March 28, 2025 • 37 mins
A powerful wave of emotion washes over this reading as a recently departed loved one makes her striking presence known. When Ashley joins the podcast for what she expects to be a routine mediumship session, she's stunned when her father's significant other, Grace—who passed away just weeks before—steps forward with remarkable clarity and evidence.
This completely unedited mediumship reading begins with Nicole describing a "wild child" personality that Ashley doesn't immediately recognize, having only known Grace in her later years. But soon the evidence becomes undeniable as Nicole reveals intimate details about Grace's life—her appearance, her high-maintenance self-care routines, and most stunningly, her birth in a concentration camp and subsequent adoption. These private details, rarely discussed even within the family, leave Ashley in tears as the verification continues to build.
Grace speaks through Nicole about the family's heart-wrenching decision to remove life support after her sudden illness, reassuring them it was the right choice and that she had already transitioned to the spirit world before they "pulled the plug." Her messages weave between practical family matters and spiritual wisdom as she acknowledges each family member's unique strengths and encourages unity despite their differences.
What makes this reading particularly moving is Grace's acknowledgment of the signs she's been sending—from perfume scents for Ashley's father to hearts appearing in various forms. When Ashley reveals that just that morning, a bottle containing Grace's recorded heartbeat mysteriously fell from a counter, Nicole confirms this as deliberate communication from the other side. This episode doesn't just demonstrate the evidential nature of genuine mediumship—it offers profound healing for those experiencing grief and reminds us that love truly transcends physical death. Whether you're curious about mediumship or seeking comfort after loss, this emotional reading reveals how our loved ones continue to participate in our lives, even from beyond.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hello there and welcome back to empower your
soul.
I am here today with the lovelyAshley for an evidential
mediumship reading.
Thanks so much for being heretoday, Ashley.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Thank you, nicole, I'm so excited.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Oh, my goodness, uh, full disclosure.
I am really good friends withAshley's sister and I did not
expect her to hop on this calltoday because I did not know her
last name.
Um, and I've read for you acouple of times, this is going
to be really fun, ashley.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Yeah, I'm super excited, super excited.
That's how I found you.
It's through my sister at theCrystal Mine.
So I'm so excited, right,that's right.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
And yeah, I know I've chatted with your brother.
I mean, at this point I feellike I've chatted with a lot of
your through, so you kind ofknow how this works.
Just let me know if somethingdoesn't resonate, and you're
welcome to ask questions alongthe way.
But I just feel like your teamis like raring to go and I know
you said right before we hitrecord that you have given them
(00:55):
the pep talk, so they are ready.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Yep, I did give some pep talk.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Okay, so let me just take a moment to connect and see
who wants to come through.
Ashley, I am seeing a femalecontemporary come through and I
don't think I've read a femalecontemporary for you before.
But she feels like I know she'snot a sister but might be a
cousin or a friend and she's alittle bit of a wild child.
I can under, I can understand,like she's a drinker, she's the
(01:23):
smoker, she just she, she's,she's, she's wild and she never
says no to anything Anyoneinvites her to.
Would you understand anyonelike this?
Speaker 2 (01:31):
I don't.
I'm like trying to go throughof who this could be.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Let me keep going.
Um, she does feel like, so I dofeel like, um, there's some.
I feel like she's unconsciouswhen she passes, and I do feel
like she's somebody who reallysaw the bright side of life.
And I, and I'm just seeingflowers associated with her, um,
like springtime flowers, um,I'm, I'm understanding she would
(01:55):
, she would have had Ooh, I'mseeing children associated with
her too, like, uh, both men andwomen.
I feel like they're adults andI feel like this woman is
probably in her sixties when shepasses, and so, uh, would you
understand this at all?
Speaker 2 (02:09):
So we had someone close to us pass recently.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Um.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
She was in her seventies and she was
unconscious when she passed.
We had a really hard decisionto let her go.
Um, she had a son and adaughter, um, and I don't know
about wild child, cause I didn'tknow her when she was young Um,
(02:34):
so that's.
I wouldn't pick up on thatnecessarily, cause I've known
her for the last 10 years, so inher sixties and seventies, that
is what.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
I love.
That is called mediumship.
So that is something thatyou'll have to take back,
because I do feel like she's awild child and I feel like she
would say yes to everyinvitation ever.
I know she's extremely kind andI have to say, with the age, I
keep seeing 64, 64, 64.
So I don't know if there's asix or a four associated with it
, but I have to say, for her ageshe looks very good.
(03:04):
Would you understand that?
Speaker 2 (03:06):
Fantastic Amazing.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
So if you're telling me she's 70 and in my mind I'm
seeing her as like 64, she mustlook good, she must look very
young.
Um, definitely gets the Botox.
Would you understand that?
Speaker 2 (03:20):
I don't know if she got Botox, maybe.
I'm like I don't know, maybeshe did.
I mean, she looked fantastic.
You would never know she was 70.
Gosh, she was 76 when shepassed recently, but you would
never know she looked wayyounger.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
Okay, so would you understand, because I'm seeing
the six and the four.
Would you understand six orfour, june or April associated
with her, or the six of themonth or four of a month?
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Oh my God, so she was my dad's significant other.
Okay, and my dad's birthday isApril 6th, which is four, six or
six.
There it is, yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
And I'm tearing up too.
I'm with you.
So she's talking about six,four.
So this message is definitelygoing to go to your dad.
So, hey dad, great to hear you.
I know this will end up in inhis, in his lap at some point,
and I know actually I know quitea bit about this woman
personally, so I'm going to makesure I'm pulling out some stuff
(04:21):
.
But how much love she has foryou, ashley, and how much
guidance and love and supportshe's given you over the years,
and I feel like she is trulyyour confidant and I just feel
like you can say anything to herat all and she's going to tell
you she can do.
You can do it.
You are strong, you are brave,you are smart.
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You can do it.
You are strong, you are brave,you are smart and she's truly
the one that I feel like is inyour corner, boxing for you and
making sure that you know whatyou're capable of.
She loves you like you are herown kid.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
She did.
She loved my kids like theywere her grandchildren.
I mean, they were a grandmotherto her.
She'd been in their life sincethey were all born.
So, uh, well, my first one, shewas one, but the rest of them,
yeah, I mean yeah and I feel hergiving this big hug to you
(05:17):
right now and I'm just feeling.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
I'm feeling how much love she had for you and how she
really brought the familytogether is truly what she's
telling me, and I know you justalluded to that.
But and how she really broughtthe family together is truly
what she's telling me, and Iknow you just alluded to that.
But she, she really bringseverybody in and reminds
everybody that you are part ofthis family.
We are one.
We, we did make this familytogether and she does not let
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anyone go Right Like she's justlike she drags everybody back in
, kicking and screaming, whetherthey like it or not.
Does that make sense for her?
Speaker 2 (05:46):
Yeah, she was, uh, I mean she just she was just so
happy, like he just just seemedto.
I mean she made my dad so happyand like she definitely just
lived life.
She definitely, I mean sheworked so hard her whole life
and she was finally able toretire recently and be do the
(06:06):
things that she loved with mydad.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
So um, and I know I know a little bit about your
family just cause you're yoursister, but like what she's
shown me right now is she'sreally down to earth in terms of
a personality and I've nevermet her, so I so I don't know
her personally, but I know that.
