Reject the Victim: Breaking the Blame Game, Embracing Accountability, and Fostering Honest Connections

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D.K. (00:30):
Thank you for watching.
Oh man, oh man, oh man, how arey'all doing this evening?
I figured I'd come on herebecause you know, when I have
things that's on my mind, I cometalk about it.
It's your boy, damon.
I'm here with the DK and Treepodcast and, like I said, when I
have things on my mind, theyain't come to family.

(00:51):
Let's talk about this one.
So let's talk about playing thevictim, playing the victim, and
we know, and I'm pretty sure weknow a whole bunch of people
that plays the damn victim allthe time, whether it be in
relationships, whether it beyour own family, whether it be
just anything.

(01:12):
In general, somebody wants toplay the victim because they
don't want to never admit thatthey're wrong.
They're always right, and youhave situations out here, like I
said relationships, family theyjust play the victim.
I'm never wrong.
But yet you want to go aroundand you want to run and you want
to tell your side of the storyand think that your side of the

(01:34):
story is gospel.
You always want to hypeyourself up and make yourself
bigger than what you are andthen you want to play on
people's sympathy and then youjust want to say, oh, it's their
fault.
I wasn't wrong.
They did this to me and thisand that.
How about put a goddamn carrotin your mouth and shut the fuck

(01:58):
up?
How about that?
That's the whole point of this.
You want to sit here and alwayswant to tell your side of the
story, but you don't want nobodyelse to tell your side of the
story.
So I love it when people playvictims and you got receipts on
them.
I mean receipts and I mean youcan like oh, that's what they
said.
Oh well, let me show you this.

(02:20):
Oh, let me show you that.
Let me just oh, let me show youthat, let me just listen.
Like I said, you know, when youcan check somebody that's
playing the victim, it's always,always great.
And, like I said, even inrelationships like, if your
partner Right and you know, youknow how your partners are

(02:42):
They'll play the victim.
Sometimes, like you got somepeople like, oh, instead of
apologizing, they'll play thevictim and make.
You got some people who's like,oh, instead of apologizing,
they'll play the victim and makeit seem like it's your fault.
No, this ain't my fault, it'syour fault.
So, when you're going to takeaccountability for your actions,
when you're going to takeresponsibility for your actions
instead of playing the victimall the time.
And that's just what they doand deal with it.

(03:21):
But, like I said, when you planthis victim so much and you
sitting here talking aboutpeople behind their back, right,
and then somebody say, well,wait a minute, that's not what
happened, but hey, I gotreceipts to show what happened,
you might want to shut the fuckup Seriously, because if you
don't, it could cause someserious, serious problems.

(03:43):
But again, like I said, you gotpeople out here play the victim
all the time.
They just want people on theirside, they want sympathy, they
want to feel oh, I did nothingwrong, I'm just oh, you know,
you hurt my feelings.
Oh, this and that, shut thehell up and be a damn man or a

(04:05):
woman.
Seriously, man up, woman up,stop being a victim all the time
, because again, you'reinvolving people in unnecessary
fucking drama, and that's whatbeing victims are.
They just blame everybody.
And then they want to loopeverybody in, guess what.
That doesn't bother anyone,because if you're playing the

(04:28):
victim, hey, I'm like this andme personally, I'm like this.
I ain't got to say a word.
Hey, that's what you want tosay, say it.
I've been through this, I'vebeen through it.
I've been through someoneplaying a victim on me.
So guess what?

(04:49):
Over that and you know what Idid I kept quiet.
Let me tell you why, becausethe truth doesn't need an
explanation.
Only thing I got to say, like Isaid, I wanted to come on here.
All you people out here, stopplaying a goddamn victim man or
woman up, take responsibilityfor your damn actions and not
somebody else's.
But you see, they're not goingto do that because they're still

(05:10):
going to play the victim anyway.
But anyway, fam, like I said, Ijust wanted to come on here and
talk about that for a quick,quick, quick second.
You victims out there, fuck youall.
Y'all have a good night.