July 11, 2024 • 38 mins
La celebración del Orgullo Gay o LGBTQ+ se expande por todo el mundo, y aunque la aceptación ha crecido, siempre es relevante entender cómo llegamos hasta aquí y qué podemos hacer para continuar luchando y apoyando los derechos de la comunidad en todo el mundo.
Pero, ¿qué pasa cuando una persona straight o heterosexual decide ir a la marcha? ¿Qué deben saber los aliados para atender esta manifestación pacífica en la que reinvidicamos la necesidad de tener las mismas oportunidades en todos los aspectos.
Conversamos con nuestra amiga Betty Fresas sobre este tema y con el invitado DJ Lu, popular en distrito gay de San Francisco, quién nos cuenta ¿qué ha sido lo peor que ha visto en la noche de ambiente?
Síguelos en Instagram:
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✅ Visita nuestra web: www.entregays.net
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Conviértete en un seguidor de este podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/entre-gays--4767412/support.
Pero, ¿qué pasa cuando una persona straight o heterosexual decide ir a la marcha? ¿Qué deben saber los aliados para atender esta manifestación pacífica en la que reinvidicamos la necesidad de tener las mismas oportunidades en todos los aspectos.
Conversamos con nuestra amiga Betty Fresas sobre este tema y con el invitado DJ Lu, popular en distrito gay de San Francisco, quién nos cuenta ¿qué ha sido lo peor que ha visto en la noche de ambiente?
Síguelos en Instagram:
➡️Síguenos en Instagram: @Entre_gays
➡️ Síguenos en TikTok: @Entre_gays
✅ Visita nuestra web: www.entregays.net
😈 Instagram: @cesarsalza @joaquinbena
📺 Míranos en YouTube
Conviértete en un seguidor de este podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/entre-gays--4767412/support.
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Stonewall' s life and after theStonewal uprising, the first march of pride
and took place in New York Cityin nineteen hundred and seventy. I didn
' t know the year nine hundredand seventy myself either, for they already
learned something, for yes, tosee, before starting all this, in
which cities you have been to celebratepride, which marches you have gone,
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in which places to see what Ithink, because I was only in St
Francis' celebration. But watch themgo with an open mind if they'
re going to go that is,they' re going to see the whole
Community, which is well- opinated, so all the tribes of the city
well, of course, you're sober doing your dj people are well
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drunk, well farted which is theworst thing you' ve ever seen you
say sao my gout Hello. Deliveryfriends. Welcome to the biggest gate in
Latin America. I am Joaquín Benaventeand here we have my dearest friend César
Salsa. How you' re thinking. Super well, plus, the most
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gate in America. Also, yes, not too, because we' re
from San Francisco, California. Forthe world we have to focus on casting.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Hey, we' re going
to talk about two things today,but I have a question. First,
you' ve invited a family memberto Prin, so look. You know
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I haven' t, because I' ve never been given a chance.
We' ve always been in differentplaces. My mom would love to,
I' d probably go for alittle while,' cause until it'
s canceled, right,' causeshe' s my mom. But I
' ve never had a chance toinvite someone is Stray or someone other than
the collective. I' ve alwaysbeen with friends of the collective. So
I don' t know how aperson who isn' t gay from the
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collective would read in private that youcan see so many things. No.
Today we' re going to talkabout that one. That' s today
' s topic and the other topicI start with a question. First I
' ll see what' s theworst thing you' ve ever seen in
a joint. Hey, hey,hey, hey, hey, hey.
I don' t know. There' s so many things, I'
ve been to a joint so manytimes. I don' t know.
I think the worst can be good. What I' m going to tell
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you. The least I like.Okay, the least I like is when
people get super drunk like that annoying, as well as they can' t
keep up ladies, if this drunkis going to be home, it'
s time to go. It's over. It' s over what
was given. The light goes outfor you not to be paid the clue
please, because if the others wantto dance, yes, I, when
I go out I' m goingto dance, because today we' re
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going to talk to a DJ andwe' re going to have your perspective
on what you' ve seen inthe joints wow that I want to know
all those stories for sure, butwhat I also want to know today we
' re going to ask today whichLatino celebrities belong to the LGBTQ ow Te
community. I made it easy todayOk Ok Ok, Miguel Bosé, Juan
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Ga, Juan Gabriel uya that seemsto talk about avoiding Brazil, Joey the
Jesse, Joe Ok, Pablo Alborán. Yeah, super gay I love my
beloved pa pasito, Ricky Martin.Oh yeah, although I didn' t
really like the last series he didfor oppoletvy ps Ay. I loved it,
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no, because I was hoping she' d have mastered them and all
I know is that she' san age. I know I' m
judging him, but I remembered RickyMartin gives to me I don' t
care if you' ve dominated me. He' s gorgeous, the bastard.
This is now like a give yes, but it' s that Dary
without hair, not without hair,no joys. And I' m out
of here Don' t call mewhat you think. Where there is hair,
there is love, where there ishair, there is joy. It
' s querri that Martin doesn't have hair, he doesn' t
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have hair on his chest. Youlike hairy ones. I have hair on
my chest. I have, like, two or three balls. If you
don' t have much, Ididn' t look in the spinger between
Barrabasjack Gays there are going to bepictures of Joaquin and they' re going
to see if he has hair orno hair. That' s pretty interesting.
Well, I also have a questionsword. There is a day when
Latin American countries limit the rights oftrans ay people, as they always do.
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Not to see, I don't start. I' m going
to say as you remember me,Nicaragua, sure, El Salvador, Venezuela,
Peru. I think that' snot it. I remember too much.
Here I do not see Peru,unfortunately, but well, fortunately I
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have Costa Rica Ok there is nolegal change of sex, El Salvador,
there are no laws and recognition.Guatemala, Honduras, Nicaragua, Panama without
laws. Well, Panama, yes, gender change and identity after medical intervention.
Ah Ok is good to the DominicanRepublic. There' s really Rossí
what a horror he loves that thereare parties that is for us to spend
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the day. Don' t goto the Dominican Republic. Yes, to
support the Haty community Paraguay and Venezuela. Oh, yeah, what' s
up with your country. I don' t know, güey ask him,
okay, well, today we havea couple of super interesting interviews, so
let' s go with the firstone. Well, we' re back
and we' ve got our dearestfriend, friend, friend, everyone upstairs
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betti strawberry is, well, asusual. All right, well, hey,
but you better look like a barbe, right, what' s your
barbie' s name is twenty andprey. Okay, so, hey,
did you, did you look forit yourself, okay, okay, did
you look for it yourself? Listento you guys why you' re celebrating
this month to see. I thinkhe' s missing the month of pride,
(05:49):
not pride in what. I don' t know, what' s
with the sissies. Yeah, we' re sexual, from the lesbians WI
trans toast Toust Plus. Yes,exactly, well, the month of pride,
which commemorates the origins of the modernmovement for rights. The gibt Q
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po and began with the riots ofStone Wal, as many of you know,
that began the night of June twenty- ninth of one thousand nine hundred
thousand nine hundred sixty- nine.Favorite on that night every decade of discrimination
and police virtuality against people who andthrans, especially people of color. The
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gibt qu topped up in six daysof rebellion in a West Village boater in
Stonewall, In and after the Stonewalluprising, the first proud march and took
place in New York City in nineteenhundred and seventy. I didn' t
know. In the year nineteen hundredand seventy I also did not, for
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they have already learned something, foryes, to see, before starting all
this, in which cities have youbeen to celebrate the pride that you march
have guided, in which places tosee what I think, because I was
only in San Francisco. The truthis how many times you' ve gone
already is that since I' mbarely eighteen, no more, once aha,
it' s been like three orfour. Ah cool, you went
to San Francisco. My first timeI was on the front page of Sant
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francescottain That exists, yes, now, I put the photo. This time
no longer exists, yes, ratdog when the dinosaurs existed and also in
Puerto Vallarta two years ago. True, true, well, I was in
Venezuela, in Bueno, in Caracas, Forgive me, in mexcu City,
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in Madrid, Barcelona, More Palomas, Gran Canarias and San Francisco. It
' s not that I used tolive in Spain, Güey and what was
the best of all you know aboutMadrid. No, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no. In Madrid, I think it
' s like a whole week,no yes. Besides, I was at
the World Pride in Madrid, whichwas about five years ago. I don
' t know and the truth wentpretty well. The one in Barcelona isn
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' t pretty, it' salso different, I don' t know,
it' s because he' slike gays from all over Europe.
