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July 17, 2025 • 34 mins

Are you a man over 40 facing divorce and feeling overwhelmed by the process? You’re not alone—and you don’t have to go through it blindly. In this episode of the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast, host David sits down with Joe Dillon, a seasoned divorce mediator with a unique blend of financial expertise and deep personal insight. Joe’s mission? To help men like you navigate the emotional and financial minefields of divorce with clarity, confidence, and fairness. 💪


Joe brings 28 years of mediation experience and an MBA in finance to the table, making him a rare expert who understands both the numbers and the emotions behind every tough conversation. Most mediators are lawyers or mental health professionals, but Joe’s financial background means he can break down the real costs of divorce—child support, alimony, property division—and help you see the big picture, not just the dollar signs. 💵


In this candid conversation, you’ll discover:

  • Why 75% of divorce is about the numbers—and how to make them work for you

  • How to avoid the courtroom drama and keep control of your future

  • The biggest mistakes men over 40 make during divorce (and how to avoid them)

  • How to handle the emotional rollercoaster, even if you think you’re “fine”

  • Why mediation leads to better outcomes for you and your kids

  • The truth about “fair” settlements—and why it’s about lifestyle, not just money

  • How to prepare for mediation, stay calm, and negotiate like a pro

  • What to do if you’re stuck in anger or blame—and how to break the cycle


Joe shares his personal story of growing up in a litigated divorce, the lessons he learned, and why he’s passionate about helping men avoid the same mistakes. You’ll also get practical strategies for budgeting, negotiating, and keeping your cool—even when emotions run high. 🧘‍♂️

If you’re ready to move forward, protect your finances, and build a better future for yourself and your kids, this episode is a must-listen. Don’t let anger or confusion dictate your next chapter—get the tools and insights you need to thrive after divorce.


👉 What’s your biggest fear or question about divorce mediation? Drop a comment below and let’s talk about it! If you found this episode helpful, hit LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE with a friend who needs it.

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