Dating Without Drama

Dating Without Drama

Listen, as love coach and heart-opening expert, Lisa Shield, shares the revolutionary approach she gives her successful female clients to attract an amazing partner who is on their level and wants to enjoy everything life has to offer with them. Lisa and her husband, Benjamin Shield Ph.D., have been passionately in love for 19 years. Every Tuesday DWD offers Getting Inside the RIGHT Male Mind, where the two of them bust common dating myths, give you a window into their unconditionally loving relationship, and show you how to attract a Guardian of Your Soul for the rest of your life. Thursday episodes, Lisa explores topics, and answers those burning q's from listeners longing to become emotionally naked daters! Book a Call With Lisa - Www.Lisashield.com/apply

Episodes

August 11, 2022 24 min

What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • How having a roadmap can help lead you to answer the age old question, “where are all the good men at?!”
  • Most people are like teenagers when it comes to dating.
  • Why being accomplished, attractive, and available isn’t enough for finding love, based in respect and friendship. 
  • Lisa talks about how she gained the emotional maturity she needed in order to find the mature love she wanted.
  • What is the cost of...
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  • Why shame is one of the worst things a man can feel. 
  • Men want to be a woman’s hero, and when it’s mirrored back to them that it’s not happening, they feel like total failures. 
  • Why shame for men and fear for women can be such big driving emotions. 
  • From breathing to posture, how does a man shut down when asked to process?
  • How working with Lisa and Benjamin can help you get to more connection, compassio...
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    What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • Why are men on the market so quickly after losing a partner?
  • What is toxic masculinity and is it showing up in my relationships and dating?
  • What do I do if I think the guy I’m seeing is using me as a crutch/rebound?
  • But won’t he love me more if I’m there to help him deal with his trauma?
  • Should I invest in a man straight off a divorce, going through a divorce, or someone who’s newly widowed?
  • How can our ...
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  • Feeling chemistry is great, but that doesn’t mean it’s the foundation for a healthy relationship or partnership. 
  • Lisa and Benjamin both give examples of times they rushed into relationships and the lessons it taught them. 
  • If you are a woman of child bearing years that doesn’t want to waste your time, finding a top notch coach like Lisa and Benjamin will literally change your life.
  • Why do men tend to ...
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    July 26, 2022 23 min

    What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • Lisa talks about the difference in how she used to receive criticism, and the way she receives it today.
  • How you can become more confident with your stronger qualities, and the things you struggle with as well.
  • Nobody is perfect, and that should make you feel better about embracing who you are as an authentic, flawed, but beautiful human.
  • Lisa talks about seeing the qualities from her father in herself...
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    July 21, 2022 37 min

    What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • What does a Dating Coach say when guys ask them what line of work they’re in? 
  • How does Cassie’s job differ now then when she was in charge of a classroom as a teacher? 
  • Men are so afraid of being rejected and… so are women!
  • Why it’s so important to stop making up stories about attractive people. They truly are just like everybody else.  
  • One response can either draw a man closer or push him away. 
  • What ...
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    July 19, 2022 20 min

    What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • The most popular dating app is Tinder. But can you really find love on it? 
  • How do you determine which dating app is right for you? 
  • Some ways to make the most of your experience, no matter what app you are on. 
  • The importance of not telling yourself a story about one site being “good” and the others being “bad”. 
  • The app experience can be very different depending on what city or part of the country you...
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    July 14, 2022 26 min

    What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • Rules are somewhat arbitrary and they often come from our head, rather than our soul. 
  • Rules can be separating and repel people. They can be black and white, while a boundary is about communicating what matters to you in a way that gives someone the choice to respect it.
  • Lisa gives an example of how Benjamin asked Lisa (nicely!) if she could change her tone, and how that was an example of him setting ...
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    July 12, 2022 22 min

