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Speaker 1 (00:13):
cheers, cheers.
We have a lemon drop and I'mhere with lynn.
How are you, my love?
Hi, I'm good, I am really good.
Yeah, we've been sipping onthis lemon drop because we
remade it because it was toofull, so you know we've been
sippings.
Have you been my?
Speaker 2 (00:34):
love.
I have been good Truly.
I feel like I can finally say Ihave been good, so yes.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
Yeah, it's always a
journey, right?
Yes, yes absolutely.
Mental health is um a work inprogress, always yes, yes.
So what's been new with you?
Speaker 2 (00:52):
um nothing much.
I mean um earlier we werejoking about how you know, once
you're old and settled, there'snot a whole lot of fun stuff
right, we don't have too many.
I don't think I have.
Yeah, there's not much yeah Ifeel the same way.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
I just I do this and
then I talk to peoples and
that's it yeah, well, thank youfor having me.
Yeah, I'm so happy you agreed.
I thought maybe you were goingto be too busy and I was like
she's not gonna have time tohang out with me and do this
podcast, but no I love to havejesus, but, uh, I love to
support you.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
So, yeah, I am, yeah,
I always make time.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
So we've been friends
for what?
How many years long time?
Speaker 2 (01:32):
uh, oh my, you know
it's funny because I feel like I
always count before covid andafter covid.
Yes, it's like so bc ad, solike I know right, so like maybe
three years before covid, solike 2017?
Speaker 1 (01:45):
yes, yeah, maybe a
little before it's so crazy,
like if you maybe a littlebefore, but my gosh, it's like
yeah, it's been a long time.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
2017, that sounds
like a long time.
It's eight years.
I mean it is a long time, butit just sounds like way too long
.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
I feel like we're not
old enough to be friends for
eight years yes exactly okay,exactly exactly like I'm still
23, what are you talking?
About I'm still 27.
Oh, I made myself younger yeah,I was gonna say perfect.
Yay, yes, because I am the babyof the group, I was gonna say
no, you're not.
We celebrate your birthdayfirst, I know it's okay, you're
(02:19):
gonna be 24 again.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
It's okay.
I tell everybody whatever ageyou want.
Yeah, you can be that again.
So yeah, next year I'm gonna be27 again you know what really
bugs me?
Speaker 1 (02:28):
so my boyfriend, he
keeps saying that he's 33 you're
not, by the way, just want tolet you know okay, well, hold on
the point.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
The the thing, though
, is like, when you choose an
age, you also have to look, andgo by it.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Oh no, he's about to
have issue with you.
I was gonna say he's gonna withme after this one no, he says
he's 33, and at first well, 33for like the fifth time for the
fifth we're talking about.
We're like fucking 20 plusyears later.
No, but I'm like dude, thecloser I get to 33, the closer I
am to punching you when you sayyou're 33, right, you can't say
(03:01):
you're 33, because then you'regonna be 33, then yeah, when I'm
gonna be older than you, rightover my dead body, yeah which it
might be over his dead body ifhe keeps saying it I swear he's
bugging the crap out of me withit, you're not 33 just want to
let you know more like 37,should we give him 37?
I don't even want to give himthat kind of grace, because he's
(03:23):
just been bugging me with it.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
That's funny.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
He's been saying 33.
We've been together for what?
Almost seven years.
Is it seven years?
Yeah, back then, like when Iwas, you know, 25, I was like,
oh, that's funny.
And now I'm about to be 32 andI'm like it's not funny anymore
yeah.
Seven years, yeah, seven yearsyou and I've been friends for
eight years and you've beentogether with him for seven yeah
, I almost feel like you guys,or like I've knew you guys
(03:49):
longer than that I know that'swhy I was all like, hmm, like I
was, yeah, I was like I feellike the timing's off, but yeah,
because I remember when westarted like hooking up that I
was gonna say.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Were you guys hooking
up like way before the
announcement?
I know I was the last yeah,probably to be.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Yeah, well, no, you
weren't like the last one, I was
like kind of like I don't know,we were just trying to keep it
a secret.
Because we were trying to keepit a secret, yeah, and then,
yeah, when people startedfinding out, I was like kind of
denying it, being like I don'tknow what you're talking about.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
That's so funny
because if you didn't tell me
like I feel, like I've neverwould have known.
Yeah, because you're not, butyou're also not like I mean,
obviously I was oblivious, butbut you're not a nosy nelly I
was gonna say it's like Iobviously care for you, right,
like your friendship, but likeI'm not like all about like
you're not like prying intopeople's business, like unlike
me no, I, I swear I rememberright now, like the day you told
(04:41):
me, because you know what Ithink it's the same day about
the my gremlin story, I think oh, was it.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Oh wait, it is
because we went back to my house
because I was going to vegasthat day and we were like out
partying like super late and Iwas like dude, I got to go to
vegas in like two hours I don'tremember that part, but I do
remember.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Maybe we'll say we
still feel like so I'm gonna
spoil my gremlin story.
Okay, yeah, but yeah, I, Ithink I remember.
Now you told me that day and Iwas like I was like too much is
happening, like what is this?
Speaker 1 (05:13):
like it's not a good
time to be breaking this kind of
news yeah, but it was like yeah, because our anniversary is
june 21st, 22, 22nd, I don'tknow, I always forget the date.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
I'm sorry, it's one
of those days Under eight years.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Girl yeah, but it's
one of those days 21st or 22nd,
but yeah, and then that happenedin like December the Vegas.
When we went to Vegas, it waslike December.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Okay, I don't
remember month, I just yeah, it
was December, I remember.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
December.
I remember I'm like a poet, I'ma poet and I don't even know it
, but yeah that was.
Yeah, so yeah, I guess you werethe last to know.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
I want yeah.
Why did you know what?
Let's get intoing.
I'm going to start likebringing up things from the past
.
Why did you tell me last?
Speaker 1 (06:05):
I didn't mean to tell
you last.
I thought you knew, actually,hold on.
I did kind of tell you at onepoint and then it was like in
passing conversation I can't sayhow I told you on here, because
then I'm like blowing up ourspot, yeah.
But then, yeah, I told you andyou were like, oh okay.
And yeah, but then, yeah, Itold you and you were like oh,
(06:28):
okay, and then that was it.
Oh man, I'm sorry, I was likereally oblivious, I'm gonna cut
it here, okay, yeah, so now Iokay, so we're back from a break
.
I told her what happened andthen she was like, oh, okay,
yeah so yeah so I guess I wasn'tthe last.
No, she just um didn't careenough to retain the information
.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
I'm sorry heart brain
trauma.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
I could only focus on
one thing at a time, and that
was just like not importantright now.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
What else is
happening?
Okay, great, yeah, notimportant enough.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
So yeah, so
technically, you weren't the
last to know.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
I don't know who
would be the last to know.
Okay, I'm glad we cleared thatup, yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
I still I love you.
I would, of course, would tellyou.
I told you in a panic, but Itold you.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
I do remember that.
I didn't want to know, though.
Yeah, Because I remember youwere like I have to tell you
something, and I don't know whyI feel like am I going to?
Speaker 1 (07:26):
and I'm like no, I
rather like seriously.
I'd rather not know.
You'd rather be in the darkthan know a secret.
See, I'm the opposite.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
I want to know
everybody's business at all
times I feel like I take it tooserious like for example, if it
comes to like, I guess, jailstuff or whatever, like you know
, like what do you think I wasgonna tell you I committed a
crime?
No, I'm just saying like I feellike it's those years where
like, let's say, like my husbandand my boyfriend's like a
criminal, and I'm like I almostrather not know Because what if
they do like a, like a polytest,and then like how?
Speaker 1 (07:50):
can I lie so you
could never be like a mob wife,
I mean A girl.
You better get with it, you andyour fur coats, better fucking
I know right with it.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
It depends.
I feel like it's different,because when you're married and
you're not talking about likethe prison stuff, like if you're
married you technically likethey can, um, then you can know
stuff.
But I guess yeah we have to bemarried, otherwise don't.
I don't want to know.
You're like bitch.
Put the ring on it, yeah,because then you know you, I
can't be against, you, can't beagainst your husband.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
This is all alleged,
by the way Alleged.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Allegedly.
No, it's a thing.
No, I'm saying oh, no, no, no,the present day.
I'm just saying like I take itso serious that I was like this
sounds like I don't want to know, because then I'm going to be
in trouble.
You can do whatever go down byyourself.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Yeah, you can do
whatever, but anyways.
And then you told me and I waslike oh, okay, I was like yeah,
did you think I was gonna tellyou I was part of, like a crime
ring?
Speaker 2 (08:53):
no, no, no, no, but
for, for whatever reason, I
thought it was like so seriousthat I just like like should not
know oh my god, and it turnsout you'd known the information
all along, you just didn't keepit yeah, basically yeah, yeah,
well, I'm good, I'm glad we'reclearing this up yeah, cheers
(09:15):
for that it was weighing ourfriendship for all these years
back to business.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Back to business, all
right, so you have your kitties
.
How are your?
Your baby kitties?
Speaker 2 (09:27):
um, my babies are
fine, they're so cute.
