174. When You Didn’t See the Divorce Coming

Hey friends, welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. If this is your first time here, I’m so glad you found this space. I created this podcast to walk alongside faithful women—and men—who are navigating the heartbreak of divorce with grace, courage, and yes… even joy. Today’s episode is one I’ve been wanting to talk about for a while. It’s about a phrase that sneaks into so many of our thoughts, especially after things fall apart in divorce. “I should have seen it coming.” Have you said that before? Whispered it to yourself in bed at night… or cried it to a friend in disbelief… or maybe even screamed it in your car when the grief was just too heavy? It’s such a tempting thought, because it gives us something to hold onto when everything feels out of control. But here’s the thing: that thought feels like truth… and yet it’s laced with shame. So today, we’re going to break it down. Together, we’ll look at where this belief comes from, what it costs us, and how faith offers us a much better lens. • Schedule your FIRST FREE COACHING SESSION with me NOW, and let's get started! 🌐🌐 Link HERE: https://calendly.com/jennzingmark/freesession • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program Faith Filled Divorce HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to [e-mail]. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn