Evan Swings

I have some brief updates from previous episodes and then I dive in to what money can't buy in the lifestyle. Spoiler alert: it's confidence.

My fourth episode in a seemingly endless series! Eva and I are kind of shy when it comes to in-person meetings. While some prefer going to clubs and events to meet new couples, we prefer to stick to lifestyle sites and apps to initiate conversations with potential matches. That unfortunately leads to a great deal of unexpected (or maybe I should say expected) interesting and infuriating interactions!

Discretion seems to be a very important part of a couple's involvement in the lifestyle. Most couples say their vanilla friends and family are unaware (based on my experience of course). But what happens what happens when a family member discovers the secret...and tells others? In this episode I'll talk about a wild situation involving our son and how we handled it.

There are some lifestyle topics that some people (not all) find uncomfortable to talk about. I feel it is important to address topics like these. It helps to "tear down the walls" and erase negative stigmas. That's what this episode is all about. In this episode I tackle some topics that some would shy away from. Included are:

1. Erectile Disfunction

2. STI's/STD's

3. Buttholes

4. Penis size

What happens when Eva and I meet a sexy couple who don't speak our language? Find out in this episode. I'll tell the story of how we met a couple from "Colombia" at a club and how, although language was a barrier, we eventually met them for a very fun play date. Some other updates as well.

There are several factors that can cause what I call "selective ED." In this episode I discuss those factors and how my brain is often my worst enemy when it comes to play dates.

If you did not listen to Episode 50, please do so before listening to this episode. It is part 2 of my story of Ivy and our hotel adventure...as well as Eva's adventure at the same hotel that very night. Eva joins me in the second part of this episode to tell you all about it! Apologies if Eva's voice is low at times. We don't record together often and haven't quite figured out the perfect mic position yet.

In this episode I'll talk about something of which I just learned the meaning: wife poaching. I did not learn from experience, thankfully! So even though Eva and I have not been victims of wife poaching, I wanted to discuss it and give my take on it. I also share a couple of short annoying stories regarding couples with whom I have interacted online.

*Back after an extra week hiatus due to a family vacation.

In this episode I discuss taking chances and trying something new in the lifestyle. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it does not.

Kind of a bummer (sometimes a HUGE bummer) when you think things are going well with another couple and then they unexpectedly end things. In this episode I talk about a recent experience with this.

There's nothing really more to write. This is all about the worst kissers ever. Eva and I feel that kissing is an important part of play. So if you suck at it, it ruins the whole play date. We had the unfortunate experience of playing with the worst kissers...maybe on the entire planet.

Eva and I are shy when it comes to meeting people in person. We find it difficult to walk up to new people and introduce ourselves. Therefore, when we go to clubs, we like to attend with other couples...so we're sure to have others to talk to! But in this episode, find out what happens when we step out of our comfort zone and attend...just the two of us.

Episode 42: Eva and I love the Friends With Benefits dynamic of the lifestyle. But sometimes, that leads to unexpected feelings.