Everything & Anything...and a bit gay Podcast

My guest today is Alan Katz, a straight ally who made history by officiating some of the first same-sex marriages and domestic partnerships in Los Angeles and across California. Alan shares powerful stories about officiating weddings before and after Proposition 8, navigating pushback from the wedding industry, and even training other officiants on how to honor LGBTQ+ couples with respect and equality. We also dive into his persona...

In this candid conversation, guest Bill Hulseman—a ritual designer, former educator, and author of Six to Carry the Casket and One to Say the Mass—unpacks how thoughtfully designed ceremonies can reflect a couple’s identities, values, and love story without relying on the “dusty playbook.” Drawing on graduate study in ritual and years of practice, Bill explains how to audit traditions (e.g., “giving away,” entrances/exits, ceremony...

Author and intuitive storyteller Kelly O’Hern joins Everything and Anything… and a Bit Gay to share how a health crisis, divorce, and a deck of tarot cards led her to channel an entire novel series—Arcanum. We dive into the craft and mysticism of using the Major Arcana to map past lives—from ancient Egypt to Renaissance Europe—why she fictionalized those visions into an accessible heroine, and how faith can evolve beyond organized ...

We’ve officially hit triple digits! 🎉 For the 100th episode of Everything and Anything… and a Bit Gay, I’m joined by a very special guest—my husband, Andrew. Together, we look back on the journey that brought us here: from the early days of launching the show to unforgettable interviews, hilarious behind-the-scenes moments, and the incredible community that’s grown along the way.

In this heartfelt recap, Andrew and I share our favo...

In this episode, Zach sits down with Canadian coach Zac Russell to discuss how living in the present moment can significantly transform our lives. Russell explores why many individuals remain trapped in their past stories or anxieties about the future, and shares how simple mindfulness and awareness can help break these cycles. He also addresses issues like sleepless nights, depression, and anxiety, explaining how a shift from fear...

Join Zach as Real Housewives of Dallas icon LeeAnne Locken opens up in a candid and high-energy episode of Everything & Anything… and a Bit Gay. In this exclusive interview, LeeAnne discusses the impact of being a reality TV star, sharing her insights on the infamous ‘villain edit’ and the importance of authenticity in storytelling. LeeAnne also reveals her philanthropic work within Dallas’ LGBTQ+ community and how embracing her su...

In this powerful conversation, Bill Robertson shares his journey of courage and community from the heart of LGBTQ+ history during the AIDS crisis in 1984. His story is a master class in love and activism as he remembers Boston’s early Pride movement, the bar closures, ACT UP’s organizing, and the painful losses that defined a generation. Bill opens up about his deeply personal experiences: caring for a partner with AIDS, facing sti...

In this episode of *Everything and Anything… and a Bit Gay*, join host Zach Randles-Friedman as he welcomes Stacey Gonder, a professional dancer turned fashion designer and creative coach, whose journey is as bold and vibrant as her custom creations. Stacey shares her remarkable transition from growing up on a farm to becoming a celebrated costume designer for drag artists and musicians, showcasing her unique contributions to the f...

In this episode of Everything and Anything… and a Bit Gay, Zach Randles-Friedman sits down with CJ Shaman—a singer, songwriter, and self-described rock outlaw whose unique sound blends the spirit of country roots with the energy of raw rock & roll. Discover how growing up on a ranch in Arizona surrounded by classic country music, along with influences from legends like The Doors, Sublime, Johnny Cash, and Elvis, shaped CJ's artisti...

In this episode of Everything and Anything… and a Bit Gay, Zach Randles-Friedman sits down with Shannon, a survivor who transformed her life of trauma into resilience and healing. Shannon bravely opens up about her childhood struggles, her experience as a cult survivor, and the long path to reclaiming her power. Through raw honesty and strength, she shares how she transformed pain into purpose, offering inspiration for anyone navig...

In this episode of Everything and Anything… and a Bit Gay, we delve into the themes of love and resilience with Zach Randles-Friedman as he speaks to Patricia Grayhall, MD, an award-winning author and physician. Patricia shares her powerful journey, including the real-life struggles of battling immigration laws that kept her and her partner apart and her experiences as a queer woman in the medical field. This compelling conversatio...

In this episode of *Everything and Anything… and a Bit Gay*, join host Zach Randles-Friedman for an enlightening conversation with renowned medium and spiritual teacher Maryam Faresh. With over 25 years of experience, she specializes in mediumship, helping individuals connect with spirit guides and ETs, uncover medical mysteries, and even reunite with lost pets. Maryam shares her transformative five steps to consciousness and explo...

Join Zach Randles-Friedman as he talks with Amie, a courageous mother, podcaster, and Stage 4 cancer survivor. In this episode, Amie shares her incredible journey from small-town Kansas to Los Angeles, where she embraces homeschooling to protect her children's creativity. After facing years of bullying, Amie learned to never dim her light, even after receiving her cancer diagnosis.

Discover how her experience of living fully 'betwee...

In this chilling episode, join Zach Randles-Friedman as he speaks with author and storyteller Scott Wells, uncovering haunting tales that blend true crime and paranormal realms. Discover Scott’s terrifying personal experience with a Ouija board, an encounter filled with eerie predictions, a mysterious house fire, and a tragic death occurring on the very anniversary foretold by the board.

But the intrigue doesn’t end there. Scott rec...

Join Zach Randles-Friedman for an inspiring episode focusing on skincare, featuring holistic health coach Chris Gibson. With 37 years of experience, Chris shares valuable insights and expert tips on how to rediscover your best skin at every age. From his incredible journey in holistic health to his personal experiences, listeners will learn what it takes to maintain a youthful glow. Plus, hear about his life as a proud dog dad! Thi...

In this episode of Everything & Anything...and a bit gay Podcast, Zach sits down with Natalie Huber Rodriguez—an educator, researcher, and proud member of the Taíno community—to discuss her incredible journey to Caridad de los Indios, Cuba. This episode dives deep into her story of survival and reclamation and what it truly means to claim Indigenous identity in a world still trying to erase it. Natalie recounts her experience of me...

Join us for an exciting episode featuring Medium and pet psychic Rob Gutro as he shares chilling stories from his latest ghost investigation at the Emory Estate. Joined by paranormal drag queen Monique TooSoon, they recount encounters with stern spirits in gray suits and mysterious haunted antiques. Rob and Zach also delve into personal stories of spirit signs, especially those from Zach’s late father. This episode promises to be s...

Lonay grew up in Syria, a country where being openly queer could cost you everything. At just 17, he made the life-altering decision to leave his home in search of safety, authenticity, and a place where he could truly be himself. His path took him through several countries before finally landing in Germany, where he founded Radiant Hearts Transformation—a coaching practice dedicated to helping others break free from toxic patterns...

Dr. Marissa Pei—The Asian Oprah—returns to Everything and Anything...and a Bit Gay for a joy-filled conversation with host Zach Randles-Friedman. They dive into her bestselling book 8 Ways to Happiness, her global Happy88 mission, and the power of positivity—even in the face of grief, divorce, and life’s toughest challenges.

Hear how Dr. Marissa built a 13-year talk show empire, launched a 21-Day Complaining Fast, and became a fierc...