March 30, 2025 • 51 mins
DAVID THE MEDIUM: PREDICTIONS for the rest of the year!
Welcome to the pod birthday boy David the Medium! Welcome back, I think aside from Matt, that David has been on the pod more than any other guest. You see we also record true crime pods in LA (we have another one planned for May) and you can listen to our most recent true crime podcast here: True Crime LA
David is a clairvoyant and psychic medium, he does take clients and you can book in here: https://www.davidthemedium.com/ as you'll hear in this ep he does a mini reading for me and i want to say for you the listener also.
You can follow David on socials here too: https://www.instagram.com/davidthemedium
David also makes predictions for the rest of the year; we're in a time of letting go of the old and welcoming in the new! You'll hear David talk about embracing a time of transformation.
Big big love,
Lola
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Get a.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
I'm Laala Berry, nutritionist, author, actor, TV presenter, and professional oversharer.
This podcast is all about celebrating failure because I believe
it's a chance for us to learn, grow and face
our blind spots. Each week I'll interview a different guest
about their highs as well as they're lows, all in
(00:26):
a bid to inspire us to feiously fail. Hello, Welcome
to the pod. Today we have returning guests David the Medium.
He's a psychic medium, a speaker and social commentator and
when we recorded this specific episode, he's been on the
pod I think four or five times now, but when
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we recorded this episode it was actually his birthday wa
A Tredea. So it's been an honor to continuously have
David on the pod. Here in this app he talks
about his predictions and themes for the rest of the year.
So how great this might help ive your you know,
when you just need a little bit of a guidance,
(01:10):
maybe that's what this etpol brings for you. And he
talks really nicely around themes. He does a little mini
reading on me, but in all honesty, it felt like
it was for yes, me, but also you the listener.
So I hope you love that bit that's towards the
second half of the chat. David, you are always such
a joy to interview on this pod. And I know
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you're going to be coming to beautiful Los Angeles soon
and we're going to do another true crime pod together
and I can not wait enjoy David's unreal. Hope you
love it, David, you flipp and magical?
Speaker 3 (01:44):
All right?
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Who are a big love by David the Medium the Bearer?
How many yets are we at now?
Speaker 3 (01:54):
I was wondering on the drive. I think it's more
than that. I think five or five.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
And today's extra special?
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Is it? Why? Because you're here exactly.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Because it's your birthday?
Speaker 3 (02:03):
You told you that everyone has one. It's nothing special.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
No, it's so special. It's so special.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
I am so excited to chat with you today because
we're kind of at that phase of the year where
you're kind of like, all right, the start of the
year felt kind of like clunky, I would say, especially
living in LA and thank goodness, you're such a lifeline
to me. You were like you like, cis this area
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is okay? You've got to pack your bags if you're
in this area.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
I got obsessed with the fire.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
But I know you have a love of natural disasters
also and L and LA, so it was like two
of your things just all put together. To the listener,
you are a medium and a psychic, and I want
to say you know you're your media talent as well,
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like your podcast, you go on TV, you talk about
you talk on a plethora of topics.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
I just got into corporate speaking as way.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
I saw you did it two days.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Yeah, look at little mainstream. That's what it's all about.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
This is what I think this year is for you.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Let's take a little moment to celebrate you. It's your birthday.
Birthdays are a really strange time because they kind of
force us to do this weird stock take.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
Literally, Oh my god. You could have said it better
because it sort of feels like I'm having a I
do it every year, but I go through like a
twenty four to thirty six hour mental breakdown from like
what's working in my life? What's not working? I need
to ruin and change everything not ruined, you know what
I mean? Like I need to upheaval. It's always a
big up people for everyone, not many people. And I
read a thing about this so many people like their birthdays.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
It's super common people not like their birth.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
I don't like my birthday, but it's always like, oh okay,
where am I in life?
Speaker 2 (03:50):
I always do around birthday time. I'll always enjoy the day,
but I'll always have like a mini breakdown on either
right before or right after it.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
And it's it's like.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
I thought I would to we have done this by
this age, Like I've did this weird expectation thing of myself.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
Isn't it. We put so much pressure on ourselves. I
feel like we have to be somewhere, have to be
doing something that if we don't reach it, we feel
like we've failed. But we only feel like that on
our birthdates.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
It's funny, but as somebody that is so connected to
like your intuition, your spiritual wellness, your emotional wellness, and
your mental health as well, what is a really good
practice like when it comes to birthdays and just kind
of like self care and looking after yourself, Like I
feel like, you know, well, I'm.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
Now I haven't been mental breakdow because I feel like
I don't know no. It's it's it's such an important
for all of us at any stage of our life
or any part of you to just do self reflection
and it's yea the remembrance. And the biggest lesson that
I've learned is that there's no real point planning life
down towards heap because nothing will ever work out how
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it's meant to. Like, even as a psychic medium, I
don't necessarily know what I'm doing next week. My intuition,
if I don't listen to it, can send me down
the garden path on certain things. So when it comes
to me to my birthday, like I've got that typical
thing where I don't want to get older, but like
with age comes maturity and wisdom. But you know we
had that young lola, you know, you and I bucked
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the trend there, didn't we But it's it's just a
good time for a reflection, and for me, I think
just be easy on ourselves, like, yeah, don't like everything's
happening how it's meant to the universe is too complicated
and too complex for anything to be a coincidence. And
for anyone that feels like you're on the wrong path,
you're not. It's that simple because if you were meant
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to be on a different path, you would be on
a different path, So be easy on yourself. Everything's turning
out how it's meant to you. The universe happens for you,
not to you.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
You're that's like your thing, isn't it.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
I love that and I think it gives you a
positive perspective too, as opposed to like why isn't this happening?
Or I want this to happen in a certain way,
or like holding on. I'm someone that holds on too tight.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Yeah, so do I. Though we're on the humans, this
is it. We're only human like ireckards with your spiritual
understanding or your intelligent understanding about any topic on the planet.
At the end of the day, we're all human.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
I always feel like you've you're you're a step ahead though.
I always feel every time I see you, I always
feel like, no matter what's going on in your life,
you're very clear. I would call you energetically clear. I
guess you've got to be for your line of work.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
It helps.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
So for people that haven't listened to the past mazillion
episodes I've done on not just feels failing. You've been
on every wonderful podcast under the sun. You're you're the
pod King. I had a meeting with a publicist the
other day and I was like, how good's David. I
was like, I feel like he's on sorry pods. In fact,
I've stopped preparing you for your episodes the traditional way
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that I prepare for guests, which is like I do
a deep dive and I really like listen to the
latest pod. They've done all that for you because I
trust and we have a friendship, so I guess it
comes from a space of like lived experience together. I
literally trust that whatever is meant to come out of
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this conversation is just going to flow out of this conversation.
And that's kind of like how I come to record
with you nowadays.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
That's good.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
I like that we just bounce back and forth, I know,
except for when we do our true crime episodes.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Then there's a lot of prep that goes into that.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
Gosh, guys, if you haven't listened to the True Crime episodes,
definitely do yourself a favor.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
We're going to do another one, aren't we.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
I really hope so, because they're my favorite podcasts I've
ever done.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
So good.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
Lola does the most incredible research and takes me to
these places around Los Angeles where true crime has happened,
hence the title true Crime Podcast. But my gosh, we
have so much fun. We have so much my favorite
things to do when I'm in LA exactly.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
And we kind of do this like tour because I
get us in the car, we rock around with the
mics and so, yeah, it's happening again when you come
to LA, we are doing another true crime. So I
can't have you on this pod and without and I
think because of like like I was saying, it starts,
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it's this strange time of the year. We're recording this
in March. It's like it's still the start of the year.
But it's early enough in the year that if you
wanted to like really make a dint in the year,
you can, Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
And so I do want to talk to you about,
like how you feel.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
This year is going to roll up the predictions of
sorts of like what we can kind of like lean
into and be ready for because everyone, all the astrologers
are talking about we're in a clipse seat. There's so
many eclipses. We're going to expect all these things to
go on this year. And some people are saying it's
going to be the best year, and some of them
saying it's not going to be the best year. So
I look, I'm going straight to this source. I want
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to know what David the medium thinks.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
Well, let's put it this way. It comes down to
your own reality and how you interpret what happens in
the world. So you know, quote Charles Dickens, it was
the best of times, it was the worst of times.
Like it's neither. Really, it's how everyone interprets it. For
me personally, I'm so excited for twenty twenty five minutes,
the first year that I've had a positive feeling about
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really probably since twenty nineteen. And then you know, long
behold twenty twenty, twenty twenty one, not great, got be better?
You know, those things that we're having now. Honestly, let's
not bring up what happened in those years, but we
all know. So when it comes to twenty twenty five,
it's interesting that you mention the eclipses because we're in
eclipse season right now, and it's a really big upheaval
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kind of energy and you should never manifest and an
eclipse you should always just let go of and cleanse.
That's what I've been doing. Yeah, but it's it's fascinating
because the energies that are sort of circling around the
world right now, because I want everyone to imagine like
a calm lake and then you throw a stone on
it and the ripple energy that hangs out, like I
kind of feel that always go around the world. Yeah,
And it's really like it's going to be a year, right,
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take a year.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
Like I saw you posted on Insta like two days ago.
You're like you talked about this eclipse energy and like
how you talked about how you've been letting gold of
stuff over, like you were like this week and coming
into that, we had that like it was like full
moon virgo, blood moon, lunar eclipse thing on. I think
it was last Friday, and you're like, I've just been
letting go and letting go and you said the amazing
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like it was making such space for you. Yeah, and
then when you make the space, good shit comes in. Right.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
Well, that's it. Like we set our intention with the universe,
you know what I mean, Like I always say, the
universe doesn't know us, the thing, it only matches the
intention that we put out there. So if you're making
space and you're clearing things that are no longer working
for you, whether that's people, friendships, relationships, work, you know, mental,
whatever it may be. If it's not serving you, let
it go and allow space for new things to flourish
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and enter and also match the intention that you're putting
out there. So it's always very impersonal and important to
pay attention to how are we presenting ourselves to the world,
what are we saying verbally, but also what do we
say and energetically what's the intention that we're putting out there? Oh?
I love that attention to your daily habits. If you're pregnant,
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a lower frequency, and it's okay because we're all human people.
Do you have a bad day, that's fine, Yeah, But
you know what energy and frequency are you putting out?
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (11:08):
Are you attracting shit back to you or are you
attracting good things?
Speaker 2 (11:12):
It's so funny. I've got this friend in America that
you would love, by the way. She's an actress and
her name is Chanelle, And whenever she comes over to
our house, I always say to Matt, I want energy
like Chanelle's. I want to be a Chanelle because she's
so positive.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
Within all of us as a chanell r.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
Yeah, but I'll literally say it. And I met another
friend in Sydney recently and I and Duncan, you're beautiful.
He's also bet on this pod they both have. And
I said to matt Ah, Duncan's a chanel And it's
this ability to sit in the unknown and stay positive.
And I think you're quite good at like you can
assess like if something's not working for you very quickly.
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Obviously you have the added ability that not all of
us have. But I still think you're like, hang on,
I tried this thing, it didn't feel right, and you
have this ability to just go, I'm going to let
God that because I know there's something bigger for me
out there. I have the faith, yeah, and I think
but see, I don't think everyone has that. Like how
do we tap into that faith and that trust and
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also that self belief?
Speaker 3 (12:14):
Well, that's it. It's it's something that's so personal because
having the faith that things can evolve and change and
having the trust that things evolve and change it is blind,
like you don't know for sure that it is. Yeah,
you know all that sounds a bit negative, but no,
like it doesn't you have.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
To be okay. Yeah, and okay with uncertainty.
Speaker 3 (12:35):
That's one hundred percent. You have to sit in the
uncomfortable stages. You have to sit in the uncertainty. I
have the faith because I know how I'm presenting to
the world. Yeah, and if I'm thinking in the positive manner,
off im putting energy out there that wants to create
and grow and evolve and build, then what is meant
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for you went past by you totally.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
I feel like you have you share a very positive you.
What we see You're very honest, by the way, but
I feel like you're your What you share of you,
David is positive. Like I remember I sat in on
when the fires were going on.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
You didn't imprompt you zoom.
