April 4, 2025 • 35 mins
What happens when your business has outgrown your ability to do it all alone? In this illuminating session, we dive deep into the energetics of business growth and the mysterious feeling of being "stuck in quicksand" despite having clear direction and vision.
Through this intuitive business reading, we uncover how a successful entrepreneur's business energy appears as a woman in a business suit with her heels mysteriously glued to the pavement—symbolizing the frustration of knowing where to go but feeling unable to move forward. The reading reveals that when a business reaches a certain level of success, continuing to do everything yourself becomes the very obstacle blocking your expansion.
We explore the delicate balance between masculine and feminine business energies, discovering how an over-reliance on structure, systems and strategic thinking has closed off the intuitive channels necessary for next-level growth. The conversation examines the resistance many entrepreneurs feel toward delegation and outsourcing, revealing how this resistance often masks deeper trust issues that must be addressed to evolve.
The most powerful revelation emerges around the paradox of business evolution: you must narrow your focus to expand your impact. As businesses mature, founders need to transition from breadth (doing everything) to depth (specializing in what only they can provide). This requires letting go of tasks that once felt essential but now limit your highest contribution.
Whether you're feeling stuck in your current business model or preparing for your next phase of growth, this episode offers a spiritual perspective on scaling that honors both practical strategy and intuitive wisdom. Listen for insights on how water elements can enhance intuitive reception and why facing your resistance might be exactly what unlocks your empire-building potential.
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Hello everyone, welcome back to empower your
soul.
I am here today with the lovely, gorgeous Taylor again, and I
know we previously had a freereading for you on the podcast
and this is going to continue,and I'm so excited.
Thank you so much for beinghere, taylor.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Yes, thank you for having me.
I know it was so funny.
So I had zero intention ofdoing this and when I I made a
chiropractor appointment threeweeks ago, but when I put it in
my schedule it had I heardcapture it.
And then I heard departed lovedones and immediately was like
(00:44):
what?
As I was leaving thechiropractor appointment, I'm
sitting in my car just likedoing a few notes and I heard
like something, uh, like I got afew, like it was like mail room
or something, and at 1 44 yousent out an email asking like so
I'm sitting right there askingme, like you know, for people to
(01:05):
sign up for the podcast.
And I'm like, well, if thatdoesn't speak about departed
level, I'm like I'm supposed tobe here, then I don't know what
does.
So I'm like you gotta bekidding me.
So I have no idea.
Yeah, what to expect.
Like I've already done this,but it was very clear that I
wrote that on my counter threeweeks ago and it's been sitting
for that long.
Had no idea that it was tied toyou.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Oh, my goodness, I love it.
And I just got the divineinspiration to release these
sessions and kind of tossed outon the email for those of you
that are on the email chain, and, um, it all works out the way
it's supposed to divine timingand alignment and I love that.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
I've been giggling about it all week.
I'm like you gotta be kiddingme.
Like I just could not get overCause it's I love.
Sometimes I feel like theydangle stuff in your face just
so you can like enjoy marinatingon it and watching it.
Knowing that like that wasthree weeks ago, I put that in
my calendar with those words andyou showed up as I'm sitting in
the parking lot, leaving thatexact appointment, I'm like got
(02:01):
it.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
There it is I love it .
Oh, my goodness, okay.
So we're going to talk, I think, more of a business side of the
house.
So this this is kind ofinformally I'm going to say a
little teaser for my consultingwith spirit um offering that I
do.
So I'm so excited to read yourbusiness and it's just so
interesting because I waspulling some cards before you
(02:23):
hopped on and I'm just gettingall these like downloads about
your business.
So I'm actually really excitedabout this.
So keep me honest on what fits,what resonates, what doesn't
resonate, any questions that youhave about your business, but
it's just been so interesting.
All right, you ready, taylor,make sense.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Yes, please Give me all the girl.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Perfect.
So when I'm tapping into yourbusiness and I know a little bit
about what you do, but not toomuch about what you do, but the
way that my team shows me tokind of look at your business
and I'm kind of in the Akashicrecords of your business because
your business has an energy toit and what is so unique about
the energy of your business is,I know, that the goal that, like
(03:03):
I'm going to say, like theintentions of your business, is
to provide healing, it's toprovide grounding and it's to
provide balance for your clients.
Does that make sense?
Okay, and as I'm feeling intothis, it's so interesting
because I'm getting this, thisreally grounded energy with your
business as well.
And if I had to describe yourbusiness in terms of a person
(03:25):
because this is what my team isasking me to do right now I see
this very and it's very similarto you.
But I see I'm going to say aslightly older woman than you.
I want to say you know, maybeforties, maybe 50, like, like
older woman than you, but shehas her shit together Right, and
I see her with a briefcase andI see that she wants to go
places, but I also see thatshe's freaking stuck and there
feels to me like you really wantto push forward a lot more than
(03:49):
you are right now and I knowthat you're appreciative and
respectful of where you're at.
But it feels really sticky andit feels like I see her heels
literally stuck like glue to thepavement and trying to move
forward and figuring, not tryingand unable to figure out how
the heck do I move forward?
Does that make sense with you?
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Yes, there's very odd , like it's like yeah, I'm
walking on a treadmill and likeI know where I'm going and but
like it's very odd that I'm likeI don't know how to get unstuck
or what it is, cause growth isneeded and I don't know what is
the exact move that I need tomake at this exact moment.
(04:28):
Because I have been makingmoves, that's the thing.
I've been adding things in andeverything's been building, but
there's this odd where I'm likeit should be a crescendo, things
should be moving as I'm moving,and there's this odd opposite
energy that feels like.
It's like, yeah, you're moving,but I can feel almost like,
almost like if I had amicrophone the wires been cut
and so it's like I have themicrophone but it might, yeah,
(04:50):
but it's cut.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
That makes a lot of sense because, as I'm checking
into like the energy of thiswoman that's standing before me,
that represents your businessfor me, I'm honest to God,
seeing that, like everything, ifwe're talking about like
chakras, I feel like heart down,the heart is fully in this.
Right, I know this business isyour heart and soul.
I know that your business isvery grounded.
I know it is very stable, but Iknow that you wanna grow, you
(05:14):
wanna go to this next level.
So, as I tap into like theenergetics of your business,
there's something about thethroat chakra and then your
crown of this business beingcompletely closed.
So I just feel like you'redoing a lot in terms of your
head to drive this forward inthe way that you know how to
drive businesses forward.
Right, because you're a verysmart, smart woman and you know
(05:35):
business and you know businessvery well.
But there's something about inorder to tweak and get to this
next level.
You need to bring yourintuition into this.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
And that's the craziest thing is that that's
what I've been trying to do andlike working with.
But then it feels so likeyou're describing an extra layer
of this stuckness, where I'mlike I feel like I'm combating a
force that's not mine, likewhat I wrote down when I was
like, oh, like do, should I do asoul alignment or a business
when I heard something that waslike scary, but then I heard
cheery, and so it was almostlike maybe there's a part of me
(06:08):
or some part of my subconsciousor energy here that's telling me
something's going to be scaryand I'm like, no, it's actually
going to be cheery and excitingand you're going to enjoy it,
but it feels like there's likesome kind of odd disconnect.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
And honestly, that's what it feels like, because
you're so grounded in the energyof your business, taylor, and
it honestly feels like to methat you have your stuff
together.
