If your last library trip ended in chaos—or you’ve been avoiding going at all—you’re not alone. Maybe your kids melted down before you made it past the first shelf, maybe you left with a random pile of books no one read, or maybe you can’t even find your library card.
In this episode of the Engaging Reluctant Readers Podcast, Ellen Westbrook shares real-life stories, honest reflections, and practical strategies to help you reset how you think about library visits. From prepping before you go, to managing expectations while you’re there, to what to do once you’re home, you’ll learn how to make library trips smoother, more enjoyable, and actually useful for your family.
What You’ll Learn:
☑️ Why library visits often feel harder than expected
☑️ Simple pre-visit prep steps that make all the difference
☑️ How to manage expectations (and meltdowns) while you’re there
☑️ Why “imperfect” visits still matter for your child’s reading journey
☑️ Small adjustments that make the next trip easier and more fun
⏳ Key Episode Highlights:
[00:00:25] Why library trips often feel harder than expected
[00:01:37] A real-life story: excitement, chaos, and missed opportunities
[00:02:26] Finding wins—even when visits don’t go as planned
[00:04:25] The biggest shift: prep before you even leave the house
[00:06:15] Managing expectations once you’re at the library
[00:07:14] Mid-visit resets, and handling meltdowns
[00:08:06] How librarians (and library tools) can make visits smoother
[00:09:37] What to do after a library trip to keep momentum going
[00:10:57] Why “imperfect” visits still count (and can spark connection)
[00:11:27] The Reset & Read Workshop Replay: rebuild reading rhythms at home
[00:12:05] Sneak peek at next week’s episode
📖 Prefer to Read? Full blog post: https://engagingreluctantreaders.com/2025/09/18/use-library-with-kids/
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🎟️ Reset & Read Workshop Replay
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