You know, milo just turnedthree, like a few weeks ago, and
I'm like you're three years old.
So if you're three years old,mila's like five or six is he a
sphinx cat?
Speaker 1 (09:40):
because he I've seen
like his video he's got like
little tufts of hair yeah, somilo has a peach fuss.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Yeah, actually it's
not like a a puss, it's really
like she, he's got hair yeah,he's like.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
That's why I was like
is he like a?
Speaker 2 (09:54):
mix, maybe no, I
guess, I don't know what
happened to that one?
He just special he came, hecame out a little more hairy
than it should be.
Yeah, I don't know whathappened there.
Honestly, I'm still trying toget my money back on that one.
Uh, no, because here's what'scrazier.
So mila, uh, is the auntie ofmilo.
So mila's sister had babies andone of the babies is milo yeah
(10:20):
so they're related, they.
So it's kind of crazy becausewhen I got I was like, oh, you
know, it's like, this is yourmommy, like you know.
Because I was like, oh, youknow, it's like, this is your
mommy, like you know, becauseit's like an older woman, you
know she's a female.
But then I'm like, oh, buttechnically you're the auntie,
but like she's like your baby.
And then like it's like brother, mommy, auntie, everything.
Did she treat him like her babywhen he first came, or was she
(10:47):
just like no, she was a total Babout it.
She hated him.
She kind of still does.
Well, he's a boy, he cherubizesher, yeah.
So you know, there's times thatthey cuddle and they're very
cutesy together, but there aretimes that, like Mila just
cannot stand him Right.
So I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
She wants her to ease
in.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
In general, Just
bugging her.
Yeah, you know she likes herspace and sometimes, you know,
if he is like too close, likeliterally, if he just like walks
by, she'll go like and it'slike dude, he's not even okay, I
get it.
He tried, like he's traumatized, you know, because he abuses
her, but like right now he's notdoing anything to you.
So relax, yeah.
(11:20):
But yeah, if she's likecuddling me, and then he'll come
and like maybe get near, yeah,she's grumpy, and then she runs
away, she's just a grumpy lady.
I mean, yeah, mila, you know,for a while I did feel bad
because I, you know, I've hadMila and you know I thought she
(11:40):
really needed company, which iswhy I got him A companion, yeah,
but then I'm like sometimes Ifeel bad, I'm like maybe I
should have gotten him, becauseI guess, you know, it was like
my three years that her and Iwere together, Just you know,
just me, and her, I think, evenif she doesn't like him all the
time.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
No, I think she does
enjoy.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
It's better.
Yeah, to have better.
yeah, to have company, likeyou're not home all the time
yeah, so well I am home more now, but obviously I still travel
and stuff, so it does make iteasier, I think.
And then even just like rightnow, like I'm out, even just
doing this, like you know, I Idon't feel bad for leaving her,
yeah, alone so long.
But then again the times where,like he's just going great,
(12:22):
like he goes great, he goes likefull wrestling, attack like
jump arms.
So he's just going crazy, likehe goes great, he goes like full
wrestling, attack like jumparms so he's still in like
kitten mode almost basically Iguess I don't listen.
Sometimes I really have to likespray him with the water like I
had to yeah, I had to spray himand I scream at him.
Sometimes I do lock him out inthe room, so like it's literally
like toddlers, like I'mscreaming like hey guys, yeah,
(12:43):
you know.
And so sometimes I feel badbecause I'm like it's literally
like toddlers, like I'mscreaming like hey guys, yeah,
you know.
And so sometimes I feel badbecause I'm like he's like
disturbing her peace, you knowhe's just got energy.
Speaker 1 (12:52):
You know, I don't
know, I feel like, because I
mean my cats, they're older,mickey, my the black cat, he's
older than missy the white oneand he's the terror.
He's the one that will bullythe younger one and he's like
like 10, or no, missy's 10, sohe's gotta be like 11, 12 and he
still has his moments where helike is like hunting him, but
(13:14):
not in like a mean way, he'sjust like, it's like he's just
trying to mess with him.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
It's like, yeah, you
know.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
But he is being a
bully because it's not
reciprocated.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
He's like missy, like
in the corner, like like afraid
yeah, so like milo likes to,the way he likes to play is like
full wrestle attack.
And then mila, she likes tochase, more like chasing around,
like running yeah so you know,like they just don't, the
personalities kind of don'tmatch yeah so I feel bad
sometimes, but you know, nowit's been three years, so you
know just what it is you can'tget rid of it now.
(13:42):
Now it's part of the family, butI just feel like you know, for
a while, like it was just me, itwas just the girls, you know,
just me and my female cat.
And then, all of a sudden, youknow, like my boyfriend came
along.
So you know, just like a.
Speaker 1 (13:52):
She's like a man.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
Yeah sure, and then
my like, the guys started coming
in and just kind of like youknow she's like what is
happening to my life?
Speaker 1 (14:08):
yeah, what is this?
I really do feel that waythough.
But you gotta figure, like youknow, if you had like, oh, like
you first had like a daughter,and then like you have another
baby and it's a boy.
You know, yeah, I know, it'sjust what happens but yeah, it's
gonna be bad, it's okay, I'msure they're cuddling right now
you know, recently it's again.
Speaker 2 (14:28):
It's crazy because
they kind of switch, but
recently they have been sleeping.
You know I have no new beds.
Oh, because you know me thathad so many beds and so many
things, yeah, like enough that Idon't.
I didn't buy bigger new beds,so now they're.
Where should be one cat?
There's two cats in there sothey barely fit.
But yeah, they're, they'rethey're cuddling in there.
(14:51):
Oh, that's cute though it's cute, but then there's a lot of
growling before the cutenessbecause, again, if mila's in
there, then milo starts comingin and she's, like you know, not
happy about it, but then she'lllike lick it.
They're crazy, they're just,they're too much.
They gotta settle before theyget comfy Exactly.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
So, like, when you do
travel, what do you do like
with them?
Do you have like a cat sitter?
Do you take them to like akennel, Like what do you do so?
Speaker 2 (15:16):
at first with Mila.
If it's like a longer trip,then I will leave her at this,
uh, cat center, uh, like youknow, boarding basically, and
(15:39):
then my look him around andobviously the trips were just
like it's impossible, impossibleto take two, exactly.
I just say kids, but I meanthey're my kids and so now
they're, definitely they were.
I will leave them at theboarding center.
Speaker 1 (15:54):
Yeah, basically
Boarding school.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
I know right.
But now actually recently Ifound these like I get sitters.
So they come to my place nowbecause, you know, I like the
cat center.
They treat them well and theylove them and they have like cat
walks and it's like it's like aplay there.
Honestly, when I pick them upfrom there, like it's like
little kids, like they don'twant to leave the park,
basically.
Uh.
(16:18):
But now I have the sitter come,just because it's easier,
because, let's say, you know, ifI have to catch a flight, then
I have to like pack all theirstuff, like their feet or the
water, whatever, and then I haveto take him there.
You know, come back, get mystuff.
It's like a lot, you know.
Then coming back to, let's say,if I come back um late night,
then obviously I have to waittill the next morning to be able
(16:39):
to pick them up um, and alsothat, like sometimes, like you
know, when I I ride home andit's like it's it's, it really
feels like it's empty, likenobody's home you
know, um, so now with the sitterI kind of like it better
because I feel like they havemore space.
They don't have a catwalk likeat the center, but you know
they're not in, like it'sbasically a cage right, like
(17:01):
it's a big condo they call themcondos and they're very roomy or
whatever.
But you know they're not outand about like all day there's
been, even though they're reallygood to me.
They will leave them out,depending if there's not a lot
of cats in that one like room,for example, they will leave
them out like all day outside,like the, the kennel, uh.
But if there's cats, then youknow they only go out like for
(17:21):
an hour and so you know I feellike they have like constricted
space, right.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
So if they're at the
house, then they can do the
realm of the house yeah exactlyRight.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
So and again, just
because it's easier, I'm doing
that now.
I have a lady that comes in.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
So where have you
been traveling to lately?
Speaker 2 (17:46):
Well, I travel back
and forth from the Bay at san
jose in la because my partnerlives in san jose.
So we go back and forth.
You know if I'm not up therehe's down here, and you know
sometimes just travel.
You know just like places wherewe go.
You know if you'd like go onvacation, you know right, but
but mostly just back and forththe bay and like, depending like
if we're doing car stuff, a lotof stuff happens, I mean like
all over basically but that waslike gonna segue into.
Speaker 1 (18:06):
My next topic was
like the car, like you were very
much into like the car world,car modeling, the car industry.
So I kind of want to talk aboutthe good old days.
So, yeah, what got you startedin that and all that?
Speaker 2 (18:22):
yeah, take it away
okay, well, my passion for cars
like it's so crazy because Ialways hear, you know, like, uh,
when you meet girls that are inthe industry, either like just
just car lovers or models orwhatever, um, well, especially a
girl that's really into cars,like they're fixing them and the
modding them and the you knowmaintenance or whatever, is
(18:44):
usually because they have, likeeither their father or their
older brother, like someone gotthem into that world.
And for me, like I I didn'thave that.