I feel like you have a formula,you have structure to your
business, but it's almost likeyou have been and you talked
about it with the treadmillgoing through the motions over
and over and over again.
It seems to be a lot of thesame that keeps coming up over
(06:42):
and over and over again, and sothis is you, and I'm going to
say it this way this is, this isa you problem, and we'll talk
about what.
That is not a business problem,because you are so good at what
you do and it's like you'vegotten to the top level of where
your business is at now, andnow you can't get to this next
level.
But the way to get to this nextlevel is thinking outside the
(07:04):
box, doing things differentlythan you have, because you've
built this solid foundation andit feels like if I do something
different, it's scary, it'sgoing to change, my foundation
is going to be gone.
But that's not true at all,because I see that you want to
get to this next level ofactually hiring staff and having
support teams, and maybe thisis what the future looks like
for you in the short term ishiring an assistant, if you
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don't already have one, to takeon some of the grunt work, to
take on the emails, to take onthe tasks that are really taking
up your time, because if youdon't start handing things off,
you don't have time or space orenergy to bring in these
inspirational downloads, tobring your business to the next
level.
It's like you need time tothink strategically and you need
(07:48):
to offload the stuff that isworking well, that is,
systematically you know, step Athrough Z, so that it frees up
your time to do what you reallylove about this business and
less about the things that youknow make it run.
Does that make sense?
Speaker 2 (08:02):
Does that make sense.
So I'm giggling because severalweeks ago, I don't know, months
ago, whatever, I've kind ofheard this a few times.
I just kept hearing the wordoutsourcing, outsourcing.
I'm like I need outsourcing.
And so I'm like I'm sittingthere like yes, yes, mother, I
know.
Like it's like I've been toldthis before and so now it's like
(08:24):
freaking, do it.
I'm like okay.
So then when push comes to show, yeah, it's now, it's too late,
yeah, Do I have enough wiggleroom now to do it?
It feels like it is.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
It's not too late because, um, it might take time
to bring somebody on and trainthem, but that's going to end up
bringing it up.
So it's almost like take and Isee a calendar and I see, like
take a day or two, or take aweekend, where you literally
write down, step-by-step, someof these things that you can
outsource, the things that youcan give to somebody else.
Write down the steps so thatyou can hand it off to somebody
(08:56):
to do it for you, because younever, ever, ever want to
outsource a process that is notdefined or efficient, because
what you're going to do is endup writing about 20 different
steps.
There cannot be any wiggle roomto this, because I know I love
you, taylor, you're a controlfreak, right, and I know that
you're not going to want anyoneto do it a way other than how
you do it, and that's, that'sabsolutely okay.
(09:17):
So write it down and then, andthen I can help point you in the
right direction, if you need to, to find resources to do this
work for you yeah, I'm gigglingabout that.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
I'm like, okay, that's exactly what we need to
be talking about.
So, yeah, yeah, this is a hugelift.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Yeah, and this is why and I like, and this is why
you've been getting all of theseand we started, right before we
hit record, getting all ofthese intuitive hits throughout
the course of the week, and yousaid, like you're getting these
weird things that are comingthrough and you're not sure what
this is, and so you aresupposed to start merging the
intuition with the business.
(10:02):
Oh that's okay.
Yeah, because you've been inthis masculine space, pushing,
pushing, pushing, pushing Right,and I know that you have your
heart in this and I know thatyou're you're obviously a very
feminine woman and like you'rein this business, but your
business has no femininefeminine, so like it's literally
showing up in a way.
For me that's a woman.
That's any business suit in alike putting a mask on and there
(10:24):
is no softness to this womanbusiness that I'm seeing in my
head.
So you need to start bringingin the more feminine, soft,
intuitive qualities into yourbusiness to help you get to that
next level.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Yeah, oh my God.
So, oh, bless you.
If I could just hug you throughthe phone, through the screen,
I would energetic hug oh my God,you're so sweet.
So that was like a huge kind ofhit that I had earlier this
week where I'm like I've createdall of this space for me to
build and do the things that Ilove, because I know that I need
to make the space for buildingmyself.
(10:59):
And also, like you know, if Iget random hits for clients, I'm
like, oh like, because that'sone of the things that I have
for this week Like if I givespace, god, source, spirit,
whatever, it fills it in reallyamazing ways and I know that and
trust that.
But I had this huge momentearlier this week where I'm like
I've created this space forthis beautiful time but now I
feel like I'm having to go backand do more of this head work
(11:22):
that I'm not, it's not myfavorite thing to do.
I'm like my thing is to be freespirited and flowing and like
coming up authentic.
I don't want to be the onedoing marketing and doing all of
that, because it feelsinauthentic and authentic to me
and like in the way just mybrain it, that alignment just
(11:44):
has not synced up, and so I hadthat moment where I'm like it.
I'm now feel like I'm.
I've taken all of the time for,you know, my intuition and
stuff that I had when I createdthis space, and it's now being
pulled through into like youhave to think strategically.
Strategically, you know,because you have to think inside
the box, but I need to bethinking outside the box.
But when I'm having to go backto you know, increase my
(12:06):
caseload and do all of thesethings, I then don't have like
it.
I'm then demanding somethingright in the masculine energy
versus allowing myself toreceive things.
So Right.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
And when I'm saying thinking strategically, I'm just
saying take the stuff off yourplate that anyone can do.
Anyone can do marketing, taylor, right, anyone can make social
media reels and I know that youlove you, like, you're so great
at the um, the little shorts orwhatever the, the little, what
are the stories on Instagram?
So like, that is authenticallyyou and that's how you show up
(12:40):
authentically.
But when I'm talking aboutstrategy, it doesn't mean it's a
whole bunch of people sittingaround a table like creating a
project plan.
Right.
To me, it's more about openingup.
When I oh, it's a really goodpoint when I'm, when I'm talking
strategically, it's opening upto your own intuition, to spirit
, to your guides on thedownloads of, what should this
look like?
(13:01):
What is the game plan?
How do I get there?
And it's not what's the ROI?
It's not.
You know what's what.
What's the return on investment?
Here, right, it's more aboutwhere.
So, based on where I'm at today, what lights me up now?
Because what lights you up nowis with the direction that the
business needs to go, because,as much as I like to say, you
(13:24):
are not your business, it is you.
Without you and your energy,your business would not function
the way it is because it is you.
So you need to think aboutstrategically, what are the
things that light you up,where's the next step, where do
you see this going?
And you don't need to know thefull picture, but it's it's
saying what are the steps I needto take now that excite me,
(13:46):
that are going to open me up forthe next level of my business?
Speaker 2 (13:51):
Yeah, 1 million percent, and that's what I feel
like I have been aligned with.
But you've totally just like Imean, that was like the hugest
click earlier.
I'm just like, uh, no, like, ah, the heavens have parted.
I'm like that makes a suretheory.
Yeah, see, you thought it wouldbe scary talking about this, but
it's exciting and all thatmakes so much sense because I am
(14:12):
fully like, I'm on board withthat, where I'm like, oh, I have
no, I have faith, I have nofear in the sense of I know,
like what I've built from youknow, licenses and all of that,
that I, that's all, that's howI've gotten every next step is
building off of what I'm excitedand passionate about.
So, like that's not scary, it'snot not like, oh, my God, where
am I going?
Like I don't need to see thepath, I just know what I'm
(14:33):
feeling.
