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September 18, 2024 82 mins

In this conversation, Lauren hosts Dr. Akilah Cadet for a heartwarming chat about the importance of embracing one's intersectionality and finding confidence in yourself. They go all in on talking through topics such as codeswitching, imposter syndrome, and the challenges faced by marginalized individuals in corporate environments. Dr. Cadet pulls from her personal experiences as a Black, disabled woman and offers advice on how to overcome self-doubt -- and seek validation from within. Lauren and Akilah dive into the meaning of autonomy over one's own domain, the freedom and limitless opportunities that come with starting you own company and even give some helpful pointers on dealing with termination. ;)  There are some hilarious - and relatable - stories on everything from dating to retail jobs, and themes of staying true, setting boundaries, and the power of clothes as a superpower. Lead with kindness – and buy Dr. Cadet’s book! 

“I am limitless, and that’s the thing I love the most.” - Dr. Akilah Cadet


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Buy Dr. Cadet’s book, “White Supremacy Is All Around: Notes from a Black Disabled Woman in a White World.” here.


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