But she's showing me how downto earth she is.
But she's also pretty highmaintenance with some things.
Like I'm seeing her like heelsand I don't know why I'm seeing
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heels, so I don't know.
If she liked to dress up orlook very, very good or put
together, would that make sense?
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Not the heels, but put together.
Yeah, it's like I felt like shewas always getting her hair
done.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
She was always getting her nails done.
She had massages, okay, cool,okay, cause she just looks like
she's so great, right, and andshe doesn't um, it's uh, and she
does it for her.
She doesn't do it for anybodyelse.
Like she's she, she dressesnice and gets her hair done and
get her nails done because itmakes her feel really good.
It's like the self love and Ifeel like she had and I don't
know if you canlove, and I feellike she had and I don't know if
you can validate this.
I feel like she had a reallytough growing up, like it's just
(07:13):
so interesting and I feel likeit's behind closed doors, so I
feel like this must be with herparents or siblings, something
like this growing up and Irealized that she, even though
she's so loving and I know onthe surface her parents look
like they're- I'm going to saywonderful people, but she's got
(07:47):
skeletons in her closet thateverybody has and it just feels
to me like she really doesappreciate people and she
doesn't let I'm going to saywhat goes on in her youth really
bother her in a negative waygoing forward, but it really
encourages her to appreciatewhat she has.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
Is what she's telling me.
I a hundred percent.
She had a very.
She was born in a concentrationcamp actually, yeah, and she,
um, she was brought here.
She was adopted and broughthere and they only adopted her
so that the people they couldget to America, and so I don't
think she had a very closerelationship with her adopted
parents and so we didn't knowmuch about it.
Um, because I think, like yousaid, it was kind of behind
closed doors and that was like apast life for her that she kind
(08:15):
of left behind.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Wow, but she, it didn't let her, it didn't impact
her in any negative way.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Oh, she was always happy.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Just seeing how happy she is.
She loves life and it's sointeresting that the ghosts of
her past don't really haunt herat all.
Coming from that, thatbackground and and being what
she's been through, she has a umI.
She's a brother that she'sreally close to.
Would you understand that?
Or there's a brother.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Yeah, I was gonna say we don't know anyone from her.
Even her kids didn't knowanyone from her past.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
I'm seeing a brother.
This is going to make me cry.
This is really important foryou to know that she's not alone
on the other side, that she hasa brother.
Well, it was a.
It was a little brother, andshe's reunited with him amazing,
that's awesome I'm gonna, I'mgonna say it and I'm sorry if
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this breaks your heart or yourdad's heart.
Like I feel like I feel like hewas a baby brother and I feel
like he was like two or three Idon't know how old she was when
she was in the concentrationcamp, but I she's very young.
I'm like I'm seeing fourassociated with that too, and I
just I feel like her youngerbrother didn't make it from the
concentration camp and so she'shighlighting being reunited with
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her brother and he's sohandsome and he has dark eyes or
sorry, no, he has dark hair andI don't know what color her
hair was, but it feels very dark, dark Brown hair, um, and he's
really strong and muscular.
So I feel like there'ssomething about her that's
really strong and muscular too.
Would you understand that,cause she'll call out parallels
that you would understand?
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Yeah, I mean it sounds a lot also like her son
too.
So like I bet there who isalive, but like I bet there's
probably similarities from ifshe had a brother to her son,
her son his hair is like Iwouldn't say muscular, but built
like yeah, it's not.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
It totally, completely feels like, like it,
like she's reunited on the otherside with her brother.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
That's so I just want to put that out there.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
But, yeah, no accidents, right?
That that her son would.
That's the parallel that shewants to call out.
So this is evidence for youabout about the brother.
Can you just give me somethingjust to double check, okay?
In addition, I'm just seeinghow she takes everything and I
(11:00):
feel it's shifting gears alittle bit, but I feel like she
really doesn't.
We've talked about.
She doesn't let anything botherher, but she really keeps her
head up high.
She never, ever, takes the lowroad.
She always takes the high road.
She always takes the gracefulroad and that's her name, right,
grace?
Oh, yep, cause she was.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
I knew she was going to make me say it at some point.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
She always takes the graceful road and that's her
name, right, grace.
Oh, yep, cause she was.
I knew she was going to make mesay it at some point.
She always takes this gracefulroad where she's able to um, see
, this is really important foryou is what I'm hearing her say
see the meaning or themotivations behind the actions,
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the meaning or the motivationsbehind the actions.
She is able to decipher andpull apart actions from what's
causing those actions.
So whenever people are negative, bullish outlandish, she's able
to be like they just need love.
Oh, they're just hungry,they're just thirsty.
So I feel like she's alwayspushing the food.
Would that make sense with her?
Speaker 2 (11:59):
Um, yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
Especially, um, I mean I'd say especially with my
dad, like and he's not reallynegative, but like, damn did she
feed him love, okay, perfect,something that he needed, just
like, and he's just yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
Um, and so this is a reminder for you, ashley, and
this, like this, is the messagefor you.
And I know we're going to gosomewhere else too, because my
heart I don't know how yourheart is right now my heart is
pounding right now, um and it,and it's the heart is is
connected to the belly, is whatI'm hearing her say.
And so when bellies are full,hearts are full.
(12:41):
So I know I don't know this,but she's making me say I know,
I know you have a little bit ofa tumultuous relationship with a
couple people in your lives,right?
And so she's reminding you tolook at the lower level, look at
the motivations.
What might be causing thebehaviors?
Because the behaviors aresymptoms of other problems.
So look deeper.
(13:02):
When in doubt, I've seen likegive them sugary drinks and
pasta.
It's like carbs.
Give them carbs and soda.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
All right, carb and soda.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
And what's wonderful about you is, I think you are
the same way and I think you arethe way that you see a lot of
positivity in a lot of differentpeople, and she doesn't want
you to lose that because it isso easy for an empath such as
yourself to get pulled into thelower I'm going to say lower
vibrational energy.
(13:45):
It's just like anything that'snot positive, like anything
that's any grief, any sadness,any frustration, any anger.
It's you take it on as your ownand she's telling you it's not
you.
And and she's telling you it'snot you, yeah, and and she's
saying it's not you because ifyou go back to little you, if
you go back to you as a littlegirl, you are all love and all
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heart and sunshine and rainbows,and that is the true essence of
you and who you are.
So she doesn't want you toforget you and who you are,
because she's not here to giveyou advice and anymore.
Right, you can't hear heranymore yet, because I know
you're super intuitive, so maybeyou'll start being able to hear
her someday, but I just I feellike don't forget who you are
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and what you're here to do,because you're here to be a
beacon of light for other people.
So any sort of energy that comesin really strongly and doesn't
match what's going on in yourday-to-day, like if you're just
sitting there reading a book andall of a sudden someone comes
in and it's very stormy and youfeel very volatile or very angry
.
Know that that's not you,that's them, and it's like their
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energy is amplified in you andyou take it on as your own.
So, so, so use those cues tosay hang on, time out, let me go
back, let me what's wrong, letme help, let me go fix Cause
that's what you do, you want tohelp, you want to fix, cause you
, that's the wonderful soul thatyou are, so she wants you to
last year.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
I've been so good about learn at once.
I've gotten into spirituality.
I've learned so much to likepush it.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Yep, let it go, it's not yours.
It's not yours.
Yeah, because you're such anempath and I I sometimes give
people tools to shut it down.
Um, keep the energy out.
You won't, you'll never do that.
You love.
You love seeing and feeling theenergy of other people.
I know that I'm like I'm notgoing to waste my time with you,
ashley, but I am going to tellyou that you are strong enough
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to overcome any obstacle thatcomes your way in this life and
this you have, this can doattitude, and she never, ever
wants to see you slow down Likeyou have.
You have so many amazing thingsto come, so many amazing
mountains to climb, and it's notgoing to be easy, but it's
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going to be worth it.
So she does not want to see you, like follow your dreams to the
utmost extent, like I'm seeing.
Like run towards your dreams,run, don't walk, don't dilly
dally, run because you haveshe's showing me your sole
contract for coming here, ashley, it's huge.
Speaker 2 (16:23):
I like it.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
It's a list that looks like Santa's list.
It's a mile long and it's sobig.
So, like, stop wasting yourtime.
Stop.
You have so many people in yourcorner here in the physical
world that will help you withanything you possibly want.
Knock it off.
No, okay, I know this is foryour sister.
(16:49):
I'm just going to start sobbing, don't mind me.
I know that there were somevery tough decisions made about
her passing and I know that ittook way too long to make some
of those decisions, and it justfeels like to me that, oh, what
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was that?
I know some people were holdingout hope for what, for what the
outcome was going to be, um,and I will blatantly say out
loud that I know that she hadcancer.
Is that correct?
Speaker 2 (17:26):
Uh yeah.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
And I know there was sepsis involved.
Um, and I know that she's wealready talked about um in the
beginning that she's unable tospeak.
She's unconscious at the timeof her passing.
I know there were manysleepless nights for many of the
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family members about thedecision that had to be made
about her and I know there wascontention, but I know that
everyone made the right decisionand that it was time for her to
go and there was no hope forher.
(18:07):
So I want to validate I have tosay it, I have to validate that
, I have to say it, I have tovalidate um, the love and the
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hope that everyone felt inwanting to I'm going to say
prolong, in wanting to prolongher life and not wanting to pull
the plug.
But I also know that pulling theplug meant saying goodbye for
someone that was really specialin everyone's life and no one
wanted to be the one to say it.
And what's funny is I think allof you were thinking it, I
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think all of you knew theinevitable and no one wanted to
say it and no one wanted to sayit.
I'm hearing her say thank you,Jamie, for saying it, and I know
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it was literally the hardestdecision that anyone in that
family will ever have to make,and I know that it is made with
love, with compassion, notwanting her to be in pain
anymore, and it's made knowingthat all of you will meet again
someday.
Yeah, sure Well she's likeliterally wanting me to sob
right now, cause that's thismust've been the emotion in the
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room and hopefully I'll say thisand then I'll stop sobbing here
so that I can get through thisreading.
But she wants to thankeverybody for their very strong
opinions, decision that neededto be made, but she's so glad
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the family came together andmade that decision together and
chose together to send her tothe Lord.
So I do want to say that.
So she does thank everybody fortheir love, for their optimism,
for their joy, and that thisisn't goodbye, this is a see you
later.
That being said, she's fabulouson the other side.
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So so, before we get there, I dowant you to know that she
passes without pain.
It feels very peaceful.
She's not even in her body atthe time that you pulled the
plug.
She's already.
She's already in the spiritworld.
So I want you, I want everyoneto know that is that she's there
while you're making thedecision, like her soul is with
all of you as she may, as youmake this decision.
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So so there's nothing that youcould have done, nothing, yeah,
um, and she does pass a pain andshe loves it.
She's surrounded by everybodywhen she does pass and I just
see how devastated your, yourdad, is and I see I'm going to
say it like he loses it and Ijust, I just want to call out
that she, she loves him to themoon and back.
(21:16):
Yep, they were partners in everysense of the word, and I know
that they get on each other'snerves.
I know that they are just like,but they're so good together.
They're so volatile, butthey're so good together.
And and there's she.
She met her match and your dadand I have to say it that way
she met her match and your dad.
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No one could handle her exceptfor him, and so she's so
gracious and so loving towardshim and she knows she's he's
left in amazing hands with allof you.
I do see that she wants to sayhello to everybody, so her son
and her daughter, right, andthen you and your sister, and
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then, obviously, the spouses andthe grandkids, and I see her
wanting to do that.
She's also telling me herobituary was very beautifully
written.
I don't know who wrote thatthis, I don't know.
I don't know anything about theobituary or the services, but I
know that it was very tightknit, it was very and I don't
know what that means, but it wasvery tight knit, it was a, it
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was a true family event is whatit feels like to me.
Um, on the other side, though,she is saying how fast she is
like and I'm not even kiddingLike she has her hair done and
it, uh, it's a lighter coloredhair.
Right, it feels light in colorand it's like wavy.
Um, she, she's showing me herboobs.
I gotta be honest with youright now.
Like she's like she's likeyoung buck.
Now again, um, in terms of likeshe's cause she's showing up as
this, she does look younger tome, like not too young, but she
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does.
She's in my mind.
She's showing me like youngerand she's dressed up and she's
like wearing a Chanel suit.
I don't know why I want to saythat, but she's, she's dressed
gorgeously.
Her nails are done bright red.
She has bright red lipstick on,like she's glowing.
So I want to pay homage toshe's now making me feel like
that in the casket or what shelooked like in, yeah, in her, in
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her casket or what.
I'm not sure what this is, butit it makes it feels like a
beautiful send-off.
I guess is the way that I wantto put it, and I'm not sure if
she was buried, but it feelslike a beautiful send-off yeah
so whoever chose her outfit andher makeup and her nails like
fabulous job, fabulous job.
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and she does want to talk aboutthe personalities in the family,
because you're the heart.
Jamie's the head.
Sorry, jamie.
Her son feels like the strength.
He feels like the strength, hefeels like the can-do attitude.
I know, I'm just going to sayit that way.
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I think there's nuances to that, but she's not getting there.
But I feel like she's thestrength.
And then her daughter feelslike the giver.
Would you understand that?
It feels like she gives.
That's okay, okay, that's whatshe's showing me, so I have to,
I'm going to, I'm going to honorher, and how she's saying that,
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I'm going to ask her to clarifya little bit.
But what she's reallyhighlighting is the uniqueness
between all four of you, andagain she's bringing this boxing
ring up.
Again.
There's no, I don't know whatthis boxing ring that keeps
coming up is, ashley, butthere's this boxing ring that
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pops up with the four of you andeveryone's in their own corners
and I sister and her daughter.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
Okay, cool sister and her daughter.
Speaker 1 (24:49):
Okay, cool, yep.
And I'm just hearing her sayget along, get along.
You only have one life and youdon't have to like what
everybody else does, but getalong.
And it just feels like thereare strengths to each of you
that support and love each other.
And it's okay if you're notbest friends, but don't be
afraid to lean on each other,because family is everything to
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her and she does not want to seethe family break apart or fall
apart just because she's gone.
She still wants to make surethey're included in family
events, holidays, et cetera,because they are like siblings
to you, even though I know itwas a little bit later in age
that they got together.
So for her, family is notnecessarily blood, and we've
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you've already said that familyis not blood.
Family are the people that youlove and you spend your time
with and you care about, and soshe wants to make sure that she,
she recognizes the uniquenessof her family and wanting and
desire to keep the familytogether.
And it feels like a tall orderfreaking, ashley, I know this, I
(25:56):
say this and I know this is notgoing to be easy, but I do want
to put that out there aboutthis, and I know everyone plays
really nice on the surface, butit's below the surface is what
she's talking about.
Okay, maybe she's being nicefor the podcast.
Speaker 2 (26:15):
So Um.
Speaker 1 (26:27):
I want to leave a message for your dad.
Hang on a second.
I want to say what she keepsshowing me in my head about your
dad is sleepless nights anddreaming.
(26:48):
So I don't know if he'sdreaming about her.
I'll just put that out therefor you.
I feel like there's dreamingabout her and I feel like she's
dropping signs for him, but he'sso busy, like, and he likes to
stay really busy, and I just Ifeel, um, like he's always going
places.
I feel like his, like his brainis always occupied and busy and
then he needs to slow down.
(27:08):
And I don't know what this is,but it feels like slowing down
and it feels like, um, she'saround him and I feel I also
want to just drop in.
I feel like she's droppingperfume by him too.
So I don't know if he'ssmelling her perfume, either
conscious, like purposelyspraying perfume, or if he's
just smelling it as he's walkingaround, but she's absolutely
(27:28):
giving him signs and if andshe's going to haunt the shit
out of him, like honestly, whatI'm getting, um, is that she's
going to haunt the shit out ofhim.
So be ready.
Be ready for you, ashley, she'sin your corner.
You ready for you, ashley,she's in your corner.
(27:51):
So you need to remember who issupporting you on the other side
to achieve those amazing dreamsthat you have and that whenever
you need anything, you know shewill fucking come running, she
will elbow everybody else out ofthe way and she will make sure
you get exactly what you need.
So you just send her thatwishlist and I see her like
dusting off her hands and sayingI will take care of it for you.
I see, give the love to thegrandkids.
(28:15):
I see her like kissing them onthe cheek and saying I'm still
with you for them, for them.
And you're um, you, you have adaughter.
Is that right?
Three, three, someone.
(28:36):
Still someone is talking abouther.
Speaker 2 (28:36):
She's highlighting Is that right, like someone's
talking about her, like she'spresent.
Oh well, hayden, maybe myfive-year-old today.
She had said no, that was Lulu,we were talking about.
I had somebody die.
Um, I went to a funeral today.
Speaker 1 (28:51):
It was a mother.
Speaker 2 (28:54):
And so it kind of brought it, kind of brought it
up like people passing and, um,my youngest likes to talk about
how people are still here andlike our dog is still here, like
she tells everyone we stillhave two dogs and I'm like we
only have one dog.
She's like no, just causeLulu's not here anymore with us.
She's still here, so.
So my youngest likes to talkout like still here.
Speaker 1 (29:18):
Perfect.
They are, though.
So I want to, I want to callthat out is just let her enjoy
it, because I think a lot of usare taught that death is final,
that these people don't comeback, and I think there's such
amazing innocence to, yeah, theyare still there, yeah, you can
still talk to them.
They are, they do love you,they do support you, so I don't
(29:38):
want you to like I'm seeing hersay don't erase me from her
perspective, because she isstill with her, she's still with
your three daughters everysingle day, watching over them.
Speaker 2 (29:55):
And then who had Cheerios cereal for breakfast,
did one of them have like nobody.
But my daughter asked me to gether Cheerios this morning
because the veggie Cheerios.
And she said mom, you haven'tgotten me my veggie Cheerios,
can you please get them?
And I keep forgetting to orderthem.
And she asked for them thismorning.
Speaker 1 (30:07):
This is.
This is this is grace throughto say I'm still with you
because I was.
She's telling me about theCheerios.
So this is evidence for youthat she's around you and your
daughters.
Um, what she's laughing aboutyour husband.
Why is she laughing about yourhusband?
He puts up with a lot.
I hear her say about him Idon't know, I don't, you don't
(30:32):
know she's she's laughing aboutyour husband.
I mean, I know you do.
Um, but there's something aboutyour husband.
I'm just hearing him say like heputs up with a lot, he's a good
sport, like there's somethingabout, about your husband, so
I'm gonna.
I'll leave that with youbecause it sounds like they
might have had a funnyrelationship the two of them.
(30:54):
Um, I'm there in every momentof every day.
I haven't gone anywhere and Iknow she was very recently
passed.
What is this?
Two weeks, three weeks?
Speaker 2 (31:09):
about.
Speaker 1 (31:09):
This isn't long a month ago, because, like, she
still feels warm, like, um,she's giving me this feeling
like and I know she didn't passlong ago, but she's just giving
me this feeling like everyone isstill very thick in the
processing of grief of her andcan't believe that she's gone
because it was so fast.
It was so fast and like, likeeveryone thought she was doing
(31:32):
so well, but it was so fast whathappened to her, and so it's
almost like whiplash is whatshe's kind of alluding to with
with me, and she's just sayingit felt that fast for me too,
and I don't know why that'sreally important to say.
Speaker 2 (31:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (31:48):
I'm not sure why, but I'm saying.
I'm hearing her say it feltthat fast to me too.
Speaker 2 (31:52):
It was um it does?
It does literally days from thetime she got like sick, sick,
to the time that we decided Ithink it was less than it was
like three days.
It was a Friday morning and aThursday night and Monday
morning, that was it.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
Wow, yep, yeah, so sorry, yeah, crazy.
The look for the hearts.
I think this is what I want shewants to leave you with is look
for the hearts.
I think this is what I want shewants to leave you with is look
for the hearts.
I see hearts everywhere.
I see hearts on rocks heartsand in leaves hearts and like
shadows.
Look for the hearts.
Speaker 2 (32:36):
Those are from her so we have um, I have her a little
bottle with her heartbeat in it, and this morning it actually
knocked off the counter when Iwas going to the bathroom and I
was like, oh, there you are,grace, and I picked it up and I
put it back and I have a heartrock next to it.
(32:58):
It's in our bathroom, it's likeon my mirror.
And so then I put it back and Iwas like there you are.
I was like you're reminding me,you're right here, I know
you're here.
Speaker 1 (33:10):
So, yeah, that is her letting you know that she is
right there with you.
Yeah, thank you so much, ashley.
Speaker 2 (33:17):
Thank you so much.
I was kind of hoping I saidanyone, but I was like I kind of
thought maybe grace would comethrough, cause I had it's yeah.
Speaker 1 (33:29):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (33:31):
No surprise.
Speaker 1 (33:33):
Personality that big, I'm not surprised, oh my
goodness.
Thank you so much, ashley, I soappreciate you Calling my dad.