As long as I'm feeling that,feeling the results are there,
and like that shows up andthat's all I care about is what
I'm enjoying and that I'm, youknow, providing good work.
Like those two things go handin hand for me go hand in hand
for me.
Speaker 1 (14:51):
Yeah, so, likewise, as you're thinking about the
things that light you up, I wantto.
I want you to think about thethings that used to let you up,
that are now dim as well,because those are the
opportunities for you to offload.
And when I'm talking about that, what I'm seeing in my head and
what spirit's guiding metowards is um, I know there's
stuff that only Taylor can dofor clients.
I know that.
(15:11):
But then there's parts of yoursessions that other people can't
do, or sorry, excuse me thatother people can do.
So I'm not sure what this is,but it almost feels like break.
See if there's an opportunityto break apart your readings or
break apart your sessions withyour clients so that you're
providing the Taylor experienceand then they can go to somebody
(15:35):
else for maybe some of the morepractical grounded tools that
anyone can do.
So that's what I'm seeing Like,as you bring in a partner for
this work is having.
Are there opportunities toliterally break apart some of
your client things?
Cause, you just said it, yousaid more clients, more clients.
Right, you need to grow, youneed to grow, you need to grow.
That means that something hasto give.
(15:56):
You can't take on double thecaseload or double the amount of
clients and still be able tofind time for you and growth and
strategic thinking and sleeping.
So how do you think differentlyabout your clients and the
services that you provide sothat you are really tailoring
(16:16):
the Taylor experience and andoffloading again that stuff?
That's a little more dim, thatdoesn't light you up as much,
but it's still very important toyour clients For sure.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
For sure it feels like a lot of just like the
business marketing Cause.
Where my head wants to go isbecause I don't want to say like
there cause there was somethingthat came up earlier.
Like cause, I don't mean likehow do I provide better Cause.
I don't want to get on thetrack of like you can always do
more and more and more.
But like how do I make sure,well, I'm providing quality work
(16:49):
with my clients when I show up?
And I'm like how do I make sure, well, I'm providing quality
work with my clients when I showup?
But I'm like I had the downloadthat I wanted to start doing
Just more tracking in terms offeedback, asking them.
You know, like we're doing morerating scales, so then I'm
collecting more data.
So then how are you showing up?
Okay, six months, three months,what are we feeling?
What symptoms?
(17:15):
You know, like I want to do morelike research stuff, like that
I'm like to actually have track.
And then, you know, figure outmore data points and like if I
want to do more journaling,tracking, more habit stuff.
I think that's kind of in theworks, but part of that is like
I know these thoughts to come inwhen I'm still on that
treadmill and it's almost likethe treadmill.
Then the resistance is going upand it's like going through
this band that, like I can't befiguring out okay, crunching
numbers, and you know, iseverything fitting there while
(17:38):
doing this and I need to just bedoing this, so I need to move
that and the end, build andbuild, uh, in terms of like, yes
, I I agree with you what you'resaying about sourcing, like you
know, other things that are notme specific.
Speaker 1 (17:57):
Yeah, and I think that's a really good example,
because you could hire somebodyto, once you figure out what the
process is, hire somebody tosend out those emails, compile
the information back from yourclients, summarize it for you so
that you are just sitting down,you know, 15, 20 minutes before
a client session, reading itand knowing what you're going to
address in it.
Right For sure, because all ofthat is extra time.
So, so, and I want you to, andthey keep showing me, and you
(18:22):
know what I'm talking about as,as people go up the corporate
ladder I'm going to say it thatway you, they go from breath,
doing a lot of, a lot of a lotof things, a little bit of a lot
of things, to more and morespecialized and specialized and
specialized.
So they go from breath to depth.
And right now is this weird,awkward in between point for you
(18:45):
where you want to go broad, butyou have to go deep where you
want to go broad but you have togo deep.
Speaker 2 (18:53):
Something is going to have to give, Right, and that's
that sums it up immediately.
Right, there's like something'sgot to give, but I'm like, I'm
like looking where for who orwhat, and like what I see, but I
don't know what the thing is.
And now that definitely givesme a lot.
Speaker 1 (19:06):
Right, and this is your, this is your challenge.
Are you going to relinquishcontrol so that you can go up?
Because if you don't relinquishcontrol, you will stay in this
muddled state and you will stayin this era where you're happy
(19:27):
with that totally cool.
But I know you want to build anempire, so you are going to
have to learn to let go andtrust.
And, again, part of that trustcan be controlled because you
can define specific processes,specific steps, right, you can
hire a person that you trust orlike, try them out until they do
have good quality work, youknow, et cetera.
(19:49):
So this is the next stage in theevolution of your work and,
honestly, it feels veryresistant because it's
uncomfortable.
It's uncomfortable to givesomebody control or a part of a
business that you've built fromthe ground up, but you won't be
able to continue growing byyourself.
There's only one of you, andwhat you're gonna find, taylor,
(20:09):
is that as you bring in morepeople into your business, they
are going to come with their ownstrengths and ideas, and so
this is actually going to be anamazing gift for you in your
business to get moreperspectives, more advice, more
healing to help you continue togrow.
Yeah, there you go.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
Yeah, that checks out a lot.
Speaker 1 (20:37):
Okay, and I don't see a full-time person yet.
So I just I want to.
I want to tell you I feel likeit starts small.
So let's talk about the how,because I don't see a full-time
person yet.
I still, I think originally Isaid I saw two.
I'm still seeing two full-timepeople under you eventually
probably more than that, butright now I'm seeing part-time.
I'm seeing you are like veryglad to get rid of, let's say,
(21:00):
marketing and you're going tosay, okay, so I'm going to hire
a social media person, You'regoing to help me with marketing.
You're going to help me withemails, You're going to help me
with email campaigns, Like, andit feels like I'm going to hire
you to do this one specific taskthat I loathe and start moving
that over.
And then once you see thatthat's successful and that works
, then I feel like it's more apartner in your day-to-day with
(21:23):
your clients.
Speaker 2 (21:25):
Yeah, yeah, for sure.
Okay, that speaks a lot,figuring what I'm like hearing
in my head.
I'm like, see, I feel like,because I feel like dwindling,
expired, I'm like what are youtalking about?
That doesn't feel true.
So I don't know.
I feel like if there's justmore like combative stuff kind
of showing up, because logicallyI think like I agree and
(21:46):
intuitively feel what you'resaying is like very true okay.
Speaker 1 (21:51):
So if there's anything that's coming up
because your intuition is sayingit's saying it's true, your
logic is saying it's true, butyou're probably having a little
resistance because there'sprobably some inner work to do
associated with that right it's,it's the um.
Am I comfortable givingsomebody else a piece of a piece
of my business?
Right?
And it's trust issues.
It's so.
I'm going to say wherever you'refeeling resistance and you know
(22:12):
this, but I'm going to say thisit doesn't mean it's wrong, it
doesn't mean it's the wrong step, it just means there's
something inside that's going onthat I need to work through.
So, again, you know you are thebest person that knows how to do
this.
So pay attention to those areasof resistance and realize that
this is something this is.
This is the universe, givingyou an amazing gift of what
needs to be worked on, whatneeds to be overcome to help me
(22:33):
get to that next level, becauseyou won't continue to ascend
unless you address, like, themore you go down and when I say
go down, the more you go intothe shadow part of yourself, the
dark part of yourself, thethings that we don't want to
recognize.
You have to go down before youcan go up.