Speaker 2 (13:21):
Like healing Los Angeles, Yeah, and I sat. I was
at the ogre Steo and I timed my break with
when that was going on. I remember I was sitting
across the road at a park from the yoga studo
and to get there, I had to walk over ash
from the fire that had like the air from Air
Pacific Palisades, Colba. They're kind of close to each other
and just like the amount of you're so good at
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like holding space in uncomfortable places and keeping your energy
positive because like in that day, like I'd heard, I
probably met six people that day that had lost.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
Everything, you know, and would have nosedived as well.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
The energy would totally nosedive. But because Americas are all
always moving forward, that to me is one of the
energies of America. It was also really weird because it
was like businesses usual. So you could see people sitting
at a cafe having a coffee and plumes of smoke
behind them at either the Palisades fires or the Pasadena fires.
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And Matt and I were like, what, like it could
because we've lived through floods in Spyron. Yeah, Lismore, and
you just joined the mud Army, which means you just
rock on down to the community hall and you just
start volunteering. A bit different here because it was so
dangerous to inhale the the toxins from the fires. Yeah,
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it's crazy. I had in that time. I haven't told
you this. We haven't talked about the fires that much.
In the time post fires, I had three chest infections
because your body is just like, get this the f
out of me.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
Because you left to go to Palm Springs.
Speaker 1 (15:01):
We did Joshua Tree for one night.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
Yeah, that would have been so beneficial.
Speaker 2 (15:05):
Like yeah, because it was just in the middle of
it all. But we still had go bags packed, David,
so we still will, Like if we go for a night,
what if our apartment building burns down?
Speaker 3 (15:14):
It's so stressful, isn't it. That's a frequency that again
has an incredibly negative, difficult impact on the body, doesn't.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
It right, It's so And this is why, like, I
love the way you've got multi passions, my friend. I
know you are a medium, a psychic medium, and I
know that I don't know. Your books are kind of closed,
but then every now and then you just like pop out.
Like that's why that last beautiful actress saying to be
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I was like, oh, you got to meet David, otherwise
you're never gonna It's got to know a face to
the name so that when your name pops up and
I know people can see you that way. But I
also feel like there are so many like facets to David,
to you, which is like your fascination with like ORMs
And I was in a cyclone last week and you.
Speaker 3 (16:02):
Were like fakes the cyclone as well?
Speaker 1 (16:05):
Are you jealous? I feel like yes.
Speaker 3 (16:07):
I'm very jealous, very and.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
Like I have to say, like seeing you go storm
you have been storm chasing before.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
Yeah, I'm going to get in made.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
Is this like Oklahoma vibes?
Speaker 3 (16:18):
You came to Oklahoma, Texas love it?
Speaker 2 (16:21):
Didn't you have an experience last time? You were in
a diner or something and you had this vision and
you thought someone was going to come in?
Speaker 3 (16:29):
Like did I tell you that? Yeah? Yeah, that was
the school shooting down in Texas right near the border
with Mexico. I'm going to murder the pronounce no wrong
choice of work. I'm going to ruin the pronunciation of
the town. But it was val in Texas and we
were probably about forty kilometers away from that at the time.
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And yeah, well walked into subway And I've been to
America like ten times. You love it, I love it.
Ex Actually you're going.
Speaker 2 (16:57):
To get married at Griffith's Observatory, you.
Speaker 3 (16:59):
Know about out there. Yeah yeah, if anyone knows anyone,
But yeah, we were sitting there and I was ordering
subway and for the very first time in my history
had been in America with all the you know, the
not propaganda, but you know, the energy that's put onto
gun violence. Gun violence, we're all terrified of it there,
And I just went into this visionary day dream where
I was sitting there and then someone walked in and
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shot us, but I could even hear the gunshots. And
then I had to snapped myself out of it, being like,
what the F was that? And I looked at the
clock and it was like arguments like, I can't remember
the time exactly, but it was like eleven to twenty
three am or something like that. The exact time I
had that vision of this guy walking in and shooting
all of us in subway was when the school shooting
started forty klometers down the road.
Speaker 1 (17:40):
Isn't that I don't do something? Yeah, me too, isn't that?
Speaker 3 (17:44):
And I did not think anything of it really because
we didn't hear about it for a few hours because
we were out in the middle of nowhere, storm chaps, we
didn't have a reception. And then it suddenly when we
got back that night that we found out that there
was a school shooting around the corner. It's so scary.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
I feel like you because we've talked a bit about
I want to say your gifts, but you know, you
know what I mean. When I say that, and you
often say to me it's something that I can switch
on and off in that scenario, though, Okay, I feel like,
well that's it.
Speaker 3 (18:11):
But it's kind of like when I'm not caught off guard,
but I get a lot of downloads when I'm driving.
I think it's kind of when you go onto autopilot,
if that makes sense, and your brain isn't necessarily awake,
but it's not asleep, so you're kind of just in
that middle ground frequency. And I think it was just
one of those cases like I'm just sort of standing
there in subway daydreaming and then hits me Wow. Yeah,
but it doesn't happen all the time. That's the thing.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
No, I feel like you've to like that feels like
a standout story.
Speaker 3 (18:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:36):
Yeah, when you're reading for a client, has sometimes something
hit you and you've felt like you should withhold it
from them.
Speaker 1 (18:43):
Never oh, you always share.
Speaker 3 (18:45):
I decided very early on in my career that it
wasn't for me to filter.
Speaker 2 (18:49):
Really, so even nully stuff you're like, hey, I'm getting
this feeling.
Speaker 3 (18:53):
Well, that's it. Even if it talks about negative things
or difficult things, it's always with yam of've how to
work through it or walk around it, or how to
heal or evolve through it. Never overtly like bang, yeah, okay,
So you know we do talk about incredibly difficult things
like sometimes, you know, maybe telling people that their partners
are cheating on them. Oh wow, usually when they know,
but they all that they have a suspicion. Spirit likes
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to confirm things. But gosh, we'ved up with murders. Yeah,
it's difficult in spirit.
Speaker 2 (19:21):
I was going to say, Secondly, I love a bit
of a murders. I'd love to just be like well,
I always say, like I'd love to see a shark,
but I don't need it to come and attack me.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (19:33):
I haven't seen I'm in the water.
Speaker 2 (19:35):
Yeah, No, I see them when I'm hiking, like I'm
looking down. But I always think if I'm like waiting
in the water'd be nice just see one take a surfer,
you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (19:45):
That is the most morbid thing you've ever said.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
Matt thinks that we Matt and I were driving here
this morning and we were trying to get the traffic
was mental, and there was this guy sitting at the
front of a coffee shop like, and he was just
like sweet Melbourne guy and he's drinking his black slash
a and Matt's like, look at that guy doesn't want
to be here. He's over it already. I want to
go what if there's a bomb in that backpack? And
he's like what My brain always goes, Oh, they're terrible.
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I'll always say about I've got interesting thought, can I
share it? A little bit? Like Disneyland in La there's
you know, have you been to Disneyland now?
Speaker 3 (20:21):
You know?
Speaker 2 (20:22):
Also Universal Studios in La. Yeah, there's there's these to
the listener. There's this crazy huge mass massive but where
you walk on at the top level right where the
top level and the bottom level, so you're right up
the top. There's just like this bit where they're building
a whole new roller coaster. And I was like, oh,
let's get a photo over here. It's good skyline of
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l A. I go, oh my god, imagine how many
people commit to here just like chump, chump, Sorry, that's
my Really the same thing?
Speaker 1 (20:51):
Do you think the same thing everyone does? But don't
talk about.
Speaker 2 (20:56):
We're riffing and the man no, And Matt's like, why.
Speaker 3 (20:59):
Do you think that and I'm like everyone thinks that, Matt.
Speaker 2 (21:02):
Honestly, And I think like sometimes if I'm out at
night or like doing something or on my own shopping,
I'll be like, I wonder if they're a murderer. Really feminine,
that's female because we have to You've got to be
very aware of your surroundings that night especially, and we're
little like we could grab us no props.
Speaker 3 (21:20):
I mean, I'm they're hoping they'll take me on a tour, right.
Speaker 2 (21:24):
A tour would be good or like fly on the wall.
That's why I think we like our true true crime pods.
Out of all the true crime places you and I
have been, there's one that I'm so excited to take
you by the way, Yeah, all new locations.
Speaker 3 (21:37):
Friend, So you've already done the research in your RUDI
mental beginning.
Speaker 2 (21:42):
So when you said you wanted to, I was like,
already know the first place we're going, even like a
time where we could go for lunch, like around the
talking about death and stuff like that. Out of all
our true crime ones, I think I know what your
fave was, But what was your fave?
Speaker 3 (21:57):
What do you think of my favorite? The O? J.
Speaker 1 (21:59):
Simpson? Yeah, I did like that what's her name again?
Speaker 3 (22:02):
You knew all the cold Brown? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (22:04):
You see.
Speaker 3 (22:07):
Flashlights? Yeah? God? What was my true fave? My true crime? Faith? Yeah?
I did like Nicole Brown. I did like Marilyn Monrose
as well.
Speaker 2 (22:16):
Even though we couldn't go into the house, it's been
there was fun. So apparently I'm not going to tell
you because I'll surprise you with it.
Speaker 3 (22:22):
Oh you can't do that to me.
Speaker 1 (22:25):
No, Well, we'll do it together in La.
Speaker 2 (22:26):
It's fun.
Speaker 3 (22:27):
Were able to drive up to the Palisades, you can
probably can't get up there, can you.
Speaker 2 (22:30):
I think they've opened it. It'll literally look like an
apocalyptic Yeah, you'd probably feel a lot of stuff.
Speaker 3 (22:36):
There'd be very very heavy.
Speaker 2 (22:39):
Ah. Maybe if we do that, we have to do
that last.
Speaker 3 (22:42):
Yeah, or I'd like to see it because it kind
of feels like you know, I know you and I
have talked about this, but I used to go to
the Palisades every trip I went to on it in LA,
like Palisades Village, always just to have lunch or dinner there. Yeah,
so it to kind of be nice to say goodbye
to it. They're going to ruin the rebuild obviously, so.
Speaker 2 (23:01):
Question I look at you. To me, I look at you,
and I hope you take this the right way, but
like I don't look. Yes, you're a psychic medium, but
to me, like you sit in the entertainment industry so well,
like you're very comfortable on a pod, you're very comfortable
being filmed. I say, all your TV segs in a
(23:21):
dream world. If it's your birthday, so if we can
manifest something like it's your like where does where do
you want to be in a year or two from now?
Speaker 3 (23:31):
Wow? Well something. It's great that you even asked that,
because it has been something I've been thinking a lot about.
I don't know, but I know, Okay, I you know
what I mean. Like, it's not that I'm hesitant to
put labels on it, but I would love to have
more of a social profile.
Speaker 1 (23:49):
Okay, So.
Speaker 3 (23:52):
I think there's a lot of benefit and just being
able to go very mainstream with what I can show
people and what I can not teach people but teach.
You know, I would love to do more work on TV.
I've just got into, as we were talking about before,
you know, guest speaking and corporate speaking. Yeah, because what's.
Speaker 1 (24:09):
Harder than TV?
Speaker 3 (24:10):
Though? Well it is, But I love getting up in
front of a crowd, even with my live shows that
I did last year that I'll continue towards the end
of twenty twenty five, Like, I love being able to
do it because I think for me, my motto is
there's such benefit in bringing what I do and who
I am mainstream because I want every single person to
know it's not supernatural, it's actually just super natural. And
(24:33):
not everyone has to go to a medium, and not
everyone has to be a medium or a spikiek or
anything like that. But there's little tips and tools and
tricks that we can bring into our daily life that
can actually be of such benefit to us.
Speaker 2 (24:48):
Can you share a couple?
Speaker 3 (24:49):
Well, even just manifestation, I don't think many people necessarily
understand how easy manifestation is. It's about, you know, the
creation of pathways in your life. Because everything in our
life his energy. Even science understands that like humans admit
an energetic field, any living creature admits an energy field.
But once energy's been created, it can't cease to exist,
(25:10):
it changes form. So when it comes to manifestation, for example,
there's an infinite amount of possibilities of the energy we
can attract into our lives based on how we show
ourselves in the world or show up in the world,
but also our mindset. The energy is the frequencies that
we're creating. Is that attracting what we want into our life? Oh?
Speaker 2 (25:31):
I love that. What about people that are afraid of
manifesting the wrong stuff?
Speaker 3 (25:36):
You can't, but you know when?