Speaker 2 (33:42):
I'll call him in a little bit, so, looking forward
to telling him, I thought maybeshe would pop in.
So I thought maybe that's howwhy I got this reading.
I was like when I saw it pop upand I was like I feel like
maybe this is grace being likehello, anyone try to talk to you
.
Speaker 1 (34:11):
And she let you know what the hearts's flying out the
shelf.
All right, I'm gonna go likewhat wipe all my tears away, but
thank you so much, ashley.
This was absolutely amazingthank you so much.
Speaker 2 (34:16):
I appreciate it.
Have a good day you too.
Bye.
Hello there and welcome back to empower your
soul.
I am here today with the lovelyAshley for an evidential
mediumship reading.
Thanks so much for being heretoday, Ashley.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Thank you, nicole, I'm so excited.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Oh, my goodness, uh, full disclosure.
I am really good friends withAshley's sister and I did not
expect her to hop on this calltoday because I did not know her
last name.
Um, and I've read for you acouple of times, this is going
to be really fun, ashley.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Yeah, I'm super excited, super excited.
That's how I found you.
It's through my sister at theCrystal Mine.
So I'm so excited, right,that's right.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
And yeah, I know I've chatted with your brother.
I mean, at this point I feellike I've chatted with a lot of
your through, so you kind ofknow how this works.
Just let me know if somethingdoesn't resonate, and you're
welcome to ask questions alongthe way.
But I just feel like your teamis like raring to go and I know
you said right before we hitrecord that you have given them
(00:55):
the pep talk, so they are ready.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Yep, I did give some pep talk.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Okay, so let me just take a moment to connect and see
who wants to come through.
Ashley, I am seeing a femalecontemporary come through and I
don't think I've read a femalecontemporary for you before.
But she feels like I know she'snot a sister but might be a
cousin or a friend and she's alittle bit of a wild child.
I can under, I can understand,like she's a drinker, she's the
(01:23):
smoker, she just she, she's,she's, she's wild and she never
says no to anything Anyoneinvites her to.
Would you understand anyonelike this?
Speaker 2 (01:31):
I don't.
I'm like trying to go throughof who this could be.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Let me keep going.
Um, she does feel like, so I dofeel like, um, there's some.
I feel like she's unconsciouswhen she passes, and I do feel
like she's somebody who reallysaw the bright side of life.
And I, and I'm just seeingflowers associated with her, um,
like springtime flowers, um,I'm, I'm understanding she would
(01:55):
, she would have had Ooh, I'mseeing children associated with
her too, like, uh, both men andwomen.
I feel like they're adults andI feel like this woman is
probably in her sixties when shepasses, and so, uh, would you
understand this at all?
Speaker 2 (02:09):
So we had someone close to us pass recently.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Um.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
She was in her seventies and she was
unconscious when she passed.
We had a really hard decisionto let her go.
Um, she had a son and adaughter, um, and I don't know
about wild child, cause I didn'tknow her when she was young Um,
(02:34):
so that's.
I wouldn't pick up on thatnecessarily, cause I've known
her for the last 10 years, so inher sixties and seventies, that
is what.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
I love.
That is called mediumship.
So that is something thatyou'll have to take back,
because I do feel like she's awild child and I feel like she
would say yes to everyinvitation ever.
I know she's extremely kind andI have to say, with the age, I
keep seeing 64, 64, 64.
So I don't know if there's asix or a four associated with it
, but I have to say, for her ageshe looks very good.
(03:04):
Would you understand that?
Speaker 2 (03:06):
Fantastic Amazing.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
So if you're telling me she's 70 and in my mind I'm
seeing her as like 64, she mustlook good, she must look very
young.
Um, definitely gets the Botox.
Would you understand that?
Speaker 2 (03:20):
I don't know if she got Botox, maybe.
I'm like I don't know, maybeshe did.
I mean, she looked fantastic.
You would never know she was 70.
Gosh, she was 76 when shepassed recently, but you would
never know she looked wayyounger.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
Okay, so would you understand, because I'm seeing
the six and the four.
Would you understand six orfour, june or April associated
with her, or the six of themonth or four of a month?
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Oh my God, so she was my dad's significant other.
Okay, and my dad's birthday isApril 6th, which is four, six or
six.
There it is, yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
And I'm tearing up too.
I'm with you.
So she's talking about six,four.
So this message is definitelygoing to go to your dad.
So, hey dad, great to hear you.
I know this will end up in inhis, in his lap at some point,
and I know actually I know quitea bit about this woman
personally, so I'm going to makesure I'm pulling out some stuff
(04:21):
.
But how much love she has foryou, ashley, and how much
guidance and love and supportshe's given you over the years,
and I feel like she is trulyyour confidant and I just feel
like you can say anything to herat all and she's going to tell
you she can do.
You can do it.
You are strong, you are brave,you are smart.
(04:43):
You can do it.
You are strong, you are brave,you are smart and she's truly
the one that I feel like is inyour corner, boxing for you and
making sure that you know whatyou're capable of.
She loves you like you are herown kid.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
She did.
She loved my kids like theywere her grandchildren.
I mean, they were a grandmotherto her.
She'd been in their life sincethey were all born.
So, uh, well, my first one, shewas one, but the rest of them,
yeah, I mean yeah and I feel hergiving this big hug to you
(05:17):
right now and I'm just feeling.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
I'm feeling how much love she had for you and how she
really brought the familytogether is truly what she's
telling me, and I know you justalluded to that.
But and how she really broughtthe family together is truly
what she's telling me, and Iknow you just alluded to that.
But she, she really bringseverybody in and reminds
everybody that you are part ofthis family.
We are one.
We, we did make this familytogether and she does not let
(05:39):
anyone go Right Like she's justlike she drags everybody back in
, kicking and screaming, whetherthey like it or not.
Does that make sense for her?
Speaker 2 (05:46):
Yeah, she was, uh, I mean she just she was just so
happy, like he just just seemedto.
I mean she made my dad so happyand like she definitely just
lived life.
She definitely, I mean sheworked so hard her whole life
and she was finally able toretire recently and be do the
(06:06):
things that she loved with mydad.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
So um, and I know I know a little bit about your
family just cause you're yoursister, but like what she's
shown me right now is she'sreally down to earth in terms of
a personality and I've nevermet her, so I so I don't know
her personally, but I know that.
But she's showing me how downto earth she is.
But she's also pretty highmaintenance with some things.
Like I'm seeing her like heelsand I don't know why I'm seeing
(06:30):
heels, so I don't know.
If she liked to dress up orlook very, very good or put
together, would that make sense?
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Not the heels, but put together.
Yeah, it's like I felt like shewas always getting her hair
done.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
She was always getting her nails done.
She had massages, okay, cool,okay, cause she just looks like
she's so great, right, and andshe doesn't um, it's uh, and she
does it for her.
She doesn't do it for anybodyelse.
Like she's she, she dressesnice and gets her hair done and
get her nails done because itmakes her feel really good.
It's like the self love and Ifeel like she had and I don't
know if you canlove, and I feellike she had and I don't know if
you can validate this.
