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Speaker 1 (00:01):
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the Double A Club and this is
your host, ny Boom, and myco-host, big Daz.
We'll be talking about trendingtopics in healthcare and
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that this is just basically onour opinions and speculations
(00:24):
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Let's start off and kick offwith our first topic.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Yo, yo, yo, what's?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
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of that yet.
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yet.
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So I'm good.
It's my favorite rum.
It's so smooth, you get a burnand all that shit.
It goes down like a really goodwine, so I love this rum.
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They should just send me a freebottle, oh man All right.
So let's do somethinginteresting today.
It's, you know, just thinking,and this idea popped in my head
(01:36):
let's give signs of knowing thatyour partner is cheating.
So I'll give one and you'llgive one, and we just go back
and forth until we run out oflike, uh, um, a design, you know
, wow, so that sounds with you.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
I mean it's fine, but
it's just, I think that, uh, go
ahead, let's, let's go, let'sgo, let's let's get party.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
Yeah, yeah, I just
want to bring it up because, you
know, here's the thing right Alot of women always think that
they can be cheated on.
They kind of already know andthey kind of expect it in a way,
and they do all these differentthings, even track their dude's
GPS cell phone, because theydon't want to get cheated on.
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But on the other side, men areoblivious and they think that
their dick is that good.
The woman will never cheat onthem.
And they need to fucking wakeup, because the woman can't
cheat on.
You problem is is that thewoman never stays cheating long
enough for you to fucking findout, unlike us dumb ass men.
We we cheat on our woman and wecreate a second fucking life
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with this other person, andthat's how we get caught.
Women don't do that shit.
You know they fuck for a monthor two and that's it.
They're done with that guy.
Okay, I think we need to wakeup some of these guys.
And no, hey, these signs arethere.
We should start questioningyour relationship.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Okay, okay, so this
is like something for men
awareness.
Okay, I gotcha.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
You know there's some
women who are just stupid too.
You know what I'm saying.
It's not just men, even thoughit's in our chromosome that we
have a stupidity gene, but youknow, it falls on women too, and
they can use these signs, youknow, because, to be honest with
you, they're both similar.
You know what I'm saying Okay.
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I can see that.
So here's my first one.
My first one is your partnerstays out late.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Your partner stays
out late.
Your partner stays out late.
He comes home late.
Yeah, your partner stays outlate, yeah.
Yeah, that's tough to mebecause I work through the night
.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
There has to be some
compromise.
If you work overnight,obviously you're not coming home
early, you know's.
Say, for example, you have aregular, a regular schedule, or
or you have a schedule within,within your time frame and
either you work night or day,whatever, and those days that
you decide to go out and you'regoing out for two, three hours
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on your own free time, not notwork wise, you know saying, and
you staying out way too late andcoming home late, that's a sign
.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
That is a sign that's
a regular thing.
Yeah, that is absolutely right.
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Okay, your turn.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Um, I was just like
this, I guess.
I mean there's a lot of things.
I mean it's just one.
So it's tough, because for meit's like it's all intertwined,
like one doesn't One comes, it'slike a burger and fries.
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On comes the other that wasgoing to come in late.
Response on taxes, like whenyou're, when it's, when it's a
continuous thing, like I get itwhen it's you know you're at
work, you know You're busy thecenter, but you don't text me
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for the whole day.
But that could also be confusedfor being mad.
You know somebody being mad atyou, I guess that's that.
That would be one.
Well, I mean, obviously youcan't judge it with just that,
you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
If you're not, if
you're in a fight and he's not
talking to you, obviously youcan't be like, hey, he's
cheating on me.
No, you dumbass, you just gotinto a fight, you don't want to
talk to him.
Use some common sense withthese signs and plus, let's just
throw this out.
Not one singular sign statesthat the person's cheating.
You know, it's a compound ofshit, you know.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
Yes, okay, there we
go.
Okay, but we're just giving ared flag.
Yeah, it's like a red flag.
Yeah, there you go.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
Okay, so here's my
next one right, and I'm going to
use myself because I know thatwhen I used to see this woman
right and she was married, andshe was married to a truck
driver who was never home,always going out doing his work,
traveling, and she, you know,I'd go over, hit it a little bit
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and, you know, go back home.
I go over, hit it a little bitand, you know, go back home.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Well, one sign that
that husband could know that
someone else was in that houseother than him is the toilet
seat being up.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
Oh man, you can't
give that one up, seriously,
like think of it.
You've been out your house forthree fucking days, your woman's
been there and the toilet seatis up.
