88 | Talking About Death with our Intellectually Disabled Kids

88 | Talking About Death with our Intellectually Disabled Kids

When my daughter with Down syndrome lost a sweet friend at the young age of 12, I found myself facing the daunting task of explaining death in a way she could understand. This journey led me to discover not only the challenges but the deep importance of having these conversations with children, especially those with intellectual disabilities.

Through this episode, I share heartfelt stories and practical insights from these experiences, offering guidance on approaching such sensitive topics with gentleness and clarity. Our societal reluctance to address death often leaves us unprepared, but through personal anecdotes, I believe we need to normalize these discussions to foster better communication and coping mechanisms.

This episode is packed with thoughtful strategies to support children as they navigate grief like the importance of validating emotions and maintaining stability through routines to coming up with creative ways to honor and remember loved ones, from memory boxes to acts of kindness. Don't forget to give grace for both yourself and your child throughout this healing journey.

Books I might recommend to help explain death:What Happens When a Loved One Dies by Jillian Roberts and

I Have a Question About Death by Arlen Grad Gaines and Meredith Polsky

Death, Children, Intellectual Disabilities, Grief, Coping, Sensitivity, Communication, Normalizing, Strategies, Encouragement, Loss, Personal Experiences, Parenting, Funerals, Memory Boxes, Acts of Kindness, Grace, Healing Journey, Resources-------

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