All Episodes

October 5, 2020 51 mins
In the third episode of Book 3 of the Explain This Book To Me podcast, host Josh Lipstone continues his discussion with the author Brian Ahearn. They discuss the other tools that the Loyal Readers will need in their tool belt to get someone to say Yes to them. And you'll learn why you should always use your four-digit birth year and not your two-digit birth year. Key Quotes:  “Unlike the principles of influence, those that can be very situational contrasts are always, always available, because human beings are always making comparisons from one thing to another.” - Brian Ahearn “It is a natural tendency for us to look for things that confirm what we already hold dear, what we believe, and what we value. That is a much easier cognitive process than looking for all the reasons to disconfirm what we believe, or what we value.” - Brian Ahearn “People don't make decisions based solely on logic, right? Feelings come into play, and that feeling of what we consider to be fair, at least here in America is very traditionally a 50/50 type split.” - Brian Ahearn Resources Mentioned:  Brian Ahearn, CPCU, CTM, CPT, CMCT LinkedIn Influence People, LLC Joshua Lipstone LinkedIn Lipstone Insurance Group Book: Influence PEOPLE: Powerful Everyday Opportunities to Persuade that are Lasting and Ethical Advertisers: Agency VA ePayPolicy
Mark as Played

Advertise With Us

Popular Podcasts

Stuff You Should Know
Dateline NBC

Dateline NBC

Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Follow now to get the latest episodes of Dateline NBC completely free, or subscribe to Dateline Premium for ad-free listening and exclusive bonus content: DatelinePremium.com

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

Music, radio and podcasts, all free. Listen online or download the iHeart App.

Connect

© 2025 iHeartMedia, Inc.