So like I always felt, like Iremember, uh, when I was little
and let's say, if I heard like acar, you know, like an exhaust,
and I liked, I was like, oh,what's that?
And so I just remember, likeI've always just kind of sauce,
(19:04):
whatever.
And if I liked, I was like, oh,what's that?
And so I just remember likeI've always just kind of like
cars.
And then obviously once I got myfirst car and that's kind of
when I started really gettinginto it, like I don't even know
how I found this um car club forthat car that I had before like
my first car, and like I guessthey had like car meets and you
know, it's like a car meets arelike it just in a random parking
(19:27):
lot like a home depot at night,and I remember like, um, I was,
I was so confident in myyounger years, um, like I just
went by myself.
You know, I'm like I always sayI have like single nobody, like
I just and I didn't knowanybody just like showed up to
the meet, yeah, and just startedmaking friends, and one thing
led to another.
Somehow I don't quite.
I remember the person who gotme into the car shows has a
(19:50):
model, but I don't quiteremember like how that even
happened.
Like how did I even meet thisperson?
Uh, I guess I should give them ashout out.
You know, yeah, he knows I lovehim, like it's he's part of my
journey.
Uh, he owns long beach autotech.
Um, yeah, he just was like comemodel for my car, I wanted to
shows and and I went and then,you know, you just meet people
(20:11):
and yeah, like just just gonnaso that was like your start into
the industry yeah exactly, yeahand then obviously I started
learning more and being into thescene like it's becoming really
a model, because obviously youknow before, like I don't know
how to post, I don't know how totake photos with the cars, like
I don't know any of this stuff,and I started learning and
eventually, you know, I finessedmy way into getting paid to go
(20:34):
to these shows, right, you know,as a model like, yay, you know,
and so yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
So what was like your
first like big car show, do you
remember?
Or like the one that you werejust like, oh my god, I get to
go to that uh, you know what Ifeel like you.
Speaker 2 (20:49):
That's crazy, because
when you said, like I didn't
have this, like I've made itthat way, but I do remember.
I don't remember the name ofthe show, but I do.
I like to have photos.
I remember the first show thatI went to, like I remember, like
the experience.
I can't remember the name orwhere it was, but I remember
when I was like Like I'm a model.
Speaker 1 (21:07):
Basically this is
cool.
Like this is it Like I'm doingit?
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:10):
But I didn't have
like oh my God, I've made it
Like honestly even like, after Ileft, I was, like I still
sometimes like I can't believe,like I again I do.
When I say finesse, I reallymean like finesse my way into
getting paid, Because thereality is that a lot of the
(21:37):
girls, especially the models,like you, you do, they're not
car girls, um, so they're justmodels and they start doing
these shows for exposure.
Okay, right, because then, likeyou start getting like they can
build a portfolio kind of thinga portfolio, you know, I guess
an audience like I don't know,social media following for
example, uh, and for me I, ifanything like I wanted to become
(21:59):
a car model or be there becauseI wanted to be around the cars,
because I truly am passionateabout the car stuff, yeah.
So I was like, oh, I can comehere and hang out and do all
this and get paid, right, youknow it's like it's no brainer
for me, I don't know.
But you know, I mean, I do loveit as a passion, but if I get
paid it's even better you know,that's kind of how.
(22:20):
Okay, that's how that happens.
Oh interesting, I never knewthat.
Yeah, and you see a lot of thelike the big models.
Again they start there and theymove on to other things, like
they become djs, they becomelike host of like whatever you
know.
So again, it's just kind oflike a platform.
So for that reason I think alot you know most girl and you
(22:41):
know when you start like youstart there, so you're, you know
you're, because you're like anobody, you don't know how to
post.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
You don't know how to
.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
You're nobody.
You kind of go there and becomesomething you know, a model,
and then you go on and it's likeyou're jumping off point.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
You're right, you're
point, like you'll be.
Speaker 2 (22:57):
You're your starting
point.
Yeah, you know.
So you know, we all start fromsomewhere in whatever it is that
you're doing, and that for thecar scene, for the models, that
is the the thing, that's it okayand so for me, until this day,
I'm like I I finessed my wayinto getting paid because I'm
just like I don't.
I mean, I know how I did it, butin my head I was like I don't
know how I like I did that, likeI really became this thing,
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that like like they were payingme to go, like why, what well,
this company's paying me.
I get it like I still can'tbelieve it, um, but yeah that's
cool.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
So then, so you've
been able to travel with like
your modeling, so where's beenlike the coolest place you've
been able to go to?
Speaker 2 (23:42):
um well, the coolest
um will be when I made my
partner.
We'll get into that.
But, um, as a car model, Ididn't travel so much for work,
for that work, because you knowyou have to be careful too.
So I actually did not travel somuch or travel too far, uh, for
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these events.
But I know girls, you know thatyou can fly, at least for now,
now that, um, I run the car clubwith my partner.
You know we fly the girlswherever it is that we're going.
So but just for me, I was verycautious as to like who was
hiring you.
I mean again, like don't turn mearound, like getting paid is
nice, right, but I was alwayscareful, like okay who is this
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company?
Speaker 1 (24:23):
or?
I mean, you don't want tobecome like a dateline episode
exactly.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
No, I mean, maybe
that's why, like I, like I have
these fears like I, I mean, it'sa real thing oh no, it's like
it's.
Speaker 1 (24:34):
It's scary.
Out there I was literallyyesterday, my boyfriend and I
we've been watching.
We needed like a new show tobinge, because all of our shows
are like off, you've off season.
So we went to like max and wewent on the id channel.
We found that this, this,what's it called?
Oh, it's called like a house ofwhores or something like
kidnapped whatever.
(24:54):
It's fucking terrifying.
It's a similar show to theDeadline.
Yeah, but it was about thisgirl.
She thought she was going to belike a traveling makeup artist
and so she went to the interviewand she felt weird about it.
So she went to leave and theypulled her into the car and they
it was a sex trafficking ring,right and she was stuck for like
a year and a half until finallyshe like kind of earned their
(25:17):
trust.
So they gave her a phone andthen she was like she played and
yeah, like she played the lone,but at the same like they like
broke her down and she was inthis thing and I'm just like, oh
my god, like I think I wouldhave been too scared to go to
the interview.
Speaker 2 (25:30):
It can happen to
anybody.
Anybody, a makeup artist likewhat?
Speaker 1 (25:34):
yeah, I mean she just
, she just thought she was gonna
like do makeup for, like youknow, like some like not like
big fashion shows, but just like.
Speaker 2 (25:40):
But again, I mean,
you start from somewhere, you
gotta start somewhere and I waslike like, honestly, there were
a few times where, like people,you know, I was messaging with
companies or people and it justit really felt weird, like oh,
you're whether like texas,arizona, whatever, and it felt
weird and I was like, yeah, Idon't think so, you know, like
okay, well, if you especially ifit's out of town right, like
okay, you're paying me my rate,my day rate or whatever it is,
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and you're getting me a like myown room and playing for my
airfare.
And again, when those detailskind of started being talked
about, you know, there werethere were some times that I
felt like we're energy.
So I was like, okay, yeah,maybe I should not go to that
and I didn't.
So I I turned down a lot ofjobs for that reason right yeah
(26:27):
well, that's good, I mean.
Speaker 1 (26:28):
But you know, I know
the girls get paid you know, I
know some, some other girls.
Speaker 2 (26:32):
You know they go to
texas or whatever the shows are
like, even hawaii, like you knowyeah, I mean it's a possibility
but a quick free trip to hawaiilike but what if it's not a?
Quick free trip to hawaii right, no, yeah you know, I'm just
saying like I've seen obviouslysome girls that have gone to
those places.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
Okay, so you said you
met your partner now?
Yeah, through a job.
Let's talk about that.
Speaker 2 (26:57):
Because we like to
talk about love, yeah, so okay,
newsflash.
I'm just kidding.
I'm basically dating my boss.
Speaker 1 (27:03):
I'm just kidding.
Speaker 2 (27:09):
That's always the
most fun.
I mean, I always like to jokearound because you know, like I
I mean I have gotten that beforewhen people like you, basically
I mean like he.
So he runs a card club and hehired me for one of his events,
right, and basically that's howI met and that was three years
ago, uh, three years ago, okay,yes, and sometimes when I have
told this story to people,they're like yeah, like you're a
(27:30):
baby.
I mean, I'm going to tell youone vivid story.
It was on a plane.
This lady was sitting next tome and I don't know why she felt
enticed to start talking to meand just asking me questions.
Long story short.
I don't know why I was tellingher that.
I think it was maybe I was onthe Like.
She asked you oh, why?
Speaker 1 (27:47):
are you?
Speaker 2 (27:47):
going here, yeah, I
don't know.
And then Longstreet Shore, shebasically gave me that like the
side eye, and they're like thejudge, you're like, oh, you're
like you're sleeping with yourboss.
Speaker 1 (27:56):
you're one of those.
Right like you those, but also,like lady, we're going to san
jose.
Speaker 2 (28:12):
I'm having a
conversation with you, mind your
goddamn business, right?
So, first of all, you're astranger, like you don't, I
don't need your little rudecomments and I'm like you're
asking me questions and like, Iguess, being friendly and social
, and then like our reciprocan.