Speaker 2 (25:37):
So for example, right, what if someone's like, okay, go
to like a meditation course and at the end they're like, Okay,
breathe what you want, and then you get an intrusive
thought like let's get murdered down on the shops and
stuff and theoon. Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (25:52):
Though I do, and well, people are always worry about
the loved ones dying for example, or you know, or
did I wish that on them somehow? And I mean
the simple answer is no, because you can't. You can't
drastically change someone else's whole journey or their life path
like that. But yeah, I think we all do have
those intrusive thoughts, like I worry that if I think
the wrong things, I can get very superstitious on things,
(26:13):
can you. Yeah, Like I'm like, if I don't do
this and this will happen. But that's it's all in
your mind, you know what I mean. Yeah, so it's
about calming the mind. But yeah, I don't want anyone
to fear or worry that you're going to manifest negativity
into your life or wrong things. Our choices that we
make as humans can absolutely have consequences. That's a different thing. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (26:30):
Oh my goodness, I thank you. Thanks putting in my mind.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
You're not going to get murdered at the shop, sloller,
and if you are, it was meant to happen.
Speaker 2 (26:36):
Anyway, David said, So.
Speaker 3 (26:41):
I don't want that on the podcast. Now, let's get
that out. It's not going to happen. Damn it. You're
going to die at an old great grandmother in your
bed at.
Speaker 2 (26:48):
Coming I always said as a kid, I'm going to
live to one hundred and fourteen.
Speaker 3 (26:53):
Great, Well that's probably likely given. I mean, if we
don't ruin the world first, you know, that's the thing
people are advances in medicine.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
I know. So okay, So you love and you I
feel like you love one connecting with people. I feel
like that's your whole jam.
Speaker 3 (27:08):
I love connecting with people. I like talking. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (27:11):
Yeah, but there's a sense of like.
Speaker 2 (27:15):
Self awareness and self confidence with you with not ego.
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (27:20):
Teach other people that as well? Yeah, I think yeah.
So TV media live talking live shows like going to
the Glamor on the green of anyone's listening.
Speaker 1 (27:31):
I saw your your fashion PRITYI have.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
Some and that's the thing.
Speaker 3 (27:35):
You can have so much fun with it. Oh so,
good outfits that we wear is also how we sharp
into the world. So I'm going to get more into
that because the beautiful outfits that everyone was wearing is
that you can actually read them psychically and spiritually. Really yeah,
because it's how we present.
Speaker 2 (27:50):
What does this green situation tell you?
Speaker 3 (27:53):
You need to connect with nature? Oh yeah, but you're
always good at doing.
Speaker 1 (27:57):
Yeah, but I love it.
Speaker 3 (27:58):
But it's also obtained of the world you want to be. See,
that's like a download. That's where it's talking. Be more spicy,
oh say less the authentic spice of green chili.
Speaker 1 (28:15):
At the moment, Yes, green jalapeno any day.
Speaker 2 (28:18):
The way.
Speaker 3 (28:19):
Green's a great color with your eyes especially, Oh thank you,
my friend.
Speaker 1 (28:22):
So I feel like sky's a limit for you.
Speaker 2 (28:25):
I think one thing that I love that you're so
able to do is like a tune yourself and the
way you manifest and live to the stuff that you're
the downloads, the stuff you're picking up on as well,
So for the listener, for me selfishly as well.
Speaker 1 (28:41):
What can we lead into this year?
Speaker 2 (28:43):
Like what do you think? Like, yeah, we talked about
a clip eclipse season and all that, and you don't
you don't have to hold out, like you can say
what you think is like going to shape things in
a good way. Like I know, talking to you at
the start of the you were like so excited about
this year. You were like this and the way you
said at starf like we've had We've had a few
years that felt like they have really been cutting our teeth,
(29:04):
like getting us ready for now, and now it feels
like the start gun's gone, you know, like let's run
at this thing cold life, right, So what because I'm
going to bring this episode out pretty soon, Like what
can we do between now and say, like the end
of the year. That's what it's March, there's that nine months, Yeah, April, May, July,
(29:26):
August septeen b teven members of it. It's eleven, No, no,
it's nine months. It's nine nine ish twelve months in
the yeah, yeah, it's nine. It's nine. So what do
you see for us and what can we lean into?
Speaker 3 (29:40):
Well, this is it. Twenty twenty five is all about
change and transformation. So it's really important for anyone to
do a lot of self reflections at the moment, but
especially over the coming weeks to months, about letting go
of things that are no longer working for you, like
maybe they've worked great the last four or five years,
maybe there's not real benefit to it anymore. Now. That
can be people, can be relationships, it can be business agreements,
(30:02):
it can be how you see yourself in the world
and how you're placing yourself. If it's not working for you,
then work on evolution. So twenty twenty five in a
lot of ways. And this is a term that I
used really in twenty twenty three. So we're talking about
a good sort of twelve to eighteen months before twenty
twenty five begun, and then the Trump administration has actually
taken my word on board. But it was the Golden Age.
(30:25):
We're rebirthing the world in a lot of different ways,
and it's very interesting to see because there's a lot
of things that are come into light of those transparency
that's been presented to us, and a lot of people
are actually a bit fearful of that, or they're a
bit sort of confrontational with it. So it's sort of
like they're really class been trying to hold on to
(30:47):
the old world that doesn't necessarily exist anymore. So it's
also about being flexible, remain in the flow, and remembering
you you don't bend, you end up breaking.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
So I love that you've said about how it's holding
on something that I'm really bad at, and we all, yeah, oh,
you're so lovely. But I think as well, like if
we can there's this beauty about like working. There's this
it's a yoga word. I'm going to absolutely say it
wrong via Gria, and it means to like work really
(31:16):
hard at a goal.
Speaker 3 (31:17):
I thought you're trying to viagra had on something.
Speaker 2 (31:23):
It's like it's like viria. Now all I can hear
is viagra as well, And it means to work really
hard at a goal, but have no attachment to the outcome.
And I think that if if we work that way,
then what you were just talking about about being able
to let go, and you were saying, like this time
right now with the eclipse is that cleansing energy. If
(31:45):
we can learn to like, let go of the stuff
that's not serving us, let it go, and it just you.
Speaker 3 (31:51):
Will be like a bow and arrow. You'll get pulled
back to be.
Speaker 2 (31:54):
Shot for Oh well, there's the audiogram. Thank you.
Speaker 1 (32:00):
Love that.
Speaker 2 (32:02):
I think it's a practice that we need to employ
this year, this year especially. I feel like I interviewed
right before you came here, or not right before, but
before you came here, this epic young kid that's built
three multimillion dollar businesses and he's twenty seven.
Speaker 3 (32:23):
It's not gorgeous, so sounds like a catch.
Speaker 2 (32:27):
And he worked with Yay on the Yeasy relaunch and
made nineteen million dollars in one day. Amazing, Yeah, in
credit But anyway, he talks about failing really fast, like
and just and he said success loves speed. And so
I think if you can let go of the shit
that's in your way, the stuff that like and I
(32:47):
hope you don't mind me sayings. When you came in,
you were like, I feel a bit heavy, and I
think that that comes when you let shit go. I
don't know, we haven't caught up for lunch yet. The
lunches after the podcast that Matt will be how but
there's a and people don't talk about this heaviness because
like when we let go of stuff, even if it
(33:09):
is the right thing, and it's that what you were
saying about the bowl and arrow, like pulling us back
for a relaunch, That pulling back feeling that like letting
go of the stuff weighing you down, feeling as essential
as it is, is so uncomfortable.
Speaker 3 (33:23):
It's very uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (33:24):
And that's where I think the heaviness can sometimes come
because you can second guess yourself, you can doubt, especially
if it's and I know what yours was, but like
if it's like changing the people that you're working with
on a program, you know what I mean, or on
a project or something as an entertainer and as a creative,
which I think you are. So I didn't mean to
(33:45):
therapize you, but here we are, here we are to
birthday or just therapist's perfect.
Speaker 1 (33:52):
But I think if.
Speaker 2 (33:54):
Because of the industry you're in and then wanting to
work in the media industry is well, you have to
work with a team that wholeheartedly believes in you.
Speaker 3 (34:06):
And I wasn't beforehand.
Speaker 2 (34:07):
Yeah, And how cool is that? Realizing that it's super normal,
but it does feel like a relationship break.
Speaker 3 (34:13):
Yeah, that's it, But I don't know whether I can
find it again.
Speaker 2 (34:18):
Oh are you kidding?
Speaker 3 (34:19):
But like, I know I can get the opportunities again,
but maybe it's something I do need to do solo.
Like I think I'm my own best advocate when people
are actually able to talk to me directly, because if
I have someone pitching on my behalf say no, he's
a psyche medium that comes with everyone else's preconceived ideas
about what that is or what that represents or who
I would be. But then when I'm able to sit
in front of people, They're like, wow, he actually is
(34:39):
quite intelligent, and he is pretty mainstream and normal, and
he actually can speak pretty well in front of the media,
whether it's podcasting or radio or TV or anything like that.
So I am my own best advocate in that sense.
And that's a very big lesson that I've learned. And
it's actually something my astrologer Luke Bolker, is that you
know Luke. If you don't know Luke, we're definitely getting
you to know Luke. Okay, I don't know, but Luke
bolk he's an incredible astrology here in Australia, like the
(35:01):
biggest because he does a year ahead sort of astrology
session with you, so it picks up the big themes
and the transitions and changes. And I did one with
him about sort of six seven weeks ago, and the
biggest lesson for me was that I can't give my
power over to anyone to steer the ship that I've built.
And I think it's a really big lesson for all
(35:22):
of us, like you, we all know who are people are.
And if I look at my talent management, for example,
who I recently separated from, from a personal level, they
are my people. They're lovely, they're great, but from a
work perspective, they're not. And it showed, you know, with
the outcomes that were received. So I need to steer
my own ship.
Speaker 2 (35:42):
I went many years unrepresented. There's nothing wrong with it.
So it's actually so free and in Australia, because the
industry is smaller, you can totally wrap yourself yeah yeah yeah,
and not to talk business to the listener, but you
make a bigger cut because you're not giving away commissions.
Speaker 3 (35:58):
So like missions, so they didn't get any deals with.
Speaker 2 (36:01):
It, don't But don't feel bad, don't feel bad about
and to the listener, if you've got a dream, don't
feel bad like for like, if you're the only one
that sees that vision, you don't need to outsource until
that comes into your past.
Speaker 3 (36:16):
Yeah, you don't need anyone else to see your vision.
Like there will be people along our journeys for all
of us. Like we learn how to swim, we learn
to swim out, we learn to stand on the surfboard,
we start learning how to surf the waves, and we
do all that ourselves. With whatever it is you're doing,
whatever industry, whatever creative that you are, then people will
(36:36):
come along. Once you know how to surf, they're like, okay,
we're going to help you surf as well. And I'm like, great,
But don't forget who you are. Don't forget all the
work that you can do, and don't forget that for
any of us, even before opportunities arise or before maybe
management comes in, wh're the one that did all the work.
You know, you create yourself. We shall be incredibly proud
(36:58):
of ourselves.
Speaker 2 (37:00):
A thousand, one thousand say, you've got to You've got
to celebrate yourself for sure. Can I ask uh, this
is kind of like the meshing of your two worlds.
But like when you do come up with a call
like to leave your team or your management whatever, how
much so you're gonna your intuition is gonna be like
this feels iffy, like you want to know when it
kind of feels a bit like man, this might have
(37:22):
run its course. I mean, and in La people change
agents every second day, like it is a.
Speaker 3 (37:27):
Very fast moving city.
Speaker 2 (37:28):
Oh yeah, and you just you're expected to go up
the ladder as an actor, like you're meant to start
and then move up and up. But like how much
when you're, say, for example, in a meeting with someone
that might be rapping you or you might be looking
at working with and then you know how you were
saying when when spirits involved you kind of like turn on.
I know your auditory and you've got certain things, but
(37:51):
like does anything ever happen when you're in a meeting
and like spirits like, ah, this isn't working, danverse.
Speaker 3 (37:56):
Well it's all intuition. And again like even there's David
the medium who's now thirty eight years old, I maybe
didn't listen to my intuition as good as I should
have really, and I not ignored it, but I I
knew the like if I look on back on everything
in hindsight now, like I knew it was going to
turn out this way really, but I let it go
(38:19):
on for longer than it should, maybe from that hope
that it could change, even no intuition was telling me
this is how it is.
Speaker 1 (38:25):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (38:25):
So it's again it's a great lesson for me.