I feel like she had a reallytough growing up, like it's just
(07:13):
so interesting and I feel likeit's behind closed doors, so I
feel like this must be with herparents or siblings, something
like this growing up and Irealized that she, even though
she's so loving and I know onthe surface her parents look
like they're- I'm going to saywonderful people, but she's got
(07:47):
skeletons in her closet thateverybody has and it just feels
to me like she really doesappreciate people and she
doesn't let I'm going to saywhat goes on in her youth really
bother her in a negative waygoing forward, but it really
encourages her to appreciatewhat she has.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
Is what she's telling me.
I a hundred percent.
She had a very.
She was born in a concentrationcamp actually, yeah, and she,
um, she was brought here.
She was adopted and broughthere and they only adopted her
so that the people they couldget to America, and so I don't
think she had a very closerelationship with her adopted
parents and so we didn't knowmuch about it.
Um, because I think, like yousaid, it was kind of behind
closed doors and that was like apast life for her that she kind
(08:15):
of left behind.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Wow, but she, it didn't let her, it didn't impact
her in any negative way.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Oh, she was always happy.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Just seeing how happy she is.
She loves life and it's sointeresting that the ghosts of
her past don't really haunt herat all.
Coming from that, thatbackground and and being what
she's been through, she has a umI.
She's a brother that she'sreally close to.
Would you understand that?
Or there's a brother.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Yeah, I was gonna say we don't know anyone from her.
Even her kids didn't knowanyone from her past.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
I'm seeing a brother.
This is going to make me cry.
This is really important foryou to know that she's not alone
on the other side, that she hasa brother.
Well, it was a.
It was a little brother, andshe's reunited with him amazing,
that's awesome I'm gonna, I'mgonna say it and I'm sorry if
(09:18):
this breaks your heart or yourdad's heart.
Like I feel like I feel like hewas a baby brother and I feel
like he was like two or three Idon't know how old she was when
she was in the concentrationcamp, but I she's very young.
I'm like I'm seeing fourassociated with that too, and I
just I feel like her youngerbrother didn't make it from the
concentration camp and so she'shighlighting being reunited with
(09:40):
her brother and he's sohandsome and he has dark eyes or
sorry, no, he has dark hair andI don't know what color her
hair was, but it feels very dark, dark Brown hair, um, and he's
really strong and muscular.
So I feel like there'ssomething about her that's
really strong and muscular too.
Would you understand that,cause she'll call out parallels
that you would understand?
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Yeah, I mean it sounds a lot also like her son
too.
So like I bet there who isalive, but like I bet there's
probably similarities from ifshe had a brother to her son,
her son his hair is like Iwouldn't say muscular, but built
like yeah, it's not.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
It totally, completely feels like, like it,
like she's reunited on the otherside with her brother.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
That's so I just want to put that out there.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
But, yeah, no accidents, right?
That that her son would.
That's the parallel that shewants to call out.
So this is evidence for youabout about the brother.
Can you just give me somethingjust to double check, okay?
In addition, I'm just seeinghow she takes everything and I
(11:00):
feel it's shifting gears alittle bit, but I feel like she
really doesn't.
We've talked about.
She doesn't let anything botherher, but she really keeps her
head up high.
She never, ever, takes the lowroad.
She always takes the high road.
She always takes the gracefulroad and that's her name, right,
grace?
Oh, yep, cause she was.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
I knew she was going to make me say it at some point.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
She always takes the graceful road and that's her
name, right, grace.
Oh, yep, cause she was.
I knew she was going to make mesay it at some point.
She always takes this gracefulroad where she's able to um, see
, this is really important foryou is what I'm hearing her say
see the meaning or themotivations behind the actions,
(11:37):
the meaning or the motivationsbehind the actions.
She is able to decipher andpull apart actions from what's
causing those actions.
So whenever people are negative, bullish outlandish, she's able
to be like they just need love.
Oh, they're just hungry,they're just thirsty.
So I feel like she's alwayspushing the food.
Would that make sense with her?
Speaker 2 (11:59):
Um, yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
Especially, um, I mean I'd say especially with my
dad, like and he's not reallynegative, but like, damn did she
feed him love, okay, perfect,something that he needed, just
like, and he's just yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
Um, and so this is a reminder for you, ashley, and
this, like this, is the messagefor you.
And I know we're going to gosomewhere else too, because my
heart I don't know how yourheart is right now my heart is
pounding right now, um and it,and it's the heart is is
connected to the belly, is whatI'm hearing her say.
And so when bellies are full,hearts are full.
(12:41):
So I know I don't know this,but she's making me say I know,
I know you have a little bit ofa tumultuous relationship with a
couple people in your lives,right?
And so she's reminding you tolook at the lower level, look at
the motivations.
What might be causing thebehaviors?
Because the behaviors aresymptoms of other problems.
So look deeper.
(13:02):
When in doubt, I've seen likegive them sugary drinks and
pasta.
It's like carbs.
Give them carbs and soda.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
All right, carb and soda.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
And what's wonderful about you is, I think you are
the same way and I think you arethe way that you see a lot of
positivity in a lot of differentpeople, and she doesn't want
you to lose that because it isso easy for an empath such as
yourself to get pulled into thelower I'm going to say lower
vibrational energy.
(13:45):
It's just like anything that'snot positive, like anything
that's any grief, any sadness,any frustration, any anger.
It's you take it on as your ownand she's telling you it's not
you.
And and she's telling you it'snot you, yeah, and and she's
saying it's not you because ifyou go back to little you, if
you go back to you as a littlegirl, you are all love and all
(14:06):
heart and sunshine and rainbows,and that is the true essence of
you and who you are.
So she doesn't want you toforget you and who you are,
because she's not here to giveyou advice and anymore.
Right, you can't hear heranymore yet, because I know
you're super intuitive, so maybeyou'll start being able to hear
her someday, but I just I feellike don't forget who you are
(14:29):
and what you're here to do,because you're here to be a
beacon of light for other people.
So any sort of energy that comesin really strongly and doesn't
match what's going on in yourday-to-day, like if you're just
sitting there reading a book andall of a sudden someone comes
in and it's very stormy and youfeel very volatile or very angry
.
Know that that's not you,that's them, and it's like their
(14:49):
energy is amplified in you andyou take it on as your own.
So, so, so use those cues tosay hang on, time out, let me go
back, let me what's wrong, letme help, let me go fix Cause
that's what you do, you want tohelp, you want to fix, cause you
, that's the wonderful soul thatyou are, so she wants you to
last year.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
I've been so good about learn at once.
I've gotten into spirituality.
I've learned so much to likepush it.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Yep, let it go, it's not yours.
It's not yours.
Yeah, because you're such anempath and I I sometimes give
people tools to shut it down.
Um, keep the energy out.
You won't, you'll never do that.
You love.
You love seeing and feeling theenergy of other people.
I know that I'm like I'm notgoing to waste my time with you,
ashley, but I am going to tellyou that you are strong enough
(15:41):
to overcome any obstacle thatcomes your way in this life and
this you have, this can doattitude, and she never, ever
wants to see you slow down Likeyou have.
You have so many amazing thingsto come, so many amazing
mountains to climb, and it's notgoing to be easy, but it's
(16:02):
going to be worth it.