Also well, Madrid is also quiteinternational. And besides, the good thing
is that it' s like SanFrancisco and Los Angeles don' t compete.
It' s a week after eachother. Then you can go both.
So it' s super good.The only thing. The bad thing
is when they compete like San Franciscoand New York, which are the same
weekend. There you go, youcan fuck yourself because you lower one OVA
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to the other. Oh I forgetalso that of Los Angeles, ah,
well, yes, of course,Güey and Oclon, ah also that of
Oko for that helps the one ofSan Jose, ah, yes, tale
are already local. Güey, yes, well, count accounts, ah,
well, Monterrey, California too,because how many people there were like three,
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but it' s okay, Güey, the truth of the celebration.
That also counts the representation, thecelebration and the saline. And about because
you live there, you lived closeby there, Güey or okay good.
Today we' re going to betalking, Betty, we' re going
to be talking, because to seeyou, you' ve ever taken some
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family to a march let me.I think I don' t believe the
truth. I mean, I'm taking friends, friends this one,
and I think maybe it' staking my sister, not alone. I
think so, well, no,okay, I' d never love my
mom there. But we didn't go together. You my mom,
when I went and I said whatmop I loved. There were naked people
(09:28):
everywhere here in San Francisco, andwhen I saw that I said no.
It' s not an experience Iwant to have with my mom. Yeah,
I have a story. When Iget them out of the closet,
my parents' first thing told meI don' t want you to be
watching the streets, you' rewalking and I' m watching. But
yes, that' s what Isaid to myself with heels and then your
Law also said. That' sfor us to presult the first time.
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Yeah. Yes, yes, yes, for more references of bet and strawberries
you can go to the previous season. We' ll leave you the link.
If you are in between gage Netor also in Spotify, ble Podcast
and if you can watch the podcastor listen to the podcast where Berin told
us all his exit from the closet, etcetera. With good Shakira hair,
yes, Chakita cuts that already hadit badly treated. Baby, yeah,
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what faith you don' t haveto say it wouldn' t be perfect.
I mean, it' s goodyour hair I like because I'
m a Shakira fan. Ah okto see good. We will then talk
about the appropriate conduct to celebrate theprie, especially considering whether you want to
invite a person who, perhaps,is not from the Community. You want
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to invite this is going to makea guide to avoid your mom, your
dad, your grandmother, your uncle, your cousin, your college friends.
You don' t know exactly whatthey' re gonna find. You don
' t share this podcast with BettyStrawberries, who' s going to explain
exactly how pride is going. Truthgoes you start giving the idea telling one,
two three and a story. Ah, there' s a story.
(11:01):
Yeah, yeah, you got likea question. Not good. I read
it to you I read it OkayThis is a message someone of you sent
to us. So comment once again, don' t treat all three of
us. Comment one, two,three, comment all three. Seeing the
House as assholes Ok says this kid, says I' m going to go
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to college, but I' llkeep living with my parents while I travel.
I travel daily to save money.My school will participate in the Pride
March on June 1, so Isigned up for a couple of reasons.
First, I want to have amore open mind in general and support my
sister more in Lesbiana. Second,I want to go out and meet people
who go to the same school.And, thirdly, a lot of my
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friends go on missions, so Idon' t have much to do this
summer. The question is how canI convince my parents to let me attend
interesting. Okay. My first questionis which adult. Yeah, that'
s it, because I' min college that you' re not there,
well, yeah, right, yeah, yeah, at least eighteen.
Then I would say the first thingis that, that is, communication between
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father and children is very important.But after all, if you' re
in college and you' re alreadyhaving your own experiences, it' s
okay to ask your parents, butit' s also too much, like
saying that maybe they won' tlike it and if they don' t
like it, you can also makea decision where you take it, you
can go and no longer make surethat you go with people you' re
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going to go with, that they' re sure to have your location,
that is, that you do thisas safe and not as discreet because you
don' t want something to happento you. No, but it says
here he signed up to go toschool. So I' d say it
' s already like a safe spacefor yourself, so, yeah, well,
you' re going to go withfriends from your college. So,
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sure, you' re super good, but I know, I guess your
question has to be more related.It' s also their first time what
they' re going to find,what it' s going to be,
how they behave that if you're not from the community, no,
yes, but what if your parentsdon' t agree that you' re
going, that' s not gonnatell them the truth. No, I
mean, you wouldn' t tellthem. Not me either, because you
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' ll see the pictures. No, no, don' t block them
on Instagram, on Facebook, oneverything. Always joaquín giving bad recommendations,
but Professor Betti Strawberries is not goingto explain to me exactly what we should
do and, above all, thebehavior we have to have. Right,
yeah, for example, let's go. The parents are going to
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have a lot of questions. They' re not going to say ok if
I' m going to ask themand what' s going to happen and
what kind of people are going tobe. Then let' s try to
answer as one of those questions thatif you and your parents are asked or
someone you want to take, theyask you how you can answer it.
Or the first one' s gonnabe what I wear for pride events.
You guys would wear it. Oh, well, I' m gonna look
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pretty lame, I' m gonnawear a ctrun chan top and shorts.
It' s going like you're going to the beach, but shwort,
so I' m looking at short- shart shorts is. Right now,
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yeah, yeah, yeah, ashort and probably a t- shirt
or a t- shirt like that. Then you' ll take it off
if it' s hot. Soyou do, I' d say,
Ponte, what you feel most comfortablewith is sure to make sure that you
sunscreen and bring something to protect youfrom the sun, that is, the
event of pride. It takes manyhours in the sun, a long time.
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Then bring as a sunscreen, maybea puppy and, maybe a jacket
for the night or a sack soyou don' t get cold. But
I' d say put on whateveryou want a tradition, it' d
be like using rainbows or colors.That' s all I' d recommend.
Very well depends on what you wantto do in good truth pyri,
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but it' s your first time. Ah yes, yes, yes,
put on, put on, yourarchaic and what your parents will ask you
as well. Of course, Imean, he' s not gonna tell
me he' s going to saynaked to me another question I can celebrate
without being out of the closet.What do you think? I say yes,
because there are people you' regoing to make yourself a close who
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goes and then says ay no.I' m not what, but I
like to see yes, I mean, this event is open to anyone.
This is open to people who arepart of the Community, but it is
also open to allies, such asfamily members, friends, friends, and
also to those curious people who wantto see, who want to know.
Many, for example, as youknow, I do drag. Many people
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drag for their first time during Pyre. So it' s like a time
to experiment, because it' sa community, it' s an open
space for the Community to be alot of support, it' s a
lot of celebration. But look atthem going with an open mind if they
' re going to go, they' re going to see the whole Community,
which is well- opinated, soall the tribes of the city.
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Okay. Of course, it's not the same thing that you'
re going to see in a smalltown in Mexico City, something you'
re going to see in Mexico City, for example, that the truth is
that there, if it' sokay, people are also undressed. And
it' s not what you're going to see in a city like
San Francisco, where it' sa higher level of a very open mentality,
where you' re going to findeverything and there' s going to
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be all kinds of parties. SoI think if it' s very important
that, depending on the city you' re going to be in, you
have in mind what kind of thingsyou can see and I also think that
during the day it' s allPG Ferting, it' s all like
very much for every audience. Butalready when it gets late night and start
the party, you' re goingto be able to see a little more
like opening up and all that opencollective mentality, then I would say that
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if you' re an ally andyou just want to support having a good
time, you go with the university, you go with some friends, the
day is fine for you, becausebesides, always and this is a question,
you think it' s okay tobring kids along. That, well,
basically what you said, that is, during the day. I say
yes, it' s okay tobring children. This is a place where
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you can expose people in your familyand children to see that people are free,
that people are liz, that thereis also a lot of community support,
that is, when you don't know what it' s like
to be gay or lesbian, orwhat you want to say is that,
as a family member, you feelthat that person is not going to have
support, that that person isn't going to have friends, that that
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person isn' t going to havea chance to work. And as you
go to an event like this andyou see thousands of people out there celebrating
the same thing, you say ahit' s my son or my daughter
isn' t alone. If youunderstand me, then I say yes.