You're being judgy?
Yeah, it's like she.
Speaker 1 (28:25):
She saw that the
conversation to like what?
Speaker 2 (28:27):
be mean.
No, I, I get, I mean listenthis whole thing, like listen, I
think I'm a feminist, yeah, butuh, you know, there's this
whole like world out there withmore opinionated women.
Speaker 1 (28:40):
I think a lot of
women hate, women like women are
.
Oh my gosh, we are women, hatewomen the most yeah, like we
should all band together andlike become one and bring, bring
each other up and build eachother and empower each other,
and instead we tear each otherdown and we talk shit and we
slut shame and we talk aboutlooks and this not.
(29:02):
It's like, why can't we justall like build each other up and
empower, like when you saidlike, oh, we love to talk about
love.
Speaker 2 (29:09):
I'm like, basically,
I'm telling you my love story
and you're like, oh, we love totalk about love.
I'm like, basically, I'mtelling you my love story and
you're like you're judging mefor it, like, yeah, like leave
me alone, but anyway, so, yeah,that that was that.
Yeah, but yes, I mean,basically, in the little
technicalities you know, hehired me for one of his events
and I was, you know, like it wasone of the models, and we just,
like you know, hit it off, likeyeah, I know it's looked upon,
(29:32):
like down, I guess, upon whatwas it?
looked down upon yeah, I lookeddown upon to like that stuff,
but first of all, it's not like.
It's like at a law firm or likeyeah, it's not like I'm the
secretary yeah like okay, yes,it was my boss for like a day,
yeah, like you know.
But anyways, point is, you knowlike these things happen and so
(29:53):
, anyways, so it happened, yeah,with us.
And we just like, oh, I guessthis is, this is, and, and also,
you know, we were like is thislike a fling?
It is like a you know or not,and you know obviously turns out
, we were right so yeah.
But yeah, and I mean honestly, Ican still say I am banging my
boss because you know, now Ihelp him and he's like business,
(30:14):
like he's you know um law firm,basically.
So, yeah, I'm still banging myboss there you go.
Speaker 1 (30:21):
Haha, lady on the
plane, I know right you know you
judgy bitches out there judgy.
So judgy, it's the worst.
Yeah, so after you met him, howlong after that, did you like
leave the like?
Modeling, car modeling industry.
Speaker 2 (30:38):
Yeah, that's.
I mean yeah About two years, Ithink.
Speaker 1 (30:43):
So that's like a year
ago from like right now, it
feels longer, but yeah.
Time doesn't mean anythinganymore.
Speaker 2 (30:49):
I know I have the
worst like special time, but
maybe even longer, to be honest.
I mean like two years so whatmade you?
Quit.
I know right.
It's so funny because even onmy instagram bio I think I like
changing.
I was like um, I think I haveformer car model because I was
gonna like retire like now thatsounds old retired.
Speaker 1 (31:11):
Sounds like like they
forced you out.
Oh okay, that's true.
Speaker 2 (31:15):
Yeah, I would just do
former.
Yeah, I think I have formerbecause it's like I was focusing
on the age.
I'm like like retire, like what?
Speaker 1 (31:22):
am I 80?
Speaker 2 (31:23):
yeah, but anyways um
yeah, I, I mean the reason.
Just I think it was time,honestly, you know, I did it for
so long, like honestly.
It's like I'm like usually, youknow, modeling in general, you
don't do it that long, yeah andespecially a place where, like I
(31:47):
said, most girls just startthere.
You know, I was there, Istarted in like 2015.
And and so I'm like I had along, yeah trajectory, if you
will, um, and so you know, a lotof the shows are kind of like
the same shows, a lot of thesame cars, the same like builds
that the people show in theirtheir cars and stuff.
And I don't know, I think youknow I was going through my
(32:09):
healing, uh journey andobviously like my personal
development.
Now I guess, yeah, that I justdidn't feel the same connection.
You know, I still obviously lovethe cars and the passion and
the hobby and the like events,but I, yeah, I guess I lost a
little bit of the passion, thewow, the drive or the drive,
(32:30):
because I did it for so longyeah yeah, and then also, you
know, just getting serious withmy partner, um, I guess in a way
I was like I don't, I shouldn'tbe a thing of like lust anymore
I don't know it's only for hiseyes, yeah, like you know,
obviously, when you're doingthese things like, like, always
(32:50):
a lot of people like, admire youand look up to you.
And then you know, obviouslythere's yeah.
Yeah, I remember I wasn't likea superstar.
Speaker 1 (32:56):
I remember what year.
I can't remember what year itwas, but you gave me a calendar
that you were in.
I was going to say when you Did, I give you one of my own.
Speaker 2 (33:09):
You gave me one of
the calendar I'm trying to
remember what year Don't youstill have it?
You don't.
Speaker 1 (33:13):
No, hater.
Well, I was like is itpre-pandemic or post-pandemic?
I don't remember, but I thinkit was before, I think.
Yeah, I want to say you werelike it was one of my biggest
gigs or something.
Speaker 2 (33:30):
It was one of my
biggest gigs, yeah, um, but I
had that, I had the calendar,but it's not.
Speaker 1 (33:36):
It's we're 2025 now,
lady it's memorabilia.
You don't know, I could havebecome this like superstar
really well, you didn't sign itfor me, so I guess it doesn't
even matter.
Speaker 2 (33:46):
You didn't ask me to
sign it.
I could sign it right now.
I'm just just kidding, Pull oneout.
But you know that's so funny.
You mentioned it because thatwas okay.
See, now, that was like, oh myGod, that was one of my biggest
moments as a car model, Like youknow, being in magazines and
like a calendar.
Speaker 1 (34:02):
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (34:05):
I still have mine
frame.
It's on the floor right now,but I have I frame mine it's on
the floor right now well, when Imoved to my place, I never put
it up and I've just been therebehind the door but, but yes,
that is one of my biggestmoments okay, so how about you
send me a picture of it so I canpost it?
Speaker 1 (34:19):
okay story, so that
they know what we're talking
about and also tell me whatmonth it was, because I want to
say you were july, I can'tremember I was in two months,
but like, okay, I am the center,I'm the.
Speaker 2 (34:30):
What do you call the?
Speaker 1 (34:31):
The centerfold.
Speaker 2 (34:32):
I'm the centerfold.
Oh so, playboy of you.
I know right.
So, yeah, I'm in two months,but yeah, one is the centerfold,
yeah, and I think it's July.
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (34:40):
See, I remember, oh
my, you're a good friend.
Speaker 2 (34:42):
I remember Cheers,
cheers, she's a good friend I
mean I knew that, but now you'relike really proven it.
Now that was a moment was likeI've made it, like I'm like I am
a car model people, I'm thecenter of all of a calendar love
that.
Speaker 1 (34:58):
Yeah, okay.
So what are you doing now, nowthat you've left, now that I'm
retired, now that, now thatyou're retired, I know?
Speaker 2 (35:06):
um well, mostly it's
funny, because when people ask
me like well, why do you do you?
Know, I feel like I know rightlike what do you?
Speaker 1 (35:14):
do I?
I try my best, every day.
Speaker 2 (35:17):
My best idea, my best
, um.
You know, again, as a joke, Imean, it's not, it's true, but
as a like a feminist joke.
Like I'm a, I'm a stay-at-homegirlfriend.
You know, I do nothing all dayjust sit around with my cats
yeah, um, but I do do a lot ofthings, you know.
Um, I still try to keep up withmy social media, like doing like
(35:37):
digital marketing, um justcontent in general, I mean in
general, but I'm still trying tofind my way into like what I'm
doing on social media.
To be honest with you.
Speaker 1 (35:47):
Yeah, because I went
really hard, you're talking to
someone who's like clawing theirway through.
Like, imagine, like.
Speaker 2 (35:56):
I've been doing it
for years.
I don't have long and now likeI'm struggling you know,
especially because, like, I wentfrom like again being this
thing, this car model, doing allthese like fun things on the
weekends and like this and that,to now I'm like nothing.
Like I wash dishes, I dolaundry, you know I like bathe
my kids, yeah, um, but truly,though, I mean I, I do a lot, um
(36:19):
, you know, I also help mypartner with his car club what
kind of car club does he have?
Speaker 1 (36:23):
so he has an exotic
car club okay, because I see you
post like videos of, like, of,like you guys like in these like
cool cars.
And so I was like oh, what isshe doing?
Speaker 2 (36:34):
Yeah, so he has an
exotic car club, okay, but more
importantly it's a rally carclub, meaning like we don't just
go places and sit and hang out.
I mean we do, but his eventsare mostly rallies, which means
you know we like drive, we dolong drives, okay, mostly
(36:57):
rallies.
Which means you know we likedrive, we do long drives, okay,
and like some.
I think the latest one was, youknow, we started in San Diego
and we drove to like PalmSprings to LA, and you know
there's like two, three days ohthat's cool Of like rallying.
Speaker 1 (37:04):
Oh, wow, okay yeah.
Speaker 2 (37:05):
Yeah, that's fun.
So you know, when there'sevents, obviously like I help
him with a lot of the stuff,like either like creating the
merch or help him with like justlike little details.
