DD That's Deep: Men Shouldn't Pay A Woman's Bills

Should a man really bear the full burden of paying the bills in a relationship? Today, I'm shaking the table with a hot take that challenges this traditional notion. We're getting real about financial responsibility and compatibility, and why each person should be able to sustain their own lifestyle. It's about stripping away the expectations and fostering a partnership where both parties are equal contributors, whether it's rent, mortgages, or personal care expenses. By drawing inspiration from Genesis 2:18, we're discussing the significance of finding a helpmate who matches your own responsibility level to shape a thriving union.

This episode is a bold call to action for anyone playing the dating game or striving for a balanced relationship. It's a candid conversation around the importance of letting go of partners who display early signs of financial dependency - a move that ultimately empowers both individuals. We're envisioning a world where power couples are the norm, built on the sacred trait of responsibility. If you're ready to create a bond where both of you are proactive contributors, eager to build an empire together, this is the listen for you. Tune in for insights that aim to empower and elevate your partnership to the next level.

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to the DD Sedeora Jaye Show.
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Now here is DD Sedeora Jayewith a dose of DD.
That's deep.

Speaker 2 (00:18):
A man should not be paying bills.
If a person shows signs withinthe first five months of dating
they are incapable of coveringtheir own lifestyle, which
include rent, mortgage, basicbills and personal care.

(00:38):
Let that person go to cultivateinto a responsible adult who
can one day become a helpmate toanother human being.
Genesis two, verse one.
And the Lord God said it is notgood that man should be alone.
I will make him a helpercomparable to him.

(01:02):
Did you hear that?
He said I will make him ahelper comparable to him, a
person of equal balance, ofequivalent quality, worthy of
comparison and close andlikeness.
The lifestyle of both partiesshould contain similarities.

(01:24):
Both parties should thencombine their attributes to form
a power couple.
A man does not seek a burden.
A man seeks a helpmate.
A helpmate helps to build anempire, not empty the resources

(01:46):
of their counterpart.
A man disperses his resourcesto a partner with the sacred
trait of responsibility.
A responsible person ispowerful.
They can manage the day to dayoperations of a growing empire,

(02:06):
even if that empire is ahousehold.
A good helpmate is proactive inidentifying and addressing
problems, not becoming a problemor a burden within the first
five months of courtship.
If a person shows signs withinthe first five months of dating.

(02:30):
They are incapable of coveringtheir own lifestyle to include
rent, mortgage, basic bills andpersonal care.
Let that person go to cultivateand to a responsible adult who
can one day become a helpmate toanother human being.