So they are just highlightingareas where there's internal
healing and trust anddevelopment needed so that you
(22:55):
can be more confident on thatnext level of your business, for
sure.
And so I mean I feel like in myhead I'm seeing that you have
the path ahead.
So what, what questions do youhave that you are still like, ah
, I don't know, I don't, I'mwell, I'm holding back.
Speaker 2 (23:21):
Um, so schedule it.
So there's other, yeah.
So I a hundred percent agreewith what you're saying, because
there's certain things whereit's odd.
It's almost like the more I tryto work and save myself,
actually it feels like I'mworking against something that's
like actively trying to sufferme, and what I say by that is
(23:43):
like when you're going.
When you say like going down,I'm like yeah, that's there.
When I try to do anythingremotely loud, sometimes even
thinking and I've worked throughthat with my mentor on some of
the things I'm seeing, there'slike past life stuff and stuff
that is like slowly attached.
But I feel like I'm workingwith sometimes like a whole I
don't know head honcho of likejust goon squad or something I
(24:07):
don't know.
I'm like what the fuck is?
this and that was one of thethings that I was kind of
thinking about earlier when youwere, when I was like some
resistance one of the things Idon't know yet, we can maybe get
into this another time forwhatever reason.
Like cause, my symbol that Iwrote down was like tail wags.
I got that somewhere else.
Like tail wags, I got thatsomewhere else.
(24:30):
I think there might there'ssomething about.
I think spirits show up to mein animal form, and that was
shown to me one time, um, byArchangel Gabriel.
Like he showed me something andit was like kept showing me it,
with a dog barking, and I'mlike, oh, and then one of my
mentors.
I asked her I'm like, I'm like,I keep needing to ask you like
cause, ever since we startedworking together all these years
(24:50):
, I know the one dog you have,but I keep like there's always
been the second dog that remindsme of like Doug from up.
I'm like, why do I always seethis dog in my head?
And she's like let me see,she's like that's my you know,
departed loved one and it's notso.
She's like so apparently theyshow up to me as I don't know.
(25:13):
And so when I got this idea,like when I asked, like what the
fear was, I heard like tailwagons.
I'm like is there a part of methat feels like I have to be so
like protective against thing?
That's like I'm afraid ofmaking a ghost or a spirit or
like something happy.
So I feel like I'm like maybeso defensive that it's like I
don't like if there's a part ofme that doesn't want something
to gain satisfaction orsomething I don't know.
(25:34):
That's the like loosest partand that's probably a lot to
hand off.
But I'm like there's somethingweird there and with all the
ghost, uh, dead people combo.
I'm like dead people combo, I'mlike hold a tide pool there.
Speaker 1 (25:49):
But Well, and what I'm feeling with that, taylor,
is that there's only so much youcan uncover with books, right,
and like, there's only so muchyou can uncover with what people
say out of their mouth, because, as you've learned firsthand,
there is so many layers to theonions of of us.
(26:09):
We have, you know us, ourlifetime, probably things that
we block out personally, right,we have our past lives and
things that we don't even knowabout there, and then we have
our ancestral lines too.
So what spirit is trying to dois open you up to accessing
information that isn't readilyavailable from directly your
(26:31):
client, right, and but this isinformation that is going to
help them uncover, grow, expand,right, because, unfortunately,
there are some of these hiddenchains because our egos, our
brains, are so afraid to open upand let loose, because it's our
, our brain's job is literallyto protect us, right, our ego
protects us and it shells us.
(26:54):
So you need to be, start beingconscious of these subconscious
patterns within these peoplethat they don't even know is
holding their it's holding themdown, so that you can cut the
chains for them and release them, and the only way you're going
to do that is by opening up theintuition again.
(27:15):
Right and the tail wag isfollow the fun things, follow
the joy, because you can onlyget these downloads when you are
in a positive vibrational state, and so if you're like your
head down, focusing on thebusiness and growing the
(27:36):
business right, you're missingall of that higher vibration
downloads and information that'scoming in from spirit, not only
for you because they've shownyou you can do it, but also for
your clients.
Yeah, you need to speak thatlanguage now.
That's your next level.
Speaker 2 (27:52):
Yeah, you're speaking .
You're speaking to my soul andit's true, cause I've started
incorporating so much intuitivework into my clients, but it's
it's like it feels like in orderto fully do that, you're right,
I need to outsource, like a lotof the logic, so I can.
Speaker 1 (28:08):
Yeah, and here's the and this is the reason why.
It's because you canintuitively pick up on things,
and this is the problem withpsychics.
Okay, you can intuitively pickup on things, but it has to be
part of your knowing, yourbiases, like you're like, the
things you're going to pick upon are the things that you've
been through and the things thatyou can easily recognize.
(28:29):
When you're tapping into spirit, they're able to bring in
things from complete left fieldthat you would never, ever think
of, and so that's you.
You need to connect tosomething external from yourself
to get some of this informationfor your clients.
Yeah, it feels like I justdropped a giant, like two ton.
Speaker 2 (28:56):
Yeah, I'm going to sit with this for a while.
Thank God this is only a 30minute call, so I go back and
put every Uh-huh, yeah, this,this checks out like maybe, uh,
yeah, I just heard.
I'm not even maybe going to dothat right away, I'm just going
to allow this to energeticallylike seep in.
So I'm like yep, yep it.
You.
That's such the cool thing aboutintuition, intuitive work and
(29:18):
your gifts that you use isyou're very rarely are you
giving something that's aresounding no to us.
It's it's more so like we feelrefreshed and and enlightened
because you were.
You're like thank you forsaying and translating what I
already knew was true, butdidn't have the words fully to
expand on what that meant.
(29:39):
So that is such a gift that youhave.
But that's why, when it's likeoh God, yeah, it's, it's a way,
but like refreshing, where it'slike thank you, it's true, it's
like yes, that's exactly what Iwas trying to say, which, going
back a hot minute ago, one of mymentors said that when she was
like your higher self says youknow, taylor just needs somebody
to bounce ideas off of and youknow something like everything's
(29:59):
gonna be okay and she's gonnabe fine.
She just needs somebody tobounce ideas off of and talk out
loud with things.
I'm like no, 1 million percent,so it's my stuff, like this is
always helpful, and shout outyes to you and you know, for me
and for everyone else.
That's why I always say that Iwill be forever in a space of
paying people to do things.
If that's coaching, you know,like developing relationships
(30:21):
where people, where I dooutsource myself of like yeah, I
need to talk to people, I willforever pay people.
So sometimes if people think,oh, like the therapist doesn't
have a therapist or you knowlike it's like no, I think it
doesn't mean that you'd be likeworking through stuff, but like
I think we're meant to bemingling with people, learning
new things, seeing thingsthrough new ways, and like you
need to be investing in yourselfso your clients can invest in
(30:42):
you, so everyone go invest insomeone.
Moral of the story Well said.
Speaker 1 (30:49):
Well, that was amazing, taylor.
And the last bit of kind offeedback I want to give you, or
a thing from spirit I want togive you, is if you're having
trouble getting the intuition orgetting those downloads, or if
you feel like it's there andit's just out of touch and
you're like, what does that mean?
Water is going to be your key.
So that means drinking water,taking baths, taking showers.
(31:09):
Water is going to be your wayto reconnect with your own
energy, to try to get thatinformation a little bit more
clearly for you.
