September 30, 2025 • 17 mins
Tired of your January budget falling apart by October? You’re not alone—and you’re not failing at money. Most family budgets fail because they aren’t built to survive real life.
In this episode, I break down the main reasons budgets fail, including overcomplicating, not updating regularly, skipping fun money, and lacking accountability.
I’ll show you how to create a flexible, value-based zero-based budget that evolves with your family, helps you stop living paycheck to paycheck, and reduces money fights along the way.
Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:
Why your budget from January isn’t working in October
How overcomplicating your budget sets you up to fail
The importance of updating your budget regularly
How guilt-free fun money prevents budget burnout
Simple ways to build accountability for long-term success
How to reset your budget without stress or overwhelm
I also share personal insights from my journey eliminating over $107,000 in consumer debt and how my family’s system keeps our money aligned with what truly matters.
Resources & Tools Mentioned in This Episode:
Debt Rebel Starter Kit: Create a flexible, step-by-step budget that evolves with your life. Grab it here → DebtRebelPodcast.com
Send me a voice note with your budgeting struggles → SpeakPipe: Debt Rebel Podcast
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(00:00):
The budget that maybe you made in January, maybe that was one
of your New Year's goals. And you're like, I'm going to do
this. This is the year I get my
financial stuff together. And it just didn't happen,
right? Because life gets in the way.
And the one thing I have learnedin this whole process of
budgeting of over all a months and all the years that I have
done this trial and error, is the budget you made last month
(00:21):
is going to be different than the one you made this month.
Hey there, I'm Jules the budget nerd and welcome to the Debt
Rebel show. This is the place where working
families like yours learn how tostop living paycheck to
paycheck, crush debt for good, and build a life where money
actually works for your family. In about 15 minutes, I'll share
practical family budgeting tips,tough love strategies, and
(00:43):
actionable steps to move toward debt free living without the
fluff, the shame, or the confusion.
And I know a thing or two about this.
My family and I have eliminated over $107,000 in consumer debt.
And that was after I got my degree in economics.
So stay tuned. This is going to be a great
episode. So grab that coffee, your
(01:03):
planner, whatever you need to make this a great experience,
maybe a snack if you're like me.And let's make your money work
for your family. All right, hello and welcome
today's episode. Why budgets don't survive past
October or why the budget you tried to create in January is a
complete bust. OK, so let's just let's just get
(01:26):
right to it. Most budgets that you make in
January are completely shot by October.
And let me tell you why, becausereal life got in the way.
And one thing that I have learned in the I don't even know
how many months I've created budgets, I'm including one that
I forgot. I think that's episode 38 where
I actually, since I teach peoplehow to make budgets and I
(01:48):
actually forgot to make a budgetone month using the system that
I've created. They didn't go back into debt.
So check that episode out, episode 38.
But the budget that maybe you made in January, maybe that was
one of your New Year's goals. And you're like, I'm going to do
this. This is the year I get my
financial stuff together. And it just didn't happen,
right? Because life gets in the way.
(02:09):
And the one thing I have learnedin this whole process of
budgeting of over all the monthsand all the years that I have
done this trial and error is thebudget you made last month is
going to be different than the one you made this month and vice
versa. Like every single month is going
to be different. Your budget last year at this
time is going to be different because different things matter
(02:30):
to your family as the months andthe years go by.
So our priorities change. Things shift for us.
Sometimes we have things like those surprise car repairs we
have, we have birthday celebrations that we want to do
for our kids. We have school fees.
We have, you know, holiday travels coming up, like all of
these things come in and that's all real life stuff.
(02:51):
So one of the things that I loveteaching is what is most
important to you this month. And that's why I teach a value
based 0 based budget because youmake a plan for your money now
for the month that you're we're going into and you're going to
be more likely to succeed at your budget.
But there are some things that we do in that process.
(03:12):
I'm going to go over those today.
But I want you to hear me say you are not bad with money, OK?
So we kind of can get in these thought processes where we're
like, man, I'm just not going tomake a budget because I'm just
really bad with money. So I want to call BS on that.
And that's not true. That is a lie.
So let's reframe that today. And because your budget that you
(03:34):
might have made that you are having a hard time following or
maybe you've tried it before andyou're like, I'm not doing it.
It wasn't made to survive real life and raising kids and just
the day-to-day stuff that can come up with our money.
