151: Tame Your Inner Imposter: Escape the Interior Design Comparison Trap

If you’ve ever felt like you’re falling short compared to other designers, this episode is your gentle but firm nudge to stop measuring your worth against someone else’s highlight reel. Melissa pulls back the curtain on imposter syndrome and the comparison trap, sharing 20 practical, mindset-shifting steps to silence that inner critic and step fully into your brilliance. You’ll walk away with tools you can use daily to reset your thinking, build unshakable confidence, and create unstoppable momentum in your design business.

From naming your imposter something silly, to creating a “confidence kit” of your wins, to swapping perfectionism for progress, this episode will help you reclaim your lane and own it. Melissa also dives into how to curate your circle for maximum support, share your work before it’s perfect, and shift your focus back to your unique gifts. This is a masterclass in turning self-doubt into self-assurance—so you can stop comparing and start celebrating the designer only you can be.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU WILL HEAR:

• (01:02) How to recognize the signs of comparison and imposter syndrome before they take hold
• (03:09) Why naming your inner critic can help you separate from it and take back your power
• (04:06) How to create a “confidence kit” that keeps your wins front and center
• (09:54) The freedom that comes from making peace with being a lifelong work in progress
• (14:31) Why perfectionism is your imposter’s favorite weapon—and how to fight back
• (27:40) How to surround yourself with the right people and release toxic influences

When you’re ready to step into a bigger vision in your design business and create exceptional results and celebrations, book-a-call to explore how coaching can take you there faster, with a solid plan, proven process, and smart strategies.