Speaker 2 (38:28):
But it's also a good lesson in hope as well,
like in that like I think we do love to
see the best in people even when it's like, oh,
they are still great people, but they're not the right fit,
the right fear.
Speaker 3 (38:38):
And that's not just with business, but you know you'll
do that with relationships. I think a lot of people
with romantic relationships, for example, will maybe date someone for
longer than maybe they otherwise they should, or they'll be
in relationships for longer even though you feel.
Speaker 2 (38:50):
Like it's charged. I've been stuck in stuff and I'm
like beautiful people, wrong people for.
Speaker 3 (38:54):
Me, Yeah, but there's always that hope that I'll change
el seat. From my perspective, yes, they can.
Speaker 2 (38:59):
All grow to never.
Speaker 3 (39:05):
So yeah, it's a good lesson for me and I know.
Speaker 2 (39:07):
You talk about you don't you don't read for yourself
because I can't. You can't and family as well, Right.
Speaker 3 (39:14):
It's hard to read goodly.
Speaker 2 (39:15):
Yeah, so that would tell me that your intuitions probably
bang on.
Speaker 1 (39:19):
Then for you is like if you get that feeling
of like.
Speaker 2 (39:21):
I don't know if I should be doing this, but
I'm just going to see the look on the bright
side and give it a crack. Anyway, how can we
the listener develop and nurture our intuition?
Speaker 3 (39:32):
Yeah, well, the most important thing for everyone listening to
realize is that you already have it. But it is
like a muscle. The more that you pay attention to it,
the more that you listen to it, the stronger it
will get. It's like flexing the muscle in the gym.
So start off small, like pay attention to If you're
feeling the need to say something, then say it. If
you're feeling the need to change lanes when you're driving
(39:52):
down the road, then do it. Like that even happens
to me the other day. I was like, I need
to get the right hand lane, and I just instantly
did and then five hundred meters then I would have
on the massive block and it would have taken me forever. Yeah,
So it's those little things. But the more that you
utilize it, the more that you pay attention to it,
the stronger it will grow. But irregardless of what level
we find ourselves on with our own spiritual journey of
(40:14):
spiritual growth or even just our intuity of growth, it's
good right from the stuff, Like the very first time
you're lifting up the weight, you're still actually very in
shae because it's it's the remembrance for all of us
that we are a soul in a human body. We're
not a humans having a spiritual experience Like this is
something that is a natural language to every single one
(40:36):
of us already. You just got to start listening. We
already know how to speak the language of intuition because
it is wholeheartedly our foundation.
Speaker 2 (40:45):
I imagine intuition feels different for different people, Like I imagine like
I always get like tingly hands, you know, go feeling
the God, Yeah, exact and like or you'll just.
Speaker 3 (40:57):
Know that's it. But it is that simple. Really, you'll
just know, like how many times in general throughout life
do we just know?
Speaker 2 (41:09):
You know?
Speaker 3 (41:09):
Yeah, it's my American accent.
Speaker 2 (41:11):
It's yeah, you got a good you got a good one,
and it's and it's trusting that. Obviously, I can't have
you on the pod without asking if you feel like
tapping into spirit and just seeing if anything feels like
saying anything today. Also, it's your birthday though, so I
don't want you to work on your birthday, so you have.
Speaker 3 (41:27):
It's never it could never be working if I'm with.
Speaker 2 (41:29):
You, So if you feel like it, go for it.
I also had a download right before you said that,
And I've got a really cool business if we're going
to talk.
Speaker 3 (41:36):
About fair oh hear that listeners?
Speaker 2 (41:39):
Yeah for you though, like not met like you. I
just have a feeling that something's going to blow up.
Speaker 3 (41:47):
It's not that in the cafe that is going to
blow off, hopefully.
Speaker 2 (41:53):
I love how many I just love how many things
that are like off kilter that you and I, that
you and I have like one hundred percent touched on. Say,
I feel so safe going there with you.
Speaker 3 (42:05):
Likewise, anyway, I'm going to tap into Lola Berry. It's
interesting when you mentioned that because the instant reactions that
I get is sort of this element of feeling torn
between kind of everything that we've even talked about about
feeling torn between who I am and what I am,
but also what the past represents to me, and especially
I think given that you've been around family again, there
is that sort of pool where it's sort of like, Okay,
(42:26):
who am I? So it's you're very in matching with
twenty twenty five about this element of reflection about not
only everything that's happened over the last few years, but
who am I right now and where do I want
to be? And you may also be feeling the same
about where we feel like in between worlds of right now.
So it's a remembrance that the family will will sly say,
(42:47):
the family will always be the anchor. Don't feel like
you're letting them down by not being present in the
way that you feel like you should be, because you
are anyway. Does that make sense? Yeah, And I think
it's hard for anyone that lives into SATA, especially overseas well.
We've got our family and our friends and the connections
with the people that we built up with. But uh,
you know, again, your energy matches changed and transformation, which
(43:10):
is again perfect in line. And you know you mentioned
something to me before and I'm like, I'm just decided.
Speaker 2 (43:16):
You can say, the listeners know, do they They don't.
They don't know the specifics, but that's okay.
Speaker 3 (43:21):
But Lola is getting some cool opportunities in the City
of Angels. So I think, I don't know how to
translate this, but it's kind of like speaking to the
old Lola, because there was previous versions of you that
were coming up in my head that like offer you
advice or offer you direction, and it's kind of like
(43:44):
take it on board. But remember their opinions aren't the
bill and end or like you're own control of you.
So even if I was to go back to Lola
from two years ago, a whole different bowl game exactly,
but she's still in your mind, she's still knew, but
don't allow her to control the net already.
Speaker 2 (44:00):
Now, Ah, that's freeing.
Speaker 3 (44:03):
So this is not only for you, Lola, but for
everyone listening as well. Every single version of ourselves from
the day that we were born up until yesterday, it
still exists. They're not walking around the streets, they're not
sitting down having coffee, but they exist in here in
my head and the emotions that they went through, the
(44:24):
negative feelings, the triumphs, the tragedies, the positivity. Everything that
they felt and experienced still plays a part in how
we operated in this world. It shapes you exactly. But
sometimes in life we feel like we can't move on,
or we feel like that we do reminisce or get
(44:45):
stuck or duell on things because the world still keeps spinning.
It doesn't allow us opportunity to sometimes heal quick enough
inverted commas. So it's always important to reflect back on
our relationships with those former of us because they still
exist and their emotions are still relevant. But it's reminding
them that they're still safe, they're still felt, and they're heard,
(45:07):
but they don't control who we are today. They helped
shape us, they're not the dominant.
Speaker 2 (45:11):
Oh, I love that. I've never thought about it like
that before. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (45:15):
So if we have a bad example in life when
we're fifteen, for example, like say our parents separate, I
mean literally what happened to me at fifteen? No crying over,
But like I look back now, I'm thirty eight years
old now, and fifteen year old David's emotions for a
(45:37):
large part of my twenties and even my thirties still
dictated the narrative, even though I was twenty five year
old David's fifteen year old David's what he was going
through in that moment. His feelings and his viewpoints on
life and relationships especially was still being too dominant, and
I kind of had to reflect back on him and
actually literally go and sit down with him in my
head and be like, hey, everything, you're going through shit,
(46:00):
but look at where we are now, and you're safe
and you're heard and your felt and all that fifteen
year old David needed to do was hear that, and
then he's like, Okay, cool, I can relax so I
don't have to control the narrative of this man right now.
Speaker 2 (46:12):
Ah, you're like that, You're like a therapist.
Speaker 3 (46:15):
It is therapy, yeah, because I'm going to record a
YouTube on this actually because I feel like I need
to talk about it properly. But it's the work that
we can do on ourselves with the reflection and meditation.
I'm going to call it the tunnel meditation, where it's
where you delve into your own subconscious and past memories.
You can heal yourself quicker in fifteen minutes and maybe
(46:37):
twelve lakes of therapy with you.
Speaker 2 (46:38):
How crazy? I love that, and I think we can
all relate to that.
Speaker 3 (46:43):
Yeah, well that's why it came as a downloaded message
for you.
Speaker 2 (46:47):
Thank you. I always put you on the spot and
make you do this.
Speaker 3 (46:50):
No, I'm David, the Media'm not David.
Speaker 2 (46:53):
But I also think it's so everything you just shared
then was relatable to anyone, And I I can't believe
how quickly these recording sessions go by the way. It's mental,
but just for the listener.
Speaker 1 (47:07):
If they're.
Speaker 2 (47:09):
You know, we're at that, like I said, are at
that part of the year or we're kind of like, no,
it's still the start of the year. I can get these,
I can I can let go. Like you're saying, the
theme is transformation and a bit of a cleansing or
a clearing and then what it feels like from what
you just shared then as well, it's like this stepping
into the truth and really like knowing that that space
(47:31):
is safe. Yeah, what can we do to just like
to really embrace the rest of the year.
Speaker 3 (47:41):
Well, definitely do goal setting, but it's a remembrance that
everything that is meant for you won't pass by you.
But when we look at our goals and when we
look at maybe what we want to achieve as and
foremost be very defined and intent for with that, sometimes
it's okay not to know necessarily what you want now
I need to work on it a little bit. But
we've all got things that we want to achieve. But
what I want everyone listening and also you, Lola, to
remember the goals that I want in my life, the
(48:04):
things that I want to attract into my life. Okay,
we can put the energy out and we can create
the pathways to it. But is are those goals? Are
those things that we're wanting? That's a good symbol.
Speaker 1 (48:18):
What does that mean?
Speaker 3 (48:18):
Spirit? Ye? Spirit? The lights flickered for everyone listening? Are
those things attracted to us? Are we creating the proper
life and the proper thoughts process for those things that
want to come into Oh?
Speaker 2 (48:31):
And this is where you were talking about our responsibility
is like how we choose to show up and cut
back to glamor on the grid fashion.
Speaker 3 (48:39):
But this is it? Like for example, for relationships, like
I'm single, I would like to meet someone, and I
have a perfect image in my head about the guy
that I would like to attract into my life. And
then I asked myself, would that man be attracted to me,
and it's okay to be reflective on that, because are
my habits conducive? Is the way that I shop into
the world who I am, who I'm being in the world.
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Will that person find attractiveness in that.
Speaker 2 (49:05):
I love what you're saying because it's a part of
the manifestation picture that I know I've been missing out
on it. It's the accountability piece for like how I'm
showing up now in the present moment, because because also
as an actor and it it's a TV host and
all those things. Because it is a world that is
rife of rejection, it's so hard to like pitch yourself
(49:25):
and be like, I'm doing all the right things.
Speaker 1 (49:26):
I'm doing all the right things.
Speaker 2 (49:28):
But because you've sat in so much rejection, it takes
such work to get out of the rejection.
Speaker 3 (49:33):
Because every version of you that's been rejected is still.
Speaker 2 (49:35):
In your head right And then tap into my inner
channel and be like, actually, I do deserve this. This
is where I like, I am going to do that
TV show and have the best flipping time doing it
because That's what I'm meant to be doing that.
Speaker 3 (49:48):
You were never a rejected law at law you were
just redirected.
Speaker 1 (49:52):
Can you just like stay in my pocket at.
Speaker 3 (49:54):
All the time? I love and love that.
Speaker 2 (49:58):
Do you know you're the most reoccurring on this podcast.
That's an It's the honest truth. And I say this
to whenever I meet with my pod managers. I'm like,
I always have to get David the mediumont not because
it's just so fun to chit chat and catch up
with you and you're a joy. But honestly, people love
your episodes, like these are the most popular episodes. Do
(50:20):
you know that I told you that?
Speaker 3 (50:23):
That's no.
Speaker 2 (50:25):
So that's why I'm like, even if you're and like
to come back to you, like even if you feel
like you're at a transformation or a crossroads, like I
do want you to know like these episodes, like people
really love hearing you on the pod, and like, please
keep doing all the stuff that you're doing. I want
to see more of you. I've got an idea for
you that we'll talk about off air that you're going
(50:45):
to nail and I'm here to champion you. So I
want to see you, know, I want to see your
name up in lights. I think you should be doing
a live tour in la as well, so just say
the words. Your EMC is sitting opposite you.
Speaker 3 (51:00):
Read my mind right now. I'm like, you're definitely you're
not going to get to some in the crowd and
relax with that one.
Speaker 2 (51:04):
You're going to bring it on, bring it on. So
thank you, my friend. It's always such a joy.
Speaker 3 (51:10):
To have you here, pleasure, great to sit down with.
