这期节目，我们聚焦在过去惊涛骇浪的一年里每个人对「良好生活」的思考上。那些我们原本确凿的、如真理一样被我们把握的东西，是不是经得住大浪的冲刷。
陈嘉映老师在《何为良好生活》里在传达和引导我们思考的，也是“什么不是良好生活”而不是告诉我们一套教条一般的东西让我们去遵守。“良好生活”从来也不是一个教条或者刻度一样的东西来衡量。
无论理想还是利益，都离不开一个具体的环境，包括ta心仪的生活典范和自己的禀赋。我们生活的意义，不是想出来的，不是论证出来的，而是被感受到的，通过生存和劳作的直接性感受到。自己跟劳作结合在一起，像小学生的作业本，踏踏实实写完每一页，不要“加急”，不要轻易点击空格和翻页，也像农民中玉米，秋收和冬藏，有它自己的时节。
陈老师说：“人到中年，如果还停留在年轻时代的理想方式上，人就变得抽象了，我们在成长和做事的过程中，变得具体。”
具体的生活意味着，去解决具体的问题，连接具体的人，同时有能力去维护自己真正喜欢的东西，享受那种不控制热情的剂量带来的丰盈感受，那是一种微妙的幸福感，它不是一个类似于“更高更快更强”的口号。
良好生活的大厦已经落成，但在那之上永远有两朵乌云。建设自己的良好生活，这种建设里包括批判和改造。所有解释世界的那些方式，都不能带我们去到哪里。
承认我们的需要，面对自己的脆弱，只有当人义无反顾走向真诚的时候，ta的生命才真的得以展开，自我的问题其实不存在难题。
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