It' s like a good way, but there are events like you said,
which are for adults and events thatare for minors. Then I'
d say it' s okay,depending on the event, all right.
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And then there are traditions that haveto be taken into consideration during prit because
I would say that this is thefirst thing we understood, not the celebration
of pride is like an annual commemorationof what happened in nineteen hundred and sixty
- nine, which began as aprotest. So it' s like remembering
the story every time and remembering wherewe come from and all the gay rights,
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how you say in Spanish the gasrights aha. So it' s
remembering that. But also the celebrationis like tradition, it would be about
the rainbow Iris. No, Imean, yeah, yeah, yeah,
absolutely raging all that. Yeah.I remember the first time I saw that
I realized that there were children ina demonstration, in a march, it
was because they were colleagues at workwhere Joaquin and I worked, and the
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parents of this girl. The girlwas about a year and a half old.
She was still small and the parentswere in heels and the girl was
playing with rainbow Iris and in theface painted and the truth had a great
time. I think it' sa time for the whole family. Whenever
you go you also have an openattitude and I have an attitude that this
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is a place where everyone fits inand can express themselves the way they want,
especially when that person you' recarrying and if you sent someone to
this podcast if they' re nota person who belongs to the collective,
but they want to support, becausethey have to have consideration that everyone can
do what they want and is normaland okay. Exactly next question, I
have to drink to celebrate prime.It' s uncomfortable being sober. I
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' d say you don' thave to drink, I mean, there
' s a lot of people thatif they' re going to be intoxicated,
they' re going to drink andall that, but it' s
not necessary. There are many eventsdepending on the city that are sober and
there are many events that are notsober. Then also how to search for
resources and see what kind of eventsyou' re going to like and what
types of events you' re notgoing to like. But knowing that the
point of this celebration is to dance, to live together, to meet friends
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maybe if you want to have sex, and for those things you don'
t need alcohol. Yeah, hey, and drugs are made, drugs end
print sometimes or not, so look. I' m going to say that
' s a subject, a littlebit stronger. Obviously, in the Community,
I say that drugs are something thatis very much given. The other
one' s like saying that doesn' t happen. Yeah, I'
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d say it' s like anyfest, but I think it depends on
where you live. It' smore common, because we live in a
city where, besides, it's like not glamorizing drug use. But
it' s quite common and peopledo it openly, yes, for good
or for no more. But thenthere are other cities where, literally I,
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for example, when I' min Mexico City, people when someone
was doing drugs, it was likeit' s super offended because they were
doing it. No. But whenyou' re in San Francisco, nobody
' s gonna tell you anything.In fact, they can ask you,
I' d say it' ssomething like it depends on the kind of
party you' re going to.But the only thing I would say as
a tip would be like a Councilis especially right now. You have to
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check your drugs. It depends onthe city where you guys, that is,
if the drugs come from a strangeryou don' t know who brought
them to you, you gave themto him. You have to check your
drugs, you have to take teststo check that they don' t have
them. There are your substances andalso the knowledge of how it is to
be able to assist a person who, perhaps, is past an overdose or
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how to bring medicines, such ashere in San Francisco. He knows very
well what the norkend is saying inorder to be able to help in some
case. I also think that's called here. It has the name
" Let' s see, let' s see, let' s see
here it says yes" Besides,I' ve seen that they have it
even in San Francisco, for example, I think it' s a law
now if they have it, theystop it and they have it anywhere.
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That is, if you see thata person has an envelope, if you
can even ask the bartender and theywill help you act, the important thing
would be to have emergency phones incase of an overdose by hand and it
is also essential to prevent tragedies,as well as medicines such as norkent or
Analok. Sond That didn' tknow Lok are Ok anymore, didn'
t know. Very important, veryimportant, and above all, the thing
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you said about when people are doingdrugs, tearing them down beforehand. Amen,
yes, always tear them down.I' ve also seen Amazon sell
something that helps you detect. Ifthe drugs have fntanillos. For example,
which is very important, because theyare now mixing them and that can even
cause death. So it' svery important that you consider yourself. We
' re not recommending that you dodrugs, but it' s important that
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you know all the things you cando to have the best possible time,
the best possible time and avoid,because this kind of tragedy. Yeah,
well, this leads to a questionI' m going to ask you.
As you have gone to more thanI have, you feel that there if
I would insist on it, howdo you people feel that it is safe
to attend the prime. Oh yes, I think so, but as I
always say, it depends on whereyou are, because people listen to us
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from many places, that is,they listen to us from America. They
listen to us from California, whois very sure, and then they listen
to us from Spain, Mexico orColombia, Venezuela. So I mean,
it all depends on where you are. Always try to investigate before what the
PRI organization is like in your cityif there have been demonstrations against it.
I, for example, know thatin Mexico City you may find demonstrations against
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it, but it is very safeto go to Pride, which is a
very large city in Latin America.Then there' s usually the police.
All that. Yeah. I alsoknow that, for example, in Bogotá
it is very open priya, whichis something very accepted too, but it
all depends on the city from whichit has helped. Yeah, like you
said, the only thing that scaresme is homophobics. That' s what
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scares me. I mean, ifthere' s someone who doesn' t
like gay mos and wants to giveup because I' m gay and I
' m celebrating and it' shappened and it' s happened. That
' s what I' m afraidof. But going to the festival with
other people in my community does not, yes, I agree with you.
I feel like it' s okay. Going alone no more, it'
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s like looking for your resources.What kind of party you' re gonna
see, what kind of guys youwant to go give her your location and
your phone. Friends, if there' s a problem or something, you
can contact them. But you alsohave to know that, although all this
can be organized by the government,there are many places where they might hear
that maybe the gay march is notsomething celebrated. So maybe that' s
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still a protest. Then we mustalso realize that there are places where the
march of pride did not make acceptablethere is a possibility of violence and that
means that it could be from thepublic or sometimes also from the police media.
So you have to know that it' s important to know your rights
if you get to be in aprotest or a wright here in the United
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States and have evacuation plans or also, for example, right now it'
s as common as gunmen. Ifthere' s like a damage that someone
has a gun or whatever, sometimesit might be like an altercation between one
person and another. But that's also important to know what, where
I have to go, where Ican hide, that is, who can
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pick me up, because in amoment it gives two. If you don
' t know what to do,you can lose, you can fall and
that is, it can happen ina moment things change clearly, then you
always have to be very safe,as with drugs, also be sure to
know your spaces, know your exits, know where you can go and who
(25:23):
you can contact. Absolutely. Ithink it' s super important to have
this now that we' re inthe prih that people listen to us from
all over the world. I thinkthese podcasts with Profe Betti are very interesting
because that way we can support thewhole community. And Beatifress comments well my
(25:45):
boys. Yeah, I loved ithere. If you want to like having
more of these sections in which youcan send us as stories, yes,
to give that to the public.You can send us stories of any topic
that you may have a little moreas questions to Monte best you don'
t want to comment with your family, with your friends. Then you send
(26:06):
it to us and eventually. Yousend them the pop. Yeah, we
' re like an open book andopen legs. I say forgiveness. Joaquin
speaks on his own as usual.Thanks to bet Yes, John No,
yes, yes, Mira Betti,it' s all right, well,
thank you for being with us andwe' re still in good- bye.
(26:26):
We now have a new popular guestfrom the San Francisco Bay area,
specifically the gay aria Castro. Welcome, DJ, how are you? All
right, thanks for inviting me over. Oh, yes, tell us,
what do you do, where andwhy. The world' s gay community
(26:47):
has to come to San Francisco Gate. Well, I saguije' s been
he for, like, 15 years. I started in Monterrey, in Salinas,
Yes, about ten years ago Istopped filming or clan to San Leandro
and then did as secst ale.I live in Oklen. All right,
(27:07):
all right, and all this timeyou' ve been playing DJ, which
is like the craziest, the craziest, and things that always happen in clubs.
I' m super curious because Imean, you' re sober doing
your DJ. People are well drunk, well farted which is the worst thing
you' ve ever seen you sayoh my gout or m I think it
(27:30):
has to be when people take toomuch and you have to go hand in
hand. Oh my god, that' s what happens and you call the
ambulance or the club manager, hedoesn' t just look at it I
chat and I' m wandering andyou have to pay for the music.