And so I want to talk about somemain points today of why those
things don't happen for us, why we can't, we feel like we can't
(03:56):
stick to a budget and why like here we are in October and maybe
it's, you know, you, you've created 1:00 earlier this year
and you're like, OK, this is it.And it just life happens.
So one thing is we overcomplicate it.
This is an area that we, it's really our budget is spending
the money that we make, nothing more and nothing less.
(04:17):
So we can get into these cycles where we overcomplicate things
and it has to look a certain way.
We focus on percentages, know wewant to make sure that our
housing is this percentage. I those are great guidelines to
help you see where you compare, but I also think comparison is a
awful place to get to when it comes to your budget.
(04:39):
But the other thing is when it comes to those percentages or
maybe it, you know, it needs, you want to have all these like
huge breakdowns of things is if we're overcomplicating it for
ourselves, then we're not not going to we're not going to
follow it. I do for my personal budget, I
do create extra categories and that's because if I don't put
those in there, I'll forget them.
(04:59):
And so that just keeps it friendof mine.
But I just skim through those when it's not something for that
month. So when we over complicate it,
that's when we can overwhelm ourselves.
We want a budget that will fit your lifestyle and not look
like, you know, a finance textbook.
That's like, OK, you need 35% ofyour income is going to go to
housing. Well, you know what, if you're
(05:21):
in a season of life where you'resome of those expenses are going
to be higher, but that is a something that you've decided as
a family, then that's what you do.
Maybe you know, you're focused on food right now because your
family is is growing. Your family is focused on health
and we need to spend, we need tospend money on groceries and
(05:43):
feeding our family. All right, the next one is we
can get into a routine where we're not updating our budgets
regularly. So when you make that budget in
January, your life looks very different in October than it did
in January, am I right? So think about what the new year
hit and you're like, okay, theseare the things that are
important to us now. And you know what, things are
(06:06):
very different now because maybeyou know, your kids false sports
season started or a medical billcomes up.
Or can we talk about gas prices,something that's out of our
control, but it affects us, right?
So and we don't make adjustmentsfor that.
So for instance, with the gas prices, we're going to have to
increase our gas budget. If you're driving the same
amount as you were in January and you're driving that same
(06:28):
amount in October, but gas prices went up, then you're
going to have to allocate some more of your paycheck to gas for
getting to and from work in thatOctober budget.
So that kind of that goes to whyI thought when we don't update,
when we don't update our budget regularly, one of the reasons
why it fails is we're just usingoutdated numbers.
(06:50):
So maybe you set a timer for yourself and you're just like,
hey, you know what, 10 minutes, I'm going to it's a reoccurring
appointment. If you're part of the alliance
coaching program, we do this as a community and you just spend a
few minutes looking over your budget and to say, hey, does
this look realistic for what life is right now?
So remember that your budget is not a museum artifact.
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It is something that's changing and evolving and growing at all
times. So just because you started it
out one way the beginning of theyear doesn't mean that it needs
to stay that way. And it needs to be super rigid.
You need to be able to go with the flow.
The next is no fun. Money is built in.
OK, so this is a really big one for my self and our family.
And this right here has cut downon our money fights or our money
(07:38):
discussions. Like it was almost overnight
that this that implementing thiseliminated a lot of those are we
still talk about money, but it is not as heated and as
emotional as it used to be. And So what is fun money?
OK, so I have clients that call it all kinds of things like ball
out money. You know, it's, you know, it's
it's Karen's coffee fund, whatever you want to call it.
(08:01):
It is money that is yours to decide what you do with if you
are managing your finances with a spouse and then you agree on
all of those spending categoriestogether, except for you each
have your broke out fund money. So that could be a line item in
your budget that you each get and the other person can't say
anything about it. So for instance, so my husband
(08:23):
and I, we each have our fun money.
He can spend his however he wants to.
And I cannot say a thing about it if I think he's being
wasteful or like, why did you buy that it?
I can think God in my head all Iwant.
I cannot say it out loud, right?So that cuts down on a huge
amount of our money, our money. But what is it?
(08:44):
Misalignments or disagreements? Because we aren't having those
conversations anymore if that's the thing that we can control.
And we have, you know, looked atour overall income and said this
is the amount that is going to be OK for us to spend without.
We don't have to check in with each other about it.
It's already a mutually agreed upon when we set our budget for
(09:04):
the month. And it also doesn't put us in
like a financial prison. So it's not like we can't go out
and do fun things and enjoy our life and have a coffee.
The thing is, it's not about restriction.
And that's where this fund moneycomes in.
Now you don't want it to be, youknow, 75% of your budget if
you're in debt and you're, you know, trying to make some
(09:25):
progress on your financial goalsand that fund money amount might
be a little bit lower. That's something that you agree
on with. If you're managing your money
with someone else, you agree on that with them.
Or if you are managing your money solo, then you find out
what is that amount that's goingto be comfortable so that I'm
not feeling super restricted andI can't go to target.
(09:47):
I can't do some of the things that I want to and have those
impulse buys. Because when we put ourselves in
such a cage, then we are going to rebel.
And that's, that's where we to get really off the rails.
It's not about putting your, it's not about punishment, but
it's about setting yourself up for success.
And so this is how you do it. So whether that's your, you
(10:07):
know, your family has a pizza night or whatever, whatever that
looks like for your family is have that guilt free spending in
there. And it, you can call it whatever
you want. You can call it your guilt free
spending. And each person has that amount
set out because it's you're going to have better long term
success when you do that versus just keeping the rain so tight.
Earn your money that you don't have any fun and you don't enjoy
(10:30):
it. Awesome.
All right, so the next one is accountability.
Now, if you've been listening tothe show for very long, I talk
about this pretty regularly because this is one of the areas
that I want didn't really realize that what we needed, but
also existed. And so that's one of the things
that I'm super passionate about as a financial coach is the
(10:51):
accountability. And it's not like, Oh my gosh,
how did you spend your money this month?
It is talking about what is mostimportant to you and your family
and reminding you and checking in with you on those things.
And so when we don't have that accountability, we kind of
operate in a vacuum and we can get off track and we can lose
sight of our goals. And so that's why when you go to
(11:14):
the gym, having a workout buddy,same, you know, you're more
likely to show up and do and do the fitness if you have someone
that you're going to be accountable with.
And the same thing goes for yourmoney.
That's why I've created the coaching membership the way that
I have. It's community of other people
that are on the same path, mightbe in a little bit different
part of the journey than you, but we're all headed towards the
(11:34):
same direction and so accountability is huge.
I didn't know that financial coaches existed when we were
going through our debt elimination process.
That's what I am, that's what I do, that's what I how I help
families eliminate debt and get their finances organized so that
their budget or their spending plan matches what matters most
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to you. And when you have that
accountability, you're going to be able to be more successful.
And that's one of the biggest takeaways that people have
inside my program is that you know what?
I feel empowered to make the choices and do the things.
And I know when I'm, I'm confident in the decisions I'm
making because I've learned the process and I can, I can move
forward with confidence. Some quick ways that you can
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build in some accountability if you're not part of the alliance
coaching program is have those check insurance with your spouse
or find an accountability partner to check in and say,
Hey, you know what? You know, I really, I really
want to make an extra payment onmy car this month.
And I'm trying to figure out, OK, where are some things that
maybe I could kind of, you know,shift around so that I have that
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extra, maybe it's an extra $100 that you want to find or maybe
you want to, you know, create a little side hustle.
And it's someone to kind of bounce ideas off and to talk
through it with. You can also send me a voice
note. I have a new feature.
You can send me a voice note andyou might have it played here on
the podcast. But I would love to hear your
(13:00):
questions, your thoughts, be able to provide you some
encouragement in this process. So you can send me a voice note.
It's at speakpipe.com/that Rebelpodcast.
It'll also be in the show notes,but I want to hear what part of
your budget keeps tripping you up, What area do you need some
extra accountability? And I'd love to help provide
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that for you because like I said, this is 1 area for myself
that just didn't. We were just my husband and I.
We were just trying to hold eachother accountable.
And that is really good when you're on the same page and
you're going the same direction.But for a while we weren't.
And so it created, it was, it was very challenging.
But now that we're on that same,that same page and we're on that
(13:42):
same path together, we just do our, our little check insurance
to make sure that hey, we're still on the right path and that
our goals are the same. Or if we need to shift those at
any point, then we have we have those check insurance.
So if you don't have that personfor you, I would love to be that
person. So send me a voice note and let
me know how I can best support you.
All right, so to wrap up today, I, I want to say your budget is
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not the thing that's failing you, it's your system.
So a budget is adapting and growing and it's like this
living thing and it just keeps changing and growing and
evolving. It's kind of like our kids,
right? Like they start out as these
babies and then we're like, OK, I've got this stage of parenting
figured out and then that changes again, right?
So we're constantly evolving andchanging and it's the same thing
(14:31):
with our money because as our kids change and grow, their
needs change and grow. And so that same something was
going to happen and be mirrored in our budget.
So remember, you're not failing with money.
You just have a system that is not set up for success.
And that's one of the reasons why the show is called the Debt
Rebel Podcast, because that's something that I strongly
(14:53):
believe I have seen for myself. I can do all of the I can learn
all of the things about money. I got a degree in economics and
then my husband and I still ended up in $107,000 in debt.
It is our system because you aretaught that we need to use
credit cards to survive on a day-to-day basis.
(15:14):
And I have found for myself in our family that that is not a
win for us because it's just a false safety net.
It's like a safety net with a gigantic hole in it.
And so we have changed. We have changed our mindset in
that that's where this podcast was grown from and a lot of the
stuff that I teach because we have learned that there's
(15:34):
another way to do life and that is without credit cards and
without using debt to get ahead.So if this episode made you
realize that maybe your budget needs a little reset, I don't
want you to panic because I havea tool for you that's going to
be so helpful. And it's called the Debt Rebel
Starter Kit and you can get thaton my website.
And it is a simple 0 based valuebased budget.
(15:58):
It's going to give you the step by step framework so that you
can stop living paycheck to paycheck.
It's not like a complicated spreadsheet or anything like
that. It's going to just give you a
plan that like grows and evolveswith your life instead of
feeling like you're just like dragging along this spreadsheet
or this budget that's not working for you.
(16:19):
It's going to empower your family to make sound financial
decisions that match what matters most to you and your
family. So you can grab that on my
website, debtrebelpodcast.com and you can start building that
budget so that you don't have toworry about the budget that you
set in January about making surethat it it is the same in
October. It's not going to be, but it's
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going to change and evolve and grow with you.
And that's what the Debt Rebel Starter Kit is.
So it sets you up so that you can evolve and grow with your
budget. Hope that this episode was
helpful for you and I would loveto hear from you.
Make sure you send me a voice note.
The link is in the show notes here.
I would just love to hear what your take away is and if you
(17:02):
have a part of your budget that's just really tripping you
up, send me a note and you couldbe on the next episode of the
Debt Rebel podcast. Thank you for tuning into the
Debt Rebel show today. Ready to take your family
budgeting to the next level, stop that paycheck to paycheck
grind and start living debt free?
Head over to my website debtrebelpodcast.com.
(17:24):
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Debt Rebel.
The budget that maybe you made in January, maybe that was one
of your New Year's goals. And you're like, I'm going to do
this. This is the year I get my
financial stuff together. And it just didn't happen,
right? Because life gets in the way.
And the one thing I have learnedin this whole process of
budgeting of over all a months and all the years that I have
done this trial and error, is the budget you made last month
(00:21):
is going to be different than the one you made this month.
Hey there, I'm Jules the budget nerd and welcome to the Debt
Rebel show. This is the place where working
families like yours learn how tostop living paycheck to
paycheck, crush debt for good, and build a life where money
actually works for your family. In about 15 minutes, I'll share
practical family budgeting tips,tough love strategies, and
(00:43):
actionable steps to move toward debt free living without the
fluff, the shame, or the confusion.
And I know a thing or two about this.
My family and I have eliminated over $107,000 in consumer debt.
And that was after I got my degree in economics.
So stay tuned. This is going to be a great
episode. So grab that coffee, your
(01:03):
planner, whatever you need to make this a great experience,
maybe a snack if you're like me.And let's make your money work
for your family. All right, hello and welcome
today's episode. Why budgets don't survive past
October or why the budget you tried to create in January is a
complete bust. OK, so let's just let's just get
(01:26):
right to it. Most budgets that you make in
January are completely shot by October.
And let me tell you why, becausereal life got in the way.
And one thing that I have learned in the I don't even know
how many months I've created budgets, I'm including one that
I forgot. I think that's episode 38 where
I actually, since I teach peoplehow to make budgets and I
(01:48):
actually forgot to make a budgetone month using the system that
I've created. They didn't go back into debt.
So check that episode out, episode 38.
But the budget that maybe you made in January, maybe that was
one of your New Year's goals. And you're like, I'm going to do
this. This is the year I get my
financial stuff together. And it just didn't happen,
right? Because life gets in the way.
(02:09):
And the one thing I have learnedin this whole process of
budgeting of over all the monthsand all the years that I have
done this trial and error is thebudget you made last month is
going to be different than the one you made this month and vice
versa. Like every single month is going
to be different. Your budget last year at this
time is going to be different because different things matter
(02:30):
to your family as the months andthe years go by.
So our priorities change. Things shift for us.
Sometimes we have things like those surprise car repairs we
have, we have birthday celebrations that we want to do
for our kids. We have school fees.
We have, you know, holiday travels coming up, like all of
these things come in and that's all real life stuff.
(02:51):
So one of the things that I loveteaching is what is most
important to you this month. And that's why I teach a value
based 0 based budget because youmake a plan for your money now
for the month that you're we're going into and you're going to
be more likely to succeed at your budget.
But there are some things that we do in that process.
(03:12):
I'm going to go over those today.
But I want you to hear me say you are not bad with money, OK?
So we kind of can get in these thought processes where we're
like, man, I'm just not going tomake a budget because I'm just
really bad with money. So I want to call BS on that.
And that's not true. That is a lie.
So let's reframe that today. And because your budget that you
(03:34):
might have made that you are having a hard time following or
maybe you've tried it before andyou're like, I'm not doing it.
It wasn't made to survive real life and raising kids and just
the day-to-day stuff that can come up with our money.
And so I want to talk about somemain points today of why those
things don't happen for us, why we can't, we feel like we can't
(03:56):
stick to a budget and why like here we are in October and maybe
it's, you know, you, you've created 1:00 earlier this year
and you're like, OK, this is it.And it just life happens.
So one thing is we overcomplicate it.
This is an area that we, it's really our budget is spending
the money that we make, nothing more and nothing less.
(04:17):
So we can get into these cycles where we overcomplicate things
and it has to look a certain way.
We focus on percentages, know wewant to make sure that our
housing is this percentage. I those are great guidelines to
help you see where you compare, but I also think comparison is a
awful place to get to when it comes to your budget.
(04:39):
But the other thing is when it comes to those percentages or
maybe it, you know, it needs, you want to have all these like
huge breakdowns of things is if we're overcomplicating it for
ourselves, then we're not not going to we're not going to
follow it. I do for my personal budget, I
do create extra categories and that's because if I don't put
those in there, I'll forget them.
(04:59):
And so that just keeps it friendof mine.
But I just skim through those when it's not something for that
month. So when we over complicate it,
that's when we can overwhelm ourselves.
We want a budget that will fit your lifestyle and not look
like, you know, a finance textbook.
That's like, OK, you need 35% ofyour income is going to go to
housing. Well, you know what, if you're
(05:21):
in a season of life where you'resome of those expenses are going
to be higher, but that is a something that you've decided as
a family, then that's what you do.
Maybe you know, you're focused on food right now because your
family is is growing. Your family is focused on health
and we need to spend, we need tospend money on groceries and
(05:43):
feeding our family. All right, the next one is we
can get into a routine where we're not updating our budgets
regularly. So when you make that budget in
January, your life looks very different in October than it did
in January, am I right? So think about what the new year
hit and you're like, okay, theseare the things that are
important to us now. And you know what, things are
(06:06):
very different now because maybeyou know, your kids false sports
season started or a medical billcomes up.
Or can we talk about gas prices,something that's out of our
control, but it affects us, right?
So and we don't make adjustmentsfor that.
So for instance, with the gas prices, we're going to have to
increase our gas budget. If you're driving the same
amount as you were in January and you're driving that same
(06:28):
amount in October, but gas prices went up, then you're
going to have to allocate some more of your paycheck to gas for
getting to and from work in thatOctober budget.
So that kind of that goes to whyI thought when we don't update,
when we don't update our budget regularly, one of the reasons
why it fails is we're just usingoutdated numbers.
(06:50):
So maybe you set a timer for yourself and you're just like,
hey, you know what, 10 minutes, I'm going to it's a reoccurring
appointment. If you're part of the alliance
coaching program, we do this as a community and you just spend a
few minutes looking over your budget and to say, hey, does
this look realistic for what life is right now?