Speaker 2 (31:17):
Yeah, yeah, that makes sense, thank you.
Yeah, that checks out.
I heard that before ish, butnot with that.
Speaker 1 (31:24):
So that makes sense, thank, you Okay In you, you,
around you, everything.
I just thank you so much,Taylor.
Um, how are you feeling?
Good, good?
Speaker 2 (31:33):
refreshed but also like I need to go take a nap,
yep, yep, and maybe I just maybelet up some salt, yeah exactly.
Speaker 1 (31:47):
Let it all marinate.
Thank you so much.
You are incredible.
I appreciate it.
You're so welcome, taylor.
I hope this was helpful and Ijust want to thank you for being
here today.
I really appreciate it, thankyou for being here.
All right, take care.
Hello everyone, welcome back to empower your
soul.
I am here today with the lovely, gorgeous Taylor again, and I
know we previously had a freereading for you on the podcast
and this is going to continue,and I'm so excited.
Thank you so much for beinghere, taylor.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Yes, thank you for having me.
I know it was so funny.
So I had zero intention ofdoing this and when I I made a
chiropractor appointment threeweeks ago, but when I put it in
my schedule it had I heardcapture it.
And then I heard departed lovedones and immediately was like
(00:44):
what?
As I was leaving thechiropractor appointment, I'm
sitting in my car just likedoing a few notes and I heard
like something, uh, like I got afew, like it was like mail room
or something, and at 1 44 yousent out an email asking like so
I'm sitting right there askingme, like you know, for people to
(01:05):
sign up for the podcast.
And I'm like, well, if thatdoesn't speak about departed
level, I'm like I'm supposed tobe here, then I don't know what
does.
So I'm like you gotta bekidding me.
So I have no idea.
Yeah, what to expect.
Like I've already done this,but it was very clear that I
wrote that on my counter threeweeks ago and it's been sitting
for that long.
Had no idea that it was tied toyou.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Oh, my goodness, I love it.
And I just got the divineinspiration to release these
sessions and kind of tossed outon the email for those of you
that are on the email chain, and, um, it all works out the way
it's supposed to divine timingand alignment and I love that.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
I've been giggling about it all week.
I'm like you gotta be kiddingme.
Like I just could not get overCause it's I love.
Sometimes I feel like theydangle stuff in your face just
so you can like enjoy marinatingon it and watching it.
Knowing that like that wasthree weeks ago, I put that in
my calendar with those words andyou showed up as I'm sitting in
the parking lot, leaving thatexact appointment, I'm like got
(02:01):
it.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
There it is I love it .
Oh, my goodness, okay.
So we're going to talk, I think, more of a business side of the
house.
So this this is kind ofinformally I'm going to say a
little teaser for my consultingwith spirit um offering that I
do.
So I'm so excited to read yourbusiness and it's just so
interesting because I waspulling some cards before you
(02:23):
hopped on and I'm just gettingall these like downloads about
your business.
So I'm actually really excitedabout this.
So keep me honest on what fits,what resonates, what doesn't
resonate, any questions that youhave about your business, but
it's just been so interesting.
All right, you ready, taylor,make sense.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Yes, please Give me all the girl.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Perfect.
So when I'm tapping into yourbusiness and I know a little bit
about what you do, but not toomuch about what you do, but the
way that my team shows me tokind of look at your business
and I'm kind of in the Akashicrecords of your business because
your business has an energy toit and what is so unique about
the energy of your business is,I know, that the goal that, like
(03:03):
I'm going to say, like theintentions of your business, is
to provide healing, it's toprovide grounding and it's to
provide balance for your clients.
Does that make sense?
Okay, and as I'm feeling intothis, it's so interesting
because I'm getting this, thisreally grounded energy with your
business as well.
And if I had to describe yourbusiness in terms of a person
(03:25):
because this is what my team isasking me to do right now I see
this very and it's very similarto you.
But I see I'm going to say aslightly older woman than you.
I want to say you know, maybeforties, maybe 50, like, like
older woman than you, but shehas her shit together Right, and
I see her with a briefcase andI see that she wants to go
places, but I also see thatshe's freaking stuck and there
feels to me like you really wantto push forward a lot more than
(03:49):
you are right now and I knowthat you're appreciative and
respectful of where you're at.
But it feels really sticky andit feels like I see her heels
literally stuck like glue to thepavement and trying to move
forward and figuring, not tryingand unable to figure out how
the heck do I move forward?
Does that make sense with you?
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Yes, there's very odd , like it's like yeah, I'm
walking on a treadmill and likeI know where I'm going and but
like it's very odd that I'm likeI don't know how to get unstuck
or what it is, cause growth isneeded and I don't know what is
the exact move that I need tomake at this exact moment.
(04:28):
Because I have been makingmoves, that's the thing.
I've been adding things in andeverything's been building, but
there's this odd where I'm likeit should be a crescendo, things
should be moving as I'm moving,and there's this odd opposite
energy that feels like.
It's like, yeah, you're moving,but I can feel almost like,
almost like if I had amicrophone the wires been cut
and so it's like I have themicrophone but it might, yeah,
(04:50):
but it's cut.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
That makes a lot of sense because, as I'm checking
into like the energy of thiswoman that's standing before me,
that represents your businessfor me, I'm honest to God,
seeing that, like everything, ifwe're talking about like
chakras, I feel like heart down,the heart is fully in this.
Right, I know this business isyour heart and soul.
I know that your business isvery grounded.
I know it is very stable, but Iknow that you wanna grow, you
(05:14):
wanna go to this next level.
So, as I tap into like theenergetics of your business,
there's something about thethroat chakra and then your
crown of this business beingcompletely closed.
So I just feel like you'redoing a lot in terms of your
head to drive this forward inthe way that you know how to
drive businesses forward.
Right, because you're a verysmart, smart woman and you know
(05:35):
business and you know businessvery well.
But there's something about inorder to tweak and get to this
next level.
You need to bring yourintuition into this.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
And that's the craziest thing is that that's
what I've been trying to do andlike working with.
But then it feels so likeyou're describing an extra layer
of this stuckness, where I'mlike I feel like I'm combating a
force that's not mine, likewhat I wrote down when I was
like, oh, like do, should I do asoul alignment or a business
when I heard something that waslike scary, but then I heard
cheery, and so it was almostlike maybe there's a part of me
(06:08):
or some part of my subconsciousor energy here that's telling me
something's going to be scaryand I'm like, no, it's actually
going to be cheery and excitingand you're going to enjoy it,
but it feels like there's likesome kind of odd disconnect.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
And honestly, that's what it feels like, because
you're so grounded in the energyof your business, taylor, and
it honestly feels like to methat you have your stuff
together.
I feel like you have a formula,you have structure to your
business, but it's almost likeyou have been and you talked
about it with the treadmillgoing through the motions over
and over and over again.
It seems to be a lot of thesame that keeps coming up over
(06:42):
and over and over again, and sothis is you, and I'm going to
say it this way this is, this isa you problem, and we'll talk
about what.
That is not a business problem,because you are so good at what
you do and it's like you'vegotten to the top level of where
your business is at now, andnow you can't get to this next
level.
But the way to get to this nextlevel is thinking outside the
(07:04):
box, doing things differentlythan you have, because you've
built this solid foundation andit feels like if I do something
different, it's scary, it'sgoing to change, my foundation
is going to be gone.