No, it' s not,but suddenly people get scared, because of
course, of course you want towake him up and don' t react
(27:53):
to UFFF. Yeah, that's scary about Wicke' s breed map,
but since it' s clear asit is, he calls it abulance,
and he calls it, you stayon Borshet' s side, and
we don' t talk about somethingfun better. Ok right now, what
do you think is best for youto be dj in gas clubs because I
(28:17):
don' t know if it's also dj in straight clubs Strats no.
Most of the time I' veplayed at Clubscase OK. What do
you like the most? I thinkit has to be the environment is like
more open to music, to differentgenres. You can play seventy, eighty
to sales app hep pop of whateveryou want and people the pol no superg
(28:42):
this. What do you like mostabout San Francisco night, in the San
Francisco dens? I like it I' m almost with what homens. He
likes to stay home and now,but I like it to start early and
(29:03):
finish early, clear from the restrictionsfor those who don' t know and
live in California. Today, inSan Francisco, in particular, well,
in California it' s the samebecause it' s the same law.
Clubs close at 2 (29:12):
00 in the morning. I know that, for
example, I think Madrid closed ataround 6: 00 and then you go
to the after there quote in thosethat made at 4: 00, but
in what dew. Yes, inMexico they will also be late not in
Puerto Vallarta de Cara closed bathroom.I don' t remember. You don
' t remember they didn' tclose, sane they didn' t close.
(29:33):
Yeah. It makes me yes,yes, yes. So what you
like most is that you can startearly and here you go for dinner at
seven and at eight and a halfnine. You' re already partying and
what to give yourself, what timepeople are leaving You, what' s
the local time in the clubs ofSan Francisco, gual is the time when
people are waiting in the best musiclike 11: 30 my idea of eleven
and I give until they close alreadybecause they already have two or three hours
(29:56):
drinking and already walks more two andyou touch them. Shakira ou. Che
the hynosm he knows me. Yes, Chakira, Shakira. Whatever Shakira is
here for me. I' ma fan number orne. I' m
always gonna dance it. So that' s why I liked it when you
' re dj Hey, and I' ve done d James in gay clubs
(30:18):
and straight clubs. What' sthe hetero difference. He didn' t,
you didn' t hey I thoughtyou said yes, sorry, I
was wrong about two like two ahok Burri weddings. Yeah, well,
they did strit because it closes differently. No and what is it that people
like to hear when they go toa club, what kind of music I
(30:41):
think more like more pop pop,like you go to a Mojon. I
imagine, and that' s whatI' ve been told, that the
music in barreteros with more radio musicrao than the one heard on any radio.
If you base an o, themusic is renx already I actually have
(31:04):
a remax of the song that ismore pre- now, like the example
the Badband and GHT. You wonder. The original is good, but remes
is extra ah and that usually listensto us in bars. Well, don
' t tell this to the wholepeople who then come to the gas bare.
That hits me. I don't understand. Well, I do
(31:26):
understand true, because in the endyou' re DJ and people come to
gay bars because of the atmosphere,because music is better. True, of
course he hears and talking about thegay community for them coming to San Francisco,
what kind of gay, Latino,or anthro events that have events like
(31:48):
that for Latinos, which are thatI know, there' s an Onockland
in what rich, ah ok,how rich. I think it' s
Friday. Well Saturday and now there' s also Friday in dumb, not
that they' re Latino or something. I think they' re starting the
st Socket Top Circuit, Daddy,which is different on a Wednesday, which
is like once a month. Ibelieve in that. Yeah, I saw,
(32:12):
I saw. We have to go, so look Joaquin wants to go
weird. Yes, güey too ifyou don' t, because it does
invite us and there are others.I know there' s sweet bread in
bow Edwards. Wednesday we also havethe evening tub with Betides my Nison on
Thursdays. Yeah, yeah, we' re starting a Latin night at Brlance
(32:37):
Ok on Tuesdays. Then there isalready a day for Latino, for every
day of the week and in coffeethere is not a day for Latino,
or it is every day, everyday on Thursday. Oh, Thursdays,
yeah,' cause Tuesday is,like, bad. Uh, Tuesday at
the cafe, not Tuesday at Batlance,' cause you see it' s
half. But they' re starting. No, I' m not saying
(32:59):
that it' s bad what theydo, but that we have to work
on Wednesday. Güey. Oh,yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
yeah, well, you start early. Yeah, yeah, oh, well,
I' m sick there. Alwayswith the plastifi actuaria with the good
ideas. Joaquin, you also hada story not of a friend dja.
(33:20):
Oh, it makes me a friendof Ja' s who told you on
Valentine' s Day. No,yeah, it says to me I had
a party last Valentine' s Day, where a girl thought it was a
good idea. Do not wear underwearunder your dress. No. She danced
harder than anyone that night and,of course, oh no. His champagne
(33:45):
flew out on the dance floor.That happened not good to him, no,
but you haven' t seen anythinglike it. Crazy, no,
no, no, don' tlet them know that I know what'
s crazy about him. Well,you guys, too, when you'
re DJs, you' re superstuck on your computers. Then it'
s like it' s harder tosee what' s going on outside.
(34:06):
But let' s see if Iask you right now, what would be
the most popular song today at 11 (34:08):
30 in Batlance, what would be
the song you' d play wheneveryone wants, just like dancing to me
it' s my turn to playan exact cha. I like playing a
lot of 80' s music.Yeah, yeah, you' re a
little bit different,' cause it' s more single music. Yeah,
yeah, people are gonna sing.Yeah, or I' ve got the
(34:30):
mother. Yeah, and it getsreally hot in there. Yes, we
can dance, but no more inyour Espazington Yes, yes, believe me
that when we left we had totake off our shirt, but we passed
on to every mother. Yeah,but what would be that perfect song for
the 11th and 30th of the night, when it' s time to watch
(34:52):
the bar. I like to playDn' s to a ok who'
s the artist who asks for moresy wow k I floor a pop or
that sounds good Strait, I sayLatinos, also no, but it sounds
homophobic bing Strigt. You don't lie to him the BMC, the
(35:14):
reminke is good. That? That? That? That? That? Okay,
and I think there' s afew questions. I have questions.
I' m here as a metiche. For those who listen to us,
don' t call, no,no, no, no, stay?
Okay? For those I saw tovisit San Francisco and to go to the
Castro and go to Bow to seeyou, to go to Beatlands to see
(35:35):
you or to me in isand thisis single. Sometimes you know ok ok
there we leave it to us isthat ah ok ok ok. As a
DJ you have a lot of league. After your ging no one came and
said what' s up with you. I like d light cha people of
box people, but you jai jeyou know what I have a date with
(36:00):
my bed, just ah with thethree dogs, but because two thousand names,
two to my number a month thatno, ah what ok and how
you like tall bearded muscle, bears, bears, already know if they come
(36:21):
to San Francisco and want to seeDJ Lu and if you are better bear
here, you know where to findhim. That' s where we leave
them all their social networks and everythingso they can find it. Thank you
so much for being with us.Djlu loved having you, especially because you
can also advertise the places you arein. There. We will also leave
them on social networks and platforms sothat they can follow it. Hey.
(36:43):
I didn' t ask you veryquickly. You have sound Cloud, you
have somewhere where people can hear yourmixes. I have Soundcloud, but they
make blues. OK and yes,ok I think ok ok. I don
' t record the session, soyou have to go to the bar directly.
There it is in my instagram.I' ve got all half the
schedule of the month. Oh,he' s already there. We leave
you on Instagram and people can followyou in the bar much better and there
(37:07):
they can find us surely because therewe go hear on Thursdays my nisont touches
you or not. Yeah, well, there we are because we always go,
we' re always going to seeBetty. I always see you up
there. They are. Thank youvery much, DJ. Lue well,
folks, we' re at theend of today' s show. Of
course, you already know that youhave to go between gage Net because we
(37:29):
have all the currents of the LGBTQ Plus world and all the episodes can
also find them there and we canfollow Spotify. We also have YouTube and
also Instagram, among bars, hackGas. There we are of course,
always making stories and telling them everythingthat is happening very important. Now they
' re going to have a sectionwhere they can support us. On the
website it' s called supporters andthere you have in case you want to
(37:51):
strap or we also have sponsorship thatJoaquin takes care of handling that. I
have no idea anymore, but he' s doing it and he' s
doing it super well. So ifyou guys want to give us a coffee
or some podcasts after the recording,everything' s fine. I love podcasting.
