You want to encourage reading—but somehow, things keep backfiring. Maybe incentives don’t work, reading time ends in frustration, or you're not sure how much to step in. Sound familiar?
In this episode of the Engaging Reluctant Readers Podcast, Ellen Westbrook walks you through 11 common mistakes parents make (without realizing it) when trying to support their child’s reading—and what to do instead. With gentle mindset shifts and simple strategy swaps, you’ll learn how to rebuild connection, reduce pressure, and help your child feel more confident with books.
What You’ll Learn:
☑️ 11 things nearly every parent does at some point—without realizing it
☑️ Why traditional rewards and rules often backfire
☑️ Support for building confidence, connection, and progress—your way
⏳ Key Episode Highlights:
[00:00:41] Why bribes, reading logs, and pressure don’t work as intended
[00:01:54] Common reading “mistakes” we all make—and how to rethink them
[00:06:37] What to do instead: visibility, rhythm, connection, curiosity
[00:07:53] One powerful question to ask when reading gets hard
[00:08:28] When to trust the process—and when to seek outside support
[00:9:55] A simple way to boost comprehension (without quizzes)
[00:11:10] Coming soon: low-pressure back-to-school support
[00:11:41] Sneak peek at next week’s episode
📖 Prefer to Read? Full blog post: https://engagingreluctantreaders.com/2025/08/21/reading-mistakes-parents-make/
📺 Prefer to Watch? YouTube video version: https://youtu.be/lRwOyo6fdnM
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