You can come home, yep.
And a lot of people don't thinkabout that shit.
Yeah, no, that's true Becausethat's so subtle but, to be
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honest with you, it's hugeBecause, for example, for me,
every time I went to that girl'shouse I made sure that I put
that seat down yeah, I got youand let's say, for example, like
I'm a single man, right, andthe woman who's coming over to
my house you know we're talking,we're dating this and that
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we're in a relationship she'scoming over to my house, right,
and she knows, she knows some ofmy she's, she knows some of my
habits, she's starting to learnsome of my habits.
You know, I go to the bathroomand leave the seat up right, and
all of a sudden, you know youhaven't been in the house for
two days.
You come, we set up a day, adate, and you come over and go
use the restroom and the fuckingseat is down.
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And the guy me would not don'tnotice that because we have the
dumb gene, you know what I'msaying.
So we don't think anything ofit.
The seat's down.
Who gives a fuck?
He could be like yo,something's up with this.
Hey, maybe I could have taken ashit, you don't know.
But the seat's down.
You know what I'm saying.
That's why you just would eatup, yeah, so I think the toilet
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seat is important, is a good redflag yeah, that is good.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
that is good.
She might clean the bathroom,but that's a good way to know.
This is really like out ofnowhere here.
Let me see what am I thinkingof.
Hey, if she plays like a, itcould be both it could be, it
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could be both.
It could be either way, itdoesn't matter if it's a red
flag alright well, one thingI've noticed in my day was like
she got too many male friendslike too many male fun Like yeah
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he friends at all.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
Yeah, that's, that's
a big red flag, yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
Because you know what
the male friends on the fuck.
Yeah, you might, you just mighthave one.
That that just won't go for it,you know.
But that doesn't mean youdoesn't want it.
Give it to him, you know.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
Regardless, the woman
Could be innocent, but it's the
fact that these guys are Goingto jeopardize your relationship
Because they're trying to get inher draw.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Yeah, and you can't
risk that, nah going to
jeopardize your relationshipbecause they're trying to get in
her draw.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
Yeah, and you can't
risk that.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Nah.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
No, I completely.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
I mean, what's the
point of being in the
relationship then at that point,like, what are you really doing
, like you're supposed to?
If you're in a relationship,y'all both supposed to go for
each other, like it's apartnership.
If that's how you, you gotta.
I see it like this it's apartnership.
(10:32):
Whatever the like, a business,whatever the bit that everybody
talks about.
Everything in business we find,we figure out our failures, we
figure out our, our, our pluses,we figure out what, what, what
works and what doesn't.
Everything's a trial and error.
That's fine, but they talkabout it.
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So in a relationship, if that'swhat you because you're doing it
to build, if that's what you'rein a relationship for is to
build.
So you have to talk abouteverything.
What does what you don't likewhat you do, like what she does,
what he does, what you know,like it, um, what else?
(11:17):
Um, like you gotta, you gottahave.
You have to have a plan.
You have to have a plan, youhave to have a goal.
So where you're going Now, youdon't, you could have, you could
have.
You know, other women talk toyour girl.
If you got the girl, thatdoesn't mind you, because not
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for nothing.
There's a lot of women out here.
That doesn't like a man that nowoman wants.
Speaker 3 (11:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
So that's why they
keep going.
I feel that this is a hugereason why women think every man
cheats Because these women wantthat man.
They won't say it, they're notgoing to tell you that, but
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that's the dude they like,that's the dude they attract,
that's the one they want andthey neither.
These are like the most,actually, because they'll fight.
He blame you for it, but thisis what you wanted.
So too many guy friends for meis well, no, no, you ain't gonna
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be white Gotcha.
Speaker 3 (12:44):
Okay, another one for
me is if you find hair on the
bed, that's not his or yours.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
Hair's?
Yeah, you're right, I meanhair's, but it's gotta be short
hair, Like you better know herfriends, because there's girls
out here with short hair too,like.
So I mean.
Speaker 3 (13:07):
Fuck that Nobody in
the bedroom.
The other thing, like when Iwas, when I was single, and
stuff like that.
You know what I'm saying?
Yeah, I did a lot of work.
I will tell you right now, Iwould clean off the bed every
time I invited somebody.
That's fucking, but it'sbecause I was trying to get the
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previous DNA off my bed.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:33):
You know what I'm
saying.
I never want to get caught.
I got caught once.
One girl caught me with a.
She was like she pulled out ofhair from the pillowcase.
Well, who's this?
I had to say oh, that's mydaughter's.
You know she.