Joaquin, you' re vodka orvodka tequila, because Tequila takes off
my clothes. That' s howuff takes off on his own. Well,
(38:15):
you know. If they want tobuy us a drink, they can
do it there and if we arenear their city, they can also write
to us. We' ll seeyou there, thank you and see you
in the next episode.
Stonewall' s life and after theStonewal uprising, the first march of pride
and took place in New York Cityin nineteen hundred and seventy. I didn
' t know the year nine hundredand seventy myself either, for they already
learned something, for yes, tosee, before starting all this, in
which cities you have been to celebratepride, which marches you have gone,
(00:23):
in which places to see what Ithink, because I was only in St
Francis' celebration. But watch themgo with an open mind if they'
re going to go that is,they' re going to see the whole
Community, which is well- opinated, so all the tribes of the city
well, of course, you're sober doing your dj people are well
(00:48):
drunk, well farted which is theworst thing you' ve ever seen you
say sao my gout Hello. Deliveryfriends. Welcome to the biggest gate in
Latin America. I am Joaquín Benaventeand here we have my dearest friend César
Salsa. How you' re thinking. Super well, plus, the most
(01:08):
gate in America. Also, yes, not too, because we' re
from San Francisco, California. Forthe world we have to focus on casting.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Hey, we' re going
to talk about two things today,but I have a question. First,
you' ve invited a family memberto Prin, so look. You know
(01:29):
I haven' t, because I' ve never been given a chance.
We' ve always been in differentplaces. My mom would love to,
I' d probably go for alittle while,' cause until it'
s canceled, right,' causeshe' s my mom. But I
' ve never had a chance toinvite someone is Stray or someone other than
the collective. I' ve alwaysbeen with friends of the collective. So
I don' t know how aperson who isn' t gay from the
(01:51):
collective would read in private that youcan see so many things. No.
Today we' re going to talkabout that one. That' s today
' s topic and the other topicI start with a question. First I
' ll see what' s theworst thing you' ve ever seen in
a joint. Hey, hey,hey, hey, hey, hey.
I don' t know. There' s so many things, I'
ve been to a joint so manytimes. I don' t know.
I think the worst can be good. What I' m going to tell
(02:14):
you. The least I like.Okay, the least I like is when
people get super drunk like that annoying, as well as they can' t
keep up ladies, if this drunkis going to be home, it'
s time to go. It's over. It' s over what
was given. The light goes outfor you not to be paid the clue
please, because if the others wantto dance, yes, I, when
I go out I' m goingto dance, because today we' re
(02:36):
going to talk to a DJ andwe' re going to have your perspective
on what you' ve seen inthe joints wow that I want to know
all those stories for sure, butwhat I also want to know today we
' re going to ask today whichLatino celebrities belong to the LGBTQ ow Te
community. I made it easy todayOk Ok Ok, Miguel Bosé, Juan
(02:58):
Ga, Juan Gabriel uya that seemsto talk about avoiding Brazil, Joey the
Jesse, Joe Ok, Pablo Alborán. Yeah, super gay I love my
beloved pa pasito, Ricky Martin.Oh yeah, although I didn' t
really like the last series he didfor oppoletvy ps Ay. I loved it,
(03:19):
no, because I was hoping she' d have mastered them and all
I know is that she' san age. I know I' m
judging him, but I remembered RickyMartin gives to me I don' t
care if you' ve dominated me. He' s gorgeous, the bastard.
This is now like a give yes, but it' s that Dary
without hair, not without hair,no joys. And I' m out
of here Don' t call mewhat you think. Where there is hair,
there is love, where there ishair, there is joy. It
' s querri that Martin doesn't have hair, he doesn' t
(03:43):
have hair on his chest. Youlike hairy ones. I have hair on
my chest. I have, like, two or three balls. If you
don' t have much, Ididn' t look in the spinger between
Barrabasjack Gays there are going to bepictures of Joaquin and they' re going
to see if he has hair orno hair. That' s pretty interesting.
Well, I also have a questionsword. There is a day when
Latin American countries limit the rights oftrans ay people, as they always do.
(04:11):
Not to see, I don't start. I' m going
to say as you remember me,Nicaragua, sure, El Salvador, Venezuela,
Peru. I think that' snot it. I remember too much.
Here I do not see Peru,unfortunately, but well, fortunately I
(04:38):
have Costa Rica Ok there is nolegal change of sex, El Salvador,
there are no laws and recognition.Guatemala, Honduras, Nicaragua, Panama without
laws. Well, Panama, yes, gender change and identity after medical intervention.
Ah Ok is good to the DominicanRepublic. There' s really Rossí
what a horror he loves that thereare parties that is for us to spend
(04:59):
the day. Don' t goto the Dominican Republic. Yes, to
support the Haty community Paraguay and Venezuela. Oh, yeah, what' s
up with your country. I don' t know, güey ask him,
okay, well, today we havea couple of super interesting interviews, so
let' s go with the firstone. Well, we' re back
and we' ve got our dearestfriend, friend, friend, everyone upstairs
(05:28):
betti strawberry is, well, asusual. All right, well, hey,
but you better look like a barbe, right, what' s your
barbie' s name is twenty andprey. Okay, so, hey,
did you, did you look forit yourself, okay, okay, did
you look for it yourself? Listento you guys why you' re celebrating
this month to see. I thinkhe' s missing the month of pride,
(05:49):
not pride in what. I don' t know, what' s
with the sissies. Yeah, we' re sexual, from the lesbians WI
trans toast Toust Plus. Yes,exactly, well, the month of pride,
which commemorates the origins of the modernmovement for rights. The gibt Q
(06:10):
po and began with the riots ofStone Wal, as many of you know,
that began the night of June twenty- ninth of one thousand nine hundred
thousand nine hundred sixty- nine.Favorite on that night every decade of discrimination
and police virtuality against people who andthrans, especially people of color. The
(06:33):
gibt qu topped up in six daysof rebellion in a West Village boater in
Stonewall, In and after the Stonewalluprising, the first proud march and took
place in New York City in nineteenhundred and seventy. I didn' t
know. In the year nineteen hundredand seventy I also did not, for
(06:53):
they have already learned something, foryes, to see, before starting all
this, in which cities have youbeen to celebrate the pride that you march
have guided, in which places tosee what I think, because I was
only in San Francisco. The truthis how many times you' ve gone
already is that since I' mbarely eighteen, no more, once aha,
it' s been like three orfour. Ah cool, you went
to San Francisco. My first timeI was on the front page of Sant
(07:18):
francescottain That exists, yes, now, I put the photo. This time
no longer exists, yes, ratdog when the dinosaurs existed and also in
Puerto Vallarta two years ago. True, true, well, I was in
Venezuela, in Bueno, in Caracas, Forgive me, in mexcu City,
(07:38):
in Madrid, Barcelona, More Palomas, Gran Canarias and San Francisco. It
' s not that I used tolive in Spain, Güey and what was
the best of all you know aboutMadrid. No, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no. In Madrid, I think it
' s like a whole week,no yes. Besides, I was at
the World Pride in Madrid, whichwas about five years ago. I don
' t know and the truth wentpretty well. The one in Barcelona isn
(08:00):
' t pretty, it' salso different, I don' t know,
it' s because he' slike gays from all over Europe.
Also well, Madrid is also quiteinternational. And besides, the good thing
is that it' s like SanFrancisco and Los Angeles don' t compete.
It' s a week after eachother. Then you can go both.
So it' s super good.The only thing. The bad thing
is when they compete like San Franciscoand New York, which are the same
weekend. There you go, youcan fuck yourself because you lower one OVA
(08:22):
to the other. Oh I forgetalso that of Los Angeles, ah,
well, yes, of course,Güey and Oclon, ah also that of
Oko for that helps the one ofSan Jose, ah, yes, tale
are already local. Güey, yes, well, count accounts, ah,
well, Monterrey, California too,because how many people there were like three,
(08:43):
but it' s okay, Güey, the truth of the celebration.
That also counts the representation, thecelebration and the saline. And about because
you live there, you lived closeby there, Güey or okay good.
