78 - I was a Gray Crayon with Rachael Belcher

🎙️ Episode Overview In this deeply personal and inspiring episode of the First Responder Wellness Podcast, host Conrad Weaver sits down with Rachael Belcher, a seasoned paramedic from Baltimore County with over 25 years of experience in emergency services. Rachael opens up about the emotional and psychological toll of the job, recounting her early days as a 911 dispatcher during 9/11, her evolution into field response, and the buildup of trauma that nearly derailed her life. She shares her raw and courageous journey through burnout, the warning signs she ignored, and the pivotal moment she chose healing—checking into a 30-day inpatient mental health facility specifically for first responders. Rachael explains what brought her back from being a "gray crayon" to a "64-color box with a sharpener," and the tools, insights, and boundaries that now sustain her wellness. This episode is a powerful listen for first responders, their families, and anyone in a high-stress profession who needs to hear: "You're not alone—and healing is possible."

🧠 Key Topics Discussed

• Rachael's early career as a 911 dispatcher during 9/11
• Transitioning from dispatch to field paramedicine
• How unprocessed trauma accumulates over a 25-year career
• Recognizing emotional numbness, disconnection, and burnout
• The power of inpatient therapy and EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing)
• Creating boundaries and re-learning emotional intelligence
• The importance of self-awareness, connection, and self-care
• Why first responders need to unlearn the “suck it up” mindset
• The cultural shift needed within departments and leadership
• Preventive tools to avoid reaching a crisis point
• Building identity and purpose outside of the job

📚 Resources & Tools Mentioned

🛠️ Therapeutic Modalities & Tools EMDR Therapy – Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Breathwork (Box breathing, grounding exercises) Self-care essentials – Nutrition, exercise, nature walks Boundary setting & emotional intelligence development Inpatient mental health programs tailored for first responders

🎧 Podcasts Hidden Brain (NPR) How to Be a Better Human (TED Audio Collective)

📖 Books The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk The Myth of Normal by Gabor Maté

📄 Articles "Grief on the Frontline: Managing Our Hidden Wounds" – by Rachael Belcher, published in JEMS (Journal of Emergency Medical Services)
👉 Read it here

🧪 Health Screenings to Consider Vitamin & Mineral Panel Hormone Panel Cardiac Calcium Scoring CT – for early detection of plaque buildup in arteries

🆘 If You're Struggling If you feel like a “gray crayon” today: Talk to someone you trust. Call 988 if you’re experiencing suicidal thoughts or crisis. Seek help from your Peer Support Team or a clinician familiar with first responders. You are not alone, and your story matters.

 

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