Everything & Anything...and a bit gay Podcast

Everything & Anything...and a bit gay Podcast

Join your host, Zach Randles-Friedman, for engaging conversations that delves into a myriad of topics, offering heartfelt stories from the LGBTQ+ community and beyond. Tune in for an inclusive blend of personal anecdotes, thought-provoking insights, and empowering narratives that embrace the richness of diversity and allyship with many laughs. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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January 18, 2025 20 mins

We are just two days away from Donald Trump’s inauguration as the next President of the United States. During his election campaign, Trump reportedly spent over $85 million on anti-transgender advertisements. In this episode, I sit down with my new friend Natalie, a transgender woman living in New York City, to discuss her feelings and experiences as the country shifts from embracing the LGBTQ+ community to moving in a more uncerta...

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In this episode, I’m sharing all about the unforgettable New Year’s celebration my husband and I had in breathtaking Iceland! 🇮🇸 From stunning landscapes to vibrant traditions, it was truly magical. I also cover how this country is very LGBTQ+ friendly, so check it out and get inspired for your next adventure. Tour company we used for a day trip and three hour food tour: https://wakeupreykjavik.com/. Gray Cat cafe: https://www.gr...

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Tracy Stella joins us for the first episode of Season 6, where we delve into her incredible gift as a medium and how she discovered this extraordinary talent. Two years ago, I came across Tracy on TikTok and decided to book a session with her. During our reading, she connected with my dad, who passed away 16 years ago. The message she relayed was deeply personal—something only he would have known. I feel truly fortunate to have met...

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In my last episode of 2024 and of season 5, I talk about New Years Resolutions and what I have accomplished and failed at in past year and what I will achieve in 2025.


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December 21, 2024 29 mins

After recently recording an episode about a person who has disappeared, I realized during the interview, I have someone in my life that vanished. I give details about my friend Gary Brent Carlile who I have know for over 30 years. A few years ago, his phone number no longer worked and I have not heard from him since. I walk through the history of our friendship and strange events that took place over the decades. My hope is that so...

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In this episode, Carl King and I delve into the mysterious case of Paul Batson, a man Carl worked with at a post office outside of Chicago. Paul took a trip one day—and simply never came back. His truck and phone were discovered in Montana, but he vanished without a trace, and he remains missing to this day. Did Paul decide to escape the world and disappear into the Montana wilderness, or is foul play involved, and was his disappea...

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Michelle Arbeau, the world’s top numerologist and psychic, joins my show this week to share her profound near-death experiences. In this episode, recorded before voting began, she also shares her prediction that Donald Trump will win the election.


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Ann Russo and I explore the complex relationship between religion and the LGBTQ+ community. Raised in a queer household, Ann began her spiritual journey at 18, experimenting with different faiths. Along the way, she's had encounters with the infamous Westboro Baptist Church. Her personal evolution—navigating both her identity and spirituality—is both compelling and thought-provoking. Learn more about Ann at https://www.annrusso.org...

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Heather joins my podcast to share her powerful story of surviving and escaping a cult, revealing the unimaginable hardships she endured. With unflinching honesty, she opens up about the mental, physical, and sexual abuse she suffered from childhood through early adulthood—experiences few could endure, even briefly. Join us as Heather takes us through her courageous journey to freedom, recounting how she reclaimed her life, found re...

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I’m beyond excited to welcome back Shelley Novak, a.k.a. Tommy Strangie, to the podcast! In our first conversation, there were so many stories left untold, and this time, Tommy delivers with some incredible tales from his nights out in South Beach—complete with plenty of Hollywood name drops. I absolutely love Tommy and his infectious, upbeat energy!


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November 9, 2024 52 mins

This week, I sit down with Dan, the Happiness Coach, to explore his incredible near-death experience, his views on life and death, and the insights he's gained through his relationships. Dan’s unique outlook on life is both fascinating and inspiring. Don’t miss out on his positive energy—follow him on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/shotsofhennessey and check out his videos on TikTok at https://www.tiktok.com/@danthehappines...

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This week, I’m joined by Jay Claypool and his fabulous alter ego, Dixie Crystal. We dive into Jay’s fascinating journey of joining the military after 9/11 and building an impressive 20+ year career in the U.S. Air Force. Jay also shares insights from his captivating book, *Gay AF: The Military Career of a Georgia Drag Queen*, which you can find at your favorite online bookstore. Here’s the Amazon link https://a.co/d/jfyh0le to grab...

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October 26, 2024 34 mins
This week, I’m joined by Tracy, the renowned sleep coach, to dive into why so many of us struggle with sleep—whether it’s falling asleep, staying asleep, or both. In season one, I shared my own journey of battling sleep issues, and now Tracy offers her expert advice and some practical tips that could make all the difference. Tracy works with clients worldwide, so if you're dealing with sleep troubles, visit https://www.tracytheslee...

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Season five kicks off with an incredible guest, Claire Dore, a dynamic relationship, dating, and sex coach. In this episode, we dive into how she ended her 21-year marriage and embarked on a journey of self-discovery and transformation. Her infectious energy and inspiring story are sure to captivate and uplift you! Learn more about Claire at https://www.clairedore.com/ and follow her on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/thewil...

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The Season 4 finale wraps up with an extraordinary guest who began her entertainment career at just 5 years old and continues to thrive and evolve. This week, I’m joined by the talented Keldamuzik as we explore her impressive accomplishments and her vision for the future. Learn more about her at https://keldamuzik.com/. Follow Diva on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/keldamuzik/

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This week, Dr. Will Elder joins the show to dive deep into the challenges of PTSD within the LGBTQ+ community. We explore the unique struggles faced by non-conforming and transgender individuals, highlighting how mental health issues have intensified. Dr. Elder's passion for advocating mental health in our community shines through, making him an insightful and engaging guest. Learn more about him at his website: www.sugarvalleyther...

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Mark Pettit, a three-time Emmy Award-winning journalist, actor, CEO, and bestselling author, joins me on the show to discuss his book *ANKRBOY*. We delve into this fictionalized memoir of a TV news anchor, exploring the fascinating life that inspired it. Mark's journey is captivating, and with his acting career on the rise, I truly believe Ryan Murphy should consider turning *ANKRBOY* into a mini-series. To get your own signed copy...

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Robert Kestan, Executive Director of The Stonewall National Museum, Archives & Library in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida, joins my show to discuss the museum's success and his impactful work supporting the LGBTQ+ community both locally and internationally, including in Ukraine. Visit https://stonewall-museum.org/ to learn more about the large collection of history and events at the museum.


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Meet Reese, a two-spirit, pansexual individual who joined my show to help educate the community on what it means to be transgender. We discuss respectful questions and the proper ways to treat transgender people. As Reese said in the interview, "We all bleed red." I loved Reese's story when her classmates in high school were being bullies and they quickly found out that Reese knew martial arts. Follow Reese on Instagram @traum...

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September 11, 2024 20 mins

In this special episode, I share my personal story from September 11th. At the time, I was living in New York City, working in the World Financial Center, and witnessed firsthand a moment in history I wish I could forget. Let's ensure we never forget.



This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/everythingand and get on your way to being your best self.



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