The Illusion of Power in Giving Away One’s Body

In this episode, we get vulnerable and discuss how giving away our bodies makes us feel at a core level. In the pursuit of sexual freedom, do we find less liberation than we’d anticipated:

• Do you, like me, find yourself disregarding personal boundaries to please?

• Do you find yourself fulfilling someone else’s fantasy and no longer yours?

• Is there a part of you, no matter how remote, that feels there might be trauma stored in your body from having gone on with what didn’t feel right during a sexual encounter that looked fine on paper?

While it’s amazing that as women we can have the desire to experience a new confidence and freedom through exploring our sexual nature, it’s the motivation behind our approach that often dictates how we take care of our needs or not. Are we engaging in sex from a place of repressed pain, lack of self-worth, or anger with men? And, are we doing this without paying mind to how our bodies can become victims of sexual trauma unknowingly? This isn’t a comfortable conversation but it’s definitely a needed one—join me to hear more about my experience navigating these tough questions.