She slept in the bed with mebecause she was here.
She had a nightmare for her.
You know, I got a daughter.
We're saying I got a girl,Saying but but after that I was
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a girl.
I'm cleaning this bed out everyfucking time.
Nah, you know what I'm saying.
Every mistake I made, I learnedon that mistake.
You know what I'm saying.
I think that's one thing isthat DNA found on your bed.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
Yeah, yeah.
Well, in that case peoplebetter start buying steaming.
Damn bro.
Speaker 3 (14:31):
I mean say, for
example, let's say, for example,
you're dating a woman right whohas a lot of female friends and
they're always hanging out ather house.
Well then that's a little bitdifferent, that's more
challenging.
You know what I'm saying,because obviously their hair is
going to be all over the place.
You know they're always hangingout at her house.
Well then, that's a little bitdifferent, that's more
challenging.
You know what I'm saying,because obviously their hair is
going to be all over the place.
You know what I'm saying.
But if you're a guy like ifyou're with somebody and they're
kind of like, not like, thatthey're not hanging out with
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people, they don't invite peopleover to their house all the
time, then there's no reason whythere's any DNA in this house,
yep, so you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
Take it with a grain
of salt.
But that is one red flag.
That's funny.
This is a funny-assconversation.
It just popped in my fuckinghead and was like yo, we gotta
talk about it, okay.
Okay, what else I got?
I mean, it's really aboutTiming.
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I guess the opposite person notletting them see the phone
phone like at least to themoment that you guys are in the
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relationship.
Anything before the relationshipyou know like are we together
now Don't count Like you gottaconfirm that, because there's
women out here that I'll checkthe phone and be like what you
talking about?
We together?
I didn't know we was together.
(16:14):
I didn't know we was together.
Speaker 3 (16:17):
And you know what her
answer is you put your dick in
me.
Speaker 2 (16:20):
We are together Damn.
That's fucking shit.
Fuck that shit.
And it's funny because, like soevery woman that I've dealt
with lately, this is like lately, because I became single this
whole year congratulations.
(16:43):
I'm so happy you are living thedream and thank you, thank you,
it is awesome.
So they come to me because Iguess I'm a different person now
.
Like before my relationship Iwas damn near 400 pounds.
(17:04):
After my relationship I'm 250.
Speaker 3 (17:09):
That's good, yeah,
and remember, you're fucking
tall, you're like 6'4".
Speaker 2 (17:16):
Yeah, but I'm like
living a whole other life, you
know, than I was before.
So Each woman tells Like.
I think every woman Tells me oh, you probably have a bunch of
women.
And I'm like Yo, how do youjust assume that?
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But you see, this is the thing.
Now I'm realizing it's becausethese women like that type of a
man.
So these are the women I'mfucking attracting to right now.
And they, when they tell methat now I'm like okay, so you,
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you're going to let me fuckanother bitch.
All right, I got you, andDamien does not fail, like it
hasn't failed for me yet.
And I'm just noticing this nowLike these women, women like a
man that is attractive,attractive, yes, but what they
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don't understand is that whenyou Like, I say like this,
practicing doesn't make perfect,but it don't make you worse, it
makes you better.
Speaker 3 (18:38):
You know what I don't
want to.
I don't want to agree with youon that, because I don't want to
say that they know what they'regetting into.
I think the problem, the thingis they don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
They don't know
they're not understanding what
they're asking for as well.
Speaker 3 (18:58):
What I'm saying is
that I don't think they're ready
for it.
That also happens, yeah, butwhat I'm saying is that I don't
think they're ready for it.
You know what I'm sayingBecause that also happens with
guys.
You know, guys pick up this,you know the hottest chick in
the club or in the bar, whatever, there's some beautiful chick
and oftentimes they parade her,they show her off and stuff like
that.
Then they don't knowConsequence that comes with all
the problems you're gonna have,because everyone's gonna try to
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hit on this woman you guysdefend.
Speaker 2 (19:22):
Mm-hmm oh.
Speaker 3 (19:25):
Yeah.
So I don't think I don't thinkwith those women I Did.
I don't think they're, I don'tthink they understand what comes
with it.
Speaker 2 (19:35):
But that's like hey,
they don't understand what
they're asking for, but hey,what do you want to do?
Speaker 3 (19:41):
you want them to do,
you want them to go for the ugly
dudes, it's not that.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
It's just like I'm
not saying that.
I'm just saying like, don't getmad.
If you get what you're askingfor, you get what you make.
You get what you do.
If you put the work in, you getwhat you're you get what you do
.
