When your child sighs, groans, or says, “I hate reading”—it hits deep. It’s not just about the book in front of them—it’s about what they’re starting to believe about themselves as a reader.
In this episode of the Engaging Reluctant Readers Podcast, Ellen Westbrook shares how to help your child build confidence with reading—even when it feels like a struggle right now. You’ll learn how reader identity forms, why labels (even positive ones) can backfire, and the simple shifts that help kids start to see themselves as capable, growing readers.
What You’ll Learn:
☑️ Why reading confidence starts before skills are “mastered”
☑️ How small wins build momentum and motivation
☑️ Why labels (good or bad) can hurt more than help
☑️ Practical ways to invite reading—without pressure
☑️ How to make progress visible so kids believe in themselves
⏳ Key Episode Highlights:
[00:00:25] When your child says “I hate reading”—what’s really going on
[00:01:14] How reader identity forms long before fluency
[00:02:14] A real-life example of building confidence through space and support
[00:03:03] Why book choice (even “easy” books) matters
[00:04:29] Simple, low-pressure feedback that builds belief
[00:05:38] Why labels can backfire—and what to say instead
[00:06:01] Invite, don’t assign: fun, playful ways approach reading and grow confidence
[00:08:08] The one mindset shift that makes all the difference
[00:09:28] Sneak peek: next week’s episode on talking to teachers
[00:09:56] Upcoming Reset & Read Workshop
📖 Prefer to Read? Full blog post: https://engagingreluctantreaders.com/2025/08/28/build-reading-confidence-kids/
📺 Prefer to Watch? YouTube video version: https://youtu.be/keO5Wh7x26Y
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🎟️ Reset & Read: A Live Workshop for Tired Parents of Reluctant Readers
If reading time is already turning into a power struggle this school year, you’re not doing anything wrong—it just means it might be time for a reset.
Join me live on September 12 for a short, supportive workshop where you’ll learn how to rebuild your family’s reading rhythm—without the guilt, the logs, or the resistance.
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