去年有一本畅销书，嘉倩的《独居冰岛的一年》，作者呈现了自己真实的冰岛生活，冰川、极光、一个人的徒步，跳滑翔伞、静静流淌的暖气热水，锅里煮着的红豆粥，马卡龙颜色的天空和大海……这一切，都让人对独居充满遐想。当静静地生活半年甚至更久之后，新鲜感和好奇心褪去，剩下无人分享的碎语和热望，以及充足到吃不消的独处时间，有意义的连结被断开，一切都迅速的变得“没意思”，面对的是如何连接世界和单一性的问题。独居很好，但人类需要人类，个人的面相需要在一个他者那里被反馈，没有这个，「认识自己」这个概念，也就无从谈起。（by island）
本期节目主题的灵感来源于刚刚到了芬兰开始独居生活的晨如，我们聊了对独居生活的一些个人态度和独居对自己产生的一些生活和想法上的改变。
#hightlight
独居生活里那些击中自己的时刻。
“确定感”的来源是什么
未独居时，对独居生活的浪漫想象。
在什么情况下会义无反顾结束独居生活。
结尾彩蛋。
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