    What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • Part of being an empowered and powerful woman is looking for what we can do to create a space for men to feel safe. 
  • Lisa explains how the labels we put on men as constantly being emotionally unavailable actually give our power away.
  • We have a tremendous capacity and a gift for being able to draw out the best in men. 
  • How do we create that safe space for a man? 
  • If you tell him to be honest, you must be...
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    What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • Our core values are what make up the matrix of our being. They are deeper than just thoughts or opinions, and our core values typically don’t change with the wind. 
  • It takes effort, but it is possible to navigate to the goodness of the person and see that both people are usually trying to do what they think is good for the world. 
  • Yes, it is very, very difficult for two people who have diverging core ...
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    July 5, 2022 35 min

    What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • What is a boundary, and how do you know what your boundaries are? 
  • What to do when someone keeps testing or not respecting your boundary. 
  • Boundaries are not a one size fits all thing, and we have to learn how to communicate what ours are in a relationship. 
  • Men don’t like being told what to do (especially from women) so how do you tell him your boundary in a firm but loving manner? 
  • Don’t forget! Bound...
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    What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • Annette talks about what held her back from originally signing up with Lisa, and why she decided to go all in. 
  • What made working with Lisa and Benjamin different for Annette compared to all the other self growth programs she has done? 
  • The characteristics and qualities we expect from a man, we have to embody first. 
  • What made sharing within the group of other strong, badass women so powerful for Annet...
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  • Laurie watched Lunch with Lisa for a few months - what made her decide to take action and sign up for coaching, and what are the ways it paid off? 
  • Laurie’s training as a therapist allowed her to be fully aware and conscious through the process, making her a quick and agile learner. 
  • How did Laurie’s profile stand out to Jim and what set her apart from other women? 
  • Jim talks about the year-long break ...
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    What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • Find out the two different types of exclusive relationships: monogamous and progressive dating.
  • How working with Lisa and Benjamin can help you focus on getting into a progressive relationship and find a partner who is ready to get Emotionally Naked with you.
  • What are the consequences of being in a monogamous relationship for someone with an anxious attachment style? 
  • How can you tell if the person you...
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    What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • What is your “frenemy” voice, and how is it holding you back? 
  • How to silence your inner critic and turn down that critical, judgemental voice. 
  • It takes time to integrate new behaviors that align yourself with your joy, but ooh boy, is it worth it!
  • When we're hard on ourselves, we also tend to be hard on others.
  • Men can pick up on if we are radiating joy and happiness, and can also sense when we fe...
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    What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • What does it look like from the male perspective when you’re constantly seeking reassurance? 
  • The more he feels like he’s walking on eggshells around you, the less he feels like he is the man who can truly make you happy and that is the kiss of death for any relationship. 
  • Men resent feeling manipulated or controlled by a woman. 
  • The more you need reassurance, the more he will feel like he’s doing some...
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    What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • Embracing our sexuality and sensuality at any age is beautiful and powerful. 
  • Who is Dawn Cartwright, and why does Lisa love her so much? 
  • Dawn talks about Tantra, and how it can be a way to explore our own sensuality with ourselves and our partner(s). 
  • What does it really look and feel like for a woman to be in her body?
  • Lisa shares how she starts to notice when she’s living too much in her head and di...
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    What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • As a go-getter, Diane plays big and at the highest level in everything she does. How did she know that working with Lisa and Benjamin was a match? 
  • How did Lisa’s program differ from the (very expensive) matchmaking programs she did before? 
  • Working on yourself is an investment of time, energy, and money. Diane explains why it’s worth it and how it’s trickled over to making her a better version of her...
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    What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • Ghosting happens, even to the best of us. However, it’s important to remember that you are still in control of your reactions and how you handle it. 
  • Even though getting ghosted can feel super disappointing, a lot of men disappear because they are afraid the relationship is moving too fast and they don’t want to anger or upset a woman by telling her that he doesn’t see it moving forward. 
  • Why do men s...
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    What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • Is respect really that important to a man? Why? 
  • Women crave love and being cherished, while men crave being respected and admired. 
  • What if he’s not the perfect male specimen? How can I compliment his looks? 
  • Society makes it seem like men don’t need admiration or praise when it couldn’t be further from the truth.
  • What happens when a man doesn’t feel respected in a relationship? 
  • If you mirror back to h...
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