Speaker 2 (51:13):
Happy birthday. I'm going to give you a presents for this.
That's a wrap on another episode of Fearlessly Failing. As always,
thank you to our guests, and let's continue the conversation
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I'm Laala Berry, nutritionist, author, actor, TV presenter, and professional oversharer.
This podcast is all about celebrating failure because I believe
it's a chance for us to learn, grow and face
our blind spots. Each week I'll interview a different guest
about their highs as well as they're lows, all in
(00:26):
a bid to inspire us to feiously fail. Hello, Welcome
to the pod. Today we have returning guests David the Medium.
He's a psychic medium, a speaker and social commentator and
when we recorded this specific episode, he's been on the
pod I think four or five times now, but when
(00:48):
we recorded this episode it was actually his birthday wa
A Tredea. So it's been an honor to continuously have
David on the pod. Here in this app he talks
about his predictions and themes for the rest of the year.
So how great this might help ive your you know,
when you just need a little bit of a guidance,
(01:10):
maybe that's what this etpol brings for you. And he
talks really nicely around themes. He does a little mini
reading on me, but in all honesty, it felt like
it was for yes, me, but also you the listener.
So I hope you love that bit that's towards the
second half of the chat. David, you are always such
a joy to interview on this pod. And I know
(01:31):
you're going to be coming to beautiful Los Angeles soon
and we're going to do another true crime pod together
and I can not wait enjoy David's unreal. Hope you
love it, David, you flipp and magical?
Speaker 3 (01:44):
All right?
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Who are a big love by David the Medium the Bearer?
How many yets are we at now?
Speaker 3 (01:54):
I was wondering on the drive. I think it's more
than that. I think five or five.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
And today's extra special?
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Is it? Why? Because you're here exactly.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Because it's your birthday?
Speaker 3 (02:03):
You told you that everyone has one. It's nothing special.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
No, it's so special. It's so special.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
I am so excited to chat with you today because
we're kind of at that phase of the year where
you're kind of like, all right, the start of the
year felt kind of like clunky, I would say, especially
living in LA and thank goodness, you're such a lifeline
to me. You were like you like, cis this area
(02:30):
is okay? You've got to pack your bags if you're
in this area.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
I got obsessed with the fire.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
But I know you have a love of natural disasters
also and L and LA, so it was like two
of your things just all put together. To the listener,
you are a medium and a psychic, and I want
to say you know you're your media talent as well,
(02:57):
like your podcast, you go on TV, you talk about
you talk on a plethora of topics.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
I just got into corporate speaking as way.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
I saw you did it two days.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Yeah, look at little mainstream. That's what it's all about.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
This is what I think this year is for you.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Let's take a little moment to celebrate you. It's your birthday.
Birthdays are a really strange time because they kind of
force us to do this weird stock take.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
Literally, Oh my god. You could have said it better
because it sort of feels like I'm having a I
do it every year, but I go through like a
twenty four to thirty six hour mental breakdown from like
what's working in my life? What's not working? I need
to ruin and change everything not ruined, you know what
I mean? Like I need to upheaval. It's always a
big up people for everyone, not many people. And I
read a thing about this so many people like their birthdays.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
It's super common people not like their birth.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
I don't like my birthday, but it's always like, oh okay,
where am I in life?
Speaker 2 (03:50):
I always do around birthday time. I'll always enjoy the day,
but I'll always have like a mini breakdown on either
right before or right after it.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
And it's it's like.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
I thought I would to we have done this by
this age, Like I've did this weird expectation thing of myself.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
Isn't it. We put so much pressure on ourselves. I
feel like we have to be somewhere, have to be
doing something that if we don't reach it, we feel
like we've failed. But we only feel like that on
our birthdates.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
It's funny, but as somebody that is so connected to
like your intuition, your spiritual wellness, your emotional wellness, and
your mental health as well, what is a really good
practice like when it comes to birthdays and just kind
of like self care and looking after yourself, Like I
feel like, you know, well, I'm.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
Now I haven't been mental breakdow because I feel like
I don't know no. It's it's it's such an important
for all of us at any stage of our life
or any part of you to just do self reflection
and it's yea the remembrance. And the biggest lesson that
I've learned is that there's no real point planning life
down towards heap because nothing will ever work out how
(04:55):
it's meant to. Like, even as a psychic medium, I
don't necessarily know what I'm doing next week. My intuition,
if I don't listen to it, can send me down
the garden path on certain things. So when it comes
to me to my birthday, like I've got that typical
thing where I don't want to get older, but like
with age comes maturity and wisdom. But you know we
had that young lola, you know, you and I bucked
(05:16):
the trend there, didn't we But it's it's just a
good time for a reflection, and for me, I think
just be easy on ourselves, like, yeah, don't like everything's
happening how it's meant to the universe is too complicated
and too complex for anything to be a coincidence. And
for anyone that feels like you're on the wrong path,
you're not. It's that simple because if you were meant
(05:36):
to be on a different path, you would be on
a different path, So be easy on yourself. Everything's turning
out how it's meant to you. The universe happens for you,
not to you.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
You're that's like your thing, isn't it.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
I love that and I think it gives you a
positive perspective too, as opposed to like why isn't this happening?
Or I want this to happen in a certain way,
or like holding on. I'm someone that holds on too tight.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Yeah, so do I. Though we're on the humans, this
is it. We're only human like ireckards with your spiritual
understanding or your intelligent understanding about any topic on the planet.
At the end of the day, we're all human.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
I always feel like you've you're you're a step ahead though.
I always feel every time I see you, I always
feel like, no matter what's going on in your life,
you're very clear. I would call you energetically clear. I
guess you've got to be for your line of work.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
It helps.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
So for people that haven't listened to the past mazillion
episodes I've done on not just feels failing. You've been
on every wonderful podcast under the sun. You're you're the
pod King. I had a meeting with a publicist the
other day and I was like, how good's David. I
was like, I feel like he's on sorry pods. In fact,
I've stopped preparing you for your episodes the traditional way
(06:45):
that I prepare for guests, which is like I do
a deep dive and I really like listen to the
latest pod. They've done all that for you because I
trust and we have a friendship, so I guess it
comes from a space of like lived experience together. I
literally trust that whatever is meant to come out of
(07:05):
this conversation is just going to flow out of this conversation.
And that's kind of like how I come to record
with you nowadays.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
That's good.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
I like that we just bounce back and forth, I know,
except for when we do our true crime episodes.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Then there's a lot of prep that goes into that.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
Gosh, guys, if you haven't listened to the True Crime episodes,
definitely do yourself a favor.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
We're going to do another one, aren't we.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
I really hope so, because they're my favorite podcasts I've
ever done.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
So good.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
Lola does the most incredible research and takes me to
these places around Los Angeles where true crime has happened,
hence the title true Crime Podcast. But my gosh, we
have so much fun. We have so much my favorite
things to do when I'm in LA exactly.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
And we kind of do this like tour because I
get us in the car, we rock around with the
mics and so, yeah, it's happening again when you come
to LA, we are doing another true crime. So I
can't have you on this pod and without and I
think because of like like I was saying, it starts,
(08:05):
it's this strange time of the year. We're recording this
in March. It's like it's still the start of the year.
But it's early enough in the year that if you
wanted to like really make a dint in the year,
you can, Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
And so I do want to talk to you about,
like how you feel.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
This year is going to roll up the predictions of
sorts of like what we can kind of like lean
into and be ready for because everyone, all the astrologers
are talking about we're in a clipse seat. There's so
many eclipses. We're going to expect all these things to
go on this year. And some people are saying it's
going to be the best year, and some of them
saying it's not going to be the best year. So
I look, I'm going straight to this source. I want
(08:41):
to know what David the medium thinks.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
Well, let's put it this way. It comes down to
your own reality and how you interpret what happens in
the world. So you know, quote Charles Dickens, it was
the best of times, it was the worst of times.
Like it's neither. Really, it's how everyone interprets it. For
me personally, I'm so excited for twenty twenty five minutes,
the first year that I've had a positive feeling about
(09:04):
really probably since twenty nineteen. And then you know, long
behold twenty twenty, twenty twenty one, not great, got be better?
You know, those things that we're having now. Honestly, let's
not bring up what happened in those years, but we
all know. So when it comes to twenty twenty five,
it's interesting that you mention the eclipses because we're in
eclipse season right now, and it's a really big upheaval
(09:26):
kind of energy and you should never manifest and an
eclipse you should always just let go of and cleanse.
That's what I've been doing. Yeah, but it's it's fascinating
because the energies that are sort of circling around the
world right now, because I want everyone to imagine like
a calm lake and then you throw a stone on
it and the ripple energy that hangs out, like I
kind of feel that always go around the world. Yeah,
And it's really like it's going to be a year, right,
(09:50):
take a year.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
Like I saw you posted on Insta like two days ago.
You're like you talked about this eclipse energy and like
how you talked about how you've been letting gold of
stuff over, like you were like this week and coming
into that, we had that like it was like full
moon virgo, blood moon, lunar eclipse thing on. I think
it was last Friday, and you're like, I've just been
letting go and letting go and you said the amazing
(10:13):
like it was making such space for you. Yeah, and
then when you make the space, good shit comes in. Right.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
Well, that's it. Like we set our intention with the universe,
you know what I mean, Like I always say, the
universe doesn't know us, the thing, it only matches the
intention that we put out there. So if you're making
space and you're clearing things that are no longer working
for you, whether that's people, friendships, relationships, work, you know, mental,
whatever it may be. If it's not serving you, let
it go and allow space for new things to flourish
(10:39):
and enter and also match the intention that you're putting
out there. So it's always very impersonal and important to
pay attention to how are we presenting ourselves to the world,
what are we saying verbally, but also what do we
say and energetically what's the intention that we're putting out there? Oh?
I love that attention to your daily habits. If you're pregnant,
(11:00):
a lower frequency, and it's okay because we're all human people.
Do you have a bad day, that's fine, Yeah, But
you know what energy and frequency are you putting out?
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (11:08):
Are you attracting shit back to you or are you
attracting good things?
Speaker 2 (11:12):
It's so funny. I've got this friend in America that
you would love, by the way. She's an actress and
her name is Chanelle, And whenever she comes over to
our house, I always say to Matt, I want energy
like Chanelle's. I want to be a Chanelle because she's
so positive.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
Within all of us as a chanell r.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
Yeah, but I'll literally say it. And I met another
friend in Sydney recently and I and Duncan, you're beautiful.
He's also bet on this pod they both have. And
I said to matt Ah, Duncan's a chanel And it's
this ability to sit in the unknown and stay positive.
And I think you're quite good at like you can
assess like if something's not working for you very quickly.
(11:51):
Obviously you have the added ability that not all of
us have. But I still think you're like, hang on,
I tried this thing, it didn't feel right, and you
have this ability to just go, I'm going to let
God that because I know there's something bigger for me
out there. I have the faith, yeah, and I think
but see, I don't think everyone has that. Like how
do we tap into that faith and that trust and
(12:13):
also that self belief?
Speaker 3 (12:14):
Well, that's it. It's it's something that's so personal because
having the faith that things can evolve and change and
having the trust that things evolve and change it is blind,
like you don't know for sure that it is. Yeah,
you know all that sounds a bit negative, but no,
like it doesn't you have.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
To be okay. Yeah, and okay with uncertainty.
Speaker 3 (12:35):
That's one hundred percent. You have to sit in the
uncomfortable stages. You have to sit in the uncertainty. I
have the faith because I know how I'm presenting to
the world. Yeah, and if I'm thinking in the positive manner,
off im putting energy out there that wants to create
and grow and evolve and build, then what is meant
(12:57):
for you went past by you totally.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
I feel like you have you share a very positive you.
What we see You're very honest, by the way, but
I feel like you're your What you share of you,
David is positive. Like I remember I sat in on
when the fires were going on.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
You didn't imprompt you zoom.
Speaker 2 (13:21):
Like healing Los Angeles, Yeah, and I sat. I was
at the ogre Steo and I timed my break with
when that was going on. I remember I was sitting
across the road at a park from the yoga studo
and to get there, I had to walk over ash
from the fire that had like the air from Air
Pacific Palisades, Colba. They're kind of close to each other
and just like the amount of you're so good at
(13:46):
like holding space in uncomfortable places and keeping your energy
positive because like in that day, like I'd heard, I
probably met six people that day that had lost.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
Everything, you know, and would have nosedived as well.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
The energy would totally nosedive. But because Americas are all
always moving forward, that to me is one of the
energies of America. It was also really weird because it
was like businesses usual. So you could see people sitting
at a cafe having a coffee and plumes of smoke
behind them at either the Palisades fires or the Pasadena fires.