If you put the work in, you getwhat you put in the work in for
.
Okay, okay, okay, I got you.
Speaker 3 (20:10):
Alright, so my next
red flag is and this is I guess
this is a generic one becauseit's been used so many times.
You know what I'm saying.
Say, for example, if the guy orthe girl comes home smelling
like the opposite sex, cologneor perfume.
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Or even say, for example, theguy comes home with lipstick on
his shirt, shit like that.
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (20:37):
Well, I think that's
because that, because that's
kind of hard.
Now, I could say yes to that ifit was the same woman.
If you know that smell, yeah.
Or if that person keeps comingwith the same smell for like a
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period of time, there's apattern.
Speaker 3 (21:02):
Yeah, I couldn't
agree with that Exactly, he's
wearing.
Speaker 2 (21:07):
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry, go ahead.
Speaker 3 (21:09):
And that's not the
cologne he's wearing.
Like you know, that's not whathe put on today.
Like why the fuck is he cominghome smelling like this?
Speaker 2 (21:16):
Yeah, or let's say,
for example let's say all right,
the guy or the woman comes homesmelling like they just took a
shower.
Speaker 3 (21:33):
Okay, yeah, I mean,
if he's not supposed to.
Yeah, yeah, you live with me.
How the hell are you justsmelling?
You just got out of the shower,yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:38):
It's just that some
things like it depends on like
people's's see.
This is why I go again.
I'm like hesitant on theseanswers because I am with it.
Absolutely right, you gottaunderstand.
Speaker 3 (21:50):
And important
situation yeah, no, no, yes,
that's not yeah so it's not,it's not, it's not.
It's not carved in stone.
That, this is it.
You know what I'm saying?
It's just red.
Speaker 2 (22:03):
I know it's not.
The reason why I say Is because, like, I'm fucking Damn near
everything Right now.
I'm trying to do everything Inone shot.
You know I'm a.
I see a lot of people, you know, in these nightclubs.
You know I'm always in and youknow I'm always in and you know
I talked to a lot of people, Iintroduced myself to a lot of
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people, so that's why I'm likeyou know, we do exactly all the
things that these, that women,be accusing.
What is the?
Speaker 3 (22:36):
overthinking it,
because this is your profession.
We're talking about the averageperson.
Let's take, for example, thewoman is the administrative
assistant, the guy is a fucking.
The guy is a doctor, or maybehe's a fucking carpenter, a
construction guy.
You know what I'm saying.
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That's what we're talking about.
Like I said, there's exceptions.
You know what I'm saying.
If you work in the nightclubentertainment business and stuff
like that, like you got tounderstand, you're mingling with
different people.
Of course you're going to pickup other people's sense.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
But we're not.
Speaker 3 (23:14):
Like I said, you got
to use your common sense with
these red flags.
Yes yes, yes, if your man, ifyour partner is a club promoter
and they come home withdifferent scents and you're like
, oh, you're cheating.
You're a dumbass for thinkingthat, because you know what they
do for work.
If you are dating a stripperand she smells like booty ass,
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you can't assume she's cheatingbecause that's her fucking job.
Yeah, all right, all right.
So let's don't overdo this.
It's not that okay, okay gotcha.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
Uh, oh shit, uh, yeah
, like you said, shower, I guess
, shower.
If the shower is wet, yeah,showers.
I mean, there's so much, yeah,there's so much, yeah, there's
so much Again.
I guess another way is thatit's a little different for guys
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and girls.
Speaker 3 (24:19):
Yeah, but still
mention it because it could.
There's red flags for both.
It doesn't matter, we're notjust doing it just for women.
I mean, even mention red flagsthat you've experienced, that
you gave other people or you'veseen other people do to you.
It doesn't matter, you knowwhat I'm saying.
Just bring a red flag andthat's it.
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We're trying to help peoplenotice it.
Our generation that's coming upnow are not going to be very
proficient in socializing anddating and doing all these stuff
that we did before, becausethey have all these apps and
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phones and all this stuff.
You know what I'm saying?
Like, even if you go to theclub now, people are not dancing
, they're on their fucking phone.
You know what I'm saying.
Or going Facebook Live showingeverybody that they're having
fun by the damn self.
You're saying, like, how youknow?
Speaker 2 (25:15):
so you know, yeah
well, uh, that's a good one with
social distancing if yourpartner is like staying away
from you longer than normal.
Speaker 3 (25:36):
Hmm, that is a good
point.
Okay, I'm going to add to thatIf the person is breaking plans,
with you.
