111. Creating your chosen soul family

When you’ve spent your life making yourself smaller to keep the peace, it can feel terrifying to finally speak your needs, set boundaries, and let yourself be fully seen. But that’s where real connection begins.

In this raw and deeply personal episode, I share the painful unraveling that led me to let go of a marriage, confront childhood trauma, and face the grief of family estrangement. But more importantly, I share the unexpected beauty that came after: the formation of a soul family—people who truly see, hold, and honor the real you.

We explore:

• Why people-pleasing is often a survival strategy rooted in childhood

• How to recognize the difference between surface friends and soul-aligned ones

• What emotional safety really feels like—and how to start cultivating it

• The paradox of growth: why pain can be a portal to transformation

• And how to receive support, even if it’s something you were never taught
  

If you’ve ever felt like the black sheep… if you’re longing for deeper connection… or if you’re navigating the grief of leaving a life that kept you small—this one’s for you.

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Top Episode Quotes:

“We often stay in situations that feel less painful than the pain we’re trying to mask.”

“You won’t be discovered if you’re not showing up as your full self.”

“When someone is conscious and doing the work alongside you, it’s a completely different relationship.”

“We crave deep connection—but safety has to come first.”

“Chosen family isn’t about blood—it’s about being seen, safe, and supported.”

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