(14:25):
And Matt and I were like, what, like it could
because we've lived through floods in Spyron. Yeah, Lismore, and
you just joined the mud Army, which means you just
rock on down to the community hall and you just
start volunteering. A bit different here because it was so
dangerous to inhale the the toxins from the fires. Yeah,
(14:45):
it's crazy. I had in that time. I haven't told
you this. We haven't talked about the fires that much.
In the time post fires, I had three chest infections
because your body is just like, get this the f
out of me.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
Because you left to go to Palm Springs.
Speaker 1 (15:01):
We did Joshua Tree for one night.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
Yeah, that would have been so beneficial.
Speaker 2 (15:05):
Like yeah, because it was just in the middle of
it all. But we still had go bags packed, David,
so we still will, Like if we go for a night,
what if our apartment building burns down?
Speaker 3 (15:14):
It's so stressful, isn't it. That's a frequency that again
has an incredibly negative, difficult impact on the body, doesn't.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
It right, It's so And this is why, like, I
love the way you've got multi passions, my friend. I
know you are a medium, a psychic medium, and I
know that I don't know. Your books are kind of closed,
but then every now and then you just like pop out.
Like that's why that last beautiful actress saying to be
(15:41):
I was like, oh, you got to meet David, otherwise
you're never gonna It's got to know a face to
the name so that when your name pops up and
I know people can see you that way. But I
also feel like there are so many like facets to David,
to you, which is like your fascination with like ORMs
And I was in a cyclone last week and you.
Speaker 3 (16:02):
Were like fakes the cyclone as well?
Speaker 1 (16:05):
Are you jealous? I feel like yes.
Speaker 3 (16:07):
I'm very jealous, very and.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
Like I have to say, like seeing you go storm
you have been storm chasing before.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
Yeah, I'm going to get in made.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
Is this like Oklahoma vibes?
Speaker 3 (16:18):
You came to Oklahoma, Texas love it?
Speaker 2 (16:21):
Didn't you have an experience last time? You were in
a diner or something and you had this vision and
you thought someone was going to come in?
Speaker 3 (16:29):
Like did I tell you that? Yeah? Yeah, that was
the school shooting down in Texas right near the border
with Mexico. I'm going to murder the pronounce no wrong
choice of work. I'm going to ruin the pronunciation of
the town. But it was val in Texas and we
were probably about forty kilometers away from that at the time.
(16:49):
And yeah, well walked into subway And I've been to
America like ten times. You love it, I love it.
Ex Actually you're going.
Speaker 2 (16:57):
To get married at Griffith's Observatory, you.
Speaker 3 (16:59):
Know about out there. Yeah yeah, if anyone knows anyone,
But yeah, we were sitting there and I was ordering
subway and for the very first time in my history
had been in America with all the you know, the
not propaganda, but you know, the energy that's put onto
gun violence. Gun violence, we're all terrified of it there,
And I just went into this visionary day dream where
I was sitting there and then someone walked in and
(17:20):
shot us, but I could even hear the gunshots. And
then I had to snapped myself out of it, being like,
what the F was that? And I looked at the
clock and it was like arguments like, I can't remember
the time exactly, but it was like eleven to twenty
three am or something like that. The exact time I
had that vision of this guy walking in and shooting
all of us in subway was when the school shooting
started forty klometers down the road.
Speaker 1 (17:40):
Isn't that I don't do something? Yeah, me too, isn't that?
Speaker 3 (17:44):
And I did not think anything of it really because
we didn't hear about it for a few hours because
we were out in the middle of nowhere, storm chaps, we
didn't have a reception. And then it suddenly when we
got back that night that we found out that there
was a school shooting around the corner. It's so scary.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
I feel like you because we've talked a bit about
I want to say your gifts, but you know, you
know what I mean. When I say that, and you
often say to me it's something that I can switch
on and off in that scenario, though, Okay, I feel like,
well that's it.
Speaker 3 (18:11):
But it's kind of like when I'm not caught off guard,
but I get a lot of downloads when I'm driving.
I think it's kind of when you go onto autopilot,
if that makes sense, and your brain isn't necessarily awake,
but it's not asleep, so you're kind of just in
that middle ground frequency. And I think it was just
one of those cases like I'm just sort of standing
there in subway daydreaming and then hits me Wow. Yeah,
but it doesn't happen all the time. That's the thing.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
No, I feel like you've to like that feels like
a standout story.
Speaker 3 (18:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:36):
Yeah, when you're reading for a client, has sometimes something
hit you and you've felt like you should withhold it
from them.
Speaker 1 (18:43):
Never oh, you always share.
Speaker 3 (18:45):
I decided very early on in my career that it
wasn't for me to filter.
Speaker 2 (18:49):
Really, so even nully stuff you're like, hey, I'm getting
this feeling.
Speaker 3 (18:53):
Well, that's it. Even if it talks about negative things
or difficult things, it's always with yam of've how to
work through it or walk around it, or how to
heal or evolve through it. Never overtly like bang, yeah, okay,
So you know we do talk about incredibly difficult things
like sometimes, you know, maybe telling people that their partners
are cheating on them. Oh wow, usually when they know,
but they all that they have a suspicion. Spirit likes
(19:14):
to confirm things. But gosh, we'ved up with murders. Yeah,
it's difficult in spirit.
Speaker 2 (19:21):
I was going to say, Secondly, I love a bit
of a murders. I'd love to just be like well,
I always say, like I'd love to see a shark,
but I don't need it to come and attack me.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (19:33):
I haven't seen I'm in the water.
Speaker 2 (19:35):
Yeah, No, I see them when I'm hiking, like I'm
looking down. But I always think if I'm like waiting
in the water'd be nice just see one take a surfer,
you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (19:45):
That is the most morbid thing you've ever said.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
Matt thinks that we Matt and I were driving here
this morning and we were trying to get the traffic
was mental, and there was this guy sitting at the
front of a coffee shop like, and he was just
like sweet Melbourne guy and he's drinking his black slash
a and Matt's like, look at that guy doesn't want
to be here. He's over it already. I want to
go what if there's a bomb in that backpack? And
he's like what My brain always goes, Oh, they're terrible.
(20:13):
I'll always say about I've got interesting thought, can I
share it? A little bit? Like Disneyland in La there's
you know, have you been to Disneyland now?
Speaker 3 (20:21):
You know?
Speaker 2 (20:22):
Also Universal Studios in La. Yeah, there's there's these to
the listener. There's this crazy huge mass massive but where
you walk on at the top level right where the
top level and the bottom level, so you're right up
the top. There's just like this bit where they're building
a whole new roller coaster. And I was like, oh,
let's get a photo over here. It's good skyline of
(20:42):
l A. I go, oh my god, imagine how many
people commit to here just like chump, chump, Sorry, that's
my Really the same thing?
Speaker 1 (20:51):
Do you think the same thing everyone does? But don't
talk about.
Speaker 2 (20:56):
We're riffing and the man no, And Matt's like, why.
Speaker 3 (20:59):
Do you think that and I'm like everyone thinks that, Matt.
Speaker 2 (21:02):
Honestly, And I think like sometimes if I'm out at
night or like doing something or on my own shopping,
I'll be like, I wonder if they're a murderer. Really feminine,
that's female because we have to You've got to be
very aware of your surroundings that night especially, and we're
little like we could grab us no props.
Speaker 3 (21:20):
I mean, I'm they're hoping they'll take me on a tour, right.
Speaker 2 (21:24):
A tour would be good or like fly on the wall.
That's why I think we like our true true crime pods.
Out of all the true crime places you and I
have been, there's one that I'm so excited to take
you by the way, Yeah, all new locations.
Speaker 3 (21:37):
Friend, So you've already done the research in your RUDI
mental beginning.
Speaker 2 (21:42):
So when you said you wanted to, I was like,
already know the first place we're going, even like a
time where we could go for lunch, like around the
talking about death and stuff like that. Out of all
our true crime ones, I think I know what your
fave was, But what was your fave?
Speaker 3 (21:57):
What do you think of my favorite? The O? J.
Speaker 1 (21:59):
Simpson? Yeah, I did like that what's her name again?
Speaker 3 (22:02):
You knew all the cold Brown? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (22:04):
You see.
Speaker 3 (22:07):
Flashlights? Yeah? God? What was my true fave? My true crime? Faith? Yeah?
I did like Nicole Brown. I did like Marilyn Monrose
as well.
Speaker 2 (22:16):
Even though we couldn't go into the house, it's been
there was fun. So apparently I'm not going to tell
you because I'll surprise you with it.
Speaker 3 (22:22):
Oh you can't do that to me.
Speaker 1 (22:25):
No, Well, we'll do it together in La.
Speaker 2 (22:26):
It's fun.
Speaker 3 (22:27):
Were able to drive up to the Palisades, you can
probably can't get up there, can you.
Speaker 2 (22:30):
I think they've opened it. It'll literally look like an
apocalyptic Yeah, you'd probably feel a lot of stuff.
Speaker 3 (22:36):
There'd be very very heavy.
Speaker 2 (22:39):
Ah. Maybe if we do that, we have to do
that last.
Speaker 3 (22:42):
Yeah, or I'd like to see it because it kind
of feels like you know, I know you and I
have talked about this, but I used to go to
the Palisades every trip I went to on it in LA,
like Palisades Village, always just to have lunch or dinner there. Yeah,
so it to kind of be nice to say goodbye
to it. They're going to ruin the rebuild obviously, so.
Speaker 2 (23:01):
Question I look at you. To me, I look at you,
and I hope you take this the right way, but
like I don't look. Yes, you're a psychic medium, but
to me, like you sit in the entertainment industry so well,
like you're very comfortable on a pod, you're very comfortable
being filmed. I say, all your TV segs in a
(23:21):
dream world. If it's your birthday, so if we can
manifest something like it's your like where does where do
you want to be in a year or two from now?
Speaker 3 (23:31):
Wow? Well something. It's great that you even asked that,
because it has been something I've been thinking a lot about.
I don't know, but I know, Okay, I you know
what I mean. Like, it's not that I'm hesitant to
put labels on it, but I would love to have
more of a social profile.
Speaker 1 (23:49):
Okay, So.
Speaker 3 (23:52):
I think there's a lot of benefit and just being
able to go very mainstream with what I can show
people and what I can not teach people but teach.
You know, I would love to do more work on TV.
I've just got into, as we were talking about before,
you know, guest speaking and corporate speaking. Yeah, because what's.
Speaker 1 (24:09):
Harder than TV?
Speaker 3 (24:10):
Though? Well it is, But I love getting up in
front of a crowd, even with my live shows that
I did last year that I'll continue towards the end
of twenty twenty five, Like, I love being able to
do it because I think for me, my motto is
there's such benefit in bringing what I do and who
I am mainstream because I want every single person to
know it's not supernatural, it's actually just super natural. And
(24:33):
not everyone has to go to a medium, and not
everyone has to be a medium or a spikiek or
anything like that. But there's little tips and tools and
tricks that we can bring into our daily life that
can actually be of such benefit to us.
Speaker 2 (24:48):
Can you share a couple?
Speaker 3 (24:49):
Well, even just manifestation, I don't think many people necessarily
understand how easy manifestation is. It's about, you know, the
creation of pathways in your life. Because everything in our
life his energy. Even science understands that like humans admit
an energetic field, any living creature admits an energy field.
But once energy's been created, it can't cease to exist,
(25:10):
it changes form. So when it comes to manifestation, for example,
there's an infinite amount of possibilities of the energy we
can attract into our lives based on how we show
ourselves in the world or show up in the world,
but also our mindset. The energy is the frequencies that
we're creating. Is that attracting what we want into our life? Oh?
Speaker 2 (25:31):
I love that. What about people that are afraid of
manifesting the wrong stuff?
Speaker 3 (25:36):
You can't, but you know when?
