Shoresy | Crushes, Connection, & the Autistic Experience in Shoresy

Today's episode is an exciting deep dive into Shoresy, the hit Letterkenny spinoff now in its fourth season on Hulu. While there’s plenty to discuss about the show, we're focusing on two key themes: relationships and the show's autistic-coded characters.

Autistic Representation in Shoresy

Many of the characters display strong neurodivergent traits—whether it's in their mannerisms, speech patterns, repetitive behaviors, stoicism, or bubbly affect. The show offers an organic, affirming portrayal of neurodivergence, with masking being a recurring theme. We break down how Shoresy highlights the way autistic and neurodivergent individuals navigate the world, whether through social interactions, emotional expression, or communication styles.

Crushes, Love, and Emotional Responses

A major focus of today’s conversation is Shoresy’s relationship with Laura—the woman he’s absolutely smitten with. We explore what it feels like to have a crush: the nervous excitement, the giddiness, and even the physical sensations that come with attraction. For many autistic individuals, recognizing these feelings can be tricky, so we discuss the importance of tuning into bodily cues—heart rate, facial expressions, nervous system reactions—to better understand attraction and connection.

Shoresy’s dynamic with Laura is a fascinating look at how love can soften even the toughest exteriors. Normally, he’s a hyper-masculine, aggressive hockey player, but around her, he becomes playful, affectionate, and almost childlike. This shift highlights how relationships can bring out different sides of us, breaking traditional gender norms and allowing for emotional expression beyond stereotypes.

What Do You Look for in a Partner?

We challenge listeners to reflect on their own relationships—what truly draws you to someone? Beyond looks or sexual attraction, what qualities matter most? Kindness, humor, empathy, ambition? Many autistic individuals find that their partners become a grounding force, providing stability and emotional regulation over time.

Men, Masculinity & Emotional Vulnerability

A key theme in Shoresy is masculinity and emotional expression. The show challenges traditional ideas of toughness by depicting moments of raw vulnerability—men crying, supporting each other, and expressing care without ridicule. We break down how rare it is to see this kind of representation in media and why it's so important.

Men often struggle to find safe spaces to express their emotions without being labeled as weak. We discuss how we can affirm and support men in showing emotion, creating healthier spaces for connection, healing, and communication. At the end of the day, we all want to be loved and accepted for who we truly are.

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Episode Breakdown:

0:00 Attention

0:59 Intro

6:01 Scenes

19:41 Discussion

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