You know, now I organize themodels that we hire for our
events, and so we do that.
And then also I help him withhis business, I guess in the
(37:31):
personal injury attorneys world,and so you know, like I just
help him.
Listen, if you ask me yeah,like what do you do?
I'm the unpaid assistant,unpaid translator, unpaid, you
know, unpaid everything.
So you know, know, it's likeyou kind of have your hand in
(37:53):
everything at the.
Speaker 1 (37:54):
Moment.
Speaker 2 (37:55):
I am a stay home
girlfriend, but then I also do a
lot of stuff from home andagain, you know whatever he's
doing, then you know I'm helpinghim and supporting him, so I
guess that's the best way I candescribe it.
I don't you know?
Speaker 1 (38:09):
I love that.
I hate the question what do youdo, Girl?
Imagine I'm just trying to live.
Speaker 2 (38:15):
Lady Girl, imagine,
like in his personal injury
world, like I'm surrounded bylike doctors and attorneys all
the time, and you know I dressup nice, I like to.
You know yeah, of course he'swearing a suit you know, like,
take it as my opportunity todress nice, like, look like I
have a job.
Really, though, and a lot ofpeople are like oh, are you an
(38:37):
attorney too?
And I'm just like nope, no.
Speaker 1 (38:40):
I've been like I am
Thank you.
Yeah, what school did you go to?
Speaker 2 (38:44):
I know right.
Well, luckily.
I'm just like no, I'm just thepretty face next to him.
Speaker 1 (38:53):
I like no, I'm just
the pretty face next to him, I
you know yeah yeah, he justrented me for the night.
Speaker 2 (38:55):
Yeah, exactly, yeah,
um, but again, I, I it's like I
do nothing, but I do a lot ofthings.
Speaker 1 (39:00):
Yeah no, I don't, I
don't picture, I don't.
I know you well.
I can't see you sitting at homestaring at the wall yeah that's
not like the type of personthat you are you know you can't
just do nothing.
So I don't believe you're justa stay-at-home girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (39:15):
Yeah, even though we
do, but again, you know, I mean
I like to like just piss offpeople, you know just like yes
I'm banging my boss and yes, I'ma stay-at-home girlfriend right
?
No, I'm just the pretty thingfor the haters yeah, I mean
hater or not.
It's just like.
You know, early when you askedme like why I left the car
industry, you know, I think thereal reason is, you know, I'm on
(39:36):
a stage in my life that I'mlike, okay, I'm moving into the
next stage, and you know, Iguess you can't be all of these
other things while you're stilldoing all of these other things
you know, so I'm transitioningin into womanhood yeah, I mean
you just had your, or not justyou had your 30th birthday.
Speaker 1 (39:58):
You're not supposed
to say that whatever we already
called out my age already butit's like you know, it's like
now, it's like okay, no, no, butyeah, like you know, like we,
we're figuring it out now.
We're just trying to figure itout a little bit more.
Yeah, just like moving on Imean truly.
Speaker 2 (40:15):
You know like, yeah,
I am in my 30s and yes, I still
look good, I guess, for a mod.
I mean, I have a few friendsthat are even older than me that
are still doing it.
It's like always, as long asyou look great, then I guess
you're fine for me, like I yeah,I just like ready, like I'm
moving into the next stage of mylife and I guess that part
really is growing up and justbecoming a woman.
(40:37):
Like you know, I am 30, likewe're in our 30s people.
So my first, my partner, is apersonal injury attorney, yes,
and you know.
So now, part of the work that Ido now with him, um, you know
he does a lot of seminars wherehe's a speaker, oh, okay, and I
(40:57):
mean honestly, just in general,I have gotten into it more.
It's kind of funny, right,because it's still kind of like
in with cars, but different andlike more, um, I guess, less fun
and more serious, I guess,because so now I guess what I do
, like I'm passionate about thisbecause like I've learned so
(41:18):
much through him and the casesand the you know, um, the
clients that we have, and for meI feel like, first of all, you
know, a lot of people get reallyhurt in like the car accidents,
and it's like I mean, really, Iguess to me it's like I need a
lot of mental stimulation, okay,yeah, and a lot of stimulation
in general.
So this is very like again, itwas something new, something
(41:41):
different, you know, with thecars of, like you know, I've, I
know it all done it all you know.
So when I met him and he startedtelling me more about his work
and I just again like justsupporting him, going with him
to places, seminars, you know,reunions, dinners, whatever.
I've gotten more into that andI'm passionate because you know
I've seen a lot of people, a lotof clients, that get really
(42:04):
hurt and they're just like notenough coverage on the insurance
.
So you know we do deal a lotwith the insurances.
You know we're not in theinsurance business but kind of
you know he's the attorney thatyeah, I mean it's all kind of
intertwined right if someone'shurt in a car accident, you know
yeah, or any kind of accidentactually, but yeah right and
(42:26):
it's just so.
So, like many layers, manylayers to that, Like you know,
unless you've been in thatsituation, like you don't know.
And I find it fascinatingbecause I feel, like you know,
most people drive every day,Like you get into your car every
single day of your life, youknow, for however amount of time
.
Speaker 1 (42:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (42:46):
And there's a lot of
stuff that you don't know.
Like if you have, like quickly,I'm going to go through some of
the things.
Like if you say like oh, I havefull coverage, like now I've
learned, you know, that doesn'tmean anything.
Speaker 1 (42:59):
Oh, okay.
Speaker 2 (42:59):
Because you can have
full coverage but have shady
coverage, like meaning theamount of money available.
Speaker 1 (43:06):
Right To cover.
Speaker 2 (43:08):
To cover.
And again you, you know we'veseen so many people like
horrible, horrible accidents andthen there's just like like a
minimum.
Again it's full coverage, butlike a minimum policy okay and
they're just like nothing we cando, right, you know, and like
some people are hurt, like forlife, like they are, like not
just like her, but like disabled, you know, and so you know,
(43:32):
obviously I'm I'm very emotionaland so I I take things personal
and like I don't like to seepeople hurt, you know, I always
want you to win.
I'm like like the bigger sister,like the children.
I'm like.
I want everyone to succeed, andso when I see some of these
cases like I I, it's passionateto me and anyway.
So um to not make it too sad,like I feel there's a lot of
(43:54):
knowledge that like it should be, like readily available right
like everyone should know thisbecause, again, you, you make
your payments every month, yeah,and you get in your car every
day and like you don't know thisstuff and it's not your fault,
it's just like how, like theindustry, system has set it up
so that you're ill-informed,right, and unless you have been
into that situation and you know, and if you maybe have had an
(44:20):
attorney, because a lot ofpeople get into accidents and
they don't hire attorneys, right, you know you don't always have
to, but I think it's importantto consult.
You know, I know there's a lotof stigma about attorneys, right
, like they just want to takeyour money and this, and that I
think personal injury isdifferent because you know we
don't get paid until you getpaid, yeah, until you win.
(44:42):
So until you get paid, then Idon't get paid and the doctors
don't get paid.
And guess what?
Sometimes they say, by anychance, like the insurance
doesn't pay, then nobody getspaid.
And we've done all this work,right?
So you know, honestly,sometimes my partner it's not
it's an interesting industry tobe in, because you go, like long
(45:02):
periods of time and you don'tsee a check coming in, right,
you know?
I mean my partner has his ownfirm, like it doesn't work for
anyone else, it's his practice,it's his practice.
So you know, sometimes if thecases don't settle, then there's
no money coming in.
Right, like you.
Just you know, and you stillhave to pay bills and you know
(45:23):
all these expenses and theworkers, Right, so you know it's
interesting.
But the point is, you know it'sinteresting, but point is, you
know, like a lot, of, a lot ofpeople don't hire attorneys and
you know, even if you don't hireus, which you should.
But yeah, um, I think youshould consult, like if you're
ever into a car accident, youshould at least try and don't to
get like an uh, an outsider'sopinion uh, no, to contact an
(45:45):
attorney or two or three, to behonest, like you need.
Uh, another part of the workwhich is so interesting to me is
because, so, with my partner,you know, I mean I think not
just because I love him, but Ithink he's a really good
attorney, you know, like hereally thinks outside the box
and we do get a lot of caseswhere, like other attorneys
didn't want it Okay, like we'vehad clients where they say like
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we call so-and-so and so-and-soand like we call like three,
five different people and theyall said no, like it's, you
don't have a case, like, okay,you know.
And then you know we hear aboutit and we like hear the story
and it's like no, we can workwith this, there's something to
be done, yeah, and so you know,I guess a lot of this, like if
you are into an accident and,for example, allegedly or
(46:29):
partial, like it's your fault,for example, like the police
comes and they put you at fault,we can still work with that,
okay, a lot of firms they willjust straight up turn it down
and be like you're at fault, youcaused the accident, and if you
got hurt, then sorry, um, butagain, depend, you know there's
more details to be discussed,but we can.
You know, we usually we haveones of many cases where, like,
(46:51):
the client was at fault, okay,or I mean again, there's like
different little things.
Like I'm passionate because youknow, yes, of course you know,
we love to get paid and makemoney, but we are helping people
.
