In this dynamic episode of Dishin’ Up Diaspora, I sit down with the trailblazing Fariyal Abdullahi—James Beard Award nominated chef, creative, philanthropist, and one of the very few Black women at the helm of some of the most high-profile kitchens in the industry.
Fariyal’s journey is nothing short of extraordinary. Born in Ethiopia, she shares how her immigrant experience shaped her resilience and hunger for more. We talk about how she initially pursued a degree in psychology to meet family expectations, only to later pivot and fully embrace her passion for food and hospitality. That bold leap not only transformed her life, but also positioned her as a powerful force in the culinary world—one that refuses to be boxed into a single title.
You’ve seen her as a guest judge on major cooking shows and featured in magazines like Vogue and Food & Wine, but today, Fariyal opens up in a way we rarely get to see. From the pressure of being a woman of color in high-end kitchens to the liberation that comes from defining yourself on your own terms, this conversation dives deep into what it truly means to lead with authenticity.
We explore:
- The unspoken challenges and triumphs of being an immigrant in hospitality
- How family expectations shaped (and delayed) her culinary path
- Finding the courage to pivot from psychology to the kitchen
- The weight and pride of being one of the few Black women at the top
- Why she rejects being “just” a chef—and how creativity, storytelling, and service fuel her mission
- Her philanthropic work and how she’s using her platform for impact
- How she centers wellness and self-care in an industry that glorifies burnout
- The daily rituals that keep her grounded amidst chaos
- Redefining success as a woman, as an immigrant, and as a leader
This episode is a celebration of multidimensionality—a reminder that we don’t have to choose one path, one label, or one identity. Fariyal’s story is proof that when you dare to do what’s true to you, even in an industry that rarely makes space for that kind of truth, the doors will open.
Whether you’re an aspiring chef, a fellow immigrant, or someone figuring out how to follow your passion while honoring your roots—this one’s for you.
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