Speaker 2 (25:37):
So for example, right, what if someone's like, okay, go
to like a meditation course and at the end they're like, Okay,
breathe what you want, and then you get an intrusive
thought like let's get murdered down on the shops and
stuff and theoon. Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (25:52):
Though I do, and well, people are always worry about
the loved ones dying for example, or you know, or
did I wish that on them somehow? And I mean
the simple answer is no, because you can't. You can't
drastically change someone else's whole journey or their life path
like that. But yeah, I think we all do have
those intrusive thoughts, like I worry that if I think
the wrong things, I can get very superstitious on things,
(26:13):
can you. Yeah, Like I'm like, if I don't do
this and this will happen. But that's it's all in
your mind, you know what I mean. Yeah, so it's
about calming the mind. But yeah, I don't want anyone
to fear or worry that you're going to manifest negativity
into your life or wrong things. Our choices that we
make as humans can absolutely have consequences. That's a different thing. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (26:30):
Oh my goodness, I thank you. Thanks putting in my mind.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
You're not going to get murdered at the shop, sloller,
and if you are, it was meant to happen.
Speaker 2 (26:36):
Anyway, David said, So.
Speaker 3 (26:41):
I don't want that on the podcast. Now, let's get
that out. It's not going to happen. Damn it. You're
going to die at an old great grandmother in your
bed at.
Speaker 2 (26:48):
Coming I always said as a kid, I'm going to
live to one hundred and fourteen.
Speaker 3 (26:53):
Great, Well that's probably likely given. I mean, if we
don't ruin the world first, you know, that's the thing
people are advances in medicine.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
I know. So okay, So you love and you I
feel like you love one connecting with people. I feel
like that's your whole jam.
Speaker 3 (27:08):
I love connecting with people. I like talking. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (27:11):
Yeah, but there's a sense of like.
Speaker 2 (27:15):
Self awareness and self confidence with you with not ego.
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (27:20):
Teach other people that as well? Yeah, I think yeah.
So TV media live talking live shows like going to
the Glamor on the green of anyone's listening.
Speaker 1 (27:31):
I saw your your fashion PRITYI have.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
Some and that's the thing.
Speaker 3 (27:35):
You can have so much fun with it. Oh so,
good outfits that we wear is also how we sharp
into the world. So I'm going to get more into
that because the beautiful outfits that everyone was wearing is
that you can actually read them psychically and spiritually. Really yeah,
because it's how we present.
Speaker 2 (27:50):
What does this green situation tell you?
Speaker 3 (27:53):
You need to connect with nature? Oh yeah, but you're
always good at doing.
Speaker 1 (27:57):
Yeah, but I love it.
Speaker 3 (27:58):
But it's also obtained of the world you want to be. See,
that's like a download. That's where it's talking. Be more spicy,
oh say less the authentic spice of green chili.
Speaker 1 (28:15):
At the moment, Yes, green jalapeno any day.
Speaker 2 (28:18):
The way.
Speaker 3 (28:19):
Green's a great color with your eyes especially, Oh thank you,
my friend.
Speaker 1 (28:22):
So I feel like sky's a limit for you.
Speaker 2 (28:25):
I think one thing that I love that you're so
able to do is like a tune yourself and the
way you manifest and live to the stuff that you're
the downloads, the stuff you're picking up on as well,
So for the listener, for me selfishly as well.
Speaker 1 (28:41):
What can we lead into this year?
Speaker 2 (28:43):
Like what do you think? Like, yeah, we talked about
a clip eclipse season and all that, and you don't
you don't have to hold out, like you can say
what you think is like going to shape things in
a good way. Like I know, talking to you at
the start of the you were like so excited about
this year. You were like this and the way you
said at starf like we've had We've had a few
years that felt like they have really been cutting our teeth,
(29:04):
like getting us ready for now, and now it feels
like the start gun's gone, you know, like let's run
at this thing cold life, right, So what because I'm
going to bring this episode out pretty soon, Like what
can we do between now and say, like the end
of the year. That's what it's March, there's that nine months, Yeah, April, May, July,
(29:26):
August septeen b teven members of it. It's eleven, No, no,
it's nine months. It's nine nine ish twelve months in
the yeah, yeah, it's nine. It's nine. So what do
you see for us and what can we lean into?
Speaker 3 (29:40):
Well, this is it. Twenty twenty five is all about
change and transformation. So it's really important for anyone to
do a lot of self reflections at the moment, but
especially over the coming weeks to months, about letting go
of things that are no longer working for you, like
maybe they've worked great the last four or five years,
maybe there's not real benefit to it anymore. Now. That
can be people, can be relationships, it can be business agreements,
(30:02):
it can be how you see yourself in the world
and how you're placing yourself. If it's not working for you,
then work on evolution. So twenty twenty five in a
lot of ways. And this is a term that I
used really in twenty twenty three. So we're talking about
a good sort of twelve to eighteen months before twenty
twenty five begun, and then the Trump administration has actually
taken my word on board. But it was the Golden Age.
(30:25):
We're rebirthing the world in a lot of different ways,
and it's very interesting to see because there's a lot
of things that are come into light of those transparency
that's been presented to us, and a lot of people
are actually a bit fearful of that, or they're a
bit sort of confrontational with it. So it's sort of
like they're really class been trying to hold on to
(30:47):
the old world that doesn't necessarily exist anymore. So it's
also about being flexible, remain in the flow, and remembering
you you don't bend, you end up breaking.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
So I love that you've said about how it's holding
on something that I'm really bad at, and we all, yeah, oh,
you're so lovely. But I think as well, like if
we can there's this beauty about like working. There's this
it's a yoga word. I'm going to absolutely say it
wrong via Gria, and it means to like work really
(31:16):
hard at a goal.
Speaker 3 (31:17):
I thought you're trying to viagra had on something.
Speaker 2 (31:23):
It's like it's like viria. Now all I can hear
is viagra as well, And it means to work really
hard at a goal, but have no attachment to the outcome.
And I think that if if we work that way,
then what you were just talking about about being able
to let go, and you were saying, like this time
right now with the eclipse is that cleansing energy. If
(31:45):
we can learn to like, let go of the stuff
that's not serving us, let it go, and it just you.
Speaker 3 (31:51):
Will be like a bow and arrow. You'll get pulled
back to be.
Speaker 2 (31:54):
Shot for Oh well, there's the audiogram. Thank you.
Speaker 1 (32:00):
Love that.
Speaker 2 (32:02):
I think it's a practice that we need to employ
this year, this year especially. I feel like I interviewed
right before you came here, or not right before, but
before you came here, this epic young kid that's built
three multimillion dollar businesses and he's twenty seven.
Speaker 3 (32:23):
It's not gorgeous, so sounds like a catch.
Speaker 2 (32:27):
And he worked with Yay on the Yeasy relaunch and
made nineteen million dollars in one day. Amazing, Yeah, in
credit But anyway, he talks about failing really fast, like
and just and he said success loves speed. And so
I think if you can let go of the shit
that's in your way, the stuff that like and I
(32:47):
hope you don't mind me sayings. When you came in,
you were like, I feel a bit heavy, and I
think that that comes when you let shit go. I
don't know, we haven't caught up for lunch yet. The
lunches after the podcast that Matt will be how but
there's a and people don't talk about this heaviness because
like when we let go of stuff, even if it
(33:09):
is the right thing, and it's that what you were
saying about the bowl and arrow, like pulling us back
for a relaunch, That pulling back feeling that like letting
go of the stuff weighing you down, feeling as essential
as it is, is so uncomfortable.
Speaker 3 (33:23):
It's very uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (33:24):
And that's where I think the heaviness can sometimes come
because you can second guess yourself, you can doubt, especially
if it's and I know what yours was, but like
if it's like changing the people that you're working with
on a program, you know what I mean, or on
a project or something as an entertainer and as a creative,
which I think you are. So I didn't mean to
(33:45):
therapize you, but here we are, here we are to
birthday or just therapist's perfect.
Speaker 1 (33:52):
But I think if.
Speaker 2 (33:54):
Because of the industry you're in and then wanting to
work in the media industry is well, you have to
work with a team that wholeheartedly believes in you.
Speaker 3 (34:06):
And I wasn't beforehand.
Speaker 2 (34:07):
Yeah, And how cool is that? Realizing that it's super normal,
but it does feel like a relationship break.
Speaker 3 (34:13):
Yeah, that's it, But I don't know whether I can
find it again.
Speaker 2 (34:18):
Oh are you kidding?
Speaker 3 (34:19):
But like, I know I can get the opportunities again,
but maybe it's something I do need to do solo.
Like I think I'm my own best advocate when people
are actually able to talk to me directly, because if
I have someone pitching on my behalf say no, he's
a psyche medium that comes with everyone else's preconceived ideas
about what that is or what that represents or who
I would be. But then when I'm able to sit
in front of people, They're like, wow, he actually is
(34:39):
quite intelligent, and he is pretty mainstream and normal, and
he actually can speak pretty well in front of the media,
whether it's podcasting or radio or TV or anything like that.
So I am my own best advocate in that sense.
And that's a very big lesson that I've learned. And
it's actually something my astrologer Luke Bolker, is that you
know Luke. If you don't know Luke, we're definitely getting
you to know Luke. Okay, I don't know, but Luke
bolk he's an incredible astrology here in Australia, like the
(35:01):
biggest because he does a year ahead sort of astrology
session with you, so it picks up the big themes
and the transitions and changes. And I did one with
him about sort of six seven weeks ago, and the
biggest lesson for me was that I can't give my
power over to anyone to steer the ship that I've built.
And I think it's a really big lesson for all
(35:22):
of us, like you, we all know who are people are.
And if I look at my talent management, for example,
who I recently separated from, from a personal level, they
are my people. They're lovely, they're great, but from a
work perspective, they're not. And it showed, you know, with
the outcomes that were received. So I need to steer
my own ship.
Speaker 2 (35:42):
I went many years unrepresented. There's nothing wrong with it.
So it's actually so free and in Australia, because the
industry is smaller, you can totally wrap yourself yeah yeah yeah,
and not to talk business to the listener, but you
make a bigger cut because you're not giving away commissions.
Speaker 3 (35:58):
So like missions, so they didn't get any deals with.
Speaker 2 (36:01):
It, don't But don't feel bad, don't feel bad about
and to the listener, if you've got a dream, don't
feel bad like for like, if you're the only one
that sees that vision, you don't need to outsource until
that comes into your past.
Speaker 3 (36:16):
Yeah, you don't need anyone else to see your vision.
Like there will be people along our journeys for all
of us. Like we learn how to swim, we learn
to swim out, we learn to stand on the surfboard,
we start learning how to surf the waves, and we
do all that ourselves. With whatever it is you're doing,
whatever industry, whatever creative that you are, then people will
(36:36):
come along. Once you know how to surf, they're like, okay,
we're going to help you surf as well. And I'm like, great,
But don't forget who you are. Don't forget all the
work that you can do, and don't forget that for
any of us, even before opportunities arise or before maybe
management comes in, wh're the one that did all the work.
You know, you create yourself. We shall be incredibly proud
(36:58):
of ourselves.
Speaker 2 (37:00):
A thousand, one thousand say, you've got to You've got
to celebrate yourself for sure. Can I ask uh, this
is kind of like the meshing of your two worlds.
But like when you do come up with a call
like to leave your team or your management whatever, how
much so you're gonna your intuition is gonna be like
this feels iffy, like you want to know when it
kind of feels a bit like man, this might have
(37:22):
run its course. I mean, and in La people change
agents every second day, like it is a.
Speaker 3 (37:27):
Very fast moving city.
Speaker 2 (37:28):
Oh yeah, and you just you're expected to go up
the ladder as an actor, like you're meant to start
and then move up and up. But like how much
when you're, say, for example, in a meeting with someone
that might be rapping you or you might be looking
at working with and then you know how you were
saying when when spirits involved you kind of like turn on.
I know your auditory and you've got certain things, but
(37:51):
like does anything ever happen when you're in a meeting
and like spirits like, ah, this isn't working, danverse.
Speaker 3 (37:56):
Well it's all intuition. And again like even there's David
the medium who's now thirty eight years old, I maybe
didn't listen to my intuition as good as I should
have really, and I not ignored it, but I I
knew the like if I look on back on everything
in hindsight now, like I knew it was going to
turn out this way really, but I let it go
(38:19):
on for longer than it should, maybe from that hope
that it could change, even no intuition was telling me
this is how it is.
Speaker 1 (38:25):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (38:25):
So it's again it's a great lesson for me.
Speaker 2 (38:28):
But it's also a good lesson in hope as well,
like in that like I think we do love to
see the best in people even when it's like, oh,
they are still great people, but they're not the right fit,
the right fear.
