Today's definition of “dangerous” is more about the fear of looking like a moron, rather than out-running saber-tooth tigers. Men's Coach and Author of "This Book Will Make You Dangerous", Tripp Lanier has a wealth of insight to help successful men get "off the couch" and open themselves up to new adventures, so they can experience more aliveness in their days. He guides listeners through the maze of uncertainty on his New Man Podcast, to stop playing it safe and move into a broader perspective of what's possible. Also a musician, Tripp treats us to an original song and conversation on the creative process.
• Join REALMen Rock! This is an awesome opportunity for coaching with Kimberly in a private group setting at a pre-launch price. ***When you sign up, you'll get a free download of my Instant Ignition Ebook that will start that spark in your soul!
• If this episode inspires you in some way, message me on Instagram @kimberlycain.music.media. I love hearing from you! And tag @TrippLanier to let him know you heard him on The Naked Vibes Show!
• Tripp Lanier - "This Book Will Make You Dangerous" + The New Man Podcast
https://youtu.be/TWuAPUueZdQ
SHOW NOTES:
8:00 - The definition of “dangerous” has changed. Today, it’s more about fear of looking like a moron, rather than out-running saber-tooth tigers.
11:30 - A lot of us are waiting to “get off the couch”, playing it safe. But, engaging in a more expansive, playful life opens up aliveness.
12:40 - Relationships have become more transactional, resulting in loneliness. We need to get together in the same room, just to hang out.
13:10 - Kimberly talks about her response to the mass shootings in Allen, TX by creating Group Empowerment Drumming events for men. The Remo Drums HealthRhythms experience is a great outlet for stress relief, learning to be present while playing and coming together in community, and feeling supported as we navigate life’s trials.
What is going on in the human spirit, in men’s spirits, that’s driving them further into violence in our culture? Exploring this question can lead to finding the courage to share our challenges and realizing we’re not alone. Then, we can get creative and forge new opportunities for healing and welcoming more love into our lives.
15:54 - It’s easy to become isolated, making life about only work and family. Tripp talks about the vital “nutrients” that can only come from hanging out with other men. Without it, men go looking for it in other things, like overwork and porn. It’s a tell-tale sign, when life feels empty, that you’re missing vital connections with other men. Having genuine interactions and not getting stuck in surface-level conversations about work and politics is essential for feeling seen, cared for, validated and nurtured. Those vital nutrients, Tripp says, relieve stress and keep men from being a pain in the ass!
19:12 - Musicians tap into “flow” or “the zone”, elevating into higher frequencies where a different kind of communication happens. Tripp talks about some of the most rewarding moments he’s experienced by being connected to others playing music together.
20:40 - Life is not linear in the way that so many people try to live it. Allowing space for cool things to arrive, that you’re not expecting, is where the magic happens.
22:32 - Tripp talks about having fun getting back into recording new songs.
SONG: “Throw Myself to Fire” - ©Tripp Lanier - Find it on Spotify
26:55 - REALMen Rock! Join this powerful men's group to engage in meaningful conversations in a private online setting and get coaching that will open up the possibilities for experiencing more aliveness, energy, vitality, and joy! Take charge of your path to better relationships and greater fulfillment in every area of your life.
28:50 - Tripp talks about the creative process of writing and recording “Throw Myself to Fire”, the fun of allowing it to create itself by opening up to all the ...