In this powerful episode of Everybody Can’t Go Convos, Jessi Holley tackles a hard truth: Venting isn’t a solution — and growth requires more than just talking about your problems.
Jessi breaks down her transformative framework:
💡 The ABCs of Problem-Solving
A – Awareness
B – Accountability
C – Corrections
If you’re tired of repeating the same cycles, struggling with procrastination, or feeling stuck in your communication patterns — this episode offers the mindset shifts and strategies you need to move forward.
🔑 Key Takeaways:
- Awareness is the first step to identifying real issues and patterns.
- Venting without solutions can keep you in emotional loops.
- Accountability means aligning your actions with your words and values.
- Discipline is the fuel behind sustainable change.
- Effective communication is critical for resolving conflict and building trust.
- Procrastination and perfectionism are distractions dressed as preparation.
- Wise counsel is better than emotional dumping.
- Complaining without correcting creates emotional clutter.
- Everyone can't go with you — protect your progress.
- Self-improvement requires intentional, consistent action.
🎧 Listen if you’re ready to:
- Get out of your own way
- Replace excuses with action
- Heal through honesty and structure
- Improve how you handle conflict
- Take responsibility for your growth journey
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💬 Drop a comment or message: Which part of the ABCs do you struggle with the most — Awareness, Accountability, or Corrections?
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