But that's not true at all,because I see that you want to
get to this next level ofactually hiring staff and having
support teams, and maybe thisis what the future looks like
for you in the short term ishiring an assistant, if you
(07:26):
don't already have one, to takeon some of the grunt work, to
take on the emails, to take onthe tasks that are really taking
up your time, because if youdon't start handing things off,
you don't have time or space orenergy to bring in these
inspirational downloads, tobring your business to the next
level.
It's like you need time tothink strategically and you need
(07:48):
to offload the stuff that isworking well, that is,
systematically you know, step Athrough Z, so that it frees up
your time to do what you reallylove about this business and
less about the things that youknow make it run.
Does that make sense?
Speaker 2 (08:02):
Does that make sense.
So I'm giggling because severalweeks ago, I don't know, months
ago, whatever, I've kind ofheard this a few times.
I just kept hearing the wordoutsourcing, outsourcing.
I'm like I need outsourcing.
And so I'm like I'm sittingthere like yes, yes, mother, I
know.
Like it's like I've been toldthis before and so now it's like
(08:24):
freaking, do it.
I'm like okay.
So then when push comes to show, yeah, it's now, it's too late,
yeah, Do I have enough wiggleroom now to do it?
It feels like it is.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
It's not too late because, um, it might take time
to bring somebody on and trainthem, but that's going to end up
bringing it up.
So it's almost like take and Isee a calendar and I see, like
take a day or two, or take aweekend, where you literally
write down, step-by-step, someof these things that you can
outsource, the things that youcan give to somebody else.
Write down the steps so thatyou can hand it off to somebody
(08:56):
to do it for you, because younever, ever, ever want to
outsource a process that is notdefined or efficient, because
what you're going to do is endup writing about 20 different
steps.
There cannot be any wiggle roomto this, because I know I love
you, taylor, you're a controlfreak, right, and I know that
you're not going to want anyoneto do it a way other than how
you do it, and that's, that'sabsolutely okay.
(09:17):
So write it down and then, andthen I can help point you in the
right direction, if you need to, to find resources to do this
work for you yeah, I'm gigglingabout that.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
I'm like, okay, that's exactly what we need to
be talking about.
So, yeah, yeah, this is a hugelift.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Yeah, and this is why and I like, and this is why
you've been getting all of theseand we started, right before we
hit record, getting all ofthese intuitive hits throughout
the course of the week, and yousaid, like you're getting these
weird things that are comingthrough and you're not sure what
this is, and so you aresupposed to start merging the
intuition with the business.
(10:02):
Oh that's okay.
Yeah, because you've been inthis masculine space, pushing,
pushing, pushing, pushing Right,and I know that you have your
heart in this and I know thatyou're you're obviously a very
feminine woman and like you'rein this business, but your
business has no femininefeminine, so like it's literally
showing up in a way.
For me that's a woman.
That's any business suit in alike putting a mask on and there
(10:24):
is no softness to this womanbusiness that I'm seeing in my
head.
So you need to start bringingin the more feminine, soft,
intuitive qualities into yourbusiness to help you get to that
next level.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Yeah, oh my God.
So, oh, bless you.
If I could just hug you throughthe phone, through the screen,
I would energetic hug oh my God,you're so sweet.
So that was like a huge kind ofhit that I had earlier this
week where I'm like I've createdall of this space for me to
build and do the things that Ilove, because I know that I need
to make the space for buildingmyself.
(10:59):
And also, like you know, if Iget random hits for clients, I'm
like, oh like, because that'sone of the things that I have
for this week Like if I givespace, god, source, spirit,
whatever, it fills it in reallyamazing ways and I know that and
trust that.
But I had this huge momentearlier this week where I'm like
I've created this space forthis beautiful time but now I
feel like I'm having to go backand do more of this head work
(11:22):
that I'm not, it's not myfavorite thing to do.
I'm like my thing is to be freespirited and flowing and like
coming up authentic.
I don't want to be the onedoing marketing and doing all of
that, because it feelsinauthentic and authentic to me
and like in the way just mybrain it, that alignment just
(11:44):
has not synced up, and so I hadthat moment where I'm like it.
I'm now feel like I'm.
I've taken all of the time for,you know, my intuition and
stuff that I had when I createdthis space, and it's now being
pulled through into like youhave to think strategically.
Strategically, you know,because you have to think inside
the box, but I need to bethinking outside the box.
But when I'm having to go backto you know, increase my
(12:06):
caseload and do all of thesethings, I then don't have like
it.
I'm then demanding somethingright in the masculine energy
versus allowing myself toreceive things.
So Right.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
And when I'm saying thinking strategically, I'm just
saying take the stuff off yourplate that anyone can do.
Anyone can do marketing, taylor, right, anyone can make social
media reels and I know that youlove you, like, you're so great
at the um, the little shorts orwhatever the, the little, what
are the stories on Instagram?
So like, that is authenticallyyou and that's how you show up
(12:40):
authentically.
But when I'm talking aboutstrategy, it doesn't mean it's a
whole bunch of people sittingaround a table like creating a
project plan.
Right.
To me, it's more about openingup.
When I oh, it's a really goodpoint when I'm, when I'm talking
strategically, it's opening upto your own intuition, to spirit
, to your guides on thedownloads of, what should this
look like?
(13:01):
What is the game plan?
How do I get there?
And it's not what's the ROI?
It's not.
You know what's what.
What's the return on investment?
Here, right, it's more aboutwhere.
So, based on where I'm at today, what lights me up now?
Because what lights you up nowis with the direction that the
business needs to go, because,as much as I like to say, you
(13:24):
are not your business, it is you.
Without you and your energy,your business would not function
the way it is because it is you.
So you need to think aboutstrategically, what are the
things that light you up,where's the next step, where do
you see this going?
And you don't need to know thefull picture, but it's it's
saying what are the steps I needto take now that excite me,
(13:46):
that are going to open me up forthe next level of my business?
Speaker 2 (13:51):
Yeah, 1 million percent, and that's what I feel
like I have been aligned with.
But you've totally just like Imean, that was like the hugest
click earlier.
I'm just like, uh, no, like, ah, the heavens have parted.
I'm like that makes a suretheory.
Yeah, see, you thought it wouldbe scary talking about this, but
it's exciting and all thatmakes so much sense because I am
(14:12):
fully like, I'm on board withthat, where I'm like, oh, I have
no, I have faith, I have nofear in the sense of I know,
like what I've built from youknow, licenses and all of that,
that I, that's all, that's howI've gotten every next step is
building off of what I'm excitedand passionate about.
So, like that's not scary, it'snot not like, oh, my God, where
am I going?
Like I don't need to see thepath, I just know what I'm
(14:33):
feeling.
As long as I'm feeling that,feeling the results are there,
and like that shows up andthat's all I care about is what
I'm enjoying and that I'm, youknow, providing good work.
Like those two things go handin hand for me go hand in hand
for me.
Speaker 1 (14:51):
Yeah, so, likewise, as you're thinking about the
things that light you up, I wantto.
I want you to think about thethings that used to let you up,
that are now dim as well,because those are the
opportunities for you to offload.
And when I'm talking about that, what I'm seeing in my head and
what spirit's guiding metowards is um, I know there's
stuff that only Taylor can dofor clients.
I know that.
(15:11):
But then there's parts of yoursessions that other people can't
do, or sorry, excuse me thatother people can do.
So I'm not sure what this is,but it almost feels like break.
