Episode 21: Pole Dancing, Comedy, Ghosts & Ageism in LA - a Conversation with Christina Calph

What happens when pole dancing, stand-up comedy, and a possibly horny ghost collide? You get this unforgettable episode with multi-hyphenate creative force Christina Calph. From her journey as a classically trained actress in New York to the vibrant LA pole and comedy scene, Christina opens up about breaking rules, building inclusive stages, fighting ageism in entertainment, and oh yes—a ghost who maybe doesn’t understand consent.

Nancy and Christina dive deep into the realities of aging in Hollywood, starting over after heartbreak, and why energy, empathy, and confidence matter more than age or body size. Plus, hear how Comedy Pole Show became one of LA’s most vibrant and inclusive live events—and what Christina really wants for its future (hint: Netflix, call her).

This episode is hilarious, unfiltered, and full of heart—and includes one of the wildest ghost stories we’ve ever heard.

In this episode, we cover:

• Christina’s journey from NYC theater to pole dance stages in LA

• The origins of Comedy Pole Show (and how tequila might have helped)

• What pole dancing taught her about confidence and body acceptance

• How the entertainment industry sidelines older women—and what we can do about it

• Building community through inclusive live shows

• Her very real (and very persistent) ghost roommate

• Why we need more live, in-person creative experiences now more than ever

  
  

Episode Highlights:

• “I started Comedy Pole Show because I was tired of being dropped by agents.”

• “The hottest performance I’ve ever seen was a woman in class owning her cellulite.”

• “Ageism is real—but we don’t have to accept it.”

• “You can’t just fade out. You have to keep fighting for your place.”

• “Yes, the ghost was good in bed. No, I did not ask for it.”

Connect with Christina:
Instagram: @christinacalph

Comedy Pole Show: @comedypoleshow

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Questions for Christina? Drop them in the comments or DM her on IG.
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