So she does not want to see you, like follow your dreams to the
utmost extent, like I'm seeing.
Like run towards your dreams,run, don't walk, don't dilly
dally, run because you haveshe's showing me your sole
contract for coming here, ashley, it's huge.
Speaker 2 (16:23):
I like it.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
It's a list that looks like Santa's list.
It's a mile long and it's sobig.
So, like, stop wasting yourtime.
Stop.
You have so many people in yourcorner here in the physical
world that will help you withanything you possibly want.
Knock it off.
No, okay, I know this is foryour sister.
(16:49):
I'm just going to start sobbing, don't mind me.
I know that there were somevery tough decisions made about
her passing and I know that ittook way too long to make some
of those decisions, and it justfeels like to me that, oh, what
(17:10):
was that?
I know some people were holdingout hope for what, for what the
outcome was going to be, um,and I will blatantly say out
loud that I know that she hadcancer.
Is that correct?
Speaker 2 (17:26):
Uh yeah.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
And I know there was sepsis involved.
Um, and I know that she's wealready talked about um in the
beginning that she's unable tospeak.
She's unconscious at the timeof her passing.
I know there were manysleepless nights for many of the
(17:47):
family members about thedecision that had to be made
about her and I know there wascontention, but I know that
everyone made the right decisionand that it was time for her to
go and there was no hope forher.
(18:07):
So I want to validate I have tosay it, I have to validate that
, I have to say it, I have tovalidate um, the love and the
(18:28):
hope that everyone felt inwanting to I'm going to say
prolong, in wanting to prolongher life and not wanting to pull
the plug.
But I also know that pulling theplug meant saying goodbye for
someone that was really specialin everyone's life and no one
wanted to be the one to say it.
And what's funny is I think allof you were thinking it, I
(18:49):
think all of you knew theinevitable and no one wanted to
say it and no one wanted to sayit.
I'm hearing her say thank you,Jamie, for saying it, and I know
(19:17):
it was literally the hardestdecision that anyone in that
family will ever have to make,and I know that it is made with
love, with compassion, notwanting her to be in pain
anymore, and it's made knowingthat all of you will meet again
someday.
Yeah, sure Well she's likeliterally wanting me to sob
right now, cause that's thismust've been the emotion in the
(19:44):
room and hopefully I'll say thisand then I'll stop sobbing here
so that I can get through thisreading.
But she wants to thankeverybody for their very strong
opinions, decision that neededto be made, but she's so glad
(20:04):
the family came together andmade that decision together and
chose together to send her tothe Lord.
So I do want to say that.
So she does thank everybody fortheir love, for their optimism,
for their joy, and that thisisn't goodbye, this is a see you
later.
That being said, she's fabulouson the other side.
(20:27):
So so, before we get there, I dowant you to know that she
passes without pain.
It feels very peaceful.
She's not even in her body atthe time that you pulled the
plug.
She's already.
She's already in the spiritworld.
So I want you, I want everyoneto know that is that she's there
while you're making thedecision, like her soul is with
all of you as she may, as youmake this decision.
(20:49):
So so there's nothing that youcould have done, nothing, yeah,
um, and she does pass a pain andshe loves it.
She's surrounded by everybodywhen she does pass and I just
see how devastated your, yourdad, is and I see I'm going to
say it like he loses it and Ijust, I just want to call out
that she, she loves him to themoon and back.
(21:16):
Yep, they were partners in everysense of the word, and I know
that they get on each other'snerves.
I know that they are just like,but they're so good together.
They're so volatile, butthey're so good together.
And and there's she.
She met her match and your dadand I have to say it that way
she met her match and your dad.
(21:37):
No one could handle her exceptfor him, and so she's so
gracious and so loving towardshim and she knows she's he's
left in amazing hands with allof you.
I do see that she wants to sayhello to everybody, so her son
and her daughter, right, andthen you and your sister, and
(21:59):
then, obviously, the spouses andthe grandkids, and I see her
wanting to do that.
She's also telling me herobituary was very beautifully
written.
I don't know who wrote thatthis, I don't know.
I don't know anything about theobituary or the services, but I
know that it was very tightknit, it was very and I don't
know what that means, but it wasvery tight knit, it was a, it
(22:25):
was a true family event is whatit feels like to me.
Um, on the other side, though,she is saying how fast she is
like and I'm not even kiddingLike she has her hair done and
it, uh, it's a lighter coloredhair.
Right, it feels light in colorand it's like wavy.
Um, she, she's showing me herboobs.
I gotta be honest with youright now.
Like she's like she's likeyoung buck.
Now again, um, in terms of likeshe's cause she's showing up as
this, she does look younger tome, like not too young, but she
(22:47):
does.
She's in my mind.
She's showing me like youngerand she's dressed up and she's
like wearing a Chanel suit.
I don't know why I want to saythat, but she's, she's dressed
gorgeously.
Her nails are done bright red.
She has bright red lipstick on,like she's glowing.
So I want to pay homage toshe's now making me feel like
that in the casket or what shelooked like in, yeah, in her, in
(23:11):
her casket or what.
I'm not sure what this is, butit it makes it feels like a
beautiful send-off.
I guess is the way that I wantto put it, and I'm not sure if
she was buried, but it feelslike a beautiful send-off yeah
so whoever chose her outfit andher makeup and her nails like
fabulous job, fabulous job.
(23:32):
and she does want to talk aboutthe personalities in the family,
because you're the heart.
Jamie's the head.
Sorry, jamie.
Her son feels like the strength.
He feels like the strength, hefeels like the can-do attitude.
I know, I'm just going to sayit that way.
(23:54):
I think there's nuances to that, but she's not getting there.
But I feel like she's thestrength.
And then her daughter feelslike the giver.
Would you understand that?
It feels like she gives.
That's okay, okay, that's whatshe's showing me, so I have to,
I'm going to, I'm going to honorher, and how she's saying that,
(24:15):
I'm going to ask her to clarifya little bit.
But what she's reallyhighlighting is the uniqueness
between all four of you, andagain she's bringing this boxing
ring up.
Again.
There's no, I don't know whatthis boxing ring that keeps
coming up is, ashley, butthere's this boxing ring that
(24:37):
pops up with the four of you andeveryone's in their own corners
and I sister and her daughter.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
Okay, cool sister and her daughter.
Speaker 1 (24:49):
Okay, cool, yep.
And I'm just hearing her sayget along, get along.
You only have one life and youdon't have to like what
everybody else does, but getalong.
And it just feels like thereare strengths to each of you
that support and love each other.
And it's okay if you're notbest friends, but don't be
afraid to lean on each other,because family is everything to
(25:11):
her and she does not want to seethe family break apart or fall
apart just because she's gone.
She still wants to make surethey're included in family
events, holidays, et cetera,because they are like siblings
to you, even though I know itwas a little bit later in age
that they got together.
So for her, family is notnecessarily blood, and we've
(25:31):
you've already said that familyis not blood.
Family are the people that youlove and you spend your time
with and you care about, and soshe wants to make sure that she,
she recognizes the uniquenessof her family and wanting and
desire to keep the familytogether.
