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Messy play can feel like chaos… but what if it’s actually one of the best things you can do for your child’s learning, confidence, and connection?
In this episode, I sit down with Sam, founder of Messy Mates, to talk about the hidden magic of messy play and how parents can make it easier (and less stressful!) to bring into everyday life.
What we cover:
- Why messy play is a developmental goldmine
- How it boosts creativity and confidence
- The surprising role messy play has in parent–child connection
- Simple ways to contain the mess (so you can actually enjoy it!)
- Why messy play is for all ages... babies to grownups
About today’s guest:
Sam is the creative force behind Messy Mates NZ, a play-based business in Christchurch offering families a safe, joyful space to explore messy play, without the clean-up stress! You’ll often find her covered in rice, slime, or paint, championing play as a tool for learning and family connection.
Find Sam here:
- Instagram: @messymatesnz
- Website: www.messymates.co.nz
- Facebook: Messy Mates NZ
Resources mentioned:
- Play Schemas: www.playschemas.com/free
- Blog + full links: www.playschemas.com/blog
Join us for the 2026 Family Preset from the 12-16th January 2026. Jump on the waitlist here!
If you’ve ever wished you had a group of parents who just get it — welcome to The Play Schemas Collective. It’s where you can ask questions without judgement, share those little wins only another parent would understand, and dive deeper into your child’s play with people who speak your language. Join us at playschemas.com/collective — we can’t wait to meet you.
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I would love to hear your playtime stories—whether you’re celebrating a win or trying to crack the mystery behind a new behaviour, I’m here for it. Reach out on social media or drop me a message.
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