Today we' re going to betalking, Betty, we' re going
to be talking, because to seeyou, you' ve ever taken some
(09:05):
family to a march let me.I think I don' t believe the
truth. I mean, I'm taking friends, friends this one,
and I think maybe it' staking my sister, not alone. I
think so, well, no,okay, I' d never love my
mom there. But we didn't go together. You my mom,
when I went and I said whatmop I loved. There were naked people
(09:28):
everywhere here in San Francisco, andwhen I saw that I said no.
It' s not an experience Iwant to have with my mom. Yeah,
I have a story. When Iget them out of the closet,
my parents' first thing told meI don' t want you to be
watching the streets, you' rewalking and I' m watching. But
yes, that' s what Isaid to myself with heels and then your
Law also said. That' sfor us to presult the first time.
(09:50):
Yeah. Yes, yes, yes, for more references of bet and strawberries
you can go to the previous season. We' ll leave you the link.
If you are in between gage Netor also in Spotify, ble Podcast
and if you can watch the podcastor listen to the podcast where Berin told
us all his exit from the closet, etcetera. With good Shakira hair,
yes, Chakita cuts that already hadit badly treated. Baby, yeah,
(10:16):
what faith you don' t haveto say it wouldn' t be perfect.
I mean, it' s goodyour hair I like because I'
m a Shakira fan. Ah okto see good. We will then talk
about the appropriate conduct to celebrate theprie, especially considering whether you want to
invite a person who, perhaps,is not from the Community. You want
(10:37):
to invite this is going to makea guide to avoid your mom, your
dad, your grandmother, your uncle, your cousin, your college friends.
You don' t know exactly whatthey' re gonna find. You don
' t share this podcast with BettyStrawberries, who' s going to explain
exactly how pride is going. Truthgoes you start giving the idea telling one,
two three and a story. Ah, there' s a story.
(11:01):
Yeah, yeah, you got likea question. Not good. I read
it to you I read it OkayThis is a message someone of you sent
to us. So comment once again, don' t treat all three of
us. Comment one, two,three, comment all three. Seeing the
House as assholes Ok says this kid, says I' m going to go
(11:24):
to college, but I' llkeep living with my parents while I travel.
I travel daily to save money.My school will participate in the Pride
March on June 1, so Isigned up for a couple of reasons.
First, I want to have amore open mind in general and support my
sister more in Lesbiana. Second,I want to go out and meet people
who go to the same school.And, thirdly, a lot of my
(11:46):
friends go on missions, so Idon' t have much to do this
summer. The question is how canI convince my parents to let me attend
interesting. Okay. My first questionis which adult. Yeah, that'
s it, because I' min college that you' re not there,
well, yeah, right, yeah, yeah, at least eighteen.
Then I would say the first thingis that, that is, communication between
(12:07):
father and children is very important.But after all, if you' re
in college and you' re alreadyhaving your own experiences, it' s
okay to ask your parents, butit' s also too much, like
saying that maybe they won' tlike it and if they don' t
like it, you can also makea decision where you take it, you
can go and no longer make surethat you go with people you' re
(12:30):
going to go with, that they' re sure to have your location,
that is, that you do thisas safe and not as discreet because you
don' t want something to happento you. No, but it says
here he signed up to go toschool. So I' d say it
' s already like a safe spacefor yourself, so, yeah, well,
you' re going to go withfriends from your college. So,
(12:52):
sure, you' re super good, but I know, I guess your
question has to be more related.It' s also their first time what
they' re going to find,what it' s going to be,
how they behave that if you're not from the community, no,
yes, but what if your parentsdon' t agree that you' re
going, that' s not gonnatell them the truth. No, I
mean, you wouldn' t tellthem. Not me either, because you
(13:13):
' ll see the pictures. No, no, don' t block them
on Instagram, on Facebook, oneverything. Always joaquín giving bad recommendations,
but Professor Betti Strawberries is not goingto explain to me exactly what we should
do and, above all, thebehavior we have to have. Right,
yeah, for example, let's go. The parents are going to
(13:33):
have a lot of questions. They' re not going to say ok if
I' m going to ask themand what' s going to happen and
what kind of people are going tobe. Then let' s try to
answer as one of those questions thatif you and your parents are asked or
someone you want to take, theyask you how you can answer it.
Or the first one' s gonnabe what I wear for pride events.
You guys would wear it. Oh, well, I' m gonna look
(13:54):
pretty lame, I' m gonnawear a ctrun chan top and shorts.
It' s going like you're going to the beach, but shwort,
so I' m looking at short- shart shorts is. Right now,
(14:15):
yeah, yeah, yeah, ashort and probably a t- shirt
or a t- shirt like that. Then you' ll take it off
if it' s hot. Soyou do, I' d say,
Ponte, what you feel most comfortablewith is sure to make sure that you
sunscreen and bring something to protect youfrom the sun, that is, the
event of pride. It takes manyhours in the sun, a long time.
(14:35):
Then bring as a sunscreen, maybea puppy and, maybe a jacket
for the night or a sack soyou don' t get cold. But
I' d say put on whateveryou want a tradition, it' d
be like using rainbows or colors.That' s all I' d recommend.
Very well depends on what you wantto do in good truth pyri,
(14:56):
but it' s your first time. Ah yes, yes, yes,
put on, put on, yourarchaic and what your parents will ask you
as well. Of course, Imean, he' s not gonna tell
me he' s going to saynaked to me another question I can celebrate
without being out of the closet.What do you think? I say yes,
because there are people you' regoing to make yourself a close who
(15:20):
goes and then says ay no.I' m not what, but I
like to see yes, I mean, this event is open to anyone.
This is open to people who arepart of the Community, but it is
also open to allies, such asfamily members, friends, friends, and
also to those curious people who wantto see, who want to know.
Many, for example, as youknow, I do drag. Many people
(15:41):
drag for their first time during Pyre. So it' s like a time
to experiment, because it' sa community, it' s an open
space for the Community to be alot of support, it' s a
lot of celebration. But look atthem going with an open mind if they
' re going to go, they' re going to see the whole Community,
which is well- opinated, soall the tribes of the city.
(16:07):
Okay. Of course, it's not the same thing that you'
re going to see in a smalltown in Mexico City, something you'
re going to see in Mexico City, for example, that the truth is
that there, if it' sokay, people are also undressed. And
it' s not what you're going to see in a city like
San Francisco, where it' sa higher level of a very open mentality,
where you' re going to findeverything and there' s going to
(16:29):
be all kinds of parties. SoI think if it' s very important
that, depending on the city you' re going to be in, you
have in mind what kind of thingsyou can see and I also think that
during the day it' s allPG Ferting, it' s all like
very much for every audience. Butalready when it gets late night and start
the party, you' re goingto be able to see a little more
like opening up and all that opencollective mentality, then I would say that
(16:53):
if you' re an ally andyou just want to support having a good
time, you go with the university, you go with some friends, the
day is fine for you, becausebesides, always and this is a question,
you think it' s okay tobring kids along. That, well,
basically what you said, that is, during the day. I say
yes, it' s okay tobring children. This is a place where
(17:15):
you can expose people in your familyand children to see that people are free,
that people are liz, that thereis also a lot of community support,
that is, when you don't know what it' s like
to be gay or lesbian, orwhat you want to say is that,
as a family member, you feelthat that person is not going to have
support, that that person isn't going to have friends, that that
(17:37):
person isn' t going to havea chance to work. And as you
go to an event like this andyou see thousands of people out there celebrating
the same thing, you say ahit' s my son or my daughter
isn' t alone. If youunderstand me, then I say yes.
It' s like a good way, but there are events like you said,
which are for adults and events thatare for minors. Then I'
d say it' s okay,depending on the event, all right.
(17:59):
And then there are traditions that haveto be taken into consideration during prit because
I would say that this is thefirst thing we understood, not the celebration
of pride is like an annual commemorationof what happened in nineteen hundred and sixty
- nine, which began as aprotest. So it' s like remembering
the story every time and remembering wherewe come from and all the gay rights,
(18:23):
how you say in Spanish the gasrights aha. So it' s
remembering that. But also the celebrationis like tradition, it would be about
the rainbow Iris. No, Imean, yeah, yeah, yeah,
absolutely raging all that. Yeah.I remember the first time I saw that
I realized that there were children ina demonstration, in a march, it
was because they were colleagues at workwhere Joaquin and I worked, and the
(18:48):
parents of this girl. The girlwas about a year and a half old.
