Welcome to the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast! 🎙️ I'm your host, David, and today we have an enlightening conversation with Ives T. Mukanya, a remarkable mental health counselor and transformational coach. Originally from the Democratic Republic of Congo, Ive brings a wealth of experience from the pharmaceutical industry and a deep commitment to helping men navigate the emotional challenges that often accompany divorce.
In this episode, we delve into the often-overlooked struggles that men face after divorce, including stress, depression, and low self-esteem. 💔 Many men suffer in silence, internalizing their pain instead of seeking the support they need. But it doesn’t have to be this way! Join us as we explore practical strategies for healing, embracing self-discovery, and reclaiming your identity after a life-altering event.
Ive shares his personal journey and insights on the importance of forgiveness, self-care, and building a supportive community. He emphasizes that seeking help is not a sign of weakness but a courageous step towards recovery. We discuss how men can break free from the stigma of suffering in silence and learn to express their emotions in healthy ways.
Throughout our conversation, we touch on the significance of reconnecting with one’s passions and interests, which can often be lost during marriage. 🌟 Whether it’s picking up a new hobby, engaging in physical fitness, or simply rediscovering what brings joy, these steps are crucial for rebuilding self-esteem and identity.
Ive also addresses the critical role of forgiveness—not just for others, but for oneself. He explains how letting go of past grievances can liberate you from emotional burdens and allow you to move forward with a renewed sense of purpose.
As we navigate the complexities of co-parenting, we discuss how to maintain a healthy relationship with your ex-partner, even when tensions run high. Communication strategies and emotional regulation are key themes, as we explore how to prioritize your well-being while being the best father you can be.
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