See if there's an opportunityto break apart your readings or
break apart your sessions withyour clients so that you're
providing the Taylor experienceand then they can go to somebody
(15:35):
else for maybe some of the morepractical grounded tools that
anyone can do.
So that's what I'm seeing Like,as you bring in a partner for
this work is having.
Are there opportunities toliterally break apart some of
your client things?
Cause, you just said it, yousaid more clients, more clients.
Right, you need to grow, youneed to grow, you need to grow.
That means that something hasto give.
(15:56):
You can't take on double thecaseload or double the amount of
clients and still be able tofind time for you and growth and
strategic thinking and sleeping.
So how do you think differentlyabout your clients and the
services that you provide sothat you are really tailoring
(16:16):
the Taylor experience and andoffloading again that stuff?
That's a little more dim, thatdoesn't light you up as much,
but it's still very important toyour clients For sure.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
For sure it feels like a lot of just like the
business marketing Cause.
Where my head wants to go isbecause I don't want to say like
there cause there was somethingthat came up earlier.
Like cause, I don't mean likehow do I provide better Cause.
I don't want to get on thetrack of like you can always do
more and more and more.
But like how do I make sure,well, I'm providing quality work
(16:49):
with my clients when I show up?
And I'm like how do I make sure, well, I'm providing quality
work with my clients when I showup?
But I'm like I had the downloadthat I wanted to start doing
Just more tracking in terms offeedback, asking them.
You know, like we're doing morerating scales, so then I'm
collecting more data.
So then how are you showing up?
Okay, six months, three months,what are we feeling?
What symptoms?
(17:15):
You know, like I want to do morelike research stuff, like that
I'm like to actually have track.
And then, you know, figure outmore data points and like if I
want to do more journaling,tracking, more habit stuff.
I think that's kind of in theworks, but part of that is like
I know these thoughts to come inwhen I'm still on that
treadmill and it's almost likethe treadmill.
Then the resistance is going upand it's like going through
this band that, like I can't befiguring out okay, crunching
numbers, and you know, iseverything fitting there while
(17:38):
doing this and I need to just bedoing this, so I need to move
that and the end, build andbuild, uh, in terms of like, yes
, I I agree with you what you'resaying about sourcing, like you
know, other things that are notme specific.
Speaker 1 (17:57):
Yeah, and I think that's a really good example,
because you could hire somebodyto, once you figure out what the
process is, hire somebody tosend out those emails, compile
the information back from yourclients, summarize it for you so
that you are just sitting down,you know, 15, 20 minutes before
a client session, reading itand knowing what you're going to
address in it.
Right For sure, because all ofthat is extra time.
So, so, and I want you to, andthey keep showing me, and you
(18:22):
know what I'm talking about as,as people go up the corporate
ladder I'm going to say it thatway you, they go from breath,
doing a lot of, a lot of a lotof things, a little bit of a lot
of things, to more and morespecialized and specialized and
specialized.
So they go from breath to depth.
And right now is this weird,awkward in between point for you
(18:45):
where you want to go broad, butyou have to go deep where you
want to go broad but you have togo deep.
Speaker 2 (18:53):
Something is going to have to give, Right, and that's
that sums it up immediately.
Right, there's like something'sgot to give, but I'm like, I'm
like looking where for who orwhat, and like what I see, but I
don't know what the thing is.
And now that definitely givesme a lot.
Speaker 1 (19:06):
Right, and this is your, this is your challenge.
Are you going to relinquishcontrol so that you can go up?
Because if you don't relinquishcontrol, you will stay in this
muddled state and you will stayin this era where you're happy
(19:27):
with that totally cool.
But I know you want to build anempire, so you are going to
have to learn to let go andtrust.
And, again, part of that trustcan be controlled because you
can define specific processes,specific steps, right, you can
hire a person that you trust orlike, try them out until they do
have good quality work, youknow, et cetera.
(19:49):
So this is the next stage in theevolution of your work and,
honestly, it feels veryresistant because it's
uncomfortable.
It's uncomfortable to givesomebody control or a part of a
business that you've built fromthe ground up, but you won't be
able to continue growing byyourself.
There's only one of you, andwhat you're gonna find, taylor,
(20:09):
is that as you bring in morepeople into your business, they
are going to come with their ownstrengths and ideas, and so
this is actually going to be anamazing gift for you in your
business to get moreperspectives, more advice, more
healing to help you continue togrow.
Yeah, there you go.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
Yeah, that checks out a lot.
Speaker 1 (20:37):
Okay, and I don't see a full-time person yet.
So I just I want to.
I want to tell you I feel likeit starts small.
So let's talk about the how,because I don't see a full-time
person yet.
I still, I think originally Isaid I saw two.
I'm still seeing two full-timepeople under you eventually
probably more than that, butright now I'm seeing part-time.
I'm seeing you are like veryglad to get rid of, let's say,
(21:00):
marketing and you're going tosay, okay, so I'm going to hire
a social media person, You'regoing to help me with marketing.
You're going to help me withemails, You're going to help me
with email campaigns, Like, andit feels like I'm going to hire
you to do this one specific taskthat I loathe and start moving
that over.
And then once you see thatthat's successful and that works
, then I feel like it's more apartner in your day-to-day with
(21:23):
your clients.
Speaker 2 (21:25):
Yeah, yeah, for sure.
Okay, that speaks a lot,figuring what I'm like hearing
in my head.
I'm like, see, I feel like,because I feel like dwindling,
expired, I'm like what are youtalking about?
That doesn't feel true.
So I don't know.
I feel like if there's justmore like combative stuff kind
of showing up, because logicallyI think like I agree and
(21:46):
intuitively feel what you'resaying is like very true okay.
Speaker 1 (21:51):
So if there's anything that's coming up
because your intuition is sayingit's saying it's true, your
logic is saying it's true, butyou're probably having a little
resistance because there'sprobably some inner work to do
associated with that right it's,it's the um.
Am I comfortable givingsomebody else a piece of a piece
of my business?
Right?
And it's trust issues.
It's so.
I'm going to say wherever you'refeeling resistance and you know
(22:12):
this, but I'm going to say thisit doesn't mean it's wrong, it
doesn't mean it's the wrong step, it just means there's
something inside that's going onthat I need to work through.
So, again, you know you are thebest person that knows how to do
this.
So pay attention to those areasof resistance and realize that
this is something this is.
This is the universe, givingyou an amazing gift of what
needs to be worked on, whatneeds to be overcome to help me
(22:33):
get to that next level, becauseyou won't continue to ascend
unless you address, like, themore you go down and when I say
go down, the more you go intothe shadow part of yourself, the
dark part of yourself, thethings that we don't want to
recognize.
You have to go down before youcan go up.
So they are just highlightingareas where there's internal
healing and trust anddevelopment needed so that you
(22:55):
can be more confident on thatnext level of your business, for
sure.
And so I mean I feel like in myhead I'm seeing that you have
the path ahead.
So what, what questions do youhave that you are still like, ah
, I don't know, I don't, I'mwell, I'm holding back.
Speaker 2 (23:21):
Um, so schedule it.
So there's other, yeah.
So I a hundred percent agreewith what you're saying, because
there's certain things whereit's odd.
It's almost like the more I tryto work and save myself,
actually it feels like I'mworking against something that's
like actively trying to sufferme, and what I say by that is
(23:43):
like when you're going.
When you say like going down,I'm like yeah, that's there.