She was still small and the parentswere in heels and the girl was
playing with rainbow Iris and in theface painted and the truth had a great
time. I think it' sa time for the whole family. Whenever
you go you also have an openattitude and I have an attitude that this
(19:11):
is a place where everyone fits inand can express themselves the way they want,
especially when that person you' recarrying and if you sent someone to
this podcast if they' re nota person who belongs to the collective,
but they want to support, becausethey have to have consideration that everyone can
do what they want and is normaland okay. Exactly next question, I
have to drink to celebrate prime.It' s uncomfortable being sober. I
(19:34):
' d say you don' thave to drink, I mean, there
' s a lot of people thatif they' re going to be intoxicated,
they' re going to drink andall that, but it' s
not necessary. There are many eventsdepending on the city that are sober and
there are many events that are notsober. Then also how to search for
resources and see what kind of eventsyou' re going to like and what
types of events you' re notgoing to like. But knowing that the
point of this celebration is to dance, to live together, to meet friends
(19:59):
maybe if you want to have sex, and for those things you don'
t need alcohol. Yeah, hey, and drugs are made, drugs end
print sometimes or not, so look. I' m going to say that
' s a subject, a littlebit stronger. Obviously, in the Community,
I say that drugs are something thatis very much given. The other
one' s like saying that doesn' t happen. Yeah, I'
(20:19):
d say it' s like anyfest, but I think it depends on
where you live. It' smore common, because we live in a
city where, besides, it's like not glamorizing drug use. But
it' s quite common and peopledo it openly, yes, for good
or for no more. But thenthere are other cities where, literally I,
(20:40):
for example, when I' min Mexico City, people when someone
was doing drugs, it was likeit' s super offended because they were
doing it. No. But whenyou' re in San Francisco, nobody
' s gonna tell you anything.In fact, they can ask you,
I' d say it' ssomething like it depends on the kind of
party you' re going to.But the only thing I would say as
a tip would be like a Councilis especially right now. You have to
(21:02):
check your drugs. It depends onthe city where you guys, that is,
if the drugs come from a strangeryou don' t know who brought
them to you, you gave themto him. You have to check your
drugs, you have to take teststo check that they don' t have
them. There are your substances andalso the knowledge of how it is to
be able to assist a person who, perhaps, is past an overdose or
(21:22):
how to bring medicines, such ashere in San Francisco. He knows very
well what the norkend is saying inorder to be able to help in some
case. I also think that's called here. It has the name
" Let' s see, let' s see, let' s see
here it says yes" Besides,I' ve seen that they have it
even in San Francisco, for example, I think it' s a law
now if they have it, theystop it and they have it anywhere.
(21:44):
That is, if you see thata person has an envelope, if you
can even ask the bartender and theywill help you act, the important thing
would be to have emergency phones incase of an overdose by hand and it
is also essential to prevent tragedies,as well as medicines such as norkent or
Analok. Sond That didn' tknow Lok are Ok anymore, didn'
t know. Very important, veryimportant, and above all, the thing
(22:08):
you said about when people are doingdrugs, tearing them down beforehand. Amen,
yes, always tear them down.I' ve also seen Amazon sell
something that helps you detect. Ifthe drugs have fntanillos. For example,
which is very important, because theyare now mixing them and that can even
cause death. So it' svery important that you consider yourself. We
' re not recommending that you dodrugs, but it' s important that
(22:30):
you know all the things you cando to have the best possible time,
the best possible time and avoid,because this kind of tragedy. Yeah,
well, this leads to a questionI' m going to ask you.
As you have gone to more thanI have, you feel that there if
I would insist on it, howdo you people feel that it is safe
to attend the prime. Oh yes, I think so, but as I
always say, it depends on whereyou are, because people listen to us
(22:52):
from many places, that is,they listen to us from America. They
listen to us from California, whois very sure, and then they listen
to us from Spain, Mexico orColombia, Venezuela. So I mean,
it all depends on where you are. Always try to investigate before what the
PRI organization is like in your cityif there have been demonstrations against it.
I, for example, know thatin Mexico City you may find demonstrations against
(23:14):
it, but it is very safeto go to Pride, which is a
very large city in Latin America.Then there' s usually the police.
All that. Yeah. I alsoknow that, for example, in Bogotá
it is very open priya, whichis something very accepted too, but it
all depends on the city from whichit has helped. Yeah, like you
said, the only thing that scaresme is homophobics. That' s what
(23:36):
scares me. I mean, ifthere' s someone who doesn' t
like gay mos and wants to giveup because I' m gay and I
' m celebrating and it' shappened and it' s happened. That
' s what I' m afraidof. But going to the festival with
other people in my community does not, yes, I agree with you.
I feel like it' s okay. Going alone no more, it'
(23:56):
s like looking for your resources.What kind of party you' re gonna
see, what kind of guys youwant to go give her your location and
your phone. Friends, if there' s a problem or something, you
can contact them. But you alsohave to know that, although all this
can be organized by the government,there are many places where they might hear
that maybe the gay march is notsomething celebrated. So maybe that' s
(24:18):
still a protest. Then we mustalso realize that there are places where the
march of pride did not make acceptablethere is a possibility of violence and that
means that it could be from thepublic or sometimes also from the police media.
So you have to know that it' s important to know your rights
if you get to be in aprotest or a wright here in the United
(24:41):
States and have evacuation plans or also, for example, right now it'
s as common as gunmen. Ifthere' s like a damage that someone
has a gun or whatever, sometimesit might be like an altercation between one
person and another. But that's also important to know what, where
I have to go, where Ican hide, that is, who can
(25:03):
pick me up, because in amoment it gives two. If you don
' t know what to do,you can lose, you can fall and
that is, it can happen ina moment things change clearly, then you
always have to be very safe,as with drugs, also be sure to
know your spaces, know your exits, know where you can go and who
(25:23):
you can contact. Absolutely. Ithink it' s super important to have
this now that we' re inthe prih that people listen to us from
all over the world. I thinkthese podcasts with Profe Betti are very interesting
because that way we can support thewhole community. And Beatifress comments well my
(25:45):
boys. Yeah, I loved ithere. If you want to like having
more of these sections in which youcan send us as stories, yes,
to give that to the public.You can send us stories of any topic
that you may have a little moreas questions to Monte best you don'
t want to comment with your family, with your friends. Then you send
(26:06):
it to us and eventually. Yousend them the pop. Yeah, we
' re like an open book andopen legs. I say forgiveness. Joaquin
speaks on his own as usual.Thanks to bet Yes, John No,
yes, yes, Mira Betti,it' s all right, well,
thank you for being with us andwe' re still in good- bye.
(26:26):
We now have a new popular guestfrom the San Francisco Bay area,
specifically the gay aria Castro. Welcome, DJ, how are you? All
right, thanks for inviting me over. Oh, yes, tell us,
what do you do, where andwhy. The world' s gay community
(26:47):
has to come to San Francisco Gate. Well, I saguije' s been
he for, like, 15 years. I started in Monterrey, in Salinas,
Yes, about ten years ago Istopped filming or clan to San Leandro
and then did as secst ale.I live in Oklen. All right,
(27:07):
all right, and all this timeyou' ve been playing DJ, which
is like the craziest, the craziest, and things that always happen in clubs.
I' m super curious because Imean, you' re sober doing
your DJ. People are well drunk, well farted which is the worst thing
you' ve ever seen you sayoh my gout or m I think it
(27:30):
has to be when people take toomuch and you have to go hand in
hand. Oh my god, that' s what happens and you call the
ambulance or the club manager, hedoesn' t just look at it I
chat and I' m wandering andyou have to pay for the music.
No, it' s not,but suddenly people get scared, because of
course, of course you want towake him up and don' t react
(27:53):
to UFFF. Yeah, that's scary about Wicke' s breed map,
but since it' s clear asit is, he calls it abulance,
and he calls it, you stayon Borshet' s side, and
we don' t talk about somethingfun better. Ok right now, what
do you think is best for youto be dj in gas clubs because I
(28:17):
don' t know if it's also dj in straight clubs Strats no.
