Dead Mom Scavenger Hunt

Two decades of marriage has taught us that every couple creates their own unique contract, with different rules, boundaries, and arrangements that work specifically for them. We explore what makes marriages last and how to navigate the complexities of sharing your life with another person.

• Identifying deal breakers early in the relationship creates clear boundaries
• Having separate finances can eliminate major sourc...

We've decided to visit Maine for our next scavenger hunt adventure instead of our original plans for London or Italy. Neither of us has ever been to Maine, but we're excited for lobster rolls, amazing chowder, and exploring destinations like Portland and Ogunquit.

• Using an Alaska credit card companion fare to travel as far as possible while staying in the U.S.
• Planning the trip for late October/early Nove...

We're back after a short hiatus due to life commitments, travel plans, and some social media frustrations that temporarily derailed our recording schedule. We dive into the complexities of Mother's Day and how it affects people differently depending on their relationship with motherhood.

• Breaking down why Mother's Day is more complicated than just celebrating mothers
• Examining whether wishing "H...

From floating among glacier ice chunks to soaring down North America's longest zipline, our Alaskan adventure delivered one extraordinary experience after another. The majesty of the Hubbard Glacier left us speechless as we kayaked through what our guide described as "a giant margarita" of floating ice, witnessing the thunderous calving of ice chunks into the crystal-clear waters. Though we missed our kayak excursion...

The Alaskan adventure contiinues as we fulfill Bonnie's last wishes by spending time together & processing grief in our own unconventional way.

• Boarding a small, luxury Seabourn cruise ship in Vancouver after spending the night at Pan Pacific Hotel
• Experiencing an unexpected customs incident where Christmas's sentimental pocket knife is confiscated
• Coining the phrase "Dead Mom Scavenger Hun...

Where we discover we both like to read different things and aren't fans of book clubs, but decide to start one anyway:

• Discussing our reluctance about traditional book clubs 
• Establishing a 100-page rule to skip boring books 
• Sharing recommendations and personal tastes in books 

These book club episodes will be available only on our Patreon so join us over there for all the conversations where w...

Mouth tape is gaining popularity as a unique and practical solution for reducing snoring and improving sleep quality. We share personal experiences, testimonials, and dive into the reasons why this unconventional method is worth trying for anyone struggling with sleep disturbances.

• Exploration of mouth tape as a solution for snoring  
• Discussion of personal experiences and testimonials  
• Consideration of safe...

This episode explores the complexities of end-of-life choices, focusing on Bonnie's journey with terminal illness and her decision to pursue a dignified death. We explore the emotional terrain around the right to die, the role of doulas, and the importance of open conversations about death.

• Sharing the journey of a mother diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis 
• Discussing the implications of California's End o...

Ever been haunted by the creepy-crawlies of your childhood? We’ve turned our fears into fodder for fun stories, starting with an earwig encounter that spiraled into a lifelong moth aversion. Get ready to laugh along with our Bodega Bay camping tale, where moth earrings serve as a symbol of irony and acceptance. You'll hear how a cousin's story inspired quirky nighttime rituals like covering our ears with hair, and how a m...

We tackle the topic of how to recognize and celebrate people and experiences without relying on the phrase "shout out." The episode explores creative alternatives to express gratitude and includes personal anecdotes and insights into the evolution of podcast recognition language.

• Reflecting on the frequent use of "shout out" 
• Exploring playful alternatives for recognition 
• The great alcoho...

This episode is an intro into what a dead mom scavenger hunt even is and helps describe how we plan to honor Bonnie's legacy while reflecting on the beauty of friendship and family amidst loss.

• Discussing Bonnie's influential role in our lives 
• Delving into Bonnie's illness and her final wishes 
• The emotional blackmail that sparked the scavenger hunt 
• Highlights from our memorable Alaska ...