In this episode of our podcast Steve and Colleen explore the themes of safety, trust, and the importance of surrounding oneself with safe people. They delve into childhood experiences that shape our understanding of safety, the significance of having trustworthy counselors, and the impact of family dynamics on our ability to trust others.
The metaphor of a 'glass ball' is introduced to illustrate the fragility of trust and the need to be cautious about whom we allow into our lives. The discussion also highlights the traits of unsafe individuals and the importance of recognizing these behaviors to foster healthier relationships.
In this conversation, Steve and Colleen delve into the complexities of spiritual abuse, the importance of identifying safe individuals in one's life, and the role of Christ in the healing journey. They discuss the attributes that define a safe person, the necessity of holding space for others, and practical steps toward personal healing and growth.
The conversation emphasizes the need for authentic relationships and the transformative power of forgiveness and understanding.
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Chapters
00:00 Finding Safe Spaces in Childhood
01:56 The Importance of Safe Counselors
04:10 Identifying Safe and Unsafe People
06:05 The Impact of Family Patterns on Trust
09:56 The Glass Ball Metaphor for Trust
18:06 Recognizing Unsafe Behaviors in Relationships
19:58 Defining Unsafe People and Their Traits
28:41 Understanding Power Dynamics in Spiritual Abuse
32:02 Identifying Safe vs. Unsafe People
33:30 The Role of Christ in Healing
41:55 Attributes of a Safe Person
49:51 The Importance of Holding Space
54:34 Practical Steps Towards Healing and Safety
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