Most of the time I' veplayed at Clubscase OK. What do
you like the most? I thinkit has to be the environment is like
more open to music, to differentgenres. You can play seventy, eighty
to sales app hep pop of whateveryou want and people the pol no superg
(28:42):
this. What do you like mostabout San Francisco night, in the San
Francisco dens? I like it I' m almost with what homens. He
likes to stay home and now,but I like it to start early and
(29:03):
finish early, clear from the restrictionsfor those who don' t know and
live in California. Today, inSan Francisco, in particular, well,
in California it' s the samebecause it' s the same law.
Clubs close at 2 (29:12):
00 in the morning. I know that, for
example, I think Madrid closed ataround 6: 00 and then you go
to the after there quote in thosethat made at 4: 00, but
in what dew. Yes, inMexico they will also be late not in
Puerto Vallarta de Cara closed bathroom.I don' t remember. You don
' t remember they didn' tclose, sane they didn' t close.
(29:33):
Yeah. It makes me yes,yes, yes. So what you
like most is that you can startearly and here you go for dinner at
seven and at eight and a halfnine. You' re already partying and
what to give yourself, what timepeople are leaving You, what' s
the local time in the clubs ofSan Francisco, gual is the time when
people are waiting in the best musiclike 11: 30 my idea of eleven
and I give until they close alreadybecause they already have two or three hours
(29:56):
drinking and already walks more two andyou touch them. Shakira ou. Che
the hynosm he knows me. Yes, Chakira, Shakira. Whatever Shakira is
here for me. I' ma fan number orne. I' m
always gonna dance it. So that' s why I liked it when you
' re dj Hey, and I' ve done d James in gay clubs
(30:18):
and straight clubs. What' sthe hetero difference. He didn' t,
you didn' t hey I thoughtyou said yes, sorry, I
was wrong about two like two ahok Burri weddings. Yeah, well,
they did strit because it closes differently. No and what is it that people
like to hear when they go toa club, what kind of music I
(30:41):
think more like more pop pop,like you go to a Mojon. I
imagine, and that' s whatI' ve been told, that the
music in barreteros with more radio musicrao than the one heard on any radio.
If you base an o, themusic is renx already I actually have
(31:04):
a remax of the song that ismore pre- now, like the example
the Badband and GHT. You wonder. The original is good, but remes
is extra ah and that usually listensto us in bars. Well, don
' t tell this to the wholepeople who then come to the gas bare.
That hits me. I don't understand. Well, I do
(31:26):
understand true, because in the endyou' re DJ and people come to
gay bars because of the atmosphere,because music is better. True, of
course he hears and talking about thegay community for them coming to San Francisco,
what kind of gay, Latino,or anthro events that have events like
(31:48):
that for Latinos, which are thatI know, there' s an Onockland
in what rich, ah ok,how rich. I think it' s
Friday. Well Saturday and now there' s also Friday in dumb, not
that they' re Latino or something. I think they' re starting the
st Socket Top Circuit, Daddy,which is different on a Wednesday, which
is like once a month. Ibelieve in that. Yeah, I saw,
(32:12):
I saw. We have to go, so look Joaquin wants to go
weird. Yes, güey too ifyou don' t, because it does
invite us and there are others.I know there' s sweet bread in
bow Edwards. Wednesday we also havethe evening tub with Betides my Nison on
Thursdays. Yeah, yeah, we' re starting a Latin night at Brlance
(32:37):
Ok on Tuesdays. Then there isalready a day for Latino, for every
day of the week and in coffeethere is not a day for Latino,
or it is every day, everyday on Thursday. Oh, Thursdays,
yeah,' cause Tuesday is,like, bad. Uh, Tuesday at
the cafe, not Tuesday at Batlance,' cause you see it' s
half. But they' re starting. No, I' m not saying
(32:59):
that it' s bad what theydo, but that we have to work
on Wednesday. Güey. Oh,yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
yeah, well, you start early. Yeah, yeah, oh, well,
I' m sick there. Alwayswith the plastifi actuaria with the good
ideas. Joaquin, you also hada story not of a friend dja.
(33:20):
Oh, it makes me a friendof Ja' s who told you on
Valentine' s Day. No,yeah, it says to me I had
a party last Valentine' s Day, where a girl thought it was a
good idea. Do not wear underwearunder your dress. No. She danced
harder than anyone that night and,of course, oh no. His champagne
(33:45):
flew out on the dance floor.That happened not good to him, no,
but you haven' t seen anythinglike it. Crazy, no,
no, no, don' tlet them know that I know what'
s crazy about him. Well,you guys, too, when you'
re DJs, you' re superstuck on your computers. Then it'
s like it' s harder tosee what' s going on outside.
(34:06):
But let' s see if Iask you right now, what would be
the most popular song today at 11 (34:08):
30 in Batlance, what would be
the song you' d play wheneveryone wants, just like dancing to me
it' s my turn to playan exact cha. I like playing a
lot of 80' s music.Yeah, yeah, you' re a
little bit different,' cause it' s more single music. Yeah,
yeah, people are gonna sing.Yeah, or I' ve got the
(34:30):
mother. Yeah, and it getsreally hot in there. Yes, we
can dance, but no more inyour Espazington Yes, yes, believe me
that when we left we had totake off our shirt, but we passed
on to every mother. Yeah,but what would be that perfect song for
the 11th and 30th of the night, when it' s time to watch
(34:52):
the bar. I like to playDn' s to a ok who'
s the artist who asks for moresy wow k I floor a pop or
that sounds good Strait, I sayLatinos, also no, but it sounds
homophobic bing Strigt. You don't lie to him the BMC, the
(35:14):
reminke is good. That? That? That? That? That? Okay,
and I think there' s afew questions. I have questions.
I' m here as a metiche. For those who listen to us,
don' t call, no,no, no, no, stay?
Okay? For those I saw tovisit San Francisco and to go to the
Castro and go to Bow to seeyou, to go to Beatlands to see
(35:35):
you or to me in isand thisis single. Sometimes you know ok ok
there we leave it to us isthat ah ok ok ok. As a
DJ you have a lot of league. After your ging no one came and
said what' s up with you. I like d light cha people of
box people, but you jai jeyou know what I have a date with
(36:00):
my bed, just ah with thethree dogs, but because two thousand names,
two to my number a month thatno, ah what ok and how
you like tall bearded muscle, bears, bears, already know if they come
(36:21):
to San Francisco and want to seeDJ Lu and if you are better bear
here, you know where to findhim. That' s where we leave
them all their social networks and everythingso they can find it. Thank you
so much for being with us.Djlu loved having you, especially because you
can also advertise the places you arein. There. We will also leave
them on social networks and platforms sothat they can follow it. Hey.
(36:43):
I didn' t ask you veryquickly. You have sound Cloud, you
have somewhere where people can hear yourmixes. I have Soundcloud, but they
make blues. OK and yes,ok I think ok ok. I don
' t record the session, soyou have to go to the bar directly.
There it is in my instagram.I' ve got all half the
schedule of the month. Oh,he' s already there. We leave
you on Instagram and people can followyou in the bar much better and there
(37:07):
they can find us surely because therewe go hear on Thursdays my nisont touches
you or not. Yeah, well, there we are because we always go,
we' re always going to seeBetty. I always see you up
there. They are. Thank youvery much, DJ. Lue well,
folks, we' re at theend of today' s show. Of
course, you already know that youhave to go between gage Net because we
(37:29):
have all the currents of the LGBTQ Plus world and all the episodes can
also find them there and we canfollow Spotify. We also have YouTube and
also Instagram, among bars, hackGas. There we are of course,
always making stories and telling them everythingthat is happening very important. Now they
' re going to have a sectionwhere they can support us. On the
website it' s called supporters andthere you have in case you want to
(37:51):
strap or we also have sponsorship thatJoaquin takes care of handling that. I
have no idea anymore, but he' s doing it and he' s
doing it super well. So ifyou guys want to give us a coffee
or some podcasts after the recording,everything' s fine. I love podcasting.
Joaquin, you' re vodka orvodka tequila, because Tequila takes off
my clothes. That' s howuff takes off on his own. Well,
(38:15):
you know. If they want tobuy us a drink, they can
do it there and if we arenear their city, they can also write
to us. We' ll seeyou there, thank you and see you
in the next episode.
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