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April 29, 2025 • 58 mins

In this raw and emotional episode, Abby takes us deeper into her harrowing journey. What started as one magical night with a charming stranger soon unraveled the web of control, cult-like oppression, and emotional abuse that defined her marriage to Bobby. From secret phone calls and a fleeting romance to financial manipulation and being spiritually silenced, Abby reveals the impossible decisions she had to make to reclaim her power.

🔊 What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

  • The night Abby met someone who made her feel seen again — for the first time in ten years.

  • The moment Abby realized her husband had drained their joint bank account — leaving her with just 49 cents.

  • Physical and emotional abuse that escalated until she was literally barricaded in her own closet.

  • Bobby’s twisted logic: lying “in the name of God” and using religion to excuse manipulation.

  • A disturbing psychiatric showdown after Bobby demanded mental health evaluations for them both.

  • Cult leaders, marriage “reconciliation,” and the breaking point that led to Abby filing for divorce.

💔 This is a story of unimaginable control and the courage it takes to leave—not just a man, but a deeply entrenched system designed to keep women silent.


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