Diary of a Matchmaker

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Have you ever caught yourself dreaming of a spouse who's stepped straight out of a Hollywood romance, complete with a six-figure salary and a six-pack to match? Well, let's just say, you're not alone! Join your matchmaking duo, as we take a stroll down memory lane revisiting our own once-upon-a-time wish lists and the sometimes outrageous expe...

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Today we unveil the secrets of asking the right questions to find your soulmate. Stripping away the veil of superficiality, we're welcoming you to a conversation that's essential in the quest for a life partner—especially when the traditional dating path isn't an option. 

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Have you ever found yourself at the intersection of faith and the search for love, wrestling with the modern concept of dating within the bounds of Islamic tradition? That's the crux of our heart-to-heart discussion. Today we venture into the delicate topic of halal dating in the Western world. Our latest podcast episode dives into this provocative them...

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Navigating the complex waters of matchmaking can be a daunting task, especially when trying to honor the traditions and expectations of Muslim parents. In this episode we open up about our personal journeys, providing a candid look at how we managed parental involvement while seeking that special someone. From not keeping my (Hiba's) parents informed at...

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Have you ever found yourself whispering about divorce, only to realize it deserves a much louder conversation? Join us as we cast aside the hushed tones and bring this pivotal topic to the forefront. With candid conversations from our matchmaker diaries, we dissect the often misunderstood realities of divorce within the Muslim community. Whether it's th...

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Ever navigated the complex seas of matchmaking within the Muslim community? Join us as we recount our trials and tribulations, facing a tide of unresponsiveness and the occasional storm of unprofessionalism. We're on a mission to connect hearts while grappling with the silence from clients, parents, masjids, and MSAs alike. Hear our stories of persevera...

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Are financial benchmarks, like a six-figure salary or owning a home, genuinely prerequisites for a blissful Muslim marriage? Join us as we tackle the tough questions surrounding the intersection of finance, cultural expectations, and Islamic marriage requirements. In this episode, we peel back the layers on why many Muslim men feel pressured to meet these ec...

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Discover the hidden obstacles that single Muslims encounter in their journey toward marriage. As your matchmaker duo peels back the layers on a pressing issue within our community—the pervasive passivity in seeking a spouse, especially among Muslim women. Why do many delay tying the knot, choosing instead to prioritize education and career? Is culture playin...

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Why does "NO" seem to be the reflex response for so many singles in the Muslim matchmaking scene, even when a compatible match is staring them in the face? As Hiba and I, Zaid, navigate through the intricate dance of finding a life partner, we can't help but notice a perplexing trend. We're sharing some personal stories and shedding light...

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Embark on an intimate odyssey with us, Hiba and Zaid, as we recount the emotional voyage that not only led to the union of our hearts but also the birth of our shared vocation as matchmakers. Our story weaves through the labyrinth of seeking love within the Muslim community, where faith, patience, and a sprinkle of digital-age trials come to life. We strip b...

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Embark on a cultural odyssey with hosts Hiba and Zaid as we unravel the tapestry of matchmaking, an art form as ancient as time itself. Picture the scene: the 'khattaba' weaving the intricate social threads in an Arab community, or a 'rishta auntie' in Desi culture deftly navigating the complexities of marriage proposals. Our journey take...

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Have you ever felt like the journey to finding a spouse in Muslim communities is more like navigating a maze with blindfolds on? As your matchmakers on the airwaves, Hiba and Zaid, we tackle the sensitive topic of gender segregation and its impact on marriage in the Muslim world. Our episode peels back layers of tradition to revisit the dynamic interactions ...