So remember that your budget is not a museum artifact.
(07:13):
It is something that's changing and evolving and growing at all
times. So just because you started it
out one way the beginning of theyear doesn't mean that it needs
to stay that way. And it needs to be super rigid.
You need to be able to go with the flow.
The next is no fun. Money is built in.
OK, so this is a really big one for my self and our family.
And this right here has cut downon our money fights or our money
(07:38):
discussions. Like it was almost overnight
that this that implementing thiseliminated a lot of those are we
still talk about money, but it is not as heated and as
emotional as it used to be. And So what is fun money?
OK, so I have clients that call it all kinds of things like ball
out money. You know, it's, you know, it's
it's Karen's coffee fund, whatever you want to call it.
(08:01):
It is money that is yours to decide what you do with if you
are managing your finances with a spouse and then you agree on
all of those spending categoriestogether, except for you each
have your broke out fund money. So that could be a line item in
your budget that you each get and the other person can't say
anything about it. So for instance, so my husband
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and I, we each have our fun money.
He can spend his however he wants to.
And I cannot say a thing about it if I think he's being
wasteful or like, why did you buy that it?
I can think God in my head all Iwant.
I cannot say it out loud, right?So that cuts down on a huge
amount of our money, our money. But what is it?
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Misalignments or disagreements? Because we aren't having those
conversations anymore if that's the thing that we can control.
And we have, you know, looked atour overall income and said this
is the amount that is going to be OK for us to spend without.
We don't have to check in with each other about it.
It's already a mutually agreed upon when we set our budget for
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the month. And it also doesn't put us in
like a financial prison. So it's not like we can't go out
and do fun things and enjoy our life and have a coffee.
The thing is, it's not about restriction.
And that's where this fund moneycomes in.
Now you don't want it to be, youknow, 75% of your budget if
you're in debt and you're, you know, trying to make some
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progress on your financial goalsand that fund money amount might
be a little bit lower. That's something that you agree
on with. If you're managing your money
with someone else, you agree on that with them.
Or if you are managing your money solo, then you find out
what is that amount that's goingto be comfortable so that I'm
not feeling super restricted andI can't go to target.
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I can't do some of the things that I want to and have those
impulse buys. Because when we put ourselves in
such a cage, then we are going to rebel.
And that's, that's where we to get really off the rails.
It's not about putting your, it's not about punishment, but
it's about setting yourself up for success.
And so this is how you do it. So whether that's your, you
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know, your family has a pizza night or whatever, whatever that
looks like for your family is have that guilt free spending in
there. And it, you can call it whatever
you want. You can call it your guilt free
spending. And each person has that amount
set out because it's you're going to have better long term
success when you do that versus just keeping the rain so tight.
Earn your money that you don't have any fun and you don't enjoy
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it. Awesome.
All right, so the next one is accountability.
Now, if you've been listening tothe show for very long, I talk
about this pretty regularly because this is one of the areas
that I want didn't really realize that what we needed, but
also existed. And so that's one of the things
that I'm super passionate about as a financial coach is the
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accountability. And it's not like, Oh my gosh,
how did you spend your money this month?
It is talking about what is mostimportant to you and your family
and reminding you and checking in with you on those things.
And so when we don't have that accountability, we kind of
operate in a vacuum and we can get off track and we can lose
sight of our goals. And so that's why when you go to
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the gym, having a workout buddy,same, you know, you're more
likely to show up and do and do the fitness if you have someone
that you're going to be accountable with.
And the same thing goes for yourmoney.
That's why I've created the coaching membership the way that
I have. It's community of other people
that are on the same path, mightbe in a little bit different
part of the journey than you, but we're all headed towards the
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same direction and so accountability is huge.
I didn't know that financial coaches existed when we were
going through our debt elimination process.
That's what I am, that's what I do, that's what I how I help
families eliminate debt and get their finances organized so that
their budget or their spending plan matches what matters most
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to you. And when you have that
accountability, you're going to be able to be more successful.
And that's one of the biggest takeaways that people have
inside my program is that you know what?
I feel empowered to make the choices and do the things.
And I know when I'm, I'm confident in the decisions I'm
making because I've learned the process and I can, I can move
forward with confidence. Some quick ways that you can
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build in some accountability if you're not part of the alliance
coaching program is have those check insurance with your spouse
or find an accountability partner to check in and say,
Hey, you know what? You know, I really, I really
want to make an extra payment onmy car this month.