Speaker 2 (25:48):
Yeah, that is a good
one too.
Mm-hmm, that is a good one too,even like changing acting
different.
I mean that's hard because yougotta know your person.
You know, like you really gottaknow your person what, what I
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mean by that.
Speaker 3 (26:18):
Yeah, that's the hard
one, Okay, so, um one for
another one that I'm gonna addis say, for example, you live
with the person and they'regoing out to do some basic
generic shit Maybe go shoppingor whatever and they put on
their makeup and wear theirfavorite cologne or perfume,
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like that's a fucking sign.
Speaker 2 (26:45):
Yeah, I mean, if they
don't normally, yeah, fuck,
yeah, that's a sign.
I mean, yeah, fuck, yeah,that's a sign.
I mean, let me see, let me see,I think there's a classic one.
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You know, going up out of theroom to either text well,
definitely, texting phone call,you know, you dudes on persons,
on this person's on job, it iswhat it is.
But even the phone calls iswhat red flags, me too.
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But it's such a thin linenowadays, depending on what they
do.
You know you already know whatthe person does.
So yeah, so yeah, separatingfrom from you, not not doing
phone stuff in front of you.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
Okay, you know,
here's the.
I'm gonna bring up one.
It doesn't technically meanthat you're a cheater.
It does actually stuff in frontof you.
Okay, I'm going to bring up one.
It doesn't technically meanthat you're a cheater.
Actually, to be honest with you, it doesn't mean that you're a
cheater, but I think that thisinfluences the act of making a
mistake and that someone whodoes not hold in it.
Speaker 2 (28:14):
Hmm, hmm.
Speaker 3 (28:16):
Yeah.
How many times a dude gets drunkand they, yeah, I'm sorry
repeat that you know how manytimes you have a dude or a girl
drinking too much, partying toohard, and then they make a
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mistake that they wish that theycould take back, that they
regret, and then they try totheir partner finds out and they
try to explain to them that wasthe alcohol, this and that as
well, don't fucking drink orchill the fuck out on it.
You know what I'm saying.
But people who drink heavily,I'm not saying they're cheaters,
but it just puts you at a highrisk of cheating.
Speaker 2 (29:02):
Yeah, definitely.
I think all this is high riskof cheating.
I guess you could say, withthis highs and lows, we got to
put a volume on that.
I guess you could say, withthis highs and lows, we gotta.
We gotta like, put a volume onthat, put a like, I don't know,
but eventually we gotta dosomething like that.
The levels of it you got.
(29:28):
You got any more.
Speaker 3 (29:30):
Let me see.
Speaker 2 (29:32):
I know it's fun, I'm
just trying to break them down.
All right, you know, like uhdid we say hanging out too much.
Speaker 3 (29:45):
Uh, yes, we did.
That was my first one, kind ofNot hanging out too much, but
staying out late and stuff likethat.
Speaker 2 (29:53):
Yeah, but I'm saying
like hanging out too much but
staying out late and stuff likethat, yeah, but I'm saying
hanging out too much or makingtoo many plans without you.
Speaker 3 (30:02):
Yes, there you go.
Funny story, since you broughtthat up, right?
I remember that I was withsomeone and I was with someone,
right, and I was going out tosee another person.
And she was like and I, youknow, I go up to her and I go
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and I tell her I'm going out,I'm going to go do this, this,
that blah blah with the guys,you know what I'm saying,
whatever.
And she's like oh okay, cool,can I go with you?
She just, and I was like Icalled her bluff.
I was like, yeah, you can come,let's go.
Later on, when I was about togo, she was like ah, no, I'm
tired, I'm just going to stayhome.
She did that to see if I wasgoing to say no, because if she
(30:51):
could go, I was going to cancelmy fucking plan and do something
else.
Okay, but yeah, that is a goodone that you brought up.
Yep, I ran out of red flags,but I think the red flags that
we put out would be good enough,so hold on.
Speaker 2 (31:11):
I think I got a
couple more.
Put out was good enough, sohold on.
I got a.
Speaker 3 (31:13):
I think I got a
couple more oh, so then go ahead
, bring it up uh vacationwithout you vacation.
Speaker 2 (31:22):
Oh yeah, yeah, that's
a good one, yeah vacation
without you, like nah, I don'twhat else.
Nah, I don't need anything,what else?
Yeah, I guess that's it, thevacation without you.
There's just so many in there.
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It's the same thing Even on thevacation sometimes.
But whatever, you gotta be realslick for that one.
They're bad moves.
Speaker 1 (31:53):
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