Finding the Guardian of Your Soul

In this heartfelt and timely conversation, Lisa and Benjamin address the rising fear, frustration, and confusion many women feel around dating today. With reproductive rights rolling back, misogynistic voices getting louder, and gender tensions increasing, it’s natural to question whether emotionally secure, equality-minded men still exist.

Inside this episode, they explore:

• Why today’s political and cultural climate is impacting...

In this episode, Lisa and Benjamin explore:

🔹 The Hidden Cost of Survival Mode

How stress, overthinking, and constantly being “on” create invisible emotional armor

Why most accomplished women don’t realize they’re broadcasting tension

How burnout leads to protection mode, emotional walls, and shutdown

🔹 What Men Actually Feel Around a Woman in Survival Mode

Benjamin breaks down:

Why men physically feel your tension in ...

How do men know when a woman is “the one” — and what makes them decide to commit for the long term? In this revealing conversation, Lisa and Benjamin Shield unpack one of the biggest mysteries in dating: how men truly evaluate compatibility, emotional safety, and respect.

You’ll discover:

-The subtle signals men look for when deciding if a woman is long-term material
-Why emotional safety and respect matter more than chemistry or shar...

In this episode, Lisa and Benjamin Shield explore:

-The three biggest fears men face in relationships — losing independence, disappointing a woman, and emotional vulnerability.
-Why even strong, loving men can feel trapped or judged — and how that impacts their ability to commit.
-The emotional difference between “disappointing” and “shaming” a man (and why one word can shut him down).
-How to create emotional safety that makes men wan...

In this quick but powerful episode, Lisa Shield shares four down-and-dirty tips every woman should know about what makes her unforgettable in the eyes of a man. With her signature warmth and insight, Lisa breaks down the essential traits that men are secretly craving in their dream woman. If you're ready to stop guessing and start attracting a high-quality man, this episode is your wake-up call.

Key Highlights:

Playfulness

• A light...

Finding the Guardian of Your Soul with Lisa Shield
Episode Title: “Is Your Success Intimidating Men… or Is It Something Else?”

Welcome to Finding the Guardian of Your Soul! I'm your host, Lisa Shield, and I’m thrilled to have you here. Please share this episode with your single girlfriends, guy friends, and anyone navigating the dating world. What we discuss here is something you won’t hear from other coaches—I bring a unique lens to...

The SPECIFIC Dating Challenges Successful Women Face (and how to overcome them)

In this episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' Lisa Shield, a love coach for over two decades, discusses the unique dating challenges successful women face and provides practical solutions to overcome them. Lisa covers key topics, including time management, dealing with intimidating men, and emotional availability. She shares actionable steps t...

In this episode, Lisa and Benjamin Shields discuss the complex emotions and pitfalls surrounding the question, 'Can we still be friends?' after a romantic relationship ends. They delve into the reasons why people might hold on to these 'friendships,' the emotional distress and false hopes it creates, and offer advice on how to move forward in a healthy manner.

Highlights:

• The Real Reasons Behind 'Can We Still Be Friends?'
• Conseque...

Lisa Shield delves into the crucial distinction between love bombing and real love. She shares her own experiences and insights on how to identify a love bomber, highlighting red flags such as over-the-top affection, constant communication, lavish gifts, and pressing for quick commitment. Lisa contrasts this with the slow, steady development of real love, emphasizing the importance of boundaries, consistency, and mutual respect. Sh...

Unlock the Secret: How to Attract High-Quality Men

In this episode, Lisa Shield delves into the intricacies of attracting high-quality men and the concept of Emotionally Naked Dating. She shares her personal journey, offers insights into shifting perspectives, and discusses the importance of genuine emotional vulnerability. Lisa provides practical advice on how women can embrace their femininity, build emotional connections, and ap...

In this episode of "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul," host Lisa Shield delves into the often overlooked and taxing endeavor of trying to fix or change men in relationships. Lisa, a relationship expert, shares her personal journey and the important lessons she’s learned along the way about recognizing and overcoming codependency in relationships. 

Highlights: 

1. Personal Reflection on Past Relationships: Lisa discusses her first m...

Women Under Fire and Why Misogyny Is So Prevalent Today, Part 2

In this episode of 'Women Under Fire and Why Misogyny Is So Prevalent Today, Part 2,' Lisa and Benjamin Shield discuss the alarming rise of misogyny, its roots, and how it affects women and men today. They touch on historical and cultural factors contributing to misogyny, the impact on dating and relationships, and steps both genders can take to foster mutual respect an...

Women Under Fire and Why Misogyny Is So Prevalent Today, Part 1

In this episode of 'Getting Inside the Right Male Mind,' hosts Lisa and Benjamin Shield tackle the significant and distressing topic of misogyny and its rise in today's society. The discussion focuses on understanding the reasons behind this increase, the impact on women, and the urgent need for male allies to stand up for women's rights and freedoms.

Highlights:

• Men...

In this episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' Lisa Shield discusses how strong, smart, successful women can make every date more meaningful. She emphasizes the importance of spiritual growth, intentionality, and emotional vulnerability in dating. Lisa shares personal insights and experiences, offering practical tips and thought-provoking questions to help listeners connect on a deeper level with their dates and themselves...

In this episode, Lisa Shield, a pioneering love coach with over two decades of experience, delves into the true reasons why many individuals struggle to connect on dates. She shares her philosophy that finding the right connection is more crucial than merely finding the right man. Lisa encourages personal growth alongside dating and teaches listeners how to uncover and address their blind spots that might be holding them back.

Lisa ...

The World Is Changing Fast… You Don’t Have to Face It Alone

In this poignant episode, Lisa Shield discusses the evolving landscape of our rapidly changing world and the importance of having a supportive partner by your side. Lisa reflects on the impact of the pandemic, the current state of global affairs, and emphasizes why now, more than ever, it is crucial for women to seek the 'Guardian of Your Soul.' She shares her insights on t...

The Real Reason Men Pull Away & How to Handle It With Grace

Lisa Shield, founder and CEO of Emotionally Naked dating, explains why men sometimes pull away and how women can handle this situation with dignity and grace. She discusses the importance of self-reflection, maintaining personal boundaries, and not giving away one's power. Lisa also provides strategies to avoid common mistakes, embrace personal growth, and navigate dating w...

Lisa and Benjamin Shield discuss what it means for a man to be spiritually mature, exploring various traits and principles that exemplify true spiritual depth in a man's everyday behavior. From kindness and honesty to the values rooted in strong moral foundations, the episode delves into recognizing genuine spirituality beyond superficial acts.

Key Highlights from "How to Recognize a Spiritually Mature Man" Podcast: 

• Understandi...

In this episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' Lisa Shield explores the transformative power of ChatGPT and how it can revolutionize your dating life. Lisa explains how artificial intelligence can enhance personal growth and dating experiences by providing tailored responses and insights. She shares how she uses ChatGPT in her coaching to help women find soulful, meaningful connections. Listen in to discover the unique asp...