You know, like three, fivelawyers said no, yeah, and then
we get it, and we get them a lotof money.
(47:12):
It's like, you know, again, ifyou win, I win.
Speaker 1 (47:17):
Like you know what I
mean, it's a win-win situation,
yeah.
Speaker 2 (47:19):
Like, at least to me,
I'm very happy when you know,
we see, when we say, even likelittle settlements, I'm like,
yeah, something like we did, youknow know we won or we did
something you know.
Um, sometimes a lot of theclients they have like really
sad stories, you know.
I mean like when once you starttalking to them on a daily
basis or like discussing detailsabout their lives because of
(47:42):
this accident, how it affectedthem, like somehow you start
learning more about them and youknow there's there's a lot of
need and a lot of hurt and a lotof you know sadness out there.
Yeah, and you know there'sthere's a lot of need and a lot
of hurt and a lot of you knowsadness out there.
Yeah, and you know, see, moneydoesn't buy it all or makes
everything better, but sometimes, like for a lot of these people
(48:03):
, a lot of the clients, you knowit's a lot like, it's a good
push, it's a it's like you knowyeah, yeah, that's what they
needed to get it going again,yeah, like.
And again, you know, sometimesit's not always the case, but
and again, even if it's not abig settlement, like hey, you
get it, you know a couple grand.
Like yeah again, a lot ofpeople don't know if they're
(48:26):
gonna be able to pay pay renttomorrow, like you know, like
next month.
So to have a little bit extra,like I just love that.
You know, I don't know if itlike means anything to anybody
else, but to me, like I'm happyto be able to help people, yeah,
yeah.
That's good, that's just who youare, though You're just like
(48:46):
want to help people.
Speaker 1 (48:47):
You are good natured.
Speaker 2 (48:49):
Yeah, I think I'm
good natured.
Speaker 1 (48:52):
I think you are, I
don't know.
I mean, I mean, I will show it,I guess.
Speaker 2 (48:55):
But I think so.
You know, I always want to seeyou win.
Yeah, I always want everyone towin.
Speaker 1 (49:00):
Yeah, I agree.
Well, that's a good segue intoour next one.
Okay, yeah, I always come toyou if I need advice.
Speaker 2 (49:09):
And.
Speaker 1 (49:09):
I feel like you've
asked me for advice.
Speaker 2 (49:11):
Yes, absolutely.
Speaker 1 (49:13):
I picked two.
Speaker 2 (49:14):
Oh, I see what you're
saying, like now we can help
others.
If you will, we're going tohelp others.
Speaker 1 (49:19):
I love that.
All right so I picked two thesearen't the only ones that were
submitted.
They were just the ones that Igrabbed One I thought was a
little fun, and then the secondI was like it's scandalous.
Speaker 2 (49:39):
It's a scandal, all
right the first one is from
sarah lee.
Speaker 1 (49:41):
She says hi, emily,
she gave her name.
Yeah, they get it.
Yeah, you say to sign it if youwant to stay anonymous let me
know, or you can just sign itsarah lee.
Speaker 2 (49:45):
What a brave soul.
Speaker 1 (49:46):
I'm just kidding
sarah lee says hi, emily and
lynn, I'm wanting to start myown business, but I don't know
if I should.
I've been wanting, I've beenworking in corporate america and
I hate it.
It's soul devouring.
I've always been a reallycreative person and feel like
that is my passion.
How do I get over my fear andjust get out there?
(50:06):
Sarah Lee, wow.
Speaker 2 (50:08):
Sarah, that's deep.
You know I've, as a creative,like I still struggle every day
Making that decision.
Yeah, and I know it sounds socliche and so like, maybe not
like, like it's boring, but likeI always think back of the nike
(50:30):
slogan, just do it, and youjust gotta do it.
Speaker 1 (50:33):
Yeah, just do it yeah
, like we were, before we even
started recording you, and Iwere talking about how I was
like so hesitant to like youwere like why did you want to do
this?
Yeah, and I was like I've beenwanting to do it for a long time
.
I've been like now that I'mthinking back on it.
I remember talking about thiswith you Like I was like texting
with you about it and this waslike way back when I lived in my
(50:54):
other apartment and I was likeI don't know.
It was like pre for sure, prepandemic, so like maybe like
2018 or something, and I wasjust like that would be so much
fun to start a podcast.
It's been in my brain for along time.
It's just a matter of doing it.
But doing it is scary becauseyou're putting yourself out
there.
Yeah, you got to hope peoplelike it, and if they don't like
it, oh my god, they're not gonnalike it, and then they're gonna
(51:14):
.
It's you know.
It's like you have to just getover your own fear and, like you
said, just do it.
Just any.
Speaker 2 (51:20):
I mean, it's a really
scary thing, right like I mean
especially for sarah like youknow you, you have, you know you
already made this life right,you have you, you went to school
for this, you have this job,you, you know, you have this
thing.
You know it's kind of like forme, right, like I had my world
made around the car scene andbeing a car model, and then I,
like you know it's a littledifferent, like less scary,
(51:41):
right, but like to like-.
Speaker 1 (51:43):
But you're leaving a
stability for instability Right
right, right.
Speaker 2 (51:47):
Or instability, right
, right, Right, like something
that like I knew what I wasdoing and again I knew I wasn't
going to do it forever, butagain like I had my world made,
basically, and now it's like Idon't you know, it's like all
over the place, right.
But yeah, I mean it's scary,but you just got to do it.
You just got to do it, sarah.
And here's the worst part.
Speaker 1 (52:11):
Like I know it's not
the best answer I can give, I
guess, because you know I'mtrying to be positive but you
can fail.
It's not?
Speaker 2 (52:14):
always going to be
successful, like I you know.
Obviously.
I wish you all the best and andI want to encourage you and
send you all the good vibes thatyou can do it like if you
really and I'm like again so ifyou put your heart into it.
But, like you know, like Ibelieve I'm big on the
manifestation world, I guess,and you know you gotta have
faith.
Like you know, like I'm big onthe manifestation world, I guess
, and you know you got to havefaith, like if you have the
(52:36):
calling in your heart, if youjust know that that's what you
want to do, then you should doit.
Speaker 1 (52:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (52:42):
And it's a feeling.
Speaker 1 (52:45):
And even if, like, if
you want to start small, like
you just still want to keep yourcorporate job Right, like I was
going.
Speaker 2 (52:49):
Yeah, you don't have
to always quit your job.
Speaker 1 (52:51):
Yeah, you'll go all
in Just like start small and
then just kind of like build itand then, when you feel
comfortable, if you have like apillow, like a cushion to lean
on, like financial wise, whereyou can quit your job and you
can put all your energy intothis project, then do that
(53:11):
energy into this project, thendo that.
But, just like you know, startsmall and then just kind of just
kind of start small and thenwork your way up.
Speaker 2 (53:16):
Yeah, I mean, you
hear a lot of stories where,
like entrepreneurs that eitherdo go full, they're like, oh,
quit my job, and like you know Iwas, and they have these I
don't know you know true or notlike, right, I have these.
Like, they have these storieslike, oh, I couldn't pay rent.
And then that's when, like, thebiggest thing happened okay, I
made a million dollars andthat's great for you, but again,
the reality also is that thatdoesn't happen to everyone and
(53:39):
so, yeah, like don't maybe don'tquit your corporate job just
yet, but definitely make thetime.
Uh, you know yeah, start small.
Speaker 1 (53:47):
Just start doing it,
let it build, whatever it is
like.
You start working on it and youknow yeah, start small just
start doing it, let it buildwhatever it is like.
Speaker 2 (53:50):
You start working on
it and you know again, you do
hear the on others on the otherside like some entrepreneurs
would say, like I was doing bothat the same time and once they
felt comfortable to leave, youknow whatever they were doing
then to fully, you know, to likemake sure that they're gonna
succeed, because, again, thereality is that, like, not
everyone succeeds.
Speaker 1 (54:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (54:10):
You know, and a lot
of people, they take a long time
too.
You know I've seen likeinfluencers talk about when they
say like it took like 10 yearsof like posting content.
Speaker 1 (54:18):
Right, which we're
hoping that's not the case.
Speaker 2 (54:21):
I know, right, hold
on wait.
Please like, comment and share.
Please, yeah, please follow us.
Yeah, thank you for listening.
I mean, I mean truly like it's.
It's, it's scary, you know,yeah, for sure, yeah, I just you
know.
We wish you well and just do itall.
Right, you ready for the nextone?
The scandal one oh yeah,definitely okay, yes, let's do
it yeah, let's cheers real quickbefore we answer this what did
(54:43):
she give her name?
Or he?
She's anonymous, okay, wouldyou?
Cheers to anonymous anonymoussays.
Speaker 1 (54:49):
The subject line was
my friend is cheating on her
husband.
Girl, stop it.
This is the question.
Okay so this is complicated,but I have a tight-knit circle
of about six people my husbandand myself, my friend and her
husband and two others Anothercouple I assume I don't know.
(55:09):
She just said two others.
Another couple I assume I don'tknow.
She just said two others.
My friend recently told meshe's been having an emotional
affair with a co-worker forabout a year and it recently
turned physical.