When I try to do anythingremotely loud, sometimes even
thinking and I've worked throughthat with my mentor on some of
the things I'm seeing, there'slike past life stuff and stuff
that is like slowly attached.
But I feel like I'm workingwith sometimes like a whole I
don't know head honcho of likejust goon squad or something I
(24:07):
don't know.
I'm like what the fuck is?
this and that was one of thethings that I was kind of
thinking about earlier when youwere, when I was like some
resistance one of the things Idon't know yet, we can maybe get
into this another time forwhatever reason.
Like cause, my symbol that Iwrote down was like tail wags.
I got that somewhere else.
Like tail wags, I got thatsomewhere else.
(24:30):
I think there might there'ssomething about.
I think spirits show up to mein animal form, and that was
shown to me one time, um, byArchangel Gabriel.
Like he showed me something andit was like kept showing me it,
with a dog barking, and I'mlike, oh, and then one of my
mentors.
I asked her I'm like, I'm like,I keep needing to ask you like
cause, ever since we startedworking together all these years
(24:50):
, I know the one dog you have,but I keep like there's always
been the second dog that remindsme of like Doug from up.
I'm like, why do I always seethis dog in my head?
And she's like let me see,she's like that's my you know,
departed loved one and it's notso.
She's like so apparently theyshow up to me as I don't know.
(25:13):
And so when I got this idea,like when I asked, like what the
fear was, I heard like tailwagons.
I'm like is there a part of methat feels like I have to be so
like protective against thing?
That's like I'm afraid ofmaking a ghost or a spirit or
like something happy.
So I feel like I'm like maybeso defensive that it's like I
don't like if there's a part ofme that doesn't want something
to gain satisfaction orsomething I don't know.
(25:34):
That's the like loosest partand that's probably a lot to
hand off.
But I'm like there's somethingweird there and with all the
ghost, uh, dead people combo.
I'm like dead people combo, I'mlike hold a tide pool there.
Speaker 1 (25:49):
But Well, and what I'm feeling with that, taylor,
is that there's only so much youcan uncover with books, right,
and like, there's only so muchyou can uncover with what people
say out of their mouth, because, as you've learned firsthand,
there is so many layers to theonions of of us.
(26:09):
We have, you know us, ourlifetime, probably things that
we block out personally, right,we have our past lives and
things that we don't even knowabout there, and then we have
our ancestral lines too.
So what spirit is trying to dois open you up to accessing
information that isn't readilyavailable from directly your
(26:31):
client, right, and but this isinformation that is going to
help them uncover, grow, expand,right, because, unfortunately,
there are some of these hiddenchains because our egos, our
brains, are so afraid to open upand let loose, because it's our
, our brain's job is literallyto protect us, right, our ego
protects us and it shells us.
(26:54):
So you need to be, start beingconscious of these subconscious
patterns within these peoplethat they don't even know is
holding their it's holding themdown, so that you can cut the
chains for them and release them, and the only way you're going
to do that is by opening up theintuition again.
(27:15):
Right and the tail wag isfollow the fun things, follow
the joy, because you can onlyget these downloads when you are
in a positive vibrational state, and so if you're like your
head down, focusing on thebusiness and growing the
(27:36):
business right, you're missingall of that higher vibration
downloads and information that'scoming in from spirit, not only
for you because they've shownyou you can do it, but also for
your clients.
Yeah, you need to speak thatlanguage now.
That's your next level.
Speaker 2 (27:52):
Yeah, you're speaking .
You're speaking to my soul andit's true, cause I've started
incorporating so much intuitivework into my clients, but it's
it's like it feels like in orderto fully do that, you're right,
I need to outsource, like a lotof the logic, so I can.
Speaker 1 (28:08):
Yeah, and here's the and this is the reason why.
It's because you canintuitively pick up on things,
and this is the problem withpsychics.
Okay, you can intuitively pickup on things, but it has to be
part of your knowing, yourbiases, like you're like, the
things you're going to pick upon are the things that you've
been through and the things thatyou can easily recognize.
(28:29):
When you're tapping into spirit, they're able to bring in
things from complete left fieldthat you would never, ever think
of, and so that's you.
You need to connect tosomething external from yourself
to get some of this informationfor your clients.
Yeah, it feels like I justdropped a giant, like two ton.
Speaker 2 (28:56):
Yeah, I'm going to sit with this for a while.
Thank God this is only a 30minute call, so I go back and
put every Uh-huh, yeah, this,this checks out like maybe, uh,
yeah, I just heard.
I'm not even maybe going to dothat right away, I'm just going
to allow this to energeticallylike seep in.
So I'm like yep, yep it.
You.
That's such the cool thing aboutintuition, intuitive work and
(29:18):
your gifts that you use isyou're very rarely are you
giving something that's aresounding no to us.
It's it's more so like we feelrefreshed and and enlightened
because you were.
You're like thank you forsaying and translating what I
already knew was true, butdidn't have the words fully to
expand on what that meant.
(29:39):
So that is such a gift that youhave.
But that's why, when it's likeoh God, yeah, it's, it's a way,
but like refreshing, where it'slike thank you, it's true, it's
like yes, that's exactly what Iwas trying to say, which, going
back a hot minute ago, one of mymentors said that when she was
like your higher self says youknow, taylor just needs somebody
to bounce ideas off of and youknow something like everything's
(29:59):
gonna be okay and she's gonnabe fine.
She just needs somebody tobounce ideas off of and talk out
loud with things.
I'm like no, 1 million percent,so it's my stuff, like this is
always helpful, and shout outyes to you and you know, for me
and for everyone else.
That's why I always say that Iwill be forever in a space of
paying people to do things.
If that's coaching, you know,like developing relationships
(30:21):
where people, where I dooutsource myself of like yeah, I
need to talk to people, I willforever pay people.
So sometimes if people think,oh, like the therapist doesn't
have a therapist or you knowlike it's like no, I think it
doesn't mean that you'd be likeworking through stuff, but like
I think we're meant to bemingling with people, learning
new things, seeing thingsthrough new ways, and like you
need to be investing in yourselfso your clients can invest in
(30:42):
you, so everyone go invest insomeone.
Moral of the story Well said.
Speaker 1 (30:49):
Well, that was amazing, taylor.
And the last bit of kind offeedback I want to give you, or
a thing from spirit I want togive you, is if you're having
trouble getting the intuition orgetting those downloads, or if
you feel like it's there andit's just out of touch and
you're like, what does that mean?
Water is going to be your key.
So that means drinking water,taking baths, taking showers.
(31:09):
Water is going to be your wayto reconnect with your own
energy, to try to get thatinformation a little bit more
clearly for you.
Speaker 2 (31:17):
Yeah, yeah, that makes sense, thank you.
Yeah, that checks out.
I heard that before ish, butnot with that.
Speaker 1 (31:24):
So that makes sense, thank, you Okay In you, you,
around you, everything.
I just thank you so much,Taylor.
Um, how are you feeling?
Good, good?
Speaker 2 (31:33):
refreshed but also like I need to go take a nap,
yep, yep, and maybe I just maybelet up some salt, yeah exactly.
Speaker 1 (31:47):
Let it all marinate.
Thank you so much.
You are incredible.
I appreciate it.
You're so welcome, taylor.
I hope this was helpful and Ijust want to thank you for being
here today.
I really appreciate it, thankyou for being here.
All right, take care.
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