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October 31, 2025 27 mins

In this episode, I answer a DM from a listener who needed advice about her loser boyfriend... and let’s just say, the red flags were flying. But here’s the twist… sometimes, the “loser” energy doesn’t just come from the person we’re dating. It might be coming from us.

I’m breaking down the most common traits and behaviours that define a “loser” in a relationship. From lack of ambition and emotional immaturity to avoidance, codependency, and more.

If any of this sounds a little too familiar… this episode is your wake-up call.

🎙️ Listen if you’ve ever asked yourself:

“Why do I keep attracting the same kind of men?”

“Am I settling for less than I deserve?”

“Could I be the problem in my relationships?”

It’s time to raise your standards for who you date and who you are in love with.

💬 Tune in, reflect, and maybe take some notes... because if you’re tired of dating losers, it’s time to make sure you’re not being one.

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