And I'm trying to figure out, OK, where are some things that
maybe I could kind of, you know,shift around so that I have that
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extra, maybe it's an extra $100 that you want to find or maybe
you want to, you know, create a little side hustle.
And it's someone to kind of bounce ideas off and to talk
through it with. You can also send me a voice
note. I have a new feature.
You can send me a voice note andyou might have it played here on
the podcast. But I would love to hear your
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questions, your thoughts, be able to provide you some
encouragement in this process. So you can send me a voice note.
It's at speakpipe.com/that Rebelpodcast.
It'll also be in the show notes,but I want to hear what part of
your budget keeps tripping you up, What area do you need some
extra accountability? And I'd love to help provide
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that for you because like I said, this is 1 area for myself
that just didn't. We were just my husband and I.
We were just trying to hold eachother accountable.
And that is really good when you're on the same page and
you're going the same direction.But for a while we weren't.
And so it created, it was, it was very challenging.
But now that we're on that same,that same page and we're on that
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same path together, we just do our, our little check insurance
to make sure that hey, we're still on the right path and that
our goals are the same. Or if we need to shift those at
any point, then we have we have those check insurance.
So if you don't have that personfor you, I would love to be that
person. So send me a voice note and let
me know how I can best support you.
All right, so to wrap up today, I, I want to say your budget is
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not the thing that's failing you, it's your system.
So a budget is adapting and growing and it's like this
living thing and it just keeps changing and growing and
evolving. It's kind of like our kids,
right? Like they start out as these
babies and then we're like, OK, I've got this stage of parenting
figured out and then that changes again, right?
So we're constantly evolving andchanging and it's the same thing
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with our money because as our kids change and grow, their
needs change and grow. And so that same something was
going to happen and be mirrored in our budget.
So remember, you're not failing with money.
You just have a system that is not set up for success.
And that's one of the reasons why the show is called the Debt
Rebel Podcast, because that's something that I strongly
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believe I have seen for myself. I can do all of the I can learn
all of the things about money. I got a degree in economics and
then my husband and I still ended up in $107,000 in debt.
It is our system because you aretaught that we need to use
credit cards to survive on a day-to-day basis.
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And I have found for myself in our family that that is not a
win for us because it's just a false safety net.
It's like a safety net with a gigantic hole in it.
And so we have changed. We have changed our mindset in
that that's where this podcast was grown from and a lot of the
stuff that I teach because we have learned that there's
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another way to do life and that is without credit cards and
without using debt to get ahead.So if this episode made you
realize that maybe your budget needs a little reset, I don't
want you to panic because I havea tool for you that's going to
be so helpful. And it's called the Debt Rebel
Starter Kit and you can get thaton my website.
And it is a simple 0 based valuebased budget.
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It's going to give you the step by step framework so that you
can stop living paycheck to paycheck.
It's not like a complicated spreadsheet or anything like
that. It's going to just give you a
plan that like grows and evolveswith your life instead of
feeling like you're just like dragging along this spreadsheet
or this budget that's not working for you.
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It's going to empower your family to make sound financial
decisions that match what matters most to you and your
family. So you can grab that on my
website, debtrebelpodcast.com and you can start building that
budget so that you don't have toworry about the budget that you
set in January about making surethat it it is the same in
October. It's not going to be, but it's
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going to change and evolve and grow with you.
And that's what the Debt Rebel Starter Kit is.
So it sets you up so that you can evolve and grow with your
budget. Hope that this episode was
helpful for you and I would loveto hear from you.
Make sure you send me a voice note.
The link is in the show notes here.
I would just love to hear what your take away is and if you
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have a part of your budget that's just really tripping you
up, send me a note and you couldbe on the next episode of the
Debt Rebel podcast. Thank you for tuning into the
Debt Rebel show today. Ready to take your family
budgeting to the next level, stop that paycheck to paycheck
grind and start living debt free?
Head over to my website debtrebelpodcast.com.
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That's DEBTREBEL podcast.com. Grab resources, tools and tips
to make it happen. And don't forget, subscribe,
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If you share this episode and remember your debt free life
starts with one brave step and I'm cheering you on every step
of the way. We'll talk soon.
Debt Rebel.
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