successful and intelligent women Lisa coaches. 
  • Patricia gives insight into the significant breakthrough she had where she fully ...
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