I told her she needs to stop ortell her husband and she said
she will, but she hasn't yet.
My fear is, if it comes outthat I knew and didn't say
(55:32):
anything, I will become the badguy.
What?
Speaker 2 (55:35):
should I do Wait,
wait, wait, because obviously
she's friends with both.
Speaker 1 (55:42):
Yeah, it seems like
it's a close-knit circle.
She says tight-knit circle ofsix people.
Speaker 2 (55:49):
First of all, I want
to say I don't mean to be judgy,
because we were talking.
I'm like and I don't want toseem like in the video like oh
my gosh, he's judging, like youhaven't even finished finishing
the like question.
Um, you know, it's so crazybecause my partner and I just
had this conversation and wedecided, well, he told me that
(56:12):
this actually happened to him.
Ooh, I know, right, I'm justlike, ooh, listen, my partner
and I have very intellectualconversations.
Speaker 1 (56:22):
Yeah Well, no, I'm
not saying ooh to that, I'm
saying ooh, it happened.
Speaker 2 (56:25):
No, I don't know how
we got into the subject, but he
told me this actually happenedto him.
Okay, what did he do?
I come up with these likequestions of the day and I just
get like random stuff and Iprobably ask like right, like if
you know that one of ourfriends, just like anybody like
my friends like is cheating onsomeone, like would you say,
(56:46):
would you say something?
And we talked about it and hesaid he wouldn't because it's
not his business, because thishappened to him and he didn't
say anything, or he?
did say something and it blew upin his face and he said
something and he blew up on hisface and he lost his friendship
oh shit, yeah, and so first Idon't know what my answer was
(57:10):
back then, but now I havedecided not to tell.
Speaker 1 (57:14):
also, Right, I feel
like if you had like a loyalty
to like the husband first.
Then there's a hierarchy.
Yeah, like you know, like youknow what I mean, like if there
was, like like I, like that's mybest, like that husband was my
best friend, and you were hiswife, like maybe.
Speaker 2 (57:31):
Like, for example,
you and I were friends before,
like we were partners, so youknow, yeah.
So like, for example yeah.
Speaker 1 (57:37):
Sorry, babe, If I was
cheating on him you wouldn't go
tell him Well, now I againafter like.
Speaker 2 (57:44):
I had this
conversation with my partner.
Speaker 1 (57:55):
Yeah, with my partner
.
Yeah, I'm, I won, don't comeasking me right.
So yeah, it's hard.
But also like if they make youthe bad guy, they're just
looking for a scapegoat fortheir own issues.
You know, like why are you allof a sudden the bad guy and not
the person who's having theemotional, physical affair?
Speaker 2 (58:06):
first of all, right,
like it's, more to that.
Because then for me I'm likeokay, well, if I don't say
anything, but let's say, let'ssay, right, like bob, um, then
he finds out, right that I knewnot, that, like you know, that
happens, like that I knew and Ididn't say anything.
And obviously I consider bothof you my friends, but you're
more my friend than him right.
But still, you know, like if hefinds out, like if if let's say,
(58:28):
you're having an affair and Ijust don't say anything, and
then he doesn't make anything ofit, but if he knows that I knew
and I didn't tell him, you know, that's a different story,
because what if he doesn't knowthat I knew right, but it's like
it's.
Speaker 1 (58:44):
I know it's.
Speaker 2 (58:44):
That's like such,
like a tangled web it's like so
it's the fact that you'refriends with that.
Speaker 1 (58:49):
You and your husband
are friends with both of them, I
wonder I'm assuming her husband, like the girl who wrote in.
I'm assuming her husbanddoesn't know because it's not
like they're coming at it aslike we are two people that know
we're in this together.
So she's kind of floating onher own boat right now.
Yeah, I would say, maybe talkto your husband.
Speaker 2 (59:09):
Listen.
I'm glad you brought it up,because I was going to say I
don't know.
Listen, not that I tell, likeif you tell me a secret I'm
going to run to my partner, butI do tell him a lot.
Speaker 1 (59:20):
I run a lot by him Me
too.
I need a sounding board,Otherwise the thoughts are
bouncing in my own head and Igot like two brain cells up here
and they're just like fightingeach other.
Speaker 2 (59:31):
So I need.
Speaker 1 (59:31):
I need a calm, level
headed perspective which is what
he is to my frantic voice, butanyways I.
Speaker 2 (59:41):
it's so complicated
but I just wouldn't say anything
.
Speaker 1 (59:46):
Yeah, I, I wouldn't,
I, I wouldn't either, I think I
would more, oh, more, oh wait,can you elaborate on the?
Speaker 2 (59:53):
I guess the hierarchy
, for example, like so obviously
this sounds like it's like herfriend like I don't know the
hierarchy.
I was just giving an example no, no, but I'm saying like if, oh
, like, answer to to thequestion, right, like, so, like
if it sounds like it was likeyou know she, it sounds like
she's a girl first of all, yeah,it was a girl.
Speaker 1 (01:00:09):
This is.
Speaker 2 (01:00:10):
It sounds like she's
a girl first of all.
Yeah, it was a girl.
That's insane that it's a girl,and then that her girlfriend
told her right, so it's the twofemales and obviously the guys
are not involved, correct, it'skind of it's just rough, right,
because, like you're trusting mewith this information, yeah,
and you don't want to go againsther trust, I think what I would
do.
(01:00:30):
First, yeah, and you don't wantto go against her trust, I think
what I would, first of all, Iwould go.
I just wouldn't say anything,first of all because I don't
want to break your, like thetrust that you've given me.
Yeah, with that, because it'snot so much like trusting gossip
but like obviously this is avery serious yeah, it seems like
she hasn't told anyone else,like I'm confining, confining,
confiding, confiding in you andlike, not just to, like tell you
, but maybe like get confident,like, oh my gosh, like I don't
(01:00:51):
you know what I mean maybe theadvice, yeah, and then, if then
like you turn and like,basically tat my thing.
Speaker 1 (01:01:00):
So I I think what I
would do is I would go to your
friend, the one who's having theaffair, and just say like, look
this, need you?
You need to stop this and, ifyou know, first of all listen.
This is this is why friendshipis hard, because, like I think I
would just more like, first ofall as a friend, like it's kind
of hard, like I I I would not becomfortable to.
Speaker 2 (01:01:20):
I will tell you like
what I think you should do yeah
but that's the thing, like likefriendship means, at least to me
, that no matter what you dolike, I'm there girl yeah,
you're still, if you're makingsome like dumb ass decisions out
there, but it's like I'm, likeI'm there to hold you when that
blows up in your face.
I'm here to hold you, that.
But then you know like that'sjust me, um, but at the same
(01:01:42):
time you know you don't want tolose that friendship.
I mean, it's it's yeah, this isgreat.
It's hard, then you're you'renot just breaking up the
relationship between like thefriendship with the, like
friends, yeah, but then likemarriages and then the entire
group.
Speaker 1 (01:01:57):
Yeah, this entire
group is going to implode.
Yeah, it's going to fall apart.
Don't say anything, girl, Iwouldn anything and if anything
comes, I just pretend I wouldjust talk to the friend that's
having the affair and just belike I think you need.
(01:02:18):
If you don't want to come clean, you really just need to end it
and commit to your relationship.
But if you don't want to committo your relationship and you
want to see this affair through,whatever that may be or maybe
you don't even want to see itthrough, you just don't think
you should be married anymorethen that's your path.
But you can't keep up the lie.
Speaker 2 (01:02:32):
Yeah, not that I'm
gonna say anything, but listen,
listen, listen this is comingback full circle for me because
remember, at the beginning, whenI was like see, I rather not
know, yes, bitch, don't tell meshit.
That like then I'm like I'mgonna you know what I mean.
Like just don't tell me and see, if I don't know, then I don't
have to.
You're like I have nothing tosay up ignorant.
Speaker 1 (01:02:52):
Ignorance is very
bliss, exactly.
So yeah, don't, don't, yeah,don't say anything.
I yeah, because it's, it'smessing up too many dynamics, I
think the.
Speaker 2 (01:03:01):
What I want to get to
is like I mean, obviously, if
she's sending uh the thisinquiry, right, like uh it's
eating at her too, yeah, likehaving the secret, yeah she's.
So if it's bothering, you justsay you know what, like you
cannot, like I again, I rathernot know anymore I don't want to
know more details if it'sweighing on you, then I think
(01:03:23):
you should tell your friend tonot tell you anymore.
Speaker 1 (01:03:27):
That's right you
don't feel comfortable knowing.
Speaker 2 (01:03:29):
It's a big one to put
on someone, right?
Yeah, yeah, I agree, I thinkthat was good.
I think it was good, I mean,yeah, it was very energetic at
the beginning.
Speaker 1 (01:03:40):
It's heavy, yeah,
it's heavy.
Speaker 2 (01:03:42):
It's a good one, it's
nerve-wracking.
Yeah, yeah, just don't sayanything there.
Speaker 1 (01:03:46):
Yeah, just don't say
anything.
Yeah, there's too many lives atrisk for this one lie that you
don't want to be the bearer ofbad news Because everyone shoots
the messenger.
