Relationships in HD Part 9 — Connectedness: Building Every Relationship on God

We’re jumping back into Relationships in HD with a foundation talk on connectedness—how a living relationship with God reorders everything: marriage, parenting, friendship, and our witness to a hurting world. Eric unpacks why Jesus at the center isn’t a slogan but a way of life: husbands loving like Christ (Eph. 5), wives honoring, parents reflecting the Father’s heart, and believers resisting a culture of condemnation by pointing people to the Savior who saves rather than shames (John 3:16–18). From Eden’s breach and God’s covering (Gen. 3) to the cross where love is proven (Rom. 5:6–8) and the promise that nothing can separate us (Rom. 8:31–39), this message calls us to walk in the light through ongoing repentance (1 John 1:5–9) and to let grace flow through us, not just to us. If your relationships need tools to cultivate, mend, or even restore, start here—on the sure foundation of the gospel.

Key Scriptures (NKJV): John 3:16–18; John 1:12; John 10:27–30; Genesis 3:8–10, 21; Ephesians 5:25, 33; Romans 5:6–8; Romans 8:31–39; 1 John 1:5–9.

Highlights:

• Connectedness: why our bond with God sets the tone for every other relationship.

• Jesus at the center of marriage and parenting—what that actually looks like day to day.

• Gospel posture: not condemning, but inviting people to the One who removes condemnation.

• Assurance that holds: the Son’s hand, the Father’s hand, the Spirit’s seal.

• Walking in the light: repentance as a lifestyle that keeps fellowship fresh.

• Practical tools to cultivate, mend, or restore relationships with Scripture as the guide.

Next Steps: Personalize John 3:16 in prayer this week (“For God so loved me…”). Ask the Lord where condemnation has replaced compassion, repent, and take one concrete step of grace—beginning at home. Invite a couple or friend who’s struggling to listen and talk with you after.