Finding the Guardian of Your Soul

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

- The symbiotic relationship between masculinity and femininity, and how they bring out the best in each other

- The misconception that simply dressing up and waiting for the "right guy" is enough to feel feminine

- Learning how to make a man's world bigger by supporting his dreams and aspirations

- The tendency to build walls and become less open with age and negative experiences

- The shifting of focu...

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

- The use of AI in online dating and its impact on profile verification and safety measures

- The need for background checks and spotting inconsistencies in online profiles

- The excitement and fear surrounding the use of AI in dating

- Difficulty in distinguishing between AI-generated and human-created content

- The prevalence and dangers of scammers using AI to create fake profiles

- Possibility of AI ...

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

- About Lisa Y, a divorced mom and lawyer who is used to taking care of her kids and had rarely invested in herself before Lisa Shield’s program.

- About her desire for change and not wanting to have regrets in the future

- How she prioritized coaching calls in a commitment to invest time, finances, hopes and dreams into the program

- How she met Steve, what she found in him, and what he found in her 

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What You'll Hear In This Episode:

- Discussion of attachment theory and its influence on partner choice

- Highlighting the volatility and toxicity of relationships with anxious-avoidant attachments

- Realization that chemical attraction isn't the best foundation for a relationship

- Understanding the need to find different ways to connect with potential partners

- Exploration of managing one's own anxiety and building secure attachments

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What You'll Hear In This Episode:

• Challenging Beauty Standards: Lisa shares her experiences and observations in the fashion industry and how beauty can be both a blessing and a curse.
• The Importance of Personality: Benjamin and Lisa empahsize the significance of developing one's personality and engaging with others in a healthy way, rather than relying solely on physical appearance.
• Beyond Superficiality: The episode delves into t...

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

• How men are not mind readers, and communication is key.
• Why women should express their needs and desires to their partners, despite conflicting messages
• The importance of expressing appreciation and guiding each other to be a partners in each others’ life
• How to let a partner know their importance and suggest ways they can contribute
• Personal experiences and the importance of expressing needs for a ...

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

• AI technology is revolutionizing online dating by enhancing user safety and security, detecting fraudulent profiles, and improving overall user experience.
• The rise of AI-generated fake profiles and content highlights the importance of AI technology in helping users identify and avoid scams online.
• Advancements in AI technology on dating sites, such as chatbots and voice assistants, will facilitat...

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

• What does it really mean to be “emotionally naked”?
• In the same way we get physically naked, we don’t get emotionally naked at all once. It should come off slowly, and piece by piece.
• Being fearlessly authentic doesn’t mean dumping on the person, nor does it mean too much too soon.
• Fearlessly authentic means being fearless and not oversharing.
• There’s a sense of responsibility and emotional maturity...

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

• Men are just as sensitive as women and have needs like women. 
• The more we can understand each other, the better our relationships will be. 
• Would a man rather feel alone and unloved or respected? The answer may surprise you. 
• Most men equate respect with love, so when they feel disrespected, they feel unloved. 
• Respect is the single most important thing a woman can give a man. 
• Are you creating a sa...

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

• Building a lasting relationship requires establishing an authentic and emotional connection with a man.
• What happens when you rush in and push the love part without first establishing a deep friendship? 
• Great sex alone will not deepen the emotional connection with a man; it is the emotional bond that leads to better intimacy.
• Rushing into a physical relationship without a solid foundation of frien...

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

• The importance of being present and genuine on a date, especially the first one. 
• Men love when a woman can foster a lighthearted and playful atmosphere to create a comfortable space for both individuals.
• How to build trust and establish a sense of safety through humor and playfulness.
• Men look for the green flag of a woman who enhances and enriches a man's life.
• Men that are looking for a deep emot...

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

• Both men and women struggle to understand each other in the dating world, but integrating knowledge about male-female differences can hep you bring more compassion to your dates and make deeper emotional connections.
• Double Standards in breakups, appearance, and expectations regarding who pays for what. 
• Understanding why men are the way they are can be a game changer.
• The different reactions to se...

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

•  At 63, Meranda reminds us that age should never hinder a rewarding relationship.
• If a busy woman like Meranda can attend the discovery call on her birthday. You can find time too! 
• Meranda's advice for making the most significant investment in yourself and finally committing yourself without wavering back and forth. 
• What changed in dating once she began to work with Lisa? 
• How Meranda met her curr...

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

• What are the two main reasons that we tend to self-sabotage?
• Rejection is sometimes painful and scary, so how do we move forward and put ourselves out there?
• What about if you're scared to get what you want and that you'll mess it up? 
• What to do if the men you desire aren't attracted back to you, and that is a consistent pattern.  
• The importance of who you surround yourself with and not partaking ...

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

• Avoid a checklist-like approach when observing a man's emotional availability. 
• Consider these questions as a loose guideline, rather than a mission to interview or interrogate the man. 
• Men sometimes need a little longer to think and process, so allow time for reflection when asking deeper questions.
• You can also tell by the quality of the answer if he's processing or deflecting. 
• When you share so...

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

•  Remember, there's no right or wrong. There's just what feels good to you. 
• One big issue for men is the value they place on their independence and freedom. If a woman pays for everything and brags about her big, rich life, he may think he will be living her life. 
• Setting a precedent early on that you are willing to pay for everything will set the tone for the relationship moving forward. 
• Women f...

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

• Nice guys are the opposite of love bombers, but they still may not be great - why is that? 
• Why are nice guys constantly walking on eggshells? 
• How nice guys are different from other guys. 
• The ways nice guys can be calculating and manipulative. 
• How do you know if a man is truly compassionate and kind, or if it's an act? 
• Spending time with secure and grounded men can often feel boring because there...

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

• What motivates people to stay in relationships? One thing is that the fear of being alone can cause some people to remain in a relationship, even if it's not fulfilling.
• Others may not realize their negative or critical behavior hurts the relationship and may think they're offering constructive criticism.
• Discover how to communicate with men in a way that promotes a safe and open dialogue.
• Lisa and...

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

• Lisa used the one phrase that caught Patricia's attention like nothing else. 
• Patricia had done a ton of inner work, but she was feeling frustrated that despite how hard she worked on herself, none of that "work" translated to luck in dating, a familiar feeling for many successful and intelligent women Lisa coaches. 
• Patricia gives insight into the significant breakthrough she had where she fully ...