Speaker 3 (38:38):
And that's not just with business, but you know you'll
do that with relationships. I think a lot of people
with romantic relationships, for example, will maybe date someone for
longer than maybe they otherwise they should, or they'll be
in relationships for longer even though you feel.
Speaker 2 (38:50):
Like it's charged. I've been stuck in stuff and I'm
like beautiful people, wrong people for.
Speaker 3 (38:54):
Me, Yeah, but there's always that hope that I'll change
el seat. From my perspective, yes, they can.
Speaker 2 (38:59):
All grow to never.
Speaker 3 (39:05):
So yeah, it's a good lesson for me and I know.
Speaker 2 (39:07):
You talk about you don't you don't read for yourself
because I can't. You can't and family as well, Right.
Speaker 3 (39:14):
It's hard to read goodly.
Speaker 2 (39:15):
Yeah, so that would tell me that your intuitions probably
bang on.
Speaker 1 (39:19):
Then for you is like if you get that feeling
of like.
Speaker 2 (39:21):
I don't know if I should be doing this, but
I'm just going to see the look on the bright
side and give it a crack. Anyway, how can we
the listener develop and nurture our intuition?
Speaker 3 (39:32):
Yeah, well, the most important thing for everyone listening to
realize is that you already have it. But it is
like a muscle. The more that you pay attention to it,
the more that you listen to it, the stronger it
will get. It's like flexing the muscle in the gym.
So start off small, like pay attention to If you're
feeling the need to say something, then say it. If
you're feeling the need to change lanes when you're driving
(39:52):
down the road, then do it. Like that even happens
to me the other day. I was like, I need
to get the right hand lane, and I just instantly
did and then five hundred meters then I would have
on the massive block and it would have taken me forever. Yeah,
So it's those little things. But the more that you
utilize it, the more that you pay attention to it,
the stronger it will grow. But irregardless of what level
we find ourselves on with our own spiritual journey of
(40:14):
spiritual growth or even just our intuity of growth, it's
good right from the stuff, Like the very first time
you're lifting up the weight, you're still actually very in
shae because it's it's the remembrance for all of us
that we are a soul in a human body. We're
not a humans having a spiritual experience Like this is
something that is a natural language to every single one
(40:36):
of us already. You just got to start listening. We
already know how to speak the language of intuition because
it is wholeheartedly our foundation.
Speaker 2 (40:45):
I imagine intuition feels different for different people, Like I imagine like
I always get like tingly hands, you know, go feeling
the God, Yeah, exact and like or you'll just.
Speaker 3 (40:57):
Know that's it. But it is that simple. Really, you'll
just know, like how many times in general throughout life
do we just know?
Speaker 2 (41:09):
You know?
Speaker 3 (41:09):
Yeah, it's my American accent.
Speaker 2 (41:11):
It's yeah, you got a good you got a good one,
and it's and it's trusting that. Obviously, I can't have
you on the pod without asking if you feel like
tapping into spirit and just seeing if anything feels like
saying anything today. Also, it's your birthday though, so I
don't want you to work on your birthday, so you have.
Speaker 3 (41:27):
It's never it could never be working if I'm with.
Speaker 2 (41:29):
You, So if you feel like it, go for it.
I also had a download right before you said that,
And I've got a really cool business if we're going
to talk.
Speaker 3 (41:36):
About fair oh hear that listeners?
Speaker 2 (41:39):
Yeah for you though, like not met like you. I
just have a feeling that something's going to blow up.
Speaker 3 (41:47):
It's not that in the cafe that is going to
blow off, hopefully.
Speaker 2 (41:53):
I love how many I just love how many things
that are like off kilter that you and I, that
you and I have like one hundred percent touched on. Say,
I feel so safe going there with you.
Speaker 3 (42:05):
Likewise, anyway, I'm going to tap into Lola Berry. It's
interesting when you mentioned that because the instant reactions that
I get is sort of this element of feeling torn
between kind of everything that we've even talked about about
feeling torn between who I am and what I am,
but also what the past represents to me, and especially
I think given that you've been around family again, there
is that sort of pool where it's sort of like, Okay,
(42:26):
who am I? So it's you're very in matching with
twenty twenty five about this element of reflection about not
only everything that's happened over the last few years, but
who am I right now and where do I want
to be? And you may also be feeling the same
about where we feel like in between worlds of right now.
So it's a remembrance that the family will will sly say,
(42:47):
the family will always be the anchor. Don't feel like
you're letting them down by not being present in the
way that you feel like you should be, because you
are anyway. Does that make sense? Yeah, And I think
it's hard for anyone that lives into SATA, especially overseas well.
We've got our family and our friends and the connections
with the people that we built up with. But uh,
you know, again, your energy matches changed and transformation, which
(43:10):
is again perfect in line. And you know you mentioned
something to me before and I'm like, I'm just decided.
Speaker 2 (43:16):
You can say, the listeners know, do they They don't.
They don't know the specifics, but that's okay.
Speaker 3 (43:21):
But Lola is getting some cool opportunities in the City
of Angels. So I think, I don't know how to
translate this, but it's kind of like speaking to the
old Lola, because there was previous versions of you that
were coming up in my head that like offer you
advice or offer you direction, and it's kind of like
(43:44):
take it on board. But remember their opinions aren't the
bill and end or like you're own control of you.
So even if I was to go back to Lola
from two years ago, a whole different bowl game exactly,
but she's still in your mind, she's still knew, but
don't allow her to control the net already.
Speaker 2 (44:00):
Now, Ah, that's freeing.
Speaker 3 (44:03):
So this is not only for you, Lola, but for
everyone listening as well. Every single version of ourselves from
the day that we were born up until yesterday, it
still exists. They're not walking around the streets, they're not
sitting down having coffee, but they exist in here in
my head and the emotions that they went through, the
(44:24):
negative feelings, the triumphs, the tragedies, the positivity. Everything that
they felt and experienced still plays a part in how
we operated in this world. It shapes you exactly. But
sometimes in life we feel like we can't move on,
or we feel like that we do reminisce or get
(44:45):
stuck or duell on things because the world still keeps spinning.
It doesn't allow us opportunity to sometimes heal quick enough
inverted commas. So it's always important to reflect back on
our relationships with those former of us because they still
exist and their emotions are still relevant. But it's reminding
them that they're still safe, they're still felt, and they're heard,
(45:07):
but they don't control who we are today. They helped
shape us, they're not the dominant.
Speaker 2 (45:11):
Oh, I love that. I've never thought about it like
that before. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (45:15):
So if we have a bad example in life when
we're fifteen, for example, like say our parents separate, I
mean literally what happened to me at fifteen? No crying over,
But like I look back now, I'm thirty eight years
old now, and fifteen year old David's emotions for a
(45:37):
large part of my twenties and even my thirties still
dictated the narrative, even though I was twenty five year
old David's fifteen year old David's what he was going
through in that moment. His feelings and his viewpoints on
life and relationships especially was still being too dominant, and
I kind of had to reflect back on him and
actually literally go and sit down with him in my
head and be like, hey, everything, you're going through shit,
(46:00):
but look at where we are now, and you're safe
and you're heard and your felt and all that fifteen
year old David needed to do was hear that, and
then he's like, Okay, cool, I can relax so I
don't have to control the narrative of this man right now.
Speaker 2 (46:12):
Ah, you're like that, You're like a therapist.
Speaker 3 (46:15):
It is therapy, yeah, because I'm going to record a
YouTube on this actually because I feel like I need
to talk about it properly. But it's the work that
we can do on ourselves with the reflection and meditation.
I'm going to call it the tunnel meditation, where it's
where you delve into your own subconscious and past memories.
You can heal yourself quicker in fifteen minutes and maybe
(46:37):
twelve lakes of therapy with you.
Speaker 2 (46:38):
How crazy? I love that, and I think we can
all relate to that.
Speaker 3 (46:43):
Yeah, well that's why it came as a downloaded message
for you.
Speaker 2 (46:47):
Thank you. I always put you on the spot and
make you do this.
Speaker 3 (46:50):
No, I'm David, the Media'm not David.
Speaker 2 (46:53):
But I also think it's so everything you just shared
then was relatable to anyone, And I I can't believe
how quickly these recording sessions go by the way. It's mental,
but just for the listener.
Speaker 1 (47:07):
If they're.
Speaker 2 (47:09):
You know, we're at that, like I said, are at
that part of the year or we're kind of like, no,
it's still the start of the year. I can get these,
I can I can let go. Like you're saying, the
theme is transformation and a bit of a cleansing or
a clearing and then what it feels like from what
you just shared then as well, it's like this stepping
into the truth and really like knowing that that space
(47:31):
is safe. Yeah, what can we do to just like
to really embrace the rest of the year.
Speaker 3 (47:41):
Well, definitely do goal setting, but it's a remembrance that
everything that is meant for you won't pass by you.
But when we look at our goals and when we
look at maybe what we want to achieve as and
foremost be very defined and intent for with that, sometimes
it's okay not to know necessarily what you want now
I need to work on it a little bit. But
we've all got things that we want to achieve. But
what I want everyone listening and also you, Lola, to
remember the goals that I want in my life, the
(48:04):
things that I want to attract into my life. Okay,
we can put the energy out and we can create
the pathways to it. But is are those goals? Are
those things that we're wanting? That's a good symbol.
Speaker 1 (48:18):
What does that mean?
Speaker 3 (48:18):
Spirit? Ye? Spirit? The lights flickered for everyone listening? Are
those things attracted to us? Are we creating the proper
life and the proper thoughts process for those things that
want to come into Oh?
Speaker 2 (48:31):
And this is where you were talking about our responsibility
is like how we choose to show up and cut
back to glamor on the grid fashion.
Speaker 3 (48:39):
But this is it? Like for example, for relationships, like
I'm single, I would like to meet someone, and I
have a perfect image in my head about the guy
that I would like to attract into my life. And
then I asked myself, would that man be attracted to me,
and it's okay to be reflective on that, because are
my habits conducive? Is the way that I shop into
the world who I am, who I'm being in the world.
(49:02):
Will that person find attractiveness in that.
Speaker 2 (49:05):
I love what you're saying because it's a part of
the manifestation picture that I know I've been missing out
on it. It's the accountability piece for like how I'm
showing up now in the present moment, because because also
as an actor and it it's a TV host and
all those things. Because it is a world that is
rife of rejection, it's so hard to like pitch yourself
(49:25):
and be like, I'm doing all the right things.
Speaker 1 (49:26):
I'm doing all the right things.
Speaker 2 (49:28):
But because you've sat in so much rejection, it takes
such work to get out of the rejection.
Speaker 3 (49:33):
Because every version of you that's been rejected is still.
Speaker 2 (49:35):
In your head right And then tap into my inner
channel and be like, actually, I do deserve this. This
is where I like, I am going to do that
TV show and have the best flipping time doing it
because That's what I'm meant to be doing that.
Speaker 3 (49:48):
You were never a rejected law at law you were
just redirected.
Speaker 1 (49:52):
Can you just like stay in my pocket at.
Speaker 3 (49:54):
All the time? I love and love that.
Speaker 2 (49:58):
Do you know you're the most reoccurring on this podcast.
That's an It's the honest truth. And I say this
to whenever I meet with my pod managers. I'm like,
I always have to get David the mediumont not because
it's just so fun to chit chat and catch up
with you and you're a joy. But honestly, people love
your episodes, like these are the most popular episodes. Do
(50:20):
you know that I told you that?
Speaker 3 (50:23):
That's no.
Speaker 2 (50:25):
So that's why I'm like, even if you're and like
to come back to you, like even if you feel
like you're at a transformation or a crossroads, like I
do want you to know like these episodes, like people
really love hearing you on the pod, and like, please
keep doing all the stuff that you're doing. I want
to see more of you. I've got an idea for
you that we'll talk about off air that you're going
(50:45):
to nail and I'm here to champion you. So I
want to see you, know, I want to see your
name up in lights. I think you should be doing
a live tour in la as well, so just say
the words. Your EMC is sitting opposite you.
Speaker 3 (51:00):
Read my mind right now. I'm like, you're definitely you're
not going to get to some in the crowd and
relax with that one.
Speaker 2 (51:04):
You're going to bring it on, bring it on. So
thank you, my friend. It's always such a joy.
Speaker 3 (51:10):
To have you here, pleasure, great to sit down with.
Speaker 2 (51:13):
Happy birthday. I'm going to give you a presents for this.
That's a wrap on another episode of Fearlessly Failing. As always,
thank you to our guests, and let's continue the conversation
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