Back-to-school season brings new routines, earlier mornings, and after-school exhaustion—and for many families, reading is the first thing to fall apart. If your child is suddenly resisting or your once-steady reading time feels impossible, you’re not alone.
In this episode of the Engaging Reluctant Readers Podcast, Ellen Westbrook shares real-life stories of reading resistance, shifting schedules, and messy evenings to show you why reading feels harder during busy transitions—and why that doesn’t mean you’ve failed. With gentle reminders and a dose of encouragement, you’ll walk away ready to hit reset without guilt or pressure.
What You’ll Learn:
☑️ Why resistance during busy seasons is normal—not a sign of failure
☑️ How after-school exhaustion impacts reading time
☑️ Simple ways to notice “sparks” even when routines fall apart
☑️ Why messy reading moments still count (sometimes even more)
☑️ How to let go of guilt and give yourself permission to reset
⏳ Key Episode Highlights:
[00:00:25] Why back-to-school shifts make reading feel harder than it should
[00:02:05] Afterschool restraint collapse explained (and why kids resist)
[00:03:12] Finding a rhythm that works with your family’s schedule
[00:05:00] When resistance shows up suddenly—and how to respond
[00:06:30] Why resistance is a signal, not laziness
[00:08:30] Wins worth celebrating (even when expectations fall short)
[00:10:00] The guilt spiral parents face when reading doesn’t go as planned
[00:12:07] What you really need: flexibility, kindness, and a reset
[00:13:11] Sneak peek at next week’s episode
[00:13:46] Reset & Read Workshop
📖 Prefer to Read? Full blog post: https://engagingreluctantreaders.com/2025/09/11/back-to-school-reading-struggles/
📺 Prefer to Watch? YouTube video version: https://youtu.be/sFwgmULY8_Q
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🎟️ Reset & Read is now available as a replay!
If reading still feels hard even after school has started, this workshop will walk you through how to rebuild your reading rhythm—without the stress.
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