Speaker 2 (01:03:57):
Yeah, I'm telling you
my partner, he's straight up,
like with no hesitation ornothing.
He was like I won't and I waslike, wait, no, you gotta tell
me more, yeah.
And then he told me the storyand I like, yeah, no, you're
right.
Like, like the person you know,his friend didn't believe him.
Speaker 1 (01:04:17):
Okay and oh yeah, I
didn't even think about that.
Speaker 2 (01:04:18):
Like right, like his
friend was like why, yeah, the
denial?
Right, right, and his friendyou know they're no longer
friends.
But like the guy was just likeI don't know what you're talking
about, why are you doing thislike it's not.
And then, yeah, like you said,obviously then he's the bad guy.
Like yeah, you can shut up andit's right, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:04:37):
Well, that was a good
one, and that was an amazing
one hope right back in and letus know if there's any
developments updates, hopefully.
Yeah, like I need to know moreof this story.
I know, I know, I wish I couldhave like emailed her back and
been like Can you elaborate alittle?
Speaker 2 (01:04:57):
more.
Yeah, I need more details.
Speaker 1 (01:05:00):
Okay, so obviously
you're great at the advice.
Now we need your gremlin story.
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2 (01:05:08):
Forgot how to do that
.
You know, my g's story was fun,like I actually feel like I
love at least the one that Ichose to share with you.
Yeah, I love it because I had agood time, like I.
It's still one of the besttimes of my life.
Um, I was high I don't know ifthat was a surprise to anybody,
(01:05:35):
but it was my first time beingthat kind of high and I just I
still like, I feel like I'mfeeling the feeling right now
Like I loved everybody, I lovedeverything.
You were having a great time.
No, it was crazy because, like,obviously, I am like, am like
tough love, like I don't show mylove and affection and I think
(01:05:55):
at some point I have said, youknow, like I love you and I'm
sorry if I don't say that enoughto like you and like to all of
my friends and family.
I just, you know there's a lotof traumas.
I was gonna say some, butthere's a lot, um, and you know
that time.
Why was it's?
Because it's kind of specialfor me too, because I felt like
I was just so free to telleverybody I think I kissed you
(01:06:18):
you did.
Yeah, we shared a couple drunkand like on the lips, like yeah,
I think, like, yeah, you werelike pecs, I love you.
I love you.
Yeah, I was like this is such agreat time and yeah, I mean I
just loved everybody.
Yeah, um, I'm not so sure howthat's a gremlin story, but it's
just a fun story.
Speaker 1 (01:06:37):
Yeah, I mean, it was
so beautiful.
Speaker 2 (01:06:39):
Yeah, we had a great
time right, it was great up
until I got sober.
Yeah, until it wasn't.
Because then I mean yeah, Iguess I was just well sober.
I don't know how else toexplain like we were it was like
you know, it's like you havelike a really high, high and
then the low you got crashed,yeah yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:07:00):
So we were out
partying and like having fun.
And then you really wanted togo to breakfast and I was like
we're not going it was one ofthose nights that turn into
morning yeah, we become likesanderson sisters, like the sun
is coming up, oh god, we gottago, so and listen, that's the
thing about me.
Speaker 2 (01:07:16):
Like I can always eat
, yeah, so I was like I was done
to eat.
I was like we're not going tobreakfast it was you myself and
another friend.
Speaker 1 (01:07:23):
We're like, we're
gonna go um, we're gonna go back
to my house yeah I had to gopack because I was going to
vegas that day don't rememberthat part.
Speaker 2 (01:07:32):
So actually, no, you
want I do.
And then our other friend and Ijust stayed in, yeah, so I was
like, I was like you guys, I waslike I'm gonna leave you guys
hang out yeah, and then you'resober, whatever, yeah so I was
like get sober, chill, I'm gonnarally, I'm gonna shower.
Speaker 1 (01:07:46):
How did you do?
Speaker 2 (01:07:47):
that girl.
Speaker 1 (01:07:47):
I used to be a
machine, if you ask me to do,
used to be a machine.
Speaker 2 (01:07:49):
If you asked me to do
it.
I know, right Again, the goodold days, if you asked me to do
it right now I'd be like I can'tmove Girl.
No, I can't do like twomargaritas at dinner anymore.
Speaker 1 (01:08:05):
So I rallied and then
I went to go, get in the shower
and you food.
Speaker 2 (01:08:07):
No, no, no, I didn't,
you didn't let me.
No, I didn't, it was one ofthose like you're not going to
be hungry soon.
You're not going to be hungrysoon.
I am very hungry.
Speaker 1 (01:08:15):
You're like I don't
feel good.
And I was like you don't feelgood yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:08:22):
And you're like I
don't feel good.
Speaker 1 (01:08:24):
I was like fixes
everything man um girl yeah, no,
and then I just put you to bed.
I put you both into my bed andtucked you guys in.
Yeah, I put on.
I think I put on romeomichelle's high school reunion
you guys passed out.
And then I asked another friendof ours, jackie.
She's been on the podcastbefore I was, because she lives
down the street.
I was like, hey, look, okay, Ihave a situation.
(01:08:46):
See some parts I like I don'tremember I was blocking out.
I gotta leave to vegas in likean hour.
Yeah, I'm gonna leave these twoin my apartment.
She had a key to that place.
I was like can you just gocheck on them?
Yeah, like before you go towork and just like, make sure,
like they're good, like they'refine, she's like I got you, I
(01:09:07):
got you, and she said that shewent in and that she was like
that you both yeah, she saidthat you were trying to get up
and like go, but that you werelike I think I'm gonna sit for a
little longer and that you.
She was like okay, she's like doyou think?
She gave you guys some water, Ithink she brought you.
Speaker 2 (01:09:23):
It was one of those
like again, the beginning was
wonderful.
Again, like I oh no, my bestmemory, but then it was, it was
bad, yeah it was bad becauseyou're serious, but also, you
know, I just I mean it was likea lot of kinds of uncomfortable,
like obviously you know, yeah,I have been in your place, but
you know, I'm always not yourhome.
It's not my home, yeah and then, obviously, I'm like having all
(01:09:44):
these feelings, all these, likecrazy brand new feeling.
I'm already uncomfortableinside, yeah, and I'm in a like
uncomfortable like environment,like obviously this is not my
place.
It was a lot, yeah,uncomfortable, that's a good
gremlin story, but we had funthat day.
Speaker 1 (01:09:58):
It's a job because
I'm like it's like a.
It's like a nice gremlin storyyeah, like I said, she was
worried.
She was like do I have to liketurn into another person?
I'm like no, you just have tolike listen, I have had my.
Speaker 2 (01:10:10):
My other gremlin
story was where, like I actually
turn into this, like you cantell that one if you want.
Speaker 1 (01:10:18):
Um, but yeah, I chose
to go with that one yeah, I
thought that was a good becausethat was the one I was like
talking to you about when yousaid you know it doesn't always
have to be like like a bad story, like a bad story, but I feel
like most.
Speaker 2 (01:10:29):
I don't know when I
think gremlin, I think like you
turn to this like like crazybitch like an evil evil, or like
, yeah, like out of control,yeah, and.
I was definitely like it was.
It was, it was a nice demon forme.
Yeah, yeah, I was an angel.
You were a little angelfloating around yes, yeah, angel
(01:10:49):
, you're a little angel floatingaround.
Yes, yeah, but that was funthat was a good time I'm telling
you well, cheers to the goodgremlin story story yes cheers
to that cheers all right.
Speaker 1 (01:11:01):
Well, that's pretty
much the end of the episode.
Speaker 2 (01:11:04):
Let's tell you, tell
people where to find you you can
find me at home with my cats,not physically, just kidding.
All of my social medias are atMissLynneYe.
That's M-I-S-S-L-I-N-Y-E-H.
Yeah, if you, I guess, find meand you, I guess, like my
(01:11:26):
content, yeah, follow.
But yeah, I post, postedInstagram, ltk.
You know TikTok and threads andsomeone I was posting on
YouTube.
Just just whatever you'recomfortable like, whatever
platform you like.
I miss Linier and yeah, I'mthere.
Speaker 1 (01:11:44):
There you go and then
you can find the podcast yes At
Emily to Gremily pod onInstagram and TikTok.
You can also watch this episodeEmily to Gremlin pod on YouTube
.
Every time I say it, it'salways a mouthful.
I was going to say you got tokeep the same, the same username
for everything.
Speaker 2 (01:12:02):
Everything's the same
.
Speaker 1 (01:12:03):
It's just me saying
it out loud I'm like I've become
like mush mouth.
Yeah, also, if you want toemail us a gremlin story, if you
need an advice, question,anything like that, you can
email me emily to gremlin pod atgmailcom.
Also, wherever you're listening, make sure to rate this podcast
(01:12:24):
five stars.
Apple podcast, spotify, iheartradio, listen notes.
Speaker 2 (01:12:29):
I keep going through
all of them.
I know it's like.
It's like whatever you'recomfortable.
Speaker 1 (01:12:33):
Yeah, whatever you
like 5 stars, 5 stars, 5 stars.
Alright, let's cheers out,cheers and thank you so much for
coming.
I love you.
Episode 11 cheersies, cheers,bye.