And it feels like a tall orderfreaking, ashley, I know this, I
(25:56):
say this and I know this is notgoing to be easy, but I do want
to put that out there aboutthis, and I know everyone plays
really nice on the surface, butit's below the surface is what
she's talking about.
Okay, maybe she's being nicefor the podcast.
Speaker 2 (26:15):
So Um.
Speaker 1 (26:27):
I want to leave a message for your dad.
Hang on a second.
I want to say what she keepsshowing me in my head about your
dad is sleepless nights anddreaming.
(26:48):
So I don't know if he'sdreaming about her.
I'll just put that out therefor you.
I feel like there's dreamingabout her and I feel like she's
dropping signs for him, but he'sso busy, like, and he likes to
stay really busy, and I just Ifeel, um, like he's always going
places.
I feel like his, like his brainis always occupied and busy and
then he needs to slow down.
(27:08):
And I don't know what this is,but it feels like slowing down
and it feels like, um, she'saround him and I feel I also
want to just drop in.
I feel like she's droppingperfume by him too.
So I don't know if he'ssmelling her perfume, either
conscious, like purposelyspraying perfume, or if he's
just smelling it as he's walkingaround, but she's absolutely
(27:28):
giving him signs and if andshe's going to haunt the shit
out of him, like honestly, whatI'm getting, um, is that she's
going to haunt the shit out ofhim.
So be ready.
Be ready for you, ashley, she'sin your corner.
You ready for you, ashley,she's in your corner.
(27:51):
So you need to remember who issupporting you on the other side
to achieve those amazing dreamsthat you have and that whenever
you need anything, you know shewill fucking come running, she
will elbow everybody else out ofthe way and she will make sure
you get exactly what you need.
So you just send her thatwishlist and I see her like
dusting off her hands and sayingI will take care of it for you.
I see, give the love to thegrandkids.
(28:15):
I see her like kissing them onthe cheek and saying I'm still
with you for them, for them.
And you're um, you, you have adaughter.
Is that right?
Three, three, someone.
(28:36):
Still someone is talking abouther.
Speaker 2 (28:36):
She's highlighting Is that right, like someone's
talking about her, like she'spresent.
Oh well, hayden, maybe myfive-year-old today.
She had said no, that was Lulu,we were talking about.
I had somebody die.
Um, I went to a funeral today.
Speaker 1 (28:51):
It was a mother.
Speaker 2 (28:54):
And so it kind of brought it, kind of brought it
up like people passing and, um,my youngest likes to talk about
how people are still here andlike our dog is still here, like
she tells everyone we stillhave two dogs and I'm like we
only have one dog.
She's like no, just causeLulu's not here anymore with us.
She's still here, so.
So my youngest likes to talkout like still here.
Speaker 1 (29:18):
Perfect.
They are, though.
So I want to, I want to callthat out is just let her enjoy
it, because I think a lot of usare taught that death is final,
that these people don't comeback, and I think there's such
amazing innocence to, yeah, theyare still there, yeah, you can
still talk to them.
They are, they do love you,they do support you, so I don't
(29:38):
want you to like I'm seeing hersay don't erase me from her
perspective, because she isstill with her, she's still with
your three daughters everysingle day, watching over them.
Speaker 2 (29:55):
And then who had Cheerios cereal for breakfast,
did one of them have like nobody.
But my daughter asked me to gether Cheerios this morning
because the veggie Cheerios.
And she said mom, you haven'tgotten me my veggie Cheerios,
can you please get them?
And I keep forgetting to orderthem.
And she asked for them thismorning.
Speaker 1 (30:07):
This is.
This is this is grace throughto say I'm still with you
because I was.
She's telling me about theCheerios.
So this is evidence for youthat she's around you and your
daughters.
Um, what she's laughing aboutyour husband.
Why is she laughing about yourhusband?
He puts up with a lot.
I hear her say about him Idon't know, I don't, you don't
(30:32):
know she's she's laughing aboutyour husband.
I mean, I know you do.
Um, but there's something aboutyour husband.
I'm just hearing him say like heputs up with a lot, he's a good
sport, like there's somethingabout, about your husband, so
I'm gonna.
I'll leave that with youbecause it sounds like they
might have had a funnyrelationship the two of them.
(30:54):
Um, I'm there in every momentof every day.
I haven't gone anywhere and Iknow she was very recently
passed.
What is this?
Two weeks, three weeks?
Speaker 2 (31:09):
about.
Speaker 1 (31:09):
This isn't long a month ago, because, like, she
still feels warm, like, um,she's giving me this feeling
like and I know she didn't passlong ago, but she's just giving
me this feeling like everyone isstill very thick in the
processing of grief of her andcan't believe that she's gone
because it was so fast.
It was so fast and like, likeeveryone thought she was doing
(31:32):
so well, but it was so fast whathappened to her, and so it's
almost like whiplash is whatshe's kind of alluding to with
with me, and she's just sayingit felt that fast for me too,
and I don't know why that'sreally important to say.
Speaker 2 (31:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (31:48):
I'm not sure why, but I'm saying.
I'm hearing her say it feltthat fast to me too.
Speaker 2 (31:52):
It was um it does?
It does literally days from thetime she got like sick, sick,
to the time that we decided Ithink it was less than it was
like three days.
It was a Friday morning and aThursday night and Monday
morning, that was it.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
Wow, yep, yeah, so sorry, yeah, crazy.
The look for the hearts.
I think this is what I want shewants to leave you with is look
for the hearts.
I think this is what I want shewants to leave you with is look
for the hearts.
I see hearts everywhere.
I see hearts on rocks heartsand in leaves hearts and like
shadows.
Look for the hearts.
Speaker 2 (32:36):
Those are from her so we have um, I have her a little
bottle with her heartbeat in it, and this morning it actually
knocked off the counter when Iwas going to the bathroom and I
was like, oh, there you are,grace, and I picked it up and I
put it back and I have a heartrock next to it.
(32:58):
It's in our bathroom, it's likeon my mirror.
And so then I put it back and Iwas like there you are.
I was like you're reminding me,you're right here, I know
you're here.
Speaker 1 (33:10):
So, yeah, that is her letting you know that she is
right there with you.
Yeah, thank you so much, ashley.
Speaker 2 (33:17):
Thank you so much.
I was kind of hoping I saidanyone, but I was like I kind of
thought maybe grace would comethrough, cause I had it's yeah.
Speaker 1 (33:29):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (33:31):
No surprise.
Speaker 1 (33:33):
Personality that big, I'm not surprised, oh my
goodness.
Thank you so much, ashley, I soappreciate you Calling my dad.
Speaker 2 (33:42):
I'll call him in a little bit, so, looking forward
to telling him, I thought maybeshe would pop in.
So I thought maybe that's howwhy I got this reading.
I was like when I saw it pop upand I was like I feel like
maybe this is grace being likehello, anyone try to talk to you
.
Speaker 1 (34:11):
And she let you know what the hearts's flying out the
shelf.
All right, I'm gonna go likewhat wipe all my tears away, but
thank you so much, ashley.
This was absolutely amazingthank you so much.
Speaker 2 (34:16